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Too Many Of Us Have An Uncle Randy

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LazyPanda 3 years ago

YES

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I Agree

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

I agree.

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The r/TrollXChromosomes will be celebrating its 10th birthday on the last day of March. "We're currently in the middle of intensive planning for the 10th Cakeday celebrations. It'll be so much better than our 5th Cakeday shindig, folks will cry. But we can't tell you more than that, lest our plans are foiled," the moderators told Bored Panda when we reached out to them.

They’re also steadily moving toward the 1 million member mark. Currently, they’re at just over 802k, so consider joining them and giving them a boost. They post about a variety of topics. In their words, they’re a subreddit for “rage comics and other memes with a girly slant.”

However, this doesn’t change the fact that the subreddit is also home to some serious posts that show how deeply sexism is enrooted in our society. Even to this very day. And while sexism can be subtle and covert, it can also be very overt. One example of this is women getting harassed on the streets. So while it’s one thing to confront sexism online, it’s a whole other ball game when it’s done in real life.

Just Going To Leave This One Here

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

Priorities!

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This Hurts Deep Because It’s True

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Agree. But they don’t actually respect that man. They just say “but he don’t mind if you have friends, right?” “I have a boyfriend” really only works because some men think it’s the only possible way THEY could be rejected when mama said they were so handsome!

139points

I’ve Never Heard This Explained So Succinctly (Credit Fu**k_patriarchy On Instagram)

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

DAMN!

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Bored Panda spoke about how women should respond if they’re ever in a situation where they’re either being catcalled or openly harassed on the street with Emily May, the co-founder and the executive director of ‘Hollaback!’ The organization aims to end harassment in all of its forms.

May explained that women should always trust their instincts. “Listen to what your gut is telling you. There is no ‘right’ or ‘perfect’ response to harassment; however, studies show that having some kind of response (either in the moment or later) can reduce the trauma associated with harassment. If you decide to respond, do it for you.”

She said that it’s always all right to do nothing, smile, and keep walking. It’s always up to you to decide what’s right for you and if you want to confront your harassers. It’s always harder to do this in-person than behind the safety of your screen.

Yuuuuup

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Something 3 years ago

But men do say "I hate women" and other statements like that all the time. Half of all Boomer jokes boil down to "wife bad".

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Parenting Tips

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giovanna 3 years ago

So true

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As An Extremely Gay Lady, I’d Like To Co-Sign The F**k Out Of This

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

For those saying "not all men," that also proves the point. It was never the clothes. Still, people continue to blame women for dressing "provocatively."

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As May put it in an interview with Bored Panda, your safety is the main priority. However, if you feel safe and choose to respond to your harassers, there are three main approaches that you can take: setting boundaries, engaging bystanders, and documenting the situation. Let’s go into detail about each approach.

“Set the Boundary. Tell the person harassing you exactly what you want them to do and why. Look them in the eye and denounce their behavior with a strong, clear voice. Many people prefer to name the behavior. For example, you can say, ‘Do not [what they’re doing], that’s harassment.’ You can also simply say ‘that is not okay’ or ‘don’t speak to me like that.’ Say what feels natural to you,” May from ‘Hollaback!’ explained.

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Good Lesson

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Agatz 3 years ago

My friend told me she was so happy she is turning 40, because finally people have stopped with the baby questions, because now they think maybe she does not have kids because she is too old. And now she does not have do defend herself for not having kids. Jeez, why can't people just back off? Like, do people ask a women questions like that because they think they forgot to have kids and they need to be reminded?

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#11

Where’s The Lie

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

It isn’t logical, it’s sexist and ageist and pro forced birth, and by nature illogical.

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#12

Funny How Rarely This Comes Up With Christians

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K. 3 years ago (edited)

And you know... controlling themselves instead of blaming others for their actions...but I’m an atheist who is going to hell. What do I know, besides they have crazy lit parties in hell.

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“The important thing is that you aren’t apologetic in your response, and that you don’t engage with them after you set the boundary. Oftentimes, people who harass may try to argue with you or dismiss you through further conversation or by making fun of you. As tempting as it may be to get into a verbal war with them, we don’t recommend it. The attention may further feed their abusive behavior and cause the situation to escalate. Once you’ve said your piece, keep it moving.”

The second approach is engaging bystanders by telling them what’s going on and what they can do to help you. “Not all bystanders have been trained to respond, but typically people do understand that street harassment is not okay and they want to help you, so what can you do to ask for that help? You will need to loudly announce to people around you what the harasser just said or did and identify them, like: ‘That man in the red shirt is following me. I need help!’” May explained.

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I Want To Meet This Heroic Mystery Woman

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Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Absolutely!! We don't even wear makeup or paint our nails to impress men. If there were no men in the world we would look exactly like we do now - but wear much less clothes....

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#14

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Watching 3 years ago

The lesson that we can take from all this is that people need to keep their nose out of other people's private parts. End of story.

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Freya the Wanderer 3 years ago

The people who want to regulate women's reproductive systems to the point of them being little more than brood cows are usually the ones who want to slash - if not eliminate - public assistance and keep the minimum wage at below starvation level.

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Owl 3 years ago

And keep yo hand off my ass man. I hate that and its rude

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Meredith Grey 2 years ago

Yes exactly!!! People who seem to think that they have the right to dictate what a woman can and cannot do PISS ME OFF!!! Same as religitards who also seem to think that they can control people!!! Like seriously, if you don't like abortion, then DON'T GET ONE!!! But apart from that, mind your own business and worry about YOUR OWN life!!! Pro life people aren't pro life, they are PRO BIRTH!!! They don't care what happe s to the child AFTER it is born. They don't help look after the child or ANYTHING!!!

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Šimon Špaček 3 years ago

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Kaisa 3 years ago

Men want women not to get abortions and yet they don't want to get snipped themselves and condoms ''don't feel good''. Men want to control both their bodies and also what women do with theirs

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Ozacoter 3 years ago

Or pay child support. So those men basically want sex without any posterior responsibility

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Veronica Sjöberg 3 years ago

I've heard this one before and i totally agree with it. I did have an abortion 13 years ago when i was 19 and i remember how i felt back then, like it could not go fast enough. I just wanted it OUT. Now i have two kids and i'm pregnant at the moment (and i'm happy about that). Some people dont seem to understand that its a huge difference if you want to be pregnant or not. Its not the same. If you want a child it IS a child even early on, but if you don't its just panic and a nightmare. Its just pure evil to force someone to stay pregnant and give birth against their will.

