
“You’re 60, You Shouldn’t Wear That”: 76 Y.O. Woman Claps Back At Her Critics And Her Response Is Inspiring
Despite the fact that every single person who lives long enough inevitably ages and matures, nowadays, there seems to be a somewhat desperate and unhealthy stigma surrounding old age. Which, on the one hand, can be given many explanations, but on the other hand, only serves as a limiting framing of human life. Candace Leslie Cima’s video with 7.4M views on TikTok, where she is answering comments about her sleeveless shirt style choices with “I am 75, actually,” is one of the many ways this woman is setting a good example of a mature and brave approach to maturity and its potential.
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This woman often gets comments like “You are 60, you shouldn’t wear that,” to which she answers: “I am actually 75”
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The woman started her blog at the age of 72, now she is 76 and she keeps sharing her fashion ideas
Candace’s video, sharing a comment on her style that says “you’re 60, you shouldn’t wear that,” got 7.4 million views on TikTok. In the video, Candace is wearing elegant clothes including a sleeveless shirt. The woman’s answer to the comment is: “I am actually 75.” Candace has a whole article on her blog devoted to this sleeveless shirt style element, which is called Woman’s Right to Bare Arms. She explains that she wears a lot of sleeveless tops, and there is always someone who writes to her that women over 60 should not bare their arms.
She reminds her readers that in the 1800s, it was unacceptable for a woman to show her ankles in public, in the 1920s and 1930s, going without a hat was considered very bad taste, while 1940s and 1950s women were often expected to wear gloves. The list goes on. And it only shows that the right to choose one’s outfit without public shaming or even legal measures taken against your outfit shouldn’t be taken for granted.
The woman says it is important to emphasize that it is perfectly normal to have some loose skin on the upper arm, just as it is normal to have wrinkles on your face as you age. “So… you have some loose skin on your arms or some veins on your legs or age spots on your hand… Why is that a bad thing?” She makes a point, saying that it is we who decide whether it is a bad thing and whether we are ashamed of our natural aging process and let others make us feel less than we are.
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Candace Leslie Cima is one of the ambassadors of a mature and, as she herself puts it, brave approach to maturity. The woman shares on her blog that when she was growing up, her mom and dad had a saying framed on the wall, which went as follows: “Getting old isn’t for sissies.” She says as she was young, it was just a joke they laughed about. However, now, at the age of 75, she has come to know the true meaning of that phrase. The topic of aging is not trivial as someone might think it to be. “There are so many intricacies of aging with so many layers to peel back and examine,” she says. Somewhere during the various changes, people experience different emotions, including those that some things dear to them have been stolen from them. According to the woman, this is where the work with one’s attitude begins. Because the approach that one chooses to take to these changes and emotions that come with it shapes that person’s life.
Identifying the source of fear and stigmatization surrounding the phenomenon of aging, two factors can be mentioned, among others. These include changes of various sorts and coming closer to—so far inevitable—death. When it comes to the latter, even though now closer, the end of some sort was always part of the deal, that’s why it’s only logical to come to terms with it. When it comes to various changes, in appearance, in the brain, in one’s family roles, etc., one might agree that a change is always scary for it requires one to adapt to new circumstances. However, refusing to acknowledge it is just the worst technique possible. As change on some level is inevitable for someone who is alive on this Earth, basically, one might say, change is a crucial part of being alive on Earth. The biggest mistake here is thinking that a change should be bad and that changing equals getting worse.
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One good step to be taken toward fighting the youth cult in Western countries is analyzing the myths that surround aging, and changing our behavior from that which reproduces those myths to a kind that actually embraces maturity, its advantages, and its potential. Candace Cima shares her view: “I don’t want to hang onto years that have passed. I am excited to see what is to come! I am still learning new things about myself.”
