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“Close Your Legs”: Woman Exposing Infuriating Manspreading On Her 1-Hour Flight Sparks Outrage
“Close Your Legs”: Woman Exposing Infuriating Manspreading On Her 1-Hour Flight Sparks Outrage
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“Close Your Legs”: Woman Exposing Infuriating Manspreading On Her 1-Hour Flight Sparks Outrage

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A woman was the victim of some serious manspreading. Sandwiched between two ill-mannered men, Erin Rempel, the woman in question, had to endure a one-hour flight imprisoned in the middle seat of a plane. Taking to her TikTok page on August 10, Erin shared a now-viral video exposing the incident.

In the video, which has since amassed over 17 million views, Erin filmed her legs crammed up and totally trapped in her seat, while the two other passengers sitting on each side of her were comfortably “manspreading.”

Highlights
  • Erin Rempel shared a viral TikTok video of her enduring manspreading on a one-hour flight between two men.
  • The video exposing the incident has amassed over 17 million views and sparked significant discussion.
  • Erin expressed her distress in the caption, questioning why anyone would need that much room as she failed to get the men to move.
  • Erin hesitated to confront the offenders due to fear of being followed home, highlighting concerns for personal safety.
  • Researcher Begonya Enguix emphasized the importance of addressing sexist practices like manspreading to drive social change.

Manspreading is a term used to describe a man sitting with his legs spread wide apart in public, taking up too much space and intruding on others. It’s often used in reference to men sitting on public transport, such as buses or trains.

Erin wrote over the infuriating clip: “female rage,” in reference to a trend on TikTok used to express the uninhibited anger of women and to challenge gendered stereotypes about women’s emotions. 

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    A woman was the victim of some serious manspreading

    Image credits: Brett Sayles (not the actual photo)

    The phrase “female rage” is often used to describe how women express anger in pop culture, such as in music or movies.

    Moreover, the trend has become a way for women to share their experiences and sympathize with one another. 

    The situation was undoubtedly uncomfortable, both mentally and physically, for Erin, who works as a model and measures 184 cm (6′ 0½”), according to her agency’s profile.

    Image credits: Athena Sandrini (not the actual photo)

    She echoed her distress in the caption, writing: “Why would anyone EVER need that much room??? I tried to get him to move but he wouldn’t.”

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    While some men attempted to excuse the abhorrent behavior, the vast majority of people came in support of Erin, as a TikTok user commented: “Man spread back with confidence girl.”

    A person wrote: “It’s on purpose, probably to feel you up too. They do it cause you let them, you gotta speak up or they’ll take advantage.”

    Erin Rempel, the woman in question, had to endure a one-hour flight imprisoned in the middle seat of a plane

    Image credits: erinrempel

    “Grab his bawls and twist,” a netizen quipped.

    “As a man, it’s just more comfortable to sit like that,” a viewer attempted to argue. However, cybernauts quickly countered, as someone replied: “Your n*ts ain’t that fat. Close your f*****g legs.”

    @erinrempelwhy would anyone EVER need that much room??? i tried to get him to move but he wouldnt♬ female rage – bel6va

    A woman shared her own experience: “Once when I was on a train I saw a man manspreading so much that he took up two whole seats.”

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    A separate individual chimed in: “‘Accidentally’ drop something really hot on their lap like coffee.”

    On August 19, Erin shared an update on TikTok, clarifying that she didn’t want to “cause a scene” and that her lack of reaction further stemmed from a fear of being followed home by one of the offenders.

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    Taking to her TikTok page on August 10, Erin shared a now-viral video exposing the incident

    Image credits: Kelly (not the actual photo)

    “Everybody telling me to react to a certain way or whatever,” the TikTok said. “Imagine you never know who these people are.”

    She continued: “You never know that they could follow me home after I get off my flight, follow me. You don’t know.

    “Like, it’s a crazy world out here and I was on a flight for an hour. I’m not gonna cause a scene over that and risk that.”