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Therese Cortes 3 years ago

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Anna Banana 3 years ago

Answering a lot of 'she brought it on herself' comments here. There was a meme a long time ago, I can't find it but it went something like this: Abortion is the only treatment we justify denying based on how the person got into that situation. Climb the tree and break your leg? We'll fix it! Shoot yourself in the leg becuase you didn't secure your gun? Your doctors are here for you! Lifelong smoking caused a lung cancer? Let's treat it! Want to terminate unwanted pregnancy? You shouldn't have been a s**t!

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MyCatsTheRealPanda 3 years ago

Because they look at it like all those things are directly affecting you. An abortion affects you and another person. To be clear I am not saying I do or do not believe in abortion. I think it's a very complicated issue and every persons story is different. The one thing I personally don't believe in is when women use abortion as birth control But again all stories are different and I wouldn't judge someone.

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shaDoria 3 years ago

this is so spot on, it gave me goosbumps

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MandaPanda 3 years ago

I have kids. I was young (21), unmarried, and in a very unhappy relationship. It was my choice to keep my children. It's hard sometimes but I'd choose it again and again. But if I met someone in a similar situation and they chose not to carry to term, that is their choice and I support that just as much. Everyone is different.

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Ekate 3 years ago

According to UNICEF, 22,000 children die EACH DAY due to poverty. You really care about kids? Do something about that before you start rummaging around in other people's uteri.

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Meredith Grey 2 years ago

Yeah these PRO Lifers say they care about children, but really all they are is Pro Birth. Once the child is born, they don't care any more. Can you imagine how overpopulated the world would be if EVERY SINGLE CHILD was born??? We would be like China and India, even WORSE really!!!

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Red Hair Blue Soul 3 years ago

This should be taught in school

7points

Donkey boi 3 years ago

I agree with the message but I disagree that this is one of those 'things men don't understand'. Where (and when) I grew up, it was illegal. When your girlfriend told she thought she was pregnant, you both felt that same fear! It is no longer illegal in my home country, but still difficult to get help. Abortion is a subject that needs to be talked about and, regardless of your opinion, should ultimately be up to the person who's body is affected. There is no person on this planet that can give a valid logical reason why it should be illegal!

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Tina Aleka 3 years ago

Oh this is so good that i wrote it down for those discussions where people say that an abortion is simply the easy way out

6points

Meredith Grey 2 years ago

LOL it is most DEFINITELY NOT the easy way out, in fact, it is the HARDEST way out!!!

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El Dee 3 years ago

Definitely, it's not a matter of choosing, it's a matter of necessity..

4points

Vicky Z 3 years ago

that's so true! they don't even undestand how traumatic it can be for a woman and she does it for very specific reasons which are not anyone's business!

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Deb Dedon 3 years ago

This.

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Ray Martin 3 years ago

I wish I could vote this up more than once.

1point

AlmightyOne 3 years ago

THIS. YES.

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Ericka Russian Sifontes 3 years ago

And some women as well

1point

Isabella R.W. 3 years ago

Amen!

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Meredith Grey 2 years ago (edited)

So all you people who think this, you are extremely, EXTREMELY incorrect, and you need to WAKE UP TO YOURSELF!!! And also before you say it, no, abortion is NOT murder, and from about 24 weeks and younger, the FETUS DOES NOT feel pain yet!! So if you try to use that excuse, then again, you are extremely, EXTREMELY incorrect yet again!!!

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Meredith Grey 2 years ago (edited)

YES!!! EXACTLY THIS!!! I am so SICK AND TIRED of people thinking that women use abortions as contraception and purposely use no birth control and then just have an abortion EVERY TIME they fall pregnant!!! Trust me when I say (and I know from experience) that women definitely DON'T want to EVER have an abortion!!! It is extremely, EXTREMELY traumatic and causes a HELL of a LOT of trauma and depression!!!

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Olive Stirk 3 years ago

NUMBER 28464?!

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Lev Pertsov 3 years ago

I'm a man. I understand it.

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Isle_of_stressed_pilots 3 years ago

Congrats.

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Benjamin tatham 3 years ago

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Isle_of_stressed_pilots 3 years ago

Did they say ALL men? They just said "men" because men are usually the ones who can't experience abortion. It's assumed that it's not every single goddamn man. We just thought people would be smart enough to understand that.

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You are Beautiful (He, Him) 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

https://news.yahoo.com/women-putting-abortions-tiktok-real-044245628.html

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John C 3 years ago

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Logically Reasonable 3 years ago

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Anggi Santika 3 years ago

Sorry to say, your comment doesn't sound logically reasonable...

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

I think you need to change your username, it doesn't suit you. Contraception is not 100% reliable. 1 in 100 pregnancies is due to contraception failure. And is one of the main reasons for abortion.

7points

Myrkur 3 years ago

Ah yes because all woman who get pregnant are always fully in control of it. Rape is a thing buddy

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csaclint 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Having consensual sex is not a bad decision. Tell me, do you only have sex to procreate?

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Bill Newsome 3 years ago

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Veronica Sjöberg 3 years ago

Thats pretty much the point. If you are not in a place in life where you can take care of a child or really dont want children it is pretty much is a trap. And thats why abortion could be the best or only option. Most women want the very best for their child and if they can't provide that at the time it could be better to let it go... I see no "monster" in that.

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Holly Smethurst 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

For a woman you are a sexist piece of work. Expecting a woman to never have sex unless it is for procreation whilst a man can have sex as much as he likes is just bullshit. Just another way to control womens bodies.Tell me, do you only have sex to procreate?

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Robin Childers 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago (edited)

Going by your logic we should not be allowed to take anti-parasitic medication or nit treatment coz it is ending a life. Make sure you watch where you step and never kill an insect or spider etc coz believe it or not, but they are also life, I hope you say no to antibiotics coz bacteria is alive, don’t eat fruits, fungi, veg or animals coz they too are alive. Life must prevail.

