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Video Of Steam Rising From Woman’s Head Due To Menopause Sparks Empathy And Confusion
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Video Of Steam Rising From Woman’s Head Due To Menopause Sparks Empathy And Confusion

Video Of Steam Rising From Woman's Head Due To Menopause Sparks Empathy And ConfusionViral Video Of Woman’s Head Fuming From A Menopausal Hot Flash Sparks Empathy And Confusion OnlineSteam Rises From Woman’s Head During Hot Flash In Stadium, Baffling Men But Resonating With WomenFootball Fan Goes Viral After Posting Footage Of Steam Coming From Her Head During Menopausal Moment“Every Man Needs To See This”: Video Of Woman’s Head Steaming Due To Menopause Goes Viral
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Footage of a woman with her head literally fuming went viral, with shocked netizens trying to figure out what caused her to expel steam while sitting in a football stadium.

The video was posted on TikTok by the steaming lady herself, Tracey Monique, last Wednesday (October 30). In it, she attributed the smoke coming from her head to a hot flash, a sudden increase in the body’s temperature caused by menopause.

Highlights
  • A woman's viral video showed steam from her head due to a menopause hot flash.
  • Men were puzzled, thinking the video was edited, while women related with empathy.
  • Hot flashes affect up to 8 in 10 menopausal women in the U.S., experts say
  • Monique's video raised menopause awareness, sparking discussions on its effects.

“Every menopausal woman is feeling you right now!” one user wrote, echoing the many reactions Monique’s video garnered from women who empathized with her condition. “That’s right, ma’am. We are literally furnaces!” another joked.

Men, on the other hand, were utterly baffled by the phenomenon, with some believing the footage was the result of video editing or filters, much to the amusement of Monique’s female viewership.

Footage of a woman emanating large amounts of smoke from her head went viral, leaving male netizens baffled

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Monique’s female viewers immediately recognized the phenomenon, with many stating that they had experienced its symptoms firsthand.

Hot flashes, as they are commonly called, are frequent symptoms of menopause, the period in a woman’s life when her ovaries stop producing hormones and menstrual periods end—a byproduct of the hormonal fluctuations it causes.

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The sudden heat wave primarily affects the upper body, especially the face, neck, and chest. It’s accompanied by sweating, an increased heart rate, flushed skin, and, as Monique showcased, the release of steam in cold climates.

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According to Dr. Cynthia Abraham, an Ob-Gyn at the Icahn School of Medicine in New York, hot flashes affect as many as 8 in 10 menopausal women in the United States.

“Hot flashes usually happen at least daily. In fact, about a third of women have more than ten hot flashes per day,” she explained. “For some, hot flashes feel mild, but for others, they are more severe and may seriously disrupt day-to-day life.”

Gynecologists recommend a combination of lifestyle changes and hormonal intervention to manage the effects of menopause

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For Abraham, it’s essential to make specific lifestyle changes to manage the effects of these sudden heat waves. “It’s important to wear layered clothing so women can easily take them off to cool down,” she stated.

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“Certain foods, such as those with spicy ingredients, and drinks with alcohol or caffeine are also best avoided,” Abraham pointed out. Conversely, she recommends eating tofu, soy, and certain herbs to help alleviate symptoms.

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If lifestyle and dietary changes prove ineffective, gynecologists recommend a hormonal replacement protocol. This protocol includes the intake of exogenous estrogen, which helps the body regulate its temperature more effectively by bringing hormone levels back to their pre-menopausal state.

Abraham also pointed to a more controversial solution: antidepressants, and antiseizure medications. “Some are effective for the treatment of hot flashes. These are called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs),” she added.

“Another prescription, an antiseizure medication called gabapentin, has helped my patients manage their hot flashes.”

Researchers explained how estrogen levels are critical in regulating the body’s temperature, with lower levels increasing the likelihood of overregulation

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Medical literature has discussed the importance of estrogen in regulating heat in humans. A 2021 study conducted by the University of California explained how, when hormonal levels drop, the hypothalamus—described as the body’s internal thermostat—becomes more sensitive to body temperature changes.

