This Millennial Writes A Rant On How Weird It Is To Be 25-35 Years Old
Often news headlines characterize millennials as entitled, lazy, self-obsessed and infantile people. This generation of young adults are mercilessly criticized for their use of social media, inability to become financially stable, take care of household chores and harming the economy by ‘killing’ various industries. In the sea of opinions, young adults often feel alienated and misunderstood which leads to them openly sharing their frustrations online. While baby boomers are judging millennials for their smartphone use and love of avocado toast, young adults are trying to prove how much the world has changed since boomers were young, by revealing how their life truly looks like.
A user named brujahinaskirt took to Tumblr to express her opinion on what it’s like to be a millennial. In a paragraph-long rant, she skillfully touches every worry a young adult has, making her words relatable for many.
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Another Tumblr user decided to dwell more into why many people of older generations think millennials are lazy and explain why they are wrong.
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Share on FacebookI am a millennial and was able to put myself through college with no debt by going to community college first and only taking classes I could afford while working full time. It took me ten years, but I did it without debt and with my broke parents asking me for money. I pulled myself out of poverty and am debt free except for the house i own. My car is a thirteen year old yaris because I refuse to buy anything I cannot afford outright. And it runs great because I take care of it.
At *a week shy of* 37 years old I'm a Gen Xer or Millennial, depending on what your definition of each is. I am in a similar place as you, but growing up my parents prepared me for the financial investment college was going to be. Money was deposited into my bank account for Christmas & birthdays rather than getting presents like my friends, and I sacrificed extracurricular's in lieu of a job in both high school and college. But not everyone is that lucky; my ex-husband was under the assumption his parents had a savings for him; but when it came time to go to college he was given a loan application and was told "good luck" which is what a lot of new college students hear. Thankfully, because of my financial position and both of our full time jobs, we were able to pay his debt off in 10 years. But had it been both of us with loans that would have never happened.
Load More Replies...I tend to disagree with all theese "Boomers"/"Miennials"/"gen x" whatnots, but this one actually seems to fit (at least my) reality. Only, add some people complaing about the cost of ther mountain cabin and boat while those my age might never own a house.
I may be a millennial, who is still struggling to get her finances in order, but I can cook a damn casserole that'll make you forget how to pronounce "macaroni and cheese".
On the other side of the plate - I'm a boomer who has worked full-time for 42 years and still can't afford to buy my own house. I rent. So how about ceasing the ignorance when stereotyping my generation?
I'm GenX with a full-time job and I'm still living out of a van because I can't afford my own apartment, let alone buy a home (yet, I'm trying to save up for one).
Load More Replies...Stop using stereotypes people. It hurts everyone. Using stereotypes is bad manners.
isn't that a stereotype too? Stereo means 2, type is class, so the word means it's either one OR the other. Reality is much more complex logically, grows like a tree (yes/no/maybe) or (true/false/don't know) or even for 2 terms A and B (A=True, B=True, Both are true, None are true). Stereotypes are GOOD when used in a joke to warn us of a stereotype in society.
Load More Replies...I am a Gen X, and I rent, don't own a house, don't want to either. I have no debt but no savings either. Our generation was the first to get screwed by the system, but many of my friends had a good start with their education (so did I) and are doing very well. I like the young gen, Greta Thunberg is really an inspiration for me. 2020=year of action!
C: Greta Thunberg has been named Woman of The Year by TIME magazine. Your "fine education" didn't help you read a simple newspaper? Education doesn't grant wisdom: You must verify (yourself) if you want to know the truth... And the Truth is an ever changing Reality. Verify this and see if it's true (or not)! Being wise is being able to doubt about truths presented to you, verify them, and correct them. "Nativi, Veni, Vidi, Dice Veritatis" and "In se Numeros Veritatis". Both are true for me. What about you?
Load More Replies...It's practically impossible to get to where you want to be in life without putting yourself in SOME form of debt. As a disclaimer: YES I UNDERSTAND THAT'S NOT THE CASE 100% OF THE TIME. It's become so normalized to have to throw ourselves into a lot of debt to get ahead in life. Whether it's an education, buying a car, buying a home, etc etc. People dying left and right in debt until the day they die. It's such a horrible way of life. Makes me want to live off the grid and raise my family like they did way back in the day. We can't even live independently off the grid without government agencies coming after us trying to find some way to get money out of us.
Wages haven't grown significantly in 50 years. The cost of housing, college, and many other things have. Until wage stagnation is addressed we will continue to have each new generation that enters the workforce be worse off than the one before it. This isn't new for Millenials, it was there for Gen X as well, though it has certainly gotten worse. And it will continue to until we make changes to taxation, minimum wage, etc. That starts with different leaders in the White House and Senate. Until poor Republicans get this, I don't have much hope. It ain't about guns or abortion or immigrants - it's about money and always has been. Those other issues are just what some wealthy people in positions of power have used to distract voters from the money.