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Crangis McBasketball 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

And not every woman voluntarily falls pregnant. She can take precautions and still fall pregnant, she can be raped and still fall pregnant.

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Michael McGinnity 3 years ago

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StrawberryParfait 3 years ago

Bla, bla, blaaaaaaaa.......Oh, DO STFU. It isn't all about YOU, Michael. If it isn't your uterus, it isn't your business.

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Dillon Hughes 3 years ago

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Grumble O'Pug 3 years ago

Ah, we get mansplained by the thick-as-a-plank crowd.

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JESSE REED 3 years ago

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Pamela24 3 years ago

Most often it's men (to be precise - male politicians) who put those ridiculous laws into place. Not "only" men but mostly it's men, look into the parliaments/chambers.

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Deborah B 3 years ago

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Grumble O'Pug 3 years ago

F**k off with the stupidity.

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Melanie King 3 years ago

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

1 in 100 pregnancies is due to contraception failure. And yes my body, my life, my choice. I am not risking MY life for a foetus of I choosr. A foetus is not a living, breathing, sentient being, I am. I have family, friends, an identity, I am living, I am breathing. All of what a foetus isn't. It is not illegal to turn someone's life support off because they can't live without it, just like a foetus can't live without the woman. A foetus has no idea it is being aborted so wouldn't care but I care if I was forced into an unwanted pregnancy. There is no comparison between a living and breathing individual and a foetus that needs a host to survive.

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qwerty 3 years ago

You do know that no birth control is foolproof, right?

11points

ChickyChicky 3 years ago

Are you more concerned with preventing abortion from happening, or with punishing people who have abortions?

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Carrot dude 3 years ago

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Isabella R.W. 3 years ago

go away carrot dude, we don't support your kind here.

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

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Sarah Mills 3 years ago

Yeah, have a baby, even if you can't meet it's basic human needs to feed/house/cloth it. /s Also Ryan, it's also not 'killing a child' you ignorant fool. Head on back to your black and white world and study up on the damn grey before you make any more silly faux pas.

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Watching 3 years ago

But here's the funny thing. How about you keep your nose out of other people's private parts? It's sort of creepy.

15points

GaeFrog 3 years ago

I hope your charger only works at an angle ryan

12points

Bob 3 years ago

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Periwinkle 3 years ago

People didn't read the whole post before this comment. Things men don't understand, right above.

12points

#15

Be A Proud Spinster !

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

And yet it's been given such a negative connotation :(

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She continued: “Then tell people what you want them to do, like, ‘Can you wait here with me? Can you call the police?’ Remember that it is okay to ask for help, it does not mean that you are weak, in fact, it means that you are strong because you’re acknowledging that street harassment, in fact, hurts.”

#16

The Only Way To Get Republicans To Care About Black Lives

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George-Florin Constantin 3 years ago

So many issues approached in just a dozen words. Clever girl.

243points

#17

The List Could Go On And On...

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Truth Monster 3 years ago

Try it with race too. "First White Astronaut", "First White President."

243points

#18

They Should Both Be Free

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Coleonema 3 years ago

Yep, in my country they give condoms for free, to help prevent spread of STDs, many people want them to do this with Tampons, Heck, even just get rid of the VAT on Tampons.

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The third and final approach is documenting the situation. If you feel that you’re safe and not currently in danger, you can consider taking a picture or a video of your experience. Or you can ask a bystander to do so.

“This could include the person harassing you, their license plate, or the scene. Some people use photos or videos to report an incident—for example, if the person was at work when this happened people may choose to report it to their employer.”

#19

Women Are Not Free Therapy

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Nica Van 3 years ago

How do we get this higher up the list?

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#20

This Is So Accurate

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giovanna 3 years ago

"How convenient it was when we could assault them and they would just shut up... good ol' times"

205points

#21

This Tweet Hits Hard

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

Not just "every woman you know", just "Every Woman".

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May detailed: “Others use it to share their story on social media or anonymously through ihollaback.org. Many find it to be empowering to turn the lens off of them and onto the person harassing them. It often has the potential to be hugely transformative. If it feels right to you then do it. It doesn’t work that way for everyone so ask yourself, ‘Does it feel right for me?’ or ‘Is there another way to respond?’”

According to May, there is no such thing as a ‘perfect’ response to harassment: “There is no such thing as a perfect response, this is not your fault, and you are not alone. Take the time to recover and employ strategies for taking care of yourself.”

#22

I Swear, The Audacity

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Something 3 years ago

Most of the action taken to protect women from sexual assault helps men as well. The activism, even when based mostly on cases involving women, results in gender-neutral legislation.

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#23

Someone Said It!!!

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Luthian 3 years ago

I truly hate the phrase boys will be boys.

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#24

This Is What We Want. Not The Future, Now

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Joonscrab 3 years ago

Yes. Consent is the MOST BASIC thing to know... It's what makes us human.

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One thing that you can do is to develop a ‘quick ritual’ to help you ‘shake off’ what happened every time that you get harassed. Having a friend that you contact when this occurs can also help. Sharing your story with the people you trust can be very powerful and healing. What’s more, affirming to yourself that you deserve better and that you won’t let ‘the haters’ get you down is another response.

“The idea here is that you want you to develop resilience so that you can get out there and keep being you in the world,” May told Bored Panda.

#25

So Basically

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

The only appropriate response to this is "Yes." If they're unaware enough to ask it, that's the answer they deserve

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#26

Let Her Name Be Known

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Helen Haley 3 years ago

Thank you Mary Beatrice Davidson Kenner!

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#27

Invasive, Huh?

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Serial pacifist 3 years ago

The entire Trump presidency was invasive.

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#28

My Boyfriend Didn’t Appreciate This One As Much As I Did

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

This made me laugh out loud. For real.

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#29

Success Is The Best Revenge

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with braids. It's your hair... do with it what you want! Braids look great on her!

162points

#30

Unfortunately True

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K. 3 years ago

I don’t shame hypocrites for having the same amount or more sex than others. I just like seeing them flustered while they try to work out why it’s okay for them.

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I’m a fan of poet Dylan Thomas’ lines: “Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light.” While the context is important, you can interpret the words to mean that you should fight for what’s right instead of giving in to the pressure placed on you to stay quiet. Just remember that your safety is paramount: online and IRL.