Oliver Burkeman brings up a criticism raised by Susan Neiman in her book “Why Grow Up? Subversive Thoughts For an Infantile Age”. Even though, at the moment, there is a huge societal emphasis on youthfulness, this wasn’t always the case. It is our culture that has redefined growing up as nothing but a question of decline. We are “ceaselessly pressing upon 16-to-26-year-olds the message that these are the best years of their lives,” which has to do with the evolutionary arguments. However, as noted by Neiman, a person’s goal is not “to maximize reproduction, whatever may be said of one’s genes.”
One of the many arguments showing the other side of maturity is mature people’s shown ability to do better and faster at “seeing the bigger picture”. Additionally, contrary to common belief, people are shown to not be happier in their twenties: most people, at that age, “are on the downward slope of the ‘happiness U-bend’, with higher satisfaction to come.” Among other things, this has to do with mature people’s ability for better emotional regulation and overall more positive approach to the world, based on a study by M. Mather and L. Carstensen. Burkeman notes that Neiman discusses growing up as taking critically those youthful ideals that do not take reality into consideration, while at the same time not giving into the cynicism.
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@lifeinmy70s Fashion is for everyone! Reinventing yourself as you age isn’t changing who you are, it just means finding things that work with who you are now. #aginggracefully#aging#aginggracefullyover50♬ original sound – :(
The woman’s video got 7.4M views on TikTok, and the commenters are fascinated with her style, calling it fabulous.
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Share on FacebookShe looks great, not sure what's even remotely inappropriate about any of those outfits 🤷🏼♂️
She looks fantastic! What are 75-year-olds supposed to wear? Potato sacks?
Load More Replies...Honestly, I don’t believe in gatekeeping fashion (whether it’s by age, gender, nationality or other). As an example; I’m a 34YO “Aspie” & I love wearing bright colours, as well as having clothes with cute animations like “Pokémon”, etcetera. I know for a fact that this will never change for me as I get older. Honestly, I don’t care what people might think about me, because my Aspergers gives me a free pass to embrace the things I love & feel no shame about it whatsoever. Anyone who doesn’t like it; I’d say that’s more their problem than mine. 🤷♀️🙂
I'm 41 and I dress the same way XD All of my t-shirts have kittens, puppies, cute dragons, etc. on them, or Ghibli movie characters, anime, etc. My favorite jeans are off Amazon and have a snarling wolf on them. In the summer I wear men's cargo shorts from Costco that I've embroidered and ironed cute patches onto. I embarrass and shame my mother on the regular; she adopted me at birth expecting a "girly girl". I am not, and never have been. XD We should all feel free to wear whatever we want to, as long as we're being situationally appropriate! (I wore a dress to brunch with my family last week, but I was able to express myself with cute accessories and pins and a barely-appropriate necklace XD )
Load More Replies...Absolutely everything she’s wearing is age appropriate! She’s not wearing crop tops and Daisy Dukes, ffs! Not one bit of it makes her look like she’s trying to compete with the 20 year olds. Every picture shows her wearing clothing that is classicly styled and well-fitting. The clothes actually make her not only look younger, but the classic styling also makes her look elegantly old money rich, and the fact that she’s kept herself healthy and in good shape to boot makes her look 15 years younger than she actually is. Candace, you are what I want to be when I get to your age. Any grumblers out there who want her to wear dumpy old lady clothes can just go f**k themselves.
What is she supposed to wear? She looks fabulous for 75. I’m 52 and I wear whatever I damn please. I don’t care about other’s opinions, if I feel good in it, I’ll wear it
Yeah, I'm calling BS on her for this one. It's either one or two commenters on TikTok or literally no one
Load More Replies...She's not even dressing unlike a grandmother? Who is saying these things to her? She looks very elegant and classy.
Wear what you like as long as it isn't indecent. My mother and grandmother had so many silly rules. Only grey, brown and beige after 35. No slacks EVER., etc.
The fact that people think it's inappropriate to wear that just because she is "old" SHE IS ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS, and when I'm that age, I aspire to have that beautiful taste in fashion. She is an icon!!
