Took me a sec to realize it, but good going. You have to consider yourself first.

I've never understood this...if you lose control over what a woman wears then you need some serious help. The problem definitely isn't the clothes.

As a lesbian I will say this: I have witnessed lesbians who wouldn't take no for an answer however I have never personally witnessed a lesbian sexually assault someone. Not saying it hasn't happened. I just haven't witnessed it personally. It's never okay to harass, cat call, touch, photograph, etc a woman OR a man without their consent. I understand in most public places you can photograph people but it doesn't mean you should and it definitely doesn't mean it's ethical!

Especially telling a little girl that she can’t wear something because it’s revealing because of a creepy uncle.

Louder for the all the victim-blamers in the back 🙌🙌🙌

Interesting, self control exists :)))))

I worked in a gay nightclub for a while and the biggest problem we had was gay women constantly hitting on straight women even when told they were not interested. The men stopped as soon as they found out the other nam was not gay.

Also, women don't need to rape sexy males, even when they take off their shirt or show their hairy ass in those low pants.

In boot camp we all had to shower together. There was one bisexual girl who had a hard time keeping her eyes to herself. That being said, she was very young and the other lesbian women had a very awkward time but they were fine. Other than that we had no problems. I'm just saying it does happen even with women. But they didn't blame the other women.

Right?! I can't even keep track of how many times I was verbally and physically assaulted-incl. inappropriate hugs, shoulder, leg, back, and arm touching-just wearing "normal" things(reg. shirts/jeans)... DEF NOT the CLOTHES! No, I wasn't being suggestive in any way/flirting either!

women wearing burkas are r*ped, we all know it's never the clothes

The easiest way to teach consent is to take your child to a dog park.

NICE

Actually, I had problems with both men and women equally getting handsy when I was a cocktail waitress (and not wearing revealing clothes either).

This should be #1!

Well said, and blows that excuse right out of the water!

Exactly

Can't upvote enough...

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Too true-

This should be at the top of every similar list and taught to every boy by their parents.

So men and lesbians are the same creature?

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Who says they can? Also, check the rates of domestic violence between women. Shockingly high.

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Woman wears just a thong bodysuit to a rave... "why are all these men looking at me? I feel victimized!!"

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I think this ignores the biological fact that straight men are hard wired evolutionarily to want to impregnate as many women as possible, in the same way that straight women are hard wired to fend off all but the best examples of masculinity, as it's us who carry the result and feed it our precious resources for 9 months and then the rest. The difference between us and other animals though is that we have developed civilisation and the concept of self control. We need to appreciate maybe a bit more the men who are in control of their natural urges, it can't be easy.

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Most men can control themselves, maybe a lot of women are just associating with the wrong type of men.

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It's true, we're oddly different at a chemical level

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Differences in neurology - Lesbians are still women. Not only do men have more testosterone, it has also a stronger affect on the sex drive within them. Not an excuse for a**hole behaviour, but something to consider when making claims. Women indeed can generally control themselves better in that regard by nature

haha, love this!

This goes for everybody. Treat others the way you want to be treated

Well done.

When you made an effort and treated her well and when you just stopped.

Everytime!

And it's always on us, don't dress that way, don't walk there, don't provoke. When it happens we didn't fight enough, fought too hard, didn't say no, didn't mean it when we said it. If we report it we get blamed, re traumatized by questions and rape kits that are then left untouched, called liars.

Agree entirely and this is one of the reasons I hate Disney movies

Good for you.

I feel a drop off interest on men (thanks a lot) when I say my husband is a police officer or a jujitsu master.