#31

F**k The Patriarchy

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River Webb 3 years ago

this hasn't aged well in Australia

92points

#32

Truth

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James016 3 years ago

It's also none of your neighbour's business

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#33

Mansplaining Fail

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Linus Nilsson 3 years ago

Haha! I wish I could have been there to laugh in his face

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#34

It Never F**king Ends

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Wow, they cry you didn’t like sports? I figured it would be a relief to many men who don’t like the pressure of having to enjoy sports when they don’t. I’ve never dated a guy who seriously cares about sports. That’s so cringe and middle America basic.

92points

#35

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K. 3 years ago (edited)

I look forward to my periods (kind of). I am either in a near death state of being, or I push myself at the gym to get through the things I hate at the same time. (Exercise is good for you. I can have a hate/love relationship with it.) EDIT: I have passed out, vomited, and were sent to the hospital from pms pains. For some odd reason, I push myself even more during “let the gates of hell open” week. I still got three tubs of ice cream.

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#36

"Women R So Emotional"

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

They do.

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#37

Yep

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

Definitely social conditioning.

94points

#38

And The Sinister Version, "If She Has Boobs, She's Biologically Ready For Sex"

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Iapetos 3 years ago

That last thing with SpongeBob won't change.

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Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#39

Bless The Boys

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

Unless you're careful, boys are taught to believe their feelings are logic. Girls are gaslit to believe their logic are feelings.

55points

#40

So True

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kevin 3 years ago

When I was in high school, the teacher asked for boys to help her with carrying things. A girl asked why she's only asking boys. The teachers response "Its really heavy." I know much of the girls in that room can carry much more than my male body.

155points

#41

Girls Are Always Taught How To Stay Safe, It's Not As Common To Teach Boys To Not Create Unsafe Situations

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Bob 3 years ago

Wait i don't understand what Matt Pearce is saying. Would someone explain?

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#42

How Come Tho?

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空の夢 3 years ago

this should be way higher!

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#43

F**king Truth

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matthew owen 3 years ago

Exactly! Victim blaming is never useful.

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#44

Yes, Just Like That

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Something 3 years ago

"Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" used to mean doing something literally impossible. That you have to perform a miracle to succeed.

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#45

Misogyny Running Deep

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Something 3 years ago

Even in this 19th century arrangement, the women did not/do not live "for free". Women have been working (outside the home) throughout history, and there was a time that the husband legally owned all their earnings. And in addition, women in a "traditional" arrangement are usually expected to do all the cooking, cleaning, childcare (where applicable), and miscellaneous housework.

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#46

This Explains A Whole F**king Lot, Actually

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K. 3 years ago

Spoiler alert. Quite a bit of females/women perpetuate the misogyny they’ve learned from other females/women and a society that treats them less. They teach us to police others who fall outside of their ideals, breeding another generation of misogynists. Gross.

132points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#47

Unconstitutionality

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

She is right, you cannot be prosecuted by a state for something you did in another state, as its law did not apply on you when you did it.

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#48

I Don't Know Why This Made Me Laugh So Hard

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Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

Planned Parenthood caught my grandma's cervical cancer. She was over 60. She could afford the GYN there. The end. PP wins.

40points

#49

Take Notes Hallmark

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Helen Haley 3 years ago

Please

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#50

"Why Do They Say 'Women And Children First'? What About The Men? Why Is Society Anti-Men?"

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Si 3 years ago

Women and children are far more likely than men to die in disasters. The men on the Titanic had to be forced at gun point to let women and children take their places in life boats.

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#51

"You Say Women Hate Men"

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Iapetos 3 years ago

THIS!!

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#52

Got My Doctorate Last Week And My Husband Was Excited To Tell Me We're Now "Dr. And Mr." Because People Who Earned Titles Go First Per Etiquette. So Far Though The Most Common Reaction To The Change Is People Asking Him If He's Ok With That

Got My Doctorate Last Week And My Husband Was Excited To Tell Me We're Now "Dr. And Mr." Because People Who Earned Titles Go First Per Etiquette. So Far Though The Most Common Reaction To The Change Is People Asking Him If He's Ok With That

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Helena Houzarová 3 years ago

Congratulations on marrying a decent man, doctor. This article makes it feel like it was harder than getting the doctorate.

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#53

Imagine How Much More We Would Know About The Human Body If We Just Didn’t Hate Women

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Helen Haley 3 years ago

So much in womens healthcare is missed because it either hasn't been studied, or if it something non-female specific, it was studied using only men.

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#54

Poland Right Now

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Mohsie Supposie 3 years ago

No uterus, no opinion!

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50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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#55

Get A Grip, Texas

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Watching 3 years ago

“Nothing gets conservatives more excited or frothing at the mouth quicker than what's going on in other folks' bedrooms.” ~Ann Richards

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#56

Birth Control Pills Are Health Care

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

The Christian Right is so gross. 🤢

33points

#57

What Is There To Be Ashamed About?

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

I don't know ANY Millennial women who watch CNBC, so that could explain that sampling error...

34points

#58

Stop Touching Me, Please And Thanks

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

Some people do that? Ewwww...

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#59

Why Are Women So Mysterious?

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

Please someone tell me such idiotic men do not exist.

31points

#60

Cowards

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K. 3 years ago

Yes!!!

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#61

True

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Alex Bailey 3 years ago

Spaghetti straps are considered intolerable?

27points

#62

Apparently, Most Of My Family (And The World) Needs This Reminder

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Buttered_Crumpet 3 years ago

It's exhausting! Come on people, learn empathy!

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Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#63

Patriarchy Is Literally Everywhere!!!

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qwerty 3 years ago

My name literally translates to, "small submissive woman". Yes I am planning to change it.

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#64

Women Are Funny

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Something 3 years ago

If you believe women aren't funny, you should be taking them more seriously at least.

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#65

How Many Of You Have Experienced This?

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Lol I just had one of those ppl recently, I disagreed any suddenly I had my love life called into question, and had my disabilities mocked. It's so hard to spot coz they sound sane and normal, until you have a different opinion and express it

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#66

Everytime I See Someone Whine About Alimony I Think Of This

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

Today! In a Chinese divorce case, a judge is making a man pay his former wife for years of housekeeping. This could start a shift globally.