I bet people her age definitely say awful things. Sometimes our perspective are clouded by our immediate surroundings. I know my grandmother's friends can be very nasty about what people wear at 80/90. Showing arms, showing chest, wearing heels. People can be cruel, and jealous, and seniors think age gives them the right to do it.
Load More Replies...I don't see anything age related to her clothing choices. They are tasteful stylish pieces. It isn't like she is wearing halters and daisy dukes. Ppl honestly expect older ppl to be wearing what this day and age?
Idk but I doubt more than maybe a couple people online have actually said anything
Load More Replies...If you can fit it and it fits the occasion (no sweat pants to a formal dinner, not wearing white to a wedding unless it's pre approved, no skimpy clothes to ur kids school etc.) then wear it! No body buys your clothes so nobody but you should be able to approve or disapprove of your style choices <3 I dress like a mechanic at work, like I'm 17 most other times and I can go from girly to gothic to I don't care at least I showed up in a blink of an eye and I'm 40!
I love her valentine's dress! And I wear what I want, as long as it is appropriate like you said.
Load More Replies...Gosh, she looks so comfortable in her own skin. And her outfits are absolutely on-point.
Bruh she looks better than me on a good day and I'm 21.... who cares what age you are, if you got it flaunt it. Not everyone has such a great sense of style.
My grandmother was 85 and she dressed practically the same. She looked gorgeous. I used to say she was my very own queen Elizabeth. She passed on March 1st. I miss her so much.
I'm 43, and if I looked as good as her now I'd be walking around naked all day, every day.
She looks fantastic. Haters are always gonna hate, it's all they have. Hope she has many more years of being absolutely fabulous!
Wow, she looks fabulous! Wear what makes you happy! I'm in my 40's and still a punk/goth at heart, so I have blue hair and wear skulls on everything. Do what makes you happy and wear what you feel comfortable in!
She looks fantastic and next to some of my 71 years old Mom's outfits, a bit too conservative 😉
stunning looks at this age, but prolly has relevant budget to spend too
She looks wonderful! You can see her confidence shining through in every photo. I thought she actually looked better in the more youthful outfits than in the "age appropriate" ones. (My only criticism is a minor one: after a certain age, black eyeliner and heavy, dark eye makeup adds years to your face because it makes the eyes look hollowed and droopy.)
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I wish my arms looked like hers, mine are the saggy, crepey, ones
Think you’re all missing the point here,,,,,,the outfits she ziS wearing on these photos IS WHAT WE, SENIOR LADIES, SHOULD BE Wearing!!!! And. tHEYRE GREAT!
The best part about getting older is not giving a toss what anyone else thinks about your style.
Love her style! Very classy! Just because you're older doesn't mean you have to wear boring clothes! She looks fantastic!
Lots of folks just don't take care of themselves. this lady did and does. The process is best started, right now. My best male friend is pushing 85 and has the enthusiasm, grit and appearance of someone decades younger. Those who have not taken care of themselves shall quibble. Bad Karma. Agreed with all Candace believes. She be awesome.
You are a classy dresser. Nobody would guess you are 75. Keep up the good work. Keep putting out ideas for outfits.
Stunning woman. She rocks those outfits much better than twenty something models .
I think you look Fabulous! Your fashion choices are Amazing... keep looking your Best!
Went to the movies and was cussed out by a young person for asking them to “please watch the movie, stop talking and stay off the phone” he told me… you need some d:@&), you 50 year old b@:!)@!!! Was so flattered, I’m 62! Refuse to hear age shaming for my hair or outfits! I can finally afford to dress how I desire!!! You go girl…. Show these people that dressing nice, doing your hair and having pride how you look is preferred to this generation’s attitude to just roll out of bed and look disheveled all day.
She is beautiful and looks fabulous! If she’s getting shamed.. it’s no doubt from jealous, probably much younger losers who look like livestock.