    @erinrempel Replying to @justan_pro ♬ QKThr – Aphex Twin

    The model added: “I don’t wanna risk my safety over that. So sue me for not saying anything.”

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    Challenging people who told her to speak up, Erin concluded: “Why is that my problem? Why is that my responsibility?

    “It is not my responsibility to go out and educate these people. It really is not.”

    In the video, which has since amassed over 17 million views, Erin filmed her legs totally trapped in her seat

    Image credits: erinrempel

    Open University of Catalonia researcher Begonya Enguix emphasized the importance of naming and addressing sexist practices like manspreading and mansplaining to drive social change.

    “The truth is that mansplaining, manspreading, and manterrupting are social practices that have gone unnoticed or been considered normal for many years,” the professor explained in a 2023 article.

    According to Begonya, male intimidation techniques, such as mansplaining or manspreading, affect women of all classes, backgrounds, and levels of education. 

    Image credits: erinrempel

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    She stated: “Being a woman becomes our defining feature, our essential identity. When these mechanisms are at work, the weight, thickness, and rigidity of gender subsumes everything we are and do.”

    Men are assumed to have the right to know and to express themselves without fear of being constantly questioned, and they are also invited to occupy and dominate public space, the professor argued.

    Bored Panda has contacted Erin Rempel for comment.

    Erin’s video continued to ignite different reactions

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    What do you think ?
    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally understand men saying 'It's just more comfortable to sit that way'. I really understand, because it's also more comfortable for women to sit this way too! However, one person's comfort does not allow them the right to encroach on another person's space like this.

    zatrisha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS!!! Most women are simply better educated and used to not getting on the nerves of other people around them.

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    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The comment that said “as a man, it’s just more comfortable to sit that way”: on an airplane, you’re only entitled to the space you paid for, which is your seat. You are not entitled to make someone else uncomfortable and steal their space.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And someone else's comfort does not preclude your own. You only use the space you paid for, period. Anyone claiming it's OK because their anatomy requires it should have to lean away from women next to them. The girls need space too.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, was travelling with my elderly landlord one day and a dude decided to manspread... both were shocked when I said "your balls are not that big, get out of my space"...

    Der Kommissar
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited)

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    Its not the size of the balls, its the fact that with a little sweat, the ballsakk sticks to your thighs.

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    quentariel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's perfectly okay to manspread when and where it doesn't limit other people's space. But in public places it's just undeniably rude.

    doredde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I womanspread back.

    MaggieMay85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women hips are so much stronger, we can womanspread like a beast. Also my fat thighs won’t allow me to be subjected to manspreading, they bounce off.

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    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, had this happen before, I move my legs to take up my space and hold firm. I haven't had to say anything to anyone yet but I don't mind doing so if need be. Every woman has a reason not to speak up about this and, until it happens to you, it's easy to judge. My ex is 6'4" and he NEVER spread like this on a flight, he kept to his space. This guy sat that way for any or all of the following reasons: Intimidation, excuse to touch her, and/or to make himself comfortable regardless of anyone else.

    bravo 20
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Totally. Sometimes other dudes are simply unaware (which is still f***ing rude) BUT these guys, especially the creepy f**k on the right, is basically groping her with his left leg. I'm 99% certain he's a straight-up creep...

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    lenka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens all the f*****g time. I recently had a long haul 14 hour flight seated next to a man who tried to claim half of my leg space as well as as about 10 cm of elbow space protruding over the armrest and into my ribs - before we had even taken off. He had the gall to huff and puff and carry on like a fruit loop when I insisted he remain with the boundaries of his seat.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fug him and good for you for standing up for yourself.

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    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had the same thing happen to me on a train, spread back and said "Excuse me, I paid for my seat just like you, thank you very much." If you say it loud enough, embarassment wins over entitlement and "comfort". I am really sorry you dudes have balls, but that doesn't mean you are entitled to do this on public transport.

    bravo 20
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an absolutely fabulous pair of balls...I don't need to, and I do not, manspread unless I have tons of space and don't affect anyone else

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    Isabel London
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny how (some) guys seem to think this is perfectly reasonable, due to...reasons. However, if the same guys have to sit next to an obese person that spills over onto their seat, whole different story then! "Taking up THEIR space", "should pay for two seats", "shouldn't be allowed to fly if they cannot stay in their own space". Believing it's fine to take up other people's space is only okay when it's benefitting them.