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#67

No, Not Like That

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

Women enjoy sex. Sounds like they just don't enjoy sex with you. You should work on that.

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#68

Nothing Only Men Like Is Cool

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InfectedVoice 3 years ago (edited)

Joe Rogan is alright, he listens to all views and doesn't try to be right about everything, this guy could take the same approach, what a horribly misguided thing to say. Joe Rogan has also had many female guests on his show.

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#69

Wear It Proudly

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Foo fighters make the best footos mints :)

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#70

Thank You! I Was Wondering If I Watched A Completely Different Tiger King Than Literally Everyone Else

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Carol Baskins is an amazing woman.

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Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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On The Topic Of She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named's Latest Transphobic Fantasy

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Wait What? Men do what now? I'm confused

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#72

Condoms Are Uncomfy, Can't You Just Take Plan B Instead?

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Andy Acceber 3 years ago

Ask a man if he still likes to orgasm with a condom. If he says "no," no sex. You'll be surprised how many are suddenly okay with wearing a condom.

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#73

This Song Really Hits Home

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Lauren Caswell (Submission author) 3 years ago

https://youtu.be/jgCBNOAz7V4

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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MadDawg 3 years ago

for the men who feel attacked or sad in the comments, I feel attacked and sad when I, a thirteen-year-old girl, get catcalled for wearing leggings or dress coded for "distracting the boys from their education by wearing a tank top in 100-degree weather". This society is so inherently sexist and when you say that people speaking out about their experiences is hurting your feelings, perhaps you are the issue.

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Šimon Špaček 3 years ago

Your country sounds like a horrible place.

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Ren Karlej 3 years ago

Beautifully put MadDawg. Honestly disappointed in some of the reactions from the fellas. As if the world wasn't man-centric enough they have to make an article about the sexism experienced by women about THEM.

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BleepBloop73 2 years ago

@Campbell Squires Imagine this. You are in a room with 10 dogs. You are told three of them are vicious, bloodthirsty killers. Go on, go pet the dogs. Why not? Because you dont know which ones will hurt you? oooooooooooooooh

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BleepBloop73 2 years ago

@Campbell Squires imagine this. you are put in a room with ten dogs. three of them is are aggresive killers. Go on, go pet the dogs. Why not? because you dont know which ones are unsafe? oooooooooooh

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Campbell Squires 3 years ago

Sorry it sent twice

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Campbell Squires 3 years ago

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RoseTheMad 3 years ago

Heres one of the big ones: If a woman has a lot of sex, she's a sl*t or a wh*re, if a man has a lot of sex he's a "legend" a "proper lad" etc...

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Si 3 years ago

And once labelled , a woman is fair game for sexual violence

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Hugo Raible 3 years ago

"Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he's called a stud. But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she: called a s**t and people think this is unfair... Nah. It's completely fair. and I'll tell you why, alright? “Cause it's f****n' easy to be a s**t. It's f****n' hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charming, be weII-dressed, have nice shoes, and a fake job. To be a s**t you just have to be there. There are fat ugly sluts out there, there are no fat ugly Studs." - Jim Jefferies

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Freya the Wanderer 3 years ago

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KombatBunni 3 years ago

Today I was treated to two instances of being talked down to because of my gender and I was mega p*ssed. Where did this happen? In the two hobby shops here in Melbourne CBD, Victoria Australia.How did this happen? Because I dared to go in and ask got something I needed but apparently these men knew more about what I needed than I did, even after I already told them both I knew exactly what I was after and what it was for. They’re both lucky I was able to keep my temper and not give them both a fkn black eye. Female staff member just looked the other way and my bf just stood there and did nothing :( I’m sick of being treated like an idiot just because I’m female 😡

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Bex Hallihan 3 years ago

I have a pretty masculine hobby, I ride motorbikes. We are ALL so over being chopsed at by men who often know less about the engine than we do. I know fuckall about engines, and even I can tell some things are wrong. I told a recovery control that my bike tyre couldn't be repaired at the roadside. He said, oh I'm sure it can, just sit tight and the truck will be along soon". Truck arrives, and lo! My bike tyre is unrepairable roadside... whats that, you'll have to despatch another truck to remove the bike to the shop? The drivers were fine, but equally pissed off.

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago (edited)

A lot of dìcks are about to be in a twist over this one.

24points

MistyCat 3 years ago

now, don't get your d***s in a twist

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Iapetos 3 years ago

Teucer T just came out as the asshole that pees on the toilet seat and babbling about how men (or "real men TM" find it okay in his point of view.

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Teucer T 3 years ago

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M 3 years ago

Dudes in comments be like: "Oh I felt super uncomfortable reading this article. Why are you posting stuff like this ?Boo #notallmen". Bro, if you felt uncomfortable reading about this s**t in an article think about how it feels for the women that have to experience this kind of crap themselves, in real life, all the goddammed time. Hint: it's quite a bit worse than uncomfortable. Bonus: implying that the reason why you are an unempathetic, whiny, sexist amoeba is because all the "woke" people are so aggressive and rude to you about this topic is pretty f*****g pathetic

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Diane Knight 3 years ago

The men who are heroes are the ones who have leaped up when they see or hear a waitress respond to a guy who just groped her, and take that pos out of his chair and grab him between his legs. Only then does a guy truly understand how it is for a woman to be groped by a man?

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Iggy 3 years ago

The level of anger this article has generated saddens me. We still have so far to go. Acknowledging there's a problem is the first step in resolving it. It does not mean anyone here has been personally accused. As for the 'what-about'-ers, it's not a competition.

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

I just went through the list and 88% of the posts were about a specific guy "this guy said this to me", or about a specific type of guy "men who say ___ are jerks". Yet people are crying in the comments here "Why are they blaming all men? I didn't do anything? You are so mean!!". They DIDN'T blame all men. You clearly need to work on your reading comprehension skills.

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Tacos Are Tasty 3 years ago

Cue the incels in 3,2,1...

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IcyRedWaffle 3 years ago

Can't believe this is still an issue in 2021

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BleepBloop73 2 years ago

hello i am from the future. (This is still an issue in 2022)

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

I feel sad for women who put up with this crap. Even more so, for the ones who married assholes and assumed they would change over time...

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Iapetos 3 years ago

which won't happen...