She looks fabulous!! If she’s being shamed at all… it’s no doubt by jealous, probably younger livestock-looking losers.
She looks amazing! She's slim, trim, and in good shape. I think she should wear whatever she wants.
I just turned 70 and my daughter once had the audacity to tell me I should dress age appropriately. I guess she didn't like my Grateful Dead tee shirt and black rose leggings. She did, however, approve of my denim jacket at her wedding. In fact, she, the groom's mum and I all had our photo taken with our jeans jackets on over our wedding attire.
What is she supposed to wear then? People gatekeeping absolutely everything.
As long as your naughty bits are covered, who cares what you wear.
I'm 58 years old and still wear Levis (some are ripped up holes in the knee style) withT-shirts and hoodies. If I do put on a skirt it's most likely a short jean skirt ( which I wear shorts under like I did in grade school). And I either wear flip flops or Vans even with a skirt or dress. And they will have to bury me with my tongue ring.
Dang all I wear is leggings and tshirts. Dressing nice is wearing panta with a zipper and I'm just over half her age. She looks fantastic.
Your totally rocking every outfit, you've been blessed. Age appropriate without looking frumpy, sophisticated & hip. At 65 I would feel comfortable wearing any of them & not look like I'm wearing my daughters clothes.
If she’s married her husband must be very proud of her. Talk about a trophy wife!!!!
I don't believe anybody is telling her she shouldn't be wearing those outfits tbh .. I think it's just clickbait so she can show off her style (which .. I guess 🤷🏾♀️ ) .. cause there's absolutely nothing inappropriate about her clothes even for her age . But okay 😒
She looks amazing! I want to look this elegant at every age! Something to aspire for! Nothing being worn is inappropriate
What on Earth is wrong with people self entitled Telling her what to wear what is it with people these days women can't dress too s***** or conservative et cetera make up your mind's f****** controlling hypocrites
This post makes my heart smile 🥰 Dressing in what you like, at any age, is just fun to do. Before I met my SO, I was in a 16 year relationship with a woman and she always made me feel I had to: - dress according to my age - dress according to my plus sized figure so avoid tight clothing and wear lots of black - dress in by her chosen and approved clothes Yes, I know, it sounds ridiculous but being under the influence of a perfect narcissist I thought she was right... right? Than I met my SO, he's a few years older than I am... A day after he moved in, he opened the cupboard to put his stuff in there too and I will never forget what he said... "So, what color black are you going to wear today?" We went shopping and I swear, I have 3 black shirts (because they look so good in my tanned skin 😁) and the rest is all color, lots of shades of red and even A-line shaped dresses, which I never got two wear before and I can honestly say "Dang, even my plussize body looks good!"
Many people apparently cannot stand the sight of a regular human being and therefore think it's inappropriate to wear clothes that reveal flabby upper arms, wrinkly décolletés or varicose veins. Those people should probably live alone in the woods. On a related note: I also love that so many young women these days choose to wear clothes accentuating their figures regardless of their size. I applaud them internally every time I see one. When I was a teen/twen (in my forties now) it was unthinkable to wear a crop top if you didn't have an absolutely flat belly. And the existence of said belly was something to be ashamed of. Nowadays idgaf and wear whatever I want.
This woman looks great and appropriate for her age. The problem with some older ladies is they dress like 25 year olds which makes them look desperate and pathetic.
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She looks amazing. She’s got a good laugh ye for what really looks good on her. And she wears everything with confidence.
She doesn't look 75 and all her outfits are classy. What's wrong with them?
Look, I'm just a dude. Is there something wrong with any of these outfits?
she looks amazing and nothing is "inappropriate". really, nothing is inappropriate unless you're showing something a bathing suit would typically cover. i don't care what body type a person has, or how tight something is. there are levels of "appropriate" in situations- such as work, a wedding, ect. but on a day off basis, grocery shopping or whatever, a person can wear whatever TF they want. they might not look "good" to most people, but unless they're trying to attract someone, who cares? it's no one's business LOL
I'll never understand the whole thing that "oh, I'm old now, guess I have to wear unfashionable slacks and blouses" (i mean if that's what you want you do you) but.. why are so many people against the elderly actually wearing fashionable clothing? None of this looks inappropriate, she looks elegant and classy! (and honestly, she barely looks 60, either. nvm 75!)