When the hypothalamus thinks the body is too warm, it signals the heart, blood vessels, and nervous system to cool down. Conversely, if it believes the body is too cold, it reacts by increasing heart palpitations, which usually leads to feelings of discomfort and anxiety in menopausal women.

@pleezebfreeHot and Hungry. Hot Flashes are annoying and rude.♬ original sound – Tracey Monique

The study also revealed the importance of estrogens for heat dissipation, which is directly related to the steam emanating from Tracey Monique’s head. “Estrogens affect heat dissipation by regulating cutaneous vasoconstriction and fluid vaporization,” the paper explains. 

“Estrogens also alter evaporative heat loss, which includes sweating in humans, panting in dogs, and salivation in rodents.”

Tracey Monique’s hot flash not only caused confusion, laughter, and surprise but also served as a way to increase awareness about the effects of menopause

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As Monique’s video reached more and more people on social media, it had the unintentional effect of increasing awareness about menopause and its uncomfortable effects, such as hot flashes, on women.

“I gotta call my mom and apologize for making fun of her,” one viewer wrote, to which Monique responded: “Please do.”

“Wait, is this for real? I’ve never seen this before,” a female user said. “Oh, just you wait, my sweet summer child. It’ll happen to you, too,” another replied.

“I feel like I needed to see this to prepare,” said one viewer.

“This should be in the menopausal handbook, so they know what we’re going through!”

Bored Panda has contacted Tracey Monique for comment.

“Every man needs to see this,” wrote one user, as others joined in to raise awareness about the effects of menopause

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As a visual editor in the News team, I look for the most interesting pictures and comments to make each post interesting and informative through images, so that you aren't reading only blocks of text. I joined Bored Panda not that long ago, but in this short amount of time I have covered a wide range of topics: from true crime to Taylor Swift memes (my search history is very questionable because of that).In my freetime, I enjoy spending time at the gym, gaming, binging Great British Bake Off and adding yet another tattoo artist that I would love to get a tattoo from to my pinterest board.

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Karina Babenok

Author, BoredPanda staff

As a visual editor in the News team, I look for the most interesting pictures and comments to make each post interesting and informative through images, so that you aren't reading only blocks of text. I joined Bored Panda not that long ago, but in this short amount of time I have covered a wide range of topics: from true crime to Taylor Swift memes (my search history is very questionable because of that).In my freetime, I enjoy spending time at the gym, gaming, binging Great British Bake Off and adding yet another tattoo artist that I would love to get a tattoo from to my pinterest board.

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Arabiata Arabiata
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I read the comments above, we, man, don't care about women, we have no simple idea what menopause is and how it affects women's health. We die of a simple flu and deliberately do not do medical research to alleviate the effects of menopause.

distant_echo
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep! I'm just sitting at my desk at work, minding my own business, then, whoosh! The heat washes over me from head to toe, sweat pouring out of every pore. Getting ready in the morning is a nightmare. And they come out of nowhere.

Surly Scot
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother's menopause lasted years, her mood swings were awful, she became short tempered, abusive, violent, and her emotional control/maturity degraded away to nothing. Everyone walked on eggshells around her, living with her was a nightmare as you never knew what was going to set her off. I've dreaded the assurity of the menopause my entire life, absolutely terrified i'll change personality like she did.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HRT is your friend here! A lot of that can be mitigated today with medication. Also, it’s much more talked about now so there’s a lot more support

Load More Replies...
Happenstance
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife wanted to die, serious brain fog, depression and anhedonia. She started HRT and felt 90% better. It was shocking the difference it made for her. We need more awareness about this serious life altering transition every woman goes through. I’m a woman too and I am dreading it.

Ebony
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause is a B$#@=! Not enough help available for us women because men don't get it. But, there are more options available to us than it was 20+ years ago. It's progress, just not enough.

Mark Childers
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women suffer so much due to hormones, and republicans are trying to make it harder on them to get treatment. My mother suffered a lot due to menopause.

Ms.GB
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My glasses always steam up. I'll be in the grocery store with my reading glasses on my head or in the Dr's office trying to read on my phone and I can't see anything. I feel like I need 2 tiny little window wipers.