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jonnotheGOAT 3 years ago

get ready for the d**ks to roll in on the comments

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Sleepyhead 3 years ago

It’s articles like these that remind me that learning more about women’s issues is a continuous process because these are continuous problems. Thank you everyone for sharing, it’s helpful to see discussion.

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Iapetos 3 years ago

Certain men in the comments: "WHat aBouT MEEE?"

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JessRS 3 years ago

Yes, yes, we know "nOt AlL mEn", you don't have to get your undies in a twist.

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BoredRaccoon 3 years ago

The amount of angry comments speak for themselves. I don’t remember the women of bored panda being this pressed when there was a post addressing how toxic masculinity harms men.

2points

Myrkur 3 years ago

One thing that pisses me off most about `pro-life` is that they really think that a some growing cells have more rights and need more protection then a whole living human being. And as soon as a baby is born when someone couldn't get an abortion those same people are nowhere to be found

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

Maybe you don't understand that, so I will make it clear for you : murder is wrong.

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Evo Laurel 3 years ago (edited)

I was a competitive figure skater during high school, and my gym teacher refused to let me do any of the 'strong' exercises (ie using any weights over 5IBS) because I was a girl. My best friend at the time would always trade w/ me after the teacher forced me to only use the light ones b/c he wasn't able to use the 15IBS, but I could (in situps and the like). Also going to college and being told that women should stay at home to fix the house up nice and have dinner ready when the man walks into the door, and shouldn't be in classes learning how to fix cars. The high school also refused to let the girls wear jeans and tshirts, only long dresses, polos and either skirts or dress pants. The boys usually wore tshirts and jeans.

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Iapetos 3 years ago

Ugh your school sounds horrible.

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marianne eliza 3 years ago

#1: me, 7 years old: Mom? When I sit on pop-pop's lap, he touches me down there. Mom: Then don't sit on his lap! me: to my 7 year old self; if it happens again, it's my fault. It did. Many, many times. Until I was 15. Sadly, he was widowed and lived with us, his only daughter's family cause he couldn't live with his sons as they would clash like roosters.

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Nora AlMeida 3 years ago

It’s insane that, that sick lowlife of a so-called, ‘grandfather’ did that to you— it’s also insane that your mother and any other person didn’t call the police on him to throw him in prison.

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Harry Potter 3 years ago

I was listening Willow Smith "21st Century Girl" while reading this and it saddened me and the word on her shirt said "Boys need to learn" or something. True they do *I am 2 lazy 2 go back nd check *

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WiTchY_WoMaN 3 years ago

Articles like this make me sick.. I had to stop reading. It's always an endless circle of arguments... Screen devices have made it so much easier for people to say offensive things to one another. Disgusting..

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matthew owen 3 years ago

I feel a lot of these things are only in America, but can any women tell me if I'm right?

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

No this is everywhere. I'm in nz and there is a super toxic culture for women and for men

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Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Nope - everywhere. I'm in Australia and it's worse than that

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Nope, everywhere and it can even be scarier in other places. For example Mexico or Saudi.

10points

Jayne Kyra 3 years ago

32 year old woman in Slovakia and no, you are incorrect. Unfortunately. Sexism is not a USA-only issue.

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Iggy 3 years ago

No, I'm afraid you're not. These happen in every country. And we're tired of it. So very tired.

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Si 3 years ago (edited)

Nope. UK is a hostile place for women. So called lad-culture is pervasive. Women also have to contend with ancient institutional sexism as well as a truly vicious misogynist press.

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Róża Wróbel 3 years ago

You are not. Almost all cultures come from mysogenistic book called "old testament" cultivating patriarchy therefore most of those can be found all over the world.

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Barbel 3 years ago

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Anne 3 years ago

Netherlands - same here

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Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

I've heard from family/friends in four nations outside the US that this is the "norm". Sorry.

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matthew owen 3 years ago

Thanks everyone, I kinda felt I was wrong, was hoping I was right. Makes me so sad to think half the people I know go through this on a daily basis. If I see sexism in my life, I'll always point it out.

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Christian Storms 2 years ago (edited)

This scratches my nerves very uncomfortably. I am male. I might have done some of these things. Don't get me wrong, I am in control of my libido as much as I am in control of my aggressions or possessive impulses - I don't steal, I don't hit, I don't molest, let alone rape. But I do have impulses. I do have the impulse to take what isn't mine, to assault who did me wrong, to... again take what is not mine. I think we all have, but I hope from sentient beings that we can and will control them. But this sad experiences of so many girls and women tell different stories. I don't know what to do, I don't know how to react. Ignoring what I have been taught as gallantery - open doors, taking the heavy lifting, treating ladies like fragile, delicate beings - strikes me as rude behaviour, but doing so is subliminal sexist. Offering company or having an eye over the drinks of girls or butting in in a quarrel, I just end up looking like the next offender waiting in line...

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Christian Storms 2 years ago (edited)

Reading this again, it sounds like the "it's not me" whine you're so rightfully sick off. Sorry. What can I, as an individual male, do - other than not being that guy and making sure my sons won't be, either? Of course I should step in where I see missing consent. But: a) I once got mobbed by a bunch of sickos because "their girl" was polite to me and I was polite to her. We're talking about holding the door and thanks... So please don't assume that every man in your vicinity has the balls to jump in like superman but just doesn't care. Those of us who do care don't have the balls to jump in, because we are the ones that get mauled by those sexist macho sickos, too. b) more than once I got berated by the girl since obviously I disturbed their crude mating ritual where she wants to be stalked after her first 3 "No!"s. She wants no softy gay limp noodle but a real man who can take her like he pleases... like what the hell, girl?! Ill try to be a better person, to help where Im welcome.

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Sofia Herrera 3 years ago

My parents tell me to wear pants when my dad's friend cones over, I was wearing a hoodie and jeans, he stared me up and down like a piece of meat, his wife was right there, my mom stepped in for me but my dad didn't do anything. Please teach your boys respect so they don't grow up to put other girls in my situation, which is nothing compared to what others go through

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Mette Stenersen 3 years ago

The U.S. is really heading in the wrong direction. How is it possible in this day and age to ban abortions? I'm glad I live in Norway, it seems there are a lot more issues between genders than where I live.