The OP read to me like she ranted it all in one breath. I tell you what, let's stop putting ourselves into all these categories then going along with them without deconstructing them. They're all b******t because there's such diversity between the lives of people born on the same day, let alone within 10 years of each other. There are so many factors that determine the courses of our lives that labels are worthless (always have been). This is one major flaw that humans have. We restrict our understanding of ourselves and each other by sticking labels all over each other as though they mean the same to everyone. With this, we are still stuck with primitive thinking.
GenXer who worked my a**e off through countless career/job changes to get where I am now. Never expected to make a load of money as soon as I graduated college with a four-year degree, and knew I would have to work myself up the ranks to eventually get there. So that is what I did. Bought my first house at age 36. Because it took me that long to get to that point. And I'm proud of how hard I worked to get there, and how far I've elevated in the past 11 years since then. And I don't regret a thing about it.
As a millennial myself (32) I can say I am very lucky. I have a hard working dairyman as a husband, four beautiful children and a college education to back me up. I couldn't be more thankful for the life I have, the life I worked so hard to have. I am a millennial but I WILL tell you to work your butt off. You are not entitled to ANYTHING. You must work. Life isn't all butterflies and roses.
Millennial here. As I see it, the economy the boomers inherited was unnaturally strong due to the outcome of World War 2. A large portion of the population returned home with new skills and the advancements made in technology during the war led to a slew of new industries for them to find employment in. Short of another massive conflict, I'm not sure what the boomers could have done to keep the economy at such an unnatural level, but thank goodness WW3 never happened. So yeah, boomers can be a bit insensitive/oblivious to our struggles, but I don't think they deserve all the hate they get - it's not like they set out to ruin their children's futures. They lived in a time of boundless potential and accelerated growth which made a comfortable lifestyle much more achievable for the average person. Naturally, our generation feels a bit left out.
You talk like there are two different species depending on what year they were born in. You're not a millennial, no-one is a boomer.
Load More Replies...I would be living under a bridge, if I was still alive, except for my parents and a lot of dumb luck. I'm 62.
Should I get married and live out of a renovated UPS van or become a social media influencer 🤔
Great article but throwing a whole generation into a category is like profiling brand of bread then comparing to the older types or newer types even though its the same thing.... Bread and always has been bread, just different economy, different place and time. People are people. Whats been will always be. Just different circumstances.I cant stand the word millennial. Gen y seems better fit. 2000 kids are millennials. 90s like early 90s kids dont do or care about half that stuff. I've never wanted to or never will go to college, eat avocado toast, hate social media and arent on any platforms, dont need a safe space, i actually like talking not texting, i dont use my phone constantly, dont need a safe spot, dont care about revolt and revolution or being this or that, dont use fancy words, and certainly dont club or go back packing or anything my or newer generations do. I just work that it, some of us in generation y dont care about external c**p. We just want to survive.
I'm a boomer. I just turned 62. When I was in the seventh grade I delivered the Washington post to 72 households before going to school each day. I delivered the paper seven days a week for a Little over a year. Took me almost 10 years to get a four year degree. I went to school, then stopped and worked multiple jobs afford to go back to school. I sacrificed. I never had a new car until I was well into my 40s. I moved several hundred miles away from where I grew up/family/friends/etc. to make a decent life for myself. If you want it bad enough You can get it. You just have to persevere.
Ok 1. We no longer do child labor. 2. Money went way farther then. 3. No one they're talking about is getting new cars. I don't even know someone who wants to get a new car. 4. Moving costs money. Even if you're renting, it's probably a minimum of 3 to 5 thousand just to move. I'm sure you also walked up hill in neck deep snow to school everyday. But look at the numbers. People who came of age in the current s**t storm have it difficult to just live, let alone get ahead.
Load More Replies...One thing I have noticed about the boomer generation "not taking advice from a literal f*****g child" is that for most of their lives, they had no way to readily access all the information in the world. If they didn't know how to do something )and were too proud to ask) they had to just take a guess at it and move forward. One thing they may have a hard time understanding is that significant 'experience' doesn't mean their way is the best way, it's just the one they know. Kindly inform them of advancements in knowledge and technique, rather than tell them they're doing something 'wrong.'
While I agree to an extent, how many millenials would take advice from a Gen Z, using that same logic?
Load More Replies...Did the college thing 4 years after i finished high school. Managed to pay for it all by living in the dingiest apartment building in town on the cheap, lived off buns and soup. Once I got a job at a hospital our income exploded but we've been through alot of financial ups and downs over the last 5 years. Just recently managed to buy a townhouse in the Vancouver area which was dam near impossible but by sheer luck my husbands dad gave us $50,000. That combined with what we had saved got us our own home again just a few months ago. Started my retirement fund back when I was 24 so hopefully i wont be back to soup and buns when im old :/
A savings account with your bank is what every financial advisor calls "going broke safely". Savings accounts will never gain enough against the cost of living.