James Frail
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, so explain how the 19 year old guy I knew in college had the same phenomenon. Pretty sure he wasn't going through menopause.

Joey Marlin
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It can happen to men - though like women it's usually when they're older. Hormonal changes (usually more slowly) can cause men to have hot flushes and night sweats.

Load More Replies...
Ben Aziza
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have read about this but seeing a visual representation is...more powerful... For no fault of your own, you start steaming like a professional athlete after a training session... Hormone replacement therapy can not only alleviate the heat/mood symptoms, but it has an IMMENSE reduction of mortality...(I assume some of it is due to the fact the women who can afford this are from well off places in the first world so the data is not perfect) Still if you can reintroduce the same hormone balance you had before menopause. It can be very beneficial. Even for men who get lower Testosterone as they age!... I cant wait until we crack and decipher the DNA code. So can actually fix all these b******t bugs...

ROSESARERED
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hor flushes are our own personal volcano. I can be fine one moment, and the next throwing off blankets, clothes, whatever. Stick me in a block of ice and it would melt instantly. Add the insomnia, random pains, brusing easily, and going to the toilet more often...atttggg. I can't wait for menopause to be done, have a few years uet

Id row
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause lasts for 5 f'ing years and the hot flashes are no joke. I could almost handle them if they didn't come with a crippling anxiety attack. No one talks about how brutal meno is, I had no idea it was this awful. I did go on an SSRI for the feelings of intense anger that would just fester, which helped a lot, but not with the hot flashes or anxiety. menoplause...ecf28f.jpg menoplause-67253d0ecf28f.jpg

Leigh James
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For many women menopause lasts more than 5 years. Lucky you that you only had to suffer through 5 years; I'm jealous or is it menopause envy?

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Cathy Lemay
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through perimenopause one steamy summer. I couldn't keep my hair dry for at least a month. I spent about 6 months dripping at night. There was no relief offered and changing diet and lifestyle did diddly squat. I don't have sweats or undo discomfort now. I'm actually very relieved to be finished with it all.

Mark Childers
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister had hot flashes and night sweats so bad that they caused her blood pressure to spike into dangerous levels and panic attacks. Some of her night sweats would last for hours, and she became disoriented. It took a long time to finally get her the medication she needed. She's doing fine now. And not to get political, but if trump is elected, women like my sister are going to have a harder and harder time getting access to the medication they need. In states where abortion has been banned, ob/gyn doctors are leaving in groves because they can't use their skills. Women in those states will have no healthcare.

Diana Lucas
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause is not fun. The hot flashes could strike quickly and unexpectedly, making me look like I was a lobster in a hot pot with flushed cheeks and sweaty face. Even now, on the backside of it, I still get weirdness from time to time.

Anna Drever
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m through the other side of menopause and the fun part is the hot flushes don’t just stop. Admittedly I don’t have as many, but they still happen. Which is just great. 😬

John Harrison
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every young person, regardless of sex: "Wow, lol, that's crazy, didnt realize hot flashes were that hot!" Headline: "Dopey men need to get a clue!" Lol love ya BP 😁

Scott Rackley
Community Member
2 weeks ago

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"And no men, you can't compare" B***h, I start sweating when it gets over 80, for my whole life not a few years of it. Shut up.

Arabiata Arabiata
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I read the comments above, we, man, don't care about women, we have no simple idea what menopause is and how it affects women's health. We die of a simple flu and deliberately do not do medical research to alleviate the effects of menopause.

distant_echo
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep! I'm just sitting at my desk at work, minding my own business, then, whoosh! The heat washes over me from head to toe, sweat pouring out of every pore. Getting ready in the morning is a nightmare. And they come out of nowhere.

Surly Scot
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother's menopause lasted years, her mood swings were awful, she became short tempered, abusive, violent, and her emotional control/maturity degraded away to nothing. Everyone walked on eggshells around her, living with her was a nightmare as you never knew what was going to set her off. I've dreaded the assurity of the menopause my entire life, absolutely terrified i'll change personality like she did.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HRT is your friend here! A lot of that can be mitigated today with medication. Also, it’s much more talked about now so there’s a lot more support

Load More Replies...
Happenstance
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife wanted to die, serious brain fog, depression and anhedonia. She started HRT and felt 90% better. It was shocking the difference it made for her. We need more awareness about this serious life altering transition every woman goes through. I’m a woman too and I am dreading it.

