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Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend With A “Traumatizing” Note, People Accuse Her Of Being “Delusional”

Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend With A “Traumatizing” Note, People Accuse Her Of Being “Delusional”

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A woman who dropped everything for her boyfriend of three years to move to Texas, USA with him got brutally dumped. Taking to her TikTok page on October 15, a musician who goes by “Spritely” went viral after sharing a video of a song she made to expose the savage way her ex broke up with her.

In the video, which has since amassed 2.1 million views, Spritely sang about her romantic demise, which came crashing down on her after she decided to leave her old life behind for a man.

She revealed that she used to live in Los Angeles, California with her boyfriend, and that “everything was going amazing,” until he one day told her he wanted to move back to Texas to be closer to his father.

Spritely sang about leaving her career, quitting her improvisation troupe, and even getting a goodbye party, before leaving the City of Angels.

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A woman who dropped everything for her boyfriend of three years to move to Texas, USA with him got brutally dumped

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According to the singer, she also took months off work and depleted her savings in order to pay for movers and drive all the way to Texas.

“It’s so worth it for the love of your life that wants a future with you,” Spritely sang along with photographs of her former life spent with her ex.

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The TikToker went on to reveal that she spent two months moving into a new home in Texas, building furniture, and waiting for her belongings to be delivered, while her at-the-time boyfriend was away on a family vacation.

Image credits: spritelynotthesoda

Upon coming back from his holiday, Spritely revealed that her ex handed her a note that stated that he and she had “nothing in common” and that they were “incompatible.”

“How did I not notice,” the heartbroken woman sang, as she noted that they had been together for three and a half years.

Spritely concluded her song by revealing that she had packed up her belongings and that she had subsequently driven to Florida, in order to move in with her mom.

A musician who goes by “Spritely” went viral after sharing a video of a song she made to expose the savage way her ex broke up with her

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Image credits: spritelynotthesoda

A handful of people were stunned by the song, as a TikTok user commented: “He made you move and then handed you a note?!?! 

“I thought my ex was bad for leaving me to move back in with his mommy. You win.”

A person wrote: “Can’t you sue him for something.”

Image credits: spritelynotthesoda

Someone else penned: “Boyfriends aren’t husbands. Don’t build your life around someone who hasn’t actually committed to you.”

A netizen argued: “HIRE AN ATTORNEY!! I DID AND MY EX HAD TO PAY ME FOR A SIMILAR SITUATION!”

A commentator added: “Yes but. . WHAT WAS HER NAME? There 100% was someone else.”

Spritely sang about her romantic demise

@spritelynotthesoda Anyway how have you been?? #breakup #heartbroken #storytime #healing ♬ original sound – spritely

“Take him to court,” a viewer shared.

An observer speculated: “I feel he was telling you HE wanted to move back to Texas and you misunderstood him,” to which Spritely replied: “Well he literally did say ‘*i* want to move back to Texas’ and I was like ‘oooookkayyyy way to spring this on me, do youuu want me to come with you..?’

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“& he said yes. But I think he hadn’t fully processed his feelings on the matter. I get it, I’ve been the dumper before, I know it’s hard&confusing. But OMFG do it BEFORE I MOVE, GOSH.”

Image credits: spritelynotthesoda

A separate individual chimed in: “Send him the moving costs and furniture to pay. If he don’t, sue him and claim he used you.”

In a follow-up video on TikTok, the content creator admitted that she wished she had handed the note “right back to him” at the time, and that she was left in disbelief.

“Whatever you think, this is isn’t happening,” Spritely said. “I just moved across the country for you, literally a month ago. We committed to a future together.”

She revealed that she used to live in Los Angeles, California with her boyfriend, and that “everything was going amazing”

@spritelynotthesoda Replying to @Tracy the insane thing is that I wish I hadn’t let him to this TO HIMSELF let alone me. Its such a tragedy #breakup #update ♬ original sound – spritely

She further revealed: “We very explicitly talked about this and committed to it. Now is not the time to give in to the doubts. You had time and you didn’t.”

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Spritely went on to assert that her ex was a “good man” as well as a “good person with morals” and that the way he had broken up with her was “so out of character for him.”

The TikToker said her ex’s note suggested they talk about their issues for a week, acknowledging that they might still break up.

Image credits: spritelynotthesoda

Spritely sang about leaving her career, quitting her improvisation troupe, and even getting a goodbye party

@spritelynotthesoda Replying to @Elisabeth surprise!! 🤠#breakup #horrorstory #update ♬ original sound – spritely

@spritelynotthesoda #duet with @spritely obviously didnt work out but I think it’s safe to say this is the most insane story of my life start to finish 😑😑😑 #breakup #horrorstory #love #heartbroken #storytime #BookTok ♬ Run For Your Money by Spritely – spritely

Amid a growing number of viewers suggesting that Spritely had simply “ignored” certain signs, or that she had misunderstood her ex’s intentions by announcing he wanted to move to Texas, the TikToker clarified the situation in another video.

“Y’all acting like I just showed up in Texas and said, ‘surprise!’” Spritely said. “I’m not even gonna talk about that one. I’ll just let you figure it out.”

While admitting that she was still “f*****g furious,” the TikToker revealed that her ex was going to pay for the moving costs and reimburse various expenses.

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“My heart breaks for you, girl,” a reader commented

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Alexandra
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5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took him 3 years to find out they were incompatible and have nothing in common? A slow learner, for sure. Also, I don't quite agree with people who tell OP that since she's not married, she shouldn't have sacrificed so much. You should never sacrifice too much, married or not. You are never obliged to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

BeesEelsAndPups
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1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You said exactly what I was thinking, but far more eloquently than I ever could. Marriage is no guarantee that you won't be left adrift. It only gives you some legal safeguards, like alimony and child support.

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Marketable
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3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Note from a lover; restraining order from a target; there is no difference. The pain of having loved him too much is real.

Weetikveel
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5 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This poor guy. She just dumps it on internet. Go whine in private. This is putting someone under pressure to just go with it and stay together cause they're gonna whine when you break up and then your whole life is miserable.

BeesEelsAndPups
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1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no idea who this dude actually is. I don't know what he looks like. He's still pretty anonymous. People who actually know him, will be able to figure out who she's talking about, but they'd likely hear about it anyways.

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Alexandra
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5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took him 3 years to find out they were incompatible and have nothing in common? A slow learner, for sure. Also, I don't quite agree with people who tell OP that since she's not married, she shouldn't have sacrificed so much. You should never sacrifice too much, married or not. You are never obliged to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You said exactly what I was thinking, but far more eloquently than I ever could. Marriage is no guarantee that you won't be left adrift. It only gives you some legal safeguards, like alimony and child support.

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Marketable
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3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Note from a lover; restraining order from a target; there is no difference. The pain of having loved him too much is real.

Weetikveel
Community Member
5 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This poor guy. She just dumps it on internet. Go whine in private. This is putting someone under pressure to just go with it and stay together cause they're gonna whine when you break up and then your whole life is miserable.

BeesEelsAndPups
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1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no idea who this dude actually is. I don't know what he looks like. He's still pretty anonymous. People who actually know him, will be able to figure out who she's talking about, but they'd likely hear about it anyways.

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