THIS! As a gay man I have showered naked with men after sports and never felt an uncontrollable urge to hop on them. Its not difficult.

well some men are also f*****g sick in their head, i have had guys do all sort of stuff towards me that would be considered assault, but because "we are friends, being drunk and having fun" its all good right?, these are people i dont see anymore, but the way they treated me, told me exactly how they would treat women, and probably even worse for the women. also some deranged men see women as objects rather then actual human beings. i hate that a woman has to be on her toes constantly just because men are f*****g disgusting. i have had several female friends sleep at my place while too drunk, could never imagine betraying that kinda trust, i am just happy that my female friends were trusting enough in me to see my place as a safe place, i truely wish all guys would act like that, but i guess thats just wishful thinking.

F*****G THANKYOU. Somebody had to say this.

Points for the title. COSIGN COSIGN COSIGN!!! (straight/bicurious myself)

If you really want to see this in action, go to a strip club where there are horny men and horny lesbians. The men are all pigs about it and the women aren't. Sure both groups get rowdy. The both will tip the dancer and buy her drinks and the expectation is always that the dancer will owe them sex in some form. The difference is when she says no to the women, they accept it and there are no issues unlike the men who will stalk the dancer, prey upon her simply because they believe it's their privilege as men. I have seen this over and over and over again. It's sickening what men think their privilege is because they have dangly bits.

I think they compaired lesbians to men not because men are the only gender who rape but because both lesbians and straight men are attracted to ladys but i can see why it could have been taken the wrong wa i had to re-read it a cupple times cuz at first i was like wa- then i was like oooooooooooo also i'm 12 no offence it shouldn't be that hard for grown people to figrue it out if i can and also stop down voting people for speaking their minds also women can wear what they want just as men can but yes it does put them at a higher risk of being sexuliy harrased. before poeple start down voting me hear me out i am a sexual assault surviver so yes being in that sistuation made it hard for me to trust straight men but not all men are the same don't be so judgey and get to know someone not their gender you'll find not everyone is the same.

Im straight and I can controll myself when I see a boy shirtless. It is quite simple

Why is everyone getting downvoted too hell for speaking out?

Bill Newsome, that comment makes no sense. Men and women are NOT different in what arouses us.

If men can control themselves in strip clubs but can’t on the high street, the problem is not lack of control

I’m bi but I like girls so it still counts. I mean I see a girl showing her shoulders I’m not gonna rape her bc “it’s distracting” I mean it’s rare I even notice.

thats on PERIODDDDD

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Let's increase your testosterone levels by, oh, say the medical biological difference of approximately 2000% and see if you have a tenth of the control the guys still have.

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Could also be a simple habit effect. If you are exposed to a stimulus for a long time, it loses part of its effect.

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Maybe it’s about testosterone...

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That may be true for you, but not everybody else.

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I would like to say that in my experience this is not true. I worked as a club DJ back in the 90's and did a few nights at a gay club. When straight men came in they would get hit on and say they were straight and that was the end of it. If a straight women came in no matter how many times they said they were straight they would be hounded. I night one of my friends had to be escorted out by the bouncers because they would not give her 5 minutes rest and she kept getting touched.

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The problem is the physiology: Physical arousal triggers the reproduction instinct for men while women can be physically aroused without that in mind. No defend for A-holes that think that's an excuse

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As a straight man, I have never understood why men feel the need to make certain comments, blatantly stare, and just act rude and perverted. As a person with a functional brain, I've never understood why some women will wear an outfit that intentionally shows off 99% of their body, then act disgusted by any form of attention. I mean, you can't be wearing an outfit like that because it's comfortable can you?

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Yes, true but men hormones are significantly stronger and different than women (even if you are a gay woman). Women are stronger in that aspect. But men (not all) can be weak either way but reveling clothes are like a confirmation or a way to make bad temptations worse. If you dress really revealing, knowing that it will lead a man to think or even act wrongly. It is partially your fault, if you are putting yourself out there very inappropriately yes it's wrong. Men, have those urges for one or two reasons. Because we as a human race are ment to reproduce. And dressing very revealing way can be a make a guys think or act strange becouse its nature... well sorta. It can also be becauseif Sin. Women can feel that way too. It's wrong both ways. But yes 100%. Men need to control thier mind, thoughts, body and soul. Men can think wrongly even if women are dressed very modest but that doesn't give you the excuse to make it worse. Some are extra crazy becouse of a mental illness and/or Sin. It perverts the mind and takes mother nature to the extremes and twists what was once good into selfishness. Pray for those guys

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I've been harassed by lesbians?