The OP is totally rocking her looks. One's age is nothing but a number, only relevant when a law is involved (drinking age, etc.). I'd give my left ear to look that good.
Looks great to me. Wish girls in their twenties and thirties would dress with this amount of modesty.
She looks great, not sure what's even remotely inappropriate about any of those outfits 🤷🏼♂️
She looks fantastic! What are 75-year-olds supposed to wear? Potato sacks?
Load More Replies...Honestly, I don’t believe in gatekeeping fashion (whether it’s by age, gender, nationality or other). As an example; I’m a 34YO “Aspie” & I love wearing bright colours, as well as having clothes with cute animations like “Pokémon”, etcetera. I know for a fact that this will never change for me as I get older. Honestly, I don’t care what people might think about me, because my Aspergers gives me a free pass to embrace the things I love & feel no shame about it whatsoever. Anyone who doesn’t like it; I’d say that’s more their problem than mine. 🤷♀️🙂
I'm 41 and I dress the same way XD All of my t-shirts have kittens, puppies, cute dragons, etc. on them, or Ghibli movie characters, anime, etc. My favorite jeans are off Amazon and have a snarling wolf on them. In the summer I wear men's cargo shorts from Costco that I've embroidered and ironed cute patches onto. I embarrass and shame my mother on the regular; she adopted me at birth expecting a "girly girl". I am not, and never have been. XD We should all feel free to wear whatever we want to, as long as we're being situationally appropriate! (I wore a dress to brunch with my family last week, but I was able to express myself with cute accessories and pins and a barely-appropriate necklace XD )
Load More Replies...Absolutely everything she’s wearing is age appropriate! She’s not wearing crop tops and Daisy Dukes, ffs! Not one bit of it makes her look like she’s trying to compete with the 20 year olds. Every picture shows her wearing clothing that is classicly styled and well-fitting. The clothes actually make her not only look younger, but the classic styling also makes her look elegantly old money rich, and the fact that she’s kept herself healthy and in good shape to boot makes her look 15 years younger than she actually is. Candace, you are what I want to be when I get to your age. Any grumblers out there who want her to wear dumpy old lady clothes can just go f**k themselves.
What is she supposed to wear? She looks fabulous for 75. I’m 52 and I wear whatever I damn please. I don’t care about other’s opinions, if I feel good in it, I’ll wear it
Yeah, I'm calling BS on her for this one. It's either one or two commenters on TikTok or literally no one
Load More Replies...She's not even dressing unlike a grandmother? Who is saying these things to her? She looks very elegant and classy.
Wear what you like as long as it isn't indecent. My mother and grandmother had so many silly rules. Only grey, brown and beige after 35. No slacks EVER., etc.
The fact that people think it's inappropriate to wear that just because she is "old" SHE IS ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS, and when I'm that age, I aspire to have that beautiful taste in fashion. She is an icon!!
I bet people her age definitely say awful things. Sometimes our perspective are clouded by our immediate surroundings. I know my grandmother's friends can be very nasty about what people wear at 80/90. Showing arms, showing chest, wearing heels. People can be cruel, and jealous, and seniors think age gives them the right to do it.
Load More Replies...I don't see anything age related to her clothing choices. They are tasteful stylish pieces. It isn't like she is wearing halters and daisy dukes. Ppl honestly expect older ppl to be wearing what this day and age?