    Meagan Glaser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny how they never manspread when another man is next to them, yet somehow they just can't help it, they don't notice, they don't know it's rude, it's all the woman's fault etc

    Tom Grosman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just not true. Guys manspread next to each other all the time. They get pushed back until an uneasy truce is established (or a fight breaks out).

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally understand men saying 'It's just more comfortable to sit that way'. I really understand, because it's also more comfortable for women to sit this way too! However, one person's comfort does not allow them the right to encroach on another person's space like this.

    zatrisha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS!!! Most women are simply better educated and used to not getting on the nerves of other people around them.

    Load More Replies...
    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The comment that said “as a man, it’s just more comfortable to sit that way”: on an airplane, you’re only entitled to the space you paid for, which is your seat. You are not entitled to make someone else uncomfortable and steal their space.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And someone else's comfort does not preclude your own. You only use the space you paid for, period. Anyone claiming it's OK because their anatomy requires it should have to lean away from women next to them. The girls need space too.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, was travelling with my elderly landlord one day and a dude decided to manspread... both were shocked when I said "your balls are not that big, get out of my space"...

    Der Kommissar
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Its not the size of the balls, its the fact that with a little sweat, the ballsakk sticks to your thighs.

    Load More Replies...
    quentariel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's perfectly okay to manspread when and where it doesn't limit other people's space. But in public places it's just undeniably rude.

    doredde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I womanspread back.

    MaggieMay85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women hips are so much stronger, we can womanspread like a beast. Also my fat thighs won’t allow me to be subjected to manspreading, they bounce off.

    Load More Replies...
    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, had this happen before, I move my legs to take up my space and hold firm. I haven't had to say anything to anyone yet but I don't mind doing so if need be. Every woman has a reason not to speak up about this and, until it happens to you, it's easy to judge. My ex is 6'4" and he NEVER spread like this on a flight, he kept to his space. This guy sat that way for any or all of the following reasons: Intimidation, excuse to touch her, and/or to make himself comfortable regardless of anyone else.

    bravo 20
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Totally. Sometimes other dudes are simply unaware (which is still f***ing rude) BUT these guys, especially the creepy f**k on the right, is basically groping her with his left leg. I'm 99% certain he's a straight-up creep...

    Load More Replies...
    lenka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens all the f*****g time. I recently had a long haul 14 hour flight seated next to a man who tried to claim half of my leg space as well as as about 10 cm of elbow space protruding over the armrest and into my ribs - before we had even taken off. He had the gall to huff and puff and carry on like a fruit loop when I insisted he remain with the boundaries of his seat.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fug him and good for you for standing up for yourself.

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    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had the same thing happen to me on a train, spread back and said "Excuse me, I paid for my seat just like you, thank you very much." If you say it loud enough, embarassment wins over entitlement and "comfort". I am really sorry you dudes have balls, but that doesn't mean you are entitled to do this on public transport.

    bravo 20
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an absolutely fabulous pair of balls...I don't need to, and I do not, manspread unless I have tons of space and don't affect anyone else

    Load More Replies...
    Isabel London
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny how (some) guys seem to think this is perfectly reasonable, due to...reasons. However, if the same guys have to sit next to an obese person that spills over onto their seat, whole different story then! "Taking up THEIR space", "should pay for two seats", "shouldn't be allowed to fly if they cannot stay in their own space". Believing it's fine to take up other people's space is only okay when it's benefitting them.

    Meagan Glaser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny how they never manspread when another man is next to them, yet somehow they just can't help it, they don't notice, they don't know it's rude, it's all the woman's fault etc

    Tom Grosman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just not true. Guys manspread next to each other all the time. They get pushed back until an uneasy truce is established (or a fight breaks out).

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