The irony of them moaning about him getting his missus to help fight his battles whilst them running to her mom to see if she'll help them with theirs.

What an horrible horrible family that is. Slashing tires "as a prank"? F**k them. I would involve some authorities on them and make them pay the damage they had done.

Blame on the family, but also on the girl herself. I have a racist a*****e family that loves to bully around others, and I'd never even consider letting any friend or boyfriend I have get near to them, let alone leaving them alone with someone I know. Girl should cut ties with her family and run as far as she can, these men are toxic - I'd have already kicked their asses the time they slashed his tires, if not already way before.

Asthmatic here as well a my 2 sisters. THAT IS NOT A PRANK..That is a sure fire way of killing someone if they are a chronic asthmatic. Agree that the O.P. let this go on way too long. Slashing tires?! Not only would I terminate the relationship with the entire family INCLUDING the fiancé, but would file a report with the police. Both seem to be too young even get married.

Pranking means everyone laughs. You can't laugh if you can't breathe. Not a prank. Cruel. End of. Run, girl, run. I ran. No regrets.

Would they have hidden his insulin? His seizure meds? His blood pressure meds? ( If he took these, I'm saying) they should have both kicked butt out of the gate. They wanted to test they have a result. Busted family. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Sounds like she needs to choose between her family and her fiance, because there is no way she can have a relationship with both.

Horrible people.

They slashed his tires that makes them all @$$holes alone. But to steal (or hide) someone's emergency medical equipment that's F#&*ed up beyond belief. Personally I think the fiancee should have made a police report about the inhaler. And I'm with the bride stay strong and keep them off the guest list

I would've run a mile before it even got that far. Slashing his tires, wtf? I hate when people justify shitty behaviour with "it was just a joke!". Her family are a bunch of dickheads.

So, lemme get this straight: these guys act like little children picking on the new kid at school ... to see how MANLY he is? And put his HEALTH at risk as well as cost him hundreds of dollars...? Forget about the wedding, I would have stopped talking to them years before. What horrible people they are.

"Soft college kid", yes because the way to make it in the modern world as a man is by being the toughest caveman around. What a sad little group of chip-on-the-shoulder underachievers.

Them relatives sound like real a-holes.

Life is hard enough as it is, and it puts us on the test constantly. There should be no need to set up extra problems for people in order to test their character. That kind of behaviour is not testing, it is harasment ment to drive your fiancy out of their lives. People that are not trying to help, but instead actively make your life more difficult, is not worth socialising with. Someone ought to have told them so long time ago, as they do not have the bride-to-be's best interest at heart.

Seriously messed up . I didn't read anything I'd regard as a prank . The men in that family are below assholes .... way below . Slashed tyres or just deflated ? Slashed is just vandalism ... nothing prank-like in that . I could go on but no need ... everyone can see they're a bunch of d***s .

This family is a nightmare. I set the precedent a long time ago that my husband comes first- you mess with him, you have to deal with me. If it's MY family pulling this s**t, I would come UNGLUED. An attack on my partner is an attack on me. Same for my husband and his family. What a bunch of A-holes

NTA, and please for the love of God, do not let any of these men around any of your future children either.

If they finally mange to kill the guy, they won't be invited to a wedding anyway....they'll be attending a funeral. They're a bit old to learn that actions have consequences, but don't blame yourself for showing them that this is indeed true.

As a registered nurse for over 40 years, I have seen patients with asthma DIE from not having access to their inhalers. This is absolutely and unequivocally CRIMINAL! Beyond disinviting these bullies from her wedding, her fiancé should bring criminal charges against these sad excuses for men! Slashing tires? Depending on the vehicle, this could have cost Tim anywhere from $200 to over $2000 to replace! CRIMINAL! Stealing and hiding an inhaler from someone who suffers from asthma? CRIMINAL! When criminals commit crimes, they should do the time. Plain and simple. Jail time, including restitution for damaged property, anguish and severe anxiety, sounds like an adequate sentence for CRIMINALS!

Toxic masculinity does not care what sex you are, it just wants to bully you

NTA for not wanting those assholes on your big day! Hope your husband is well!

This woman’s family sound like total arseholes. Best to ditch them while you can. Who needs this nonsense. The idea that you stick to family no matter what is absolute horseshit. I’ve broken ties with much of my family and do not regret it for a second. Who needs people like that - related or not.

Pranking is the absolute worst excuse for a**ho*** and abusers. It is so ridiculous. These non-humans should be shunned. Gross

Honestly if people put the life of the person I love in danger, knowingly and with no good reason, they would be uninvited from my life.

This is what they call "toxic masculinity" which is usually a cover for massive insecurity. I get really pissed how movies and TV portray people with asthma. They always portray them having to use an inhaler as "weakness" and show them doing it completely wrong and in an annoying manner whenever they get stressed. And when the character finally "mans" up the somehow no longer seem to have asthma. Those writers need to die and burn in hell.

I got one paragraph in before it was blatantly obvious NOT the ahole. That ladies family are a bunch of effin jackasses. Secretly slashed his tires? That's not funny! I cannot stand "pranking families" because it's just another way of saying "yep we're all assholes"

I can't really express how much I loathe this whole "pranking" b******t. That is just glorified bullying.

As an asthmatic i can understand your boyfriends fury , it's life and death stuff not a prank or joke

You are TA for letting them do all this, not for uninviting them. You seriously let them slash his tires? What kind of family is this?

This is toxic bullying, escalating to criminal damage (tires). The inhaler theft could put his health at risk, and what if he had had a severe asthma attack without immediate access to his inhaler? He literally could have died. Good on him for having the sense to remove himself from the situation.

Slashing tires isn't a prank, tires are expensive and they expect him to just replace it. That shouldn't be normalized. Also they hid life-saving medicine from him. That is just awful.

Wow. Those assholes are really over-compensating for low self-esteem and/or other issues or something. Seriously, who calls all that toxic b******t 'pranks'? It sounds like they need constant validation about their manhood by putting other people down. But, sure, Tim is the 'soft' one.

These "men" have obviously never had to fight rising panic while also trying to control their limited breathing.

First up, that's good old fashioned bullying. Winkers