Idk but I doubt more than maybe a couple people online have actually said anything
Load More Replies...If you can fit it and it fits the occasion (no sweat pants to a formal dinner, not wearing white to a wedding unless it's pre approved, no skimpy clothes to ur kids school etc.) then wear it! No body buys your clothes so nobody but you should be able to approve or disapprove of your style choices <3 I dress like a mechanic at work, like I'm 17 most other times and I can go from girly to gothic to I don't care at least I showed up in a blink of an eye and I'm 40!
I love her valentine's dress! And I wear what I want, as long as it is appropriate like you said.
Load More Replies...Gosh, she looks so comfortable in her own skin. And her outfits are absolutely on-point.
Bruh she looks better than me on a good day and I'm 21.... who cares what age you are, if you got it flaunt it. Not everyone has such a great sense of style.
My grandmother was 85 and she dressed practically the same. She looked gorgeous. I used to say she was my very own queen Elizabeth. She passed on March 1st. I miss her so much.
I'm 43, and if I looked as good as her now I'd be walking around naked all day, every day.
She looks fantastic. Haters are always gonna hate, it's all they have. Hope she has many more years of being absolutely fabulous!
Wow, she looks fabulous! Wear what makes you happy! I'm in my 40's and still a punk/goth at heart, so I have blue hair and wear skulls on everything. Do what makes you happy and wear what you feel comfortable in!
She looks fantastic and next to some of my 71 years old Mom's outfits, a bit too conservative 😉
stunning looks at this age, but prolly has relevant budget to spend too
She looks wonderful! You can see her confidence shining through in every photo. I thought she actually looked better in the more youthful outfits than in the "age appropriate" ones. (My only criticism is a minor one: after a certain age, black eyeliner and heavy, dark eye makeup adds years to your face because it makes the eyes look hollowed and droopy.)
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I wish my arms looked like hers, mine are the saggy, crepey, ones
Think you’re all missing the point here,,,,,,the outfits she ziS wearing on these photos IS WHAT WE, SENIOR LADIES, SHOULD BE Wearing!!!! And. tHEYRE GREAT!
The best part about getting older is not giving a toss what anyone else thinks about your style.
Love her style! Very classy! Just because you're older doesn't mean you have to wear boring clothes! She looks fantastic!
Lots of folks just don't take care of themselves. this lady did and does. The process is best started, right now. My best male friend is pushing 85 and has the enthusiasm, grit and appearance of someone decades younger. Those who have not taken care of themselves shall quibble. Bad Karma. Agreed with all Candace believes. She be awesome.
You are a classy dresser. Nobody would guess you are 75. Keep up the good work. Keep putting out ideas for outfits.
Stunning woman. She rocks those outfits much better than twenty something models .
I think you look Fabulous! Your fashion choices are Amazing... keep looking your Best!
Went to the movies and was cussed out by a young person for asking them to “please watch the movie, stop talking and stay off the phone” he told me… you need some d:@&), you 50 year old b@:!)@!!! Was so flattered, I’m 62! Refuse to hear age shaming for my hair or outfits! I can finally afford to dress how I desire!!! You go girl…. Show these people that dressing nice, doing your hair and having pride how you look is preferred to this generation’s attitude to just roll out of bed and look disheveled all day.
She is beautiful and looks fabulous! If she’s getting shamed.. it’s no doubt from jealous, probably much younger losers who look like livestock.
She looks fabulous!! If she’s being shamed at all… it’s no doubt by jealous, probably younger livestock-looking losers.
She looks amazing! She's slim, trim, and in good shape. I think she should wear whatever she wants.
I just turned 70 and my daughter once had the audacity to tell me I should dress age appropriately. I guess she didn't like my Grateful Dead tee shirt and black rose leggings. She did, however, approve of my denim jacket at her wedding. In fact, she, the groom's mum and I all had our photo taken with our jeans jackets on over our wedding attire.
What is she supposed to wear then? People gatekeeping absolutely everything.
As long as your naughty bits are covered, who cares what you wear.