Ebony
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause is a B$#@=! Not enough help available for us women because men don't get it. But, there are more options available to us than it was 20+ years ago. It's progress, just not enough.

Mark Childers
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women suffer so much due to hormones, and republicans are trying to make it harder on them to get treatment. My mother suffered a lot due to menopause.

Ms.GB
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My glasses always steam up. I'll be in the grocery store with my reading glasses on my head or in the Dr's office trying to read on my phone and I can't see anything. I feel like I need 2 tiny little window wipers.

James Frail
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, so explain how the 19 year old guy I knew in college had the same phenomenon. Pretty sure he wasn't going through menopause.

Joey Marlin
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It can happen to men - though like women it's usually when they're older. Hormonal changes (usually more slowly) can cause men to have hot flushes and night sweats.

Load More Replies...
Ben Aziza
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have read about this but seeing a visual representation is...more powerful... For no fault of your own, you start steaming like a professional athlete after a training session... Hormone replacement therapy can not only alleviate the heat/mood symptoms, but it has an IMMENSE reduction of mortality...(I assume some of it is due to the fact the women who can afford this are from well off places in the first world so the data is not perfect) Still if you can reintroduce the same hormone balance you had before menopause. It can be very beneficial. Even for men who get lower Testosterone as they age!... I cant wait until we crack and decipher the DNA code. So can actually fix all these b******t bugs...

ROSESARERED
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hor flushes are our own personal volcano. I can be fine one moment, and the next throwing off blankets, clothes, whatever. Stick me in a block of ice and it would melt instantly. Add the insomnia, random pains, brusing easily, and going to the toilet more often...atttggg. I can't wait for menopause to be done, have a few years uet

Id row
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause lasts for 5 f'ing years and the hot flashes are no joke. I could almost handle them if they didn't come with a crippling anxiety attack. No one talks about how brutal meno is, I had no idea it was this awful. I did go on an SSRI for the feelings of intense anger that would just fester, which helped a lot, but not with the hot flashes or anxiety. menoplause...ecf28f.jpg menoplause-67253d0ecf28f.jpg

Leigh James
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For many women menopause lasts more than 5 years. Lucky you that you only had to suffer through 5 years; I'm jealous or is it menopause envy?

Load More Replies...
Cathy Lemay
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through perimenopause one steamy summer. I couldn't keep my hair dry for at least a month. I spent about 6 months dripping at night. There was no relief offered and changing diet and lifestyle did diddly squat. I don't have sweats or undo discomfort now. I'm actually very relieved to be finished with it all.

Mark Childers
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister had hot flashes and night sweats so bad that they caused her blood pressure to spike into dangerous levels and panic attacks. Some of her night sweats would last for hours, and she became disoriented. It took a long time to finally get her the medication she needed. She's doing fine now. And not to get political, but if trump is elected, women like my sister are going to have a harder and harder time getting access to the medication they need. In states where abortion has been banned, ob/gyn doctors are leaving in groves because they can't use their skills. Women in those states will have no healthcare.

Diana Lucas
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Menopause is not fun. The hot flashes could strike quickly and unexpectedly, making me look like I was a lobster in a hot pot with flushed cheeks and sweaty face. Even now, on the backside of it, I still get weirdness from time to time.

Anna Drever
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m through the other side of menopause and the fun part is the hot flushes don’t just stop. Admittedly I don’t have as many, but they still happen. Which is just great. 😬

John Harrison
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every young person, regardless of sex: "Wow, lol, that's crazy, didnt realize hot flashes were that hot!" Headline: "Dopey men need to get a clue!" Lol love ya BP 😁

Scott Rackley
Community Member
2 weeks ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

"And no men, you can't compare" B***h, I start sweating when it gets over 80, for my whole life not a few years of it. Shut up.

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