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Life’s full of blatantly sexist things and the everyday heroes of the internet keep calling them out, poking fun at them, and shining a bright spotlight on them to make it clear—these things are not okay. And, bit by bit, society changes. Hopefully, for the better.

The r/TrollXChromosomes subreddit, an online group that’s been active for a whopping decade and has over 812k members, documents when women and men confront sexism, misogyny, and toxic masculinity head-on. Have a look through some of their newest posts that we’ve collected for you, dear Pandas, and be sure to upvote the ones that rekindled your hope in greater equality in the world.

When you’re done with this list, we invite you to read through our first article about blatantly obvious sexism right here. Meanwhile, scroll down for our interview with psychotherapist Silva Neves, who explained to Bored Panda what men can do to put an end to toxicity, misogyny, and homophobia. According to him, it’s about redefining what ‘male success’ means and teaching society to stop turning a blind eye to what’s wrong.

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Absolutely Hate The Way Our Clothing Was Policed In School

Absolutely Hate The Way Our Clothing Was Policed In School

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The End

The End

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Powerful

Powerful

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Education is a vital part of the fight for greater equality, compassion, inclusiveness, and respect. However, alone without any ongoing and passionate support from us, education isn’t the panacea against sexism, misogyny, and toxic masculinity that some of us are looking for. It’s not a one-and-done kind of deal: it’s a long, arduous, exhausting process, a war of attrition between competing ideas.

“Better education is definitely key but it is also down to all of us to challenge it by not allowing toxic masculinity to keep going. It means that we all have to actively challenge misogyny and homophobia,” psychotherapist Silva noted in an interview with Bored Panda. He added that both misogyny and homophobia are “still prevalent now in the UK,” where he is based, and “too many people continue to turn a blind eye when they see it.”

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Just Let People Be

Just Let People Be

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Let’s Eradicate The Terms “Consensual Sex” And “Non-Consensual Sex” - It’s Either Sex Or Rape. Language Shouldn’t Be Used As A Tool To Obfuscate Trauma And Horror

Let’s Eradicate The Terms “Consensual Sex” And “Non-Consensual Sex” - It’s Either Sex Or Rape. Language Shouldn’t Be Used As A Tool To Obfuscate Trauma And Horror

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Let's Please Bring An End To Victim-Blaming, And Shaming

Let's Please Bring An End To Victim-Blaming, And Shaming

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According to Silva, men need to do their part and be more in tune with their emotions, instead of trying to repress them as is par for course with toxic masculinity.

“We need more representations of men who embrace their emotions, talk about them and show them with crying, laughing, or hugging,” he said.

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I'm Sure Selfawarewolves Would Love This

I'm Sure Selfawarewolves Would Love This

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Something else that drastically needs to change is how ‘male success’ and masculinity are defined. “We also need to change the image of 'male success'. So, basically, we need to change society at its core because toxic masculinity is part of a faulty system of thoughts. That will take time, but it can start with all of us doing our parts about it,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda.

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Oof

Oof

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Things Women Shouldn't Wear

Things Women Shouldn't Wear

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Spot On. Really Effing Spot On

Spot On. Really Effing Spot On

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Every Single One

Every Single One

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Never Thought Of It Like This

Never Thought Of It Like This

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Cool

Cool

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Representation. Matters

Representation. Matters

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Screw Misogyny

Screw Misogyny

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Loyalty

Loyalty

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Do Not Hesitate To Ask What You Deserve

Do Not Hesitate To Ask What You Deserve

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It's A Step In The Right Direction

It's A Step In The Right Direction

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Please, Go On...

Please, Go On...

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Horny By Shoulders

Horny By Shoulders

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They Don't

They Don't

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Consent...

Consent...

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I Can't Even Watch The Notebook Without Cringing Now

I Can't Even Watch The Notebook Without Cringing Now

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Abortion Rights Is A Human Rights

Abortion Rights Is A Human Rights

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The Reason Why We Need To Stop Saying #notallmen

The Reason Why We Need To Stop Saying #notallmen

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I Think We All Know Why

I Think We All Know Why

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Consent

Consent

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Truth

Truth

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If The Men Find Out We Can Shapeshift, They Are Going To Tell The Church

If The Men Find Out We Can Shapeshift, They Are Going To Tell The Church

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On Shaving

On Shaving

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We Are Starting It Early, Guys!

We Are Starting It Early, Guys!