I'm 58 years old and still wear Levis (some are ripped up holes in the knee style) withT-shirts and hoodies. If I do put on a skirt it's most likely a short jean skirt ( which I wear shorts under like I did in grade school). And I either wear flip flops or Vans even with a skirt or dress. And they will have to bury me with my tongue ring.
Dang all I wear is leggings and tshirts. Dressing nice is wearing panta with a zipper and I'm just over half her age. She looks fantastic.
Your totally rocking every outfit, you've been blessed. Age appropriate without looking frumpy, sophisticated & hip. At 65 I would feel comfortable wearing any of them & not look like I'm wearing my daughters clothes.
If she’s married her husband must be very proud of her. Talk about a trophy wife!!!!
I don't believe anybody is telling her she shouldn't be wearing those outfits tbh .. I think it's just clickbait so she can show off her style (which .. I guess 🤷🏾♀️ ) .. cause there's absolutely nothing inappropriate about her clothes even for her age . But okay 😒
She looks amazing! I want to look this elegant at every age! Something to aspire for! Nothing being worn is inappropriate
What on Earth is wrong with people self entitled Telling her what to wear what is it with people these days women can't dress too s***** or conservative et cetera make up your mind's f****** controlling hypocrites
This post makes my heart smile 🥰 Dressing in what you like, at any age, is just fun to do. Before I met my SO, I was in a 16 year relationship with a woman and she always made me feel I had to: - dress according to my age - dress according to my plus sized figure so avoid tight clothing and wear lots of black - dress in by her chosen and approved clothes Yes, I know, it sounds ridiculous but being under the influence of a perfect narcissist I thought she was right... right? Than I met my SO, he's a few years older than I am... A day after he moved in, he opened the cupboard to put his stuff in there too and I will never forget what he said... "So, what color black are you going to wear today?" We went shopping and I swear, I have 3 black shirts (because they look so good in my tanned skin 😁) and the rest is all color, lots of shades of red and even A-line shaped dresses, which I never got two wear before and I can honestly say "Dang, even my plussize body looks good!"
Many people apparently cannot stand the sight of a regular human being and therefore think it's inappropriate to wear clothes that reveal flabby upper arms, wrinkly décolletés or varicose veins. Those people should probably live alone in the woods. On a related note: I also love that so many young women these days choose to wear clothes accentuating their figures regardless of their size. I applaud them internally every time I see one. When I was a teen/twen (in my forties now) it was unthinkable to wear a crop top if you didn't have an absolutely flat belly. And the existence of said belly was something to be ashamed of. Nowadays idgaf and wear whatever I want.
This woman looks great and appropriate for her age. The problem with some older ladies is they dress like 25 year olds which makes them look desperate and pathetic.
Yes! Slay, queen! Don't give a sh.it what other people thinkof you! (Unless they support you of course)
She looks amazing. She’s got a good laugh ye for what really looks good on her. And she wears everything with confidence.
She doesn't look 75 and all her outfits are classy. What's wrong with them?
Look, I'm just a dude. Is there something wrong with any of these outfits?
she looks amazing and nothing is "inappropriate". really, nothing is inappropriate unless you're showing something a bathing suit would typically cover. i don't care what body type a person has, or how tight something is. there are levels of "appropriate" in situations- such as work, a wedding, ect. but on a day off basis, grocery shopping or whatever, a person can wear whatever TF they want. they might not look "good" to most people, but unless they're trying to attract someone, who cares? it's no one's business LOL
I'll never understand the whole thing that "oh, I'm old now, guess I have to wear unfashionable slacks and blouses" (i mean if that's what you want you do you) but.. why are so many people against the elderly actually wearing fashionable clothing? None of this looks inappropriate, she looks elegant and classy! (and honestly, she barely looks 60, either. nvm 75!)
The OP is totally rocking her looks. One's age is nothing but a number, only relevant when a law is involved (drinking age, etc.). I'd give my left ear to look that good.
Looks great to me. Wish girls in their twenties and thirties would dress with this amount of modesty.
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