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Bee Jairrels 3 years ago

I know im going to get downvoted to hell for this but some the post is toxic and rude. Abuse does apply to everyone. I know abuse can occur but it does happen to everyone.

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Rannveig Ess 3 years ago

Still wondering why BP insists on posting articles that do nothing but incite people to name call, half the comments are hidden because they're rude, obnoxious and mean, lots of the usual America Bashing, lots of down votes for anyone who politely and intelligently doesn't post with the accepted mindset of the other BP members, lots of misinformation and the usual division into "you" them" Republicans" Americans" you're ignorant" garbage as "comments". Of all the laughing and crying I've done on this site today, it all slams to a halt and I leave because I just don't see a reason to choose and feature articles that are just going to upset people and bring out the trolls or hit a nerve. There's so much out there so why fish around on Reddit and Twitter and IG and FB for the most dividing stories out there? This site is so much fun when it's interesting and based on the smart, friendly, educating commonalities of us all. Why throw a bomb in all the time and blow things up, BP?

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Daniëlle Raats 3 years ago

I also do that with man and woman

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Cian Thomas McHugh 3 years ago

Found this poem on Reddit that I think applies here. Credit to u/Poetry_duderino for it. "Why is it that when she says it, it's all right? Why is it that when I mention it, it ends in a fight? Why are women allowed to do more than men? They say that women are oppressed, and I agree. But in a way, no man is free. We don't mean to be rude, but whatever we do. We say something wrong, and everyone gets mad at you. One wrong word, one wrong leap. You take the jump and it ends in a heap. A bunch of trash, you're put by. It can hurt someone so much, they want to die." All the stuff that people say about us dudes hurts, too. Keep that in mind before posting things like this.

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Iapetos 3 years ago

That post is not about diminishing the struggles of men under patriarchy. It is entirely about pointing out the bullshit women endure. Try to walk in women's shoes for a minute, it won't harm you. Some empathy maybe.

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Katie Bear 3 years ago

This is in no way a post attacking men. It is attacking rapists, rapist enablers, people who over sexualize women, and sexists, to name a few. If you feel hurt by this, I think you should take a look at yourself and think about why.

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Keira Conway 3 years ago

This isn't saying all men are bad, this is saying society treats women far worse than men, and showing instances of that. It's not their fault you thought this was ment to hurt your feelings luv ❤

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selioraxemaia 3 years ago

We need to stop making women responsible for unwanted pregnancies. The truth of the matter is that men are responsible, 100%! Outraged? Think that's a ridiculous comment? Consider this then , men have control over where and when they ejaculated. Women have no control over when they ovulate unless they are on the pill. No sperm no pregnant.

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Iapetos 3 years ago

Really, the problem isn't men. The problem is that all birth control methods available on the market have some kind of disadvantage and the whole burden is usually placed on women (IUDs, pills, etc.) because we're lacking birth control methods for men! They have no real alternatives between condoms and a vasectomy.

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Hope in Jesus with Olivia 3 years ago

Offended. Word of the day... Month. ...Year. Decade....

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Kizito 3 years ago

Soooooooo are men going to get their '50 things men call sexist' anytime soon?

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Xan A. Du 3 years ago

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Stephanie Hewitt 3 years ago

No one claimed all men were guilty, that's dismissive and a copout. Also there was no man bashing in the article. Might want to examine why your response was so defensive.

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Keira Conway 3 years ago

Hey darlin' I just need to ask, where EXACTLY did it say all men were bad? Oh that's right, it didn't, this wasn't attacking men sweetheart, this was showing that women are treated as less, and helping society grow, so please stop making assumptions luv, thanks ❤

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Cool so now you know how we constantly feel.

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Tracy Sellars 3 years ago

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Iapetos 3 years ago

There are tons of instances on BP where they list the accomplishments of men! You just turn a blind eye on those, don't you?

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Si 3 years ago

At least they are explicit. The anti women threads here are more insidious. Disguised as empowering invitations to readers to troll women for their interests and decisions.

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William Abler-Ramirez 3 years ago

THANK YOU

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Dahungryfella 3 years ago

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Ren Karlej 3 years ago

Ryan Deschanel - shut up with your utter crap about abortions.

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

"A few people"? If you are that naïve, then you are part of the problem. You CAN be blamed for not helping fix the problem, and turning a blind eye to all the crap that goes on.

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Good thing that didn’t happen. So why don’t you care about women’s issues?

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YoyoSthlm 3 years ago

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

When you share a thought that people believe is wrong, they will tell you that it is wrong. That's how free speech works... or did you think that only you are allowed to share your thoughts?

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Doggo Froggo 3 years ago

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Iggy 3 years ago

Are you for real? That thing that just flew past your head is the point of this article.

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ivan bolitekurac 3 years ago (edited)

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Nah it’s just that you don’t care about issues minorities experience. You can only see yourself, so, naturally you’ll always be a victim.

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago (edited)

Oh jeez. It's not meant to paint all men as bad. It's highlighting the toxicity built into our culture, and how it impacts us women who experience it. And it's guaranteed that whenever women raise these issues, it's rebutted with 'not all men'. It's diverting from the whole point of the article. Think about how uncomfortable the women are who experience it

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Then you need to read it again because you are the exact kind of person who this is for. It isn’t about you and your trashy opinion. This is about women. Get over yourself.

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Si 3 years ago (edited)

So you do your fair share of domestic work, don’t consume misogynist porn and your girlfriend /wife isn’t on hormone suppressing medication?

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Isabella 3 years ago

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Saara . 3 years ago

Which ones? Half is a lot

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Šimon Špaček 3 years ago

Your country sounds like a horrible place.

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Ren Karlej 3 years ago

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BleepBloop73 2 years ago

@Campbell Squires imagine this. you are put in a room with ten dogs. three of them is are aggresive killers. Go on, go pet the dogs. Why not? because you dont know which ones are unsafe? oooooooooooh

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Campbell Squires 3 years ago

Sorry it sent twice

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Campbell Squires 3 years ago

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RoseTheMad 3 years ago

Heres one of the big ones: If a woman has a lot of sex, she's a sl*t or a wh*re, if a man has a lot of sex he's a "legend" a "proper lad" etc...