I am a millennial (albeit, a very early one. So those towards the end of the millennial group tend to discount me) and I owned a house before I ever had a degree, and before I had a job that paid more than $24k/yr. I didn't get a head start, nobody but me funding anything. I had and still have a c**p ton of debt. I have decided that owning a house isn't worth the cost. I also learned that my degree is practically useless, and it is in computer science. Sure, it sounds and looks good, but I have not received a single dime in increased pay because of it. I did better before I had that debt....so maybe it is more about realizing what expenses will actually benefit you and deciding not to stay on the path that you are pushed on. Then again, I am swimming to my eyeballs in debt now and have changed my spending processes to exclude any sort of borrowing in the future. The house I own? it isn't mine...it is the banks. The car? nope, the banks. Time for me to stop borrowing.
He just kept talking in one long incredibly unbroken sentence moving from topic to topic so that no-one had a chance to interrupt, it was really quite hypnotic
The post made by Lauralot89 seems..... odd. In summary, they're saying "hey, look at my amazing life, that I only managed to get because I had the dumb-luck of privilege, and having a decent family - otherwise, I wouldn't have my great life. But hey, if your life sucks, at least you're still trying hard". It *sounds* encouraging, but in reality, it sounds a bit too similar to "they're starving, because don't have any bread to eat? Let them eat cake!".
I see it as an accurate accounting of society. There are haves and have nots. Which one you are is just pure luck and a reflection of how your parents did.
Load More Replies...What about a little taste of live in Brazil? U.S. still seems nice.
I still live at home aged 25 with minimal savings no car and basic wage job
I might have misunderstood the term "millenial" if a millenial is 25-35 in 2020
gen x is 1965-79, gen y is 1980-94 (also called millenials), gen z is 1995-2015. Gen XXX is the new gen raised on internet.
Load More Replies...Make sure, before then, you get their, there, and they're nailed down. People do judge on spelling.
Load More Replies...Again an American post. The world is bigger than your backwards country where people go into crippling debt for an education or healthcare.
How about you stop posting meaningless - actually, stupid - comments? Does anyone force you to visit the BP web site or read any of the articles? Your online name says it all.
Load More Replies...Not really hilarious at all. Just because a handful of Boomers invented certain technology doesn't mean that MOST Boomers knew anything about it then -- and/or cannot keep up with it now. I'm comparitively tech savvy but now, at 60, I do ask my son about some of the newer developments and issues.
Load More Replies...I am a millennial and was able to put myself through college with no debt by going to community college first and only taking classes I could afford while working full time. It took me ten years, but I did it without debt and with my broke parents asking me for money. I pulled myself out of poverty and am debt free except for the house i own. My car is a thirteen year old yaris because I refuse to buy anything I cannot afford outright. And it runs great because I take care of it.
At *a week shy of* 37 years old I'm a Gen Xer or Millennial, depending on what your definition of each is. I am in a similar place as you, but growing up my parents prepared me for the financial investment college was going to be. Money was deposited into my bank account for Christmas & birthdays rather than getting presents like my friends, and I sacrificed extracurricular's in lieu of a job in both high school and college. But not everyone is that lucky; my ex-husband was under the assumption his parents had a savings for him; but when it came time to go to college he was given a loan application and was told "good luck" which is what a lot of new college students hear. Thankfully, because of my financial position and both of our full time jobs, we were able to pay his debt off in 10 years. But had it been both of us with loans that would have never happened.
Load More Replies...I tend to disagree with all theese "Boomers"/"Miennials"/"gen x" whatnots, but this one actually seems to fit (at least my) reality. Only, add some people complaing about the cost of ther mountain cabin and boat while those my age might never own a house.
I may be a millennial, who is still struggling to get her finances in order, but I can cook a damn casserole that'll make you forget how to pronounce "macaroni and cheese".
On the other side of the plate - I'm a boomer who has worked full-time for 42 years and still can't afford to buy my own house. I rent. So how about ceasing the ignorance when stereotyping my generation?
I'm GenX with a full-time job and I'm still living out of a van because I can't afford my own apartment, let alone buy a home (yet, I'm trying to save up for one).
Load More Replies...Stop using stereotypes people. It hurts everyone. Using stereotypes is bad manners.
isn't that a stereotype too? Stereo means 2, type is class, so the word means it's either one OR the other. Reality is much more complex logically, grows like a tree (yes/no/maybe) or (true/false/don't know) or even for 2 terms A and B (A=True, B=True, Both are true, None are true). Stereotypes are GOOD when used in a joke to warn us of a stereotype in society.
Load More Replies...I am a Gen X, and I rent, don't own a house, don't want to either. I have no debt but no savings either. Our generation was the first to get screwed by the system, but many of my friends had a good start with their education (so did I) and are doing very well. I like the young gen, Greta Thunberg is really an inspiration for me. 2020=year of action!
C: Greta Thunberg has been named Woman of The Year by TIME magazine. Your "fine education" didn't help you read a simple newspaper? Education doesn't grant wisdom: You must verify (yourself) if you want to