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Because Apparently Only Old White Men Count

Because Apparently Only Old White Men Count

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Ladies, When Was The Last Time You Went On A Killing Spree Cos You Were Feeling A Bit Emotional?

Ladies, When Was The Last Time You Went On A Killing Spree Cos You Were Feeling A Bit Emotional?

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F**ked Up

F**ked Up

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When A Man Tells Me He's Looking For A 'Real Woman' I Scurry Away Because I'm Actually Three Owls In A Raincoat And He Mustn't Find Out

When A Man Tells Me He's Looking For A 'Real Woman' I Scurry Away Because I'm Actually Three Owls In A Raincoat And He Mustn't Find Out

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Experiencing Both Sides Of The Gender Divide As A Professional

Experiencing Both Sides Of The Gender Divide As A Professional

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And We Prefer Your Opinions About Us Kept To Yourselves Too!

And We Prefer Your Opinions About Us Kept To Yourselves Too!

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While It Is True That Girls’ Brains Typically Develop A Little Faster Than Boys’ Brains, That Doesn’t Excuse A Lack Of Discipline For Boys

While It Is True That Girls’ Brains Typically Develop A Little Faster Than Boys’ Brains, That Doesn’t Excuse A Lack Of Discipline For Boys

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Oh Well

Oh Well

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I Agree

I Agree

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My Nana Is Divorced And Good For Her

My Nana Is Divorced And Good For Her

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:)

:)

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Get A Divorce

Get A Divorce

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So Close To Getting The Point

So Close To Getting The Point

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Nanette

Nanette

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Sign Checks Out

Sign Checks Out

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So Unfair

So Unfair

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America Hates Women

America Hates Women

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Being Feminine Is Not A Weakness

Being Feminine Is Not A Weakness

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I've Noticed

I've Noticed

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Makeup

Makeup

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Yes They Can Be

Yes They Can Be

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“You’re A Pretty Girl And Therefore Can’t Be Smart”

“You’re A Pretty Girl And Therefore Can’t Be Smart”

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Use The Freaking Word

Use The Freaking Word

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Let's Hope This Trend Just Keeps Continuing On Through Future Generations

Let's Hope This Trend Just Keeps Continuing On Through Future Generations

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We Have To Close This Gap

We Have To Close This Gap

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Expressing Any Emotion Is Hysteria If You're A Woman

Expressing Any Emotion Is Hysteria If You're A Woman

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My Teacher Told Us That Our First Period Would Only Be Like A Drop Or Two Of Blood And Gave Us Pantie Liners For When It Happens. That Was A Big Fat Lie

My Teacher Told Us That Our First Period Would Only Be Like A Drop Or Two Of Blood And Gave Us Pantie Liners For When It Happens. That Was A Big Fat Lie

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Misogyny Ruins Everything

Misogyny Ruins Everything

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Call Them Out

Call Them Out

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The Governor Will Send Us All Back To Phase One If Y’all Keep Screwing Around

The Governor Will Send Us All Back To Phase One If Y’all Keep Screwing Around

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I've Been Asking Myself This

I've Been Asking Myself This

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Hey, Fierce And Fabulous Fixer-Uppers!

Hey, Fierce And Fabulous Fixer-Uppers!

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When Was The Last Time Decisions About A Woman's Well-Being Were Made By Women?

When Was The Last Time Decisions About A Woman's Well-Being Were Made By Women?

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You Can't Stop Us.

You Can't Stop Us.

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This Is, And Has Always Been, A Big Problem

This Is, And Has Always Been, A Big Problem

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It Really Is...

It Really Is...

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Srsly

Srsly

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Also Applies To The Show Sherlock

Also Applies To The Show Sherlock

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*sips Tea*

*sips Tea*

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Who Else Can Relate To This?

Who Else Can Relate To This?

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Women Finally Get More Affordable Access To Reproductive Healthcare And They Find A Way To Demonize It

Women Finally Get More Affordable Access To Reproductive Healthcare And They Find A Way To Demonize It

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Men's Issues

Men's Issues

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Cowards

Cowards

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Go Masturbate!

Go Masturbate!

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It’s About Wanting To Control Over Women’s Sexuality

It’s About Wanting To Control Over Women’s Sexuality

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Women - Being Conditioned To Accommodate The Patriarchy Since Forever…

Women - Being Conditioned To Accommodate The Patriarchy Since Forever…

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