39points

Si 3 years ago

And once labelled , a woman is fair game for sexual violence

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Hugo Raible 3 years ago

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Freya the Wanderer 3 years ago

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KombatBunni 3 years ago

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Bex Hallihan 3 years ago

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago (edited)

A lot of dìcks are about to be in a twist over this one.

24points

MistyCat 3 years ago

now, don't get your d***s in a twist

10points

Iapetos 3 years ago

Teucer T just came out as the asshole that pees on the toilet seat and babbling about how men (or "real men TM" find it okay in his point of view.

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Teucer T 3 years ago

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M 3 years ago

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Diane Knight 3 years ago

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Iggy 3 years ago

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

12points

Tacos Are Tasty 3 years ago

Cue the incels in 3,2,1...

11points

IcyRedWaffle 3 years ago

Can't believe this is still an issue in 2021

10points

BleepBloop73 2 years ago

hello i am from the future. (This is still an issue in 2022)

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

I feel sad for women who put up with this crap. Even more so, for the ones who married assholes and assumed they would change over time...

10points

Iapetos 3 years ago

which won't happen...

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jonnotheGOAT 3 years ago

get ready for the d**ks to roll in on the comments

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Sleepyhead 3 years ago

4points

Iapetos 3 years ago

Certain men in the comments: "WHat aBouT MEEE?"

2points

JessRS 3 years ago

Yes, yes, we know "nOt AlL mEn", you don't have to get your undies in a twist.

2points

BoredRaccoon 3 years ago

The amount of angry comments speak for themselves. I don’t remember the women of bored panda being this pressed when there was a post addressing how toxic masculinity harms men.

2points

Myrkur 3 years ago

2points

Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

Maybe you don't understand that, so I will make it clear for you : murder is wrong.

0points

Evo Laurel 3 years ago (edited)

2points

Iapetos 3 years ago

Ugh your school sounds horrible.

1point

marianne eliza 3 years ago

2points

Nora AlMeida 3 years ago

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Harry Potter 3 years ago

I was listening Willow Smith "21st Century Girl" while reading this and it saddened me and the word on her shirt said "Boys need to learn" or something. True they do *I am 2 lazy 2 go back nd check *

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WiTchY_WoMaN 3 years ago

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matthew owen 3 years ago

I feel a lot of these things are only in America, but can any women tell me if I'm right?

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

No this is everywhere. I'm in nz and there is a super toxic culture for women and for men

27points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Nope - everywhere. I'm in Australia and it's worse than that

13points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Nope, everywhere and it can even be scarier in other places. For example Mexico or Saudi.

10points

Jayne Kyra 3 years ago

32 year old woman in Slovakia and no, you are incorrect. Unfortunately. Sexism is not a USA-only issue.

9points

Iggy 3 years ago

No, I'm afraid you're not. These happen in every country. And we're tired of it. So very tired.

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Si 3 years ago (edited)

Nope. UK is a hostile place for women. So called lad-culture is pervasive. Women also have to contend with ancient institutional sexism as well as a truly vicious misogynist press.

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Róża Wróbel 3 years ago

You are not. Almost all cultures come from mysogenistic book called "old testament" cultivating patriarchy therefore most of those can be found all over the world.

3points

Barbel 3 years ago

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Anne 3 years ago

Netherlands - same here

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Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

I've heard from family/friends in four nations outside the US that this is the "norm". Sorry.

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matthew owen 3 years ago

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WiTchY_WoMaN 3 years ago

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Christian Storms 2 years ago (edited)

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Christian Storms 2 years ago (edited)

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Sofia Herrera 3 years ago

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Mette Stenersen 3 years ago

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Bee Jairrels 3 years ago

I know im going to get downvoted to hell for this but some the post is toxic and rude. Abuse does apply to everyone. I know abuse can occur but it does happen to everyone.

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Rannveig Ess 3 years ago

0points

Daniëlle Raats 3 years ago

I also do that with man and woman

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Cian Thomas McHugh 3 years ago

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Iapetos 3 years ago

2points

Katie Bear 3 years ago

1point

Keira Conway 3 years ago

This isn't saying all men are bad, this is saying society treats women far worse than men, and showing instances of that. It's not their fault you thought this was ment to hurt your feelings luv ❤

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selioraxemaia 3 years ago

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Iapetos 3 years ago

0points

Hope in Jesus with Olivia 3 years ago

Offended. Word of the day... Month. ...Year. Decade....

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Kizito 3 years ago

Soooooooo are men going to get their '50 things men call sexist' anytime soon?

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Stephanie Hewitt 3 years ago

No one claimed all men were guilty, that's dismissive and a copout. Also there was no man bashing in the article. Might want to examine why your response was so defensive.

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Keira Conway 3 years ago

0points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Cool so now you know how we constantly feel.

0points

Tracy Sellars 3 years ago

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Iapetos 3 years ago

There are tons of instances on BP where they list the accomplishments of men! You just turn a blind eye on those, don't you?

7points

Si 3 years ago

At least they are explicit. The anti women threads here are more insidious. Disguised as empowering invitations to readers to troll women for their interests and decisions.

7points

William Abler-Ramirez 3 years ago

THANK YOU

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Ren Karlej 3 years ago

Ryan Deschanel - shut up with your utter crap about abortions.

5points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

"A few people"? If you are that naïve, then you are part of the problem. You CAN be blamed for not helping fix the problem, and turning a blind eye to all the crap that goes on.

3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Good thing that didn’t happen. So why don’t you care about women’s issues?

1point

YoyoSthlm 3 years ago

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

When you share a thought that people believe is wrong, they will tell you that it is wrong. That's how free speech works... or did you think that only you are allowed to share your thoughts?

2points

Doggo Froggo 3 years ago

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Iggy 3 years ago

Are you for real? That thing that just flew past your head is the point of this article.

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Nah it’s just that you don’t care about issues minorities experience. You can only see yourself, so, naturally you’ll always be a victim.

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago (edited)

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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Then you need to read it again because you are the exact kind of person who this is for. It isn’t about you and your trashy opinion. This is about women. Get over yourself.

9points

Si 3 years ago (edited)

So you do your fair share of domestic work, don’t consume misogynist porn and your girlfriend /wife isn’t on hormone suppressing medication?

1point

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Saara . 3 years ago

Which ones? Half is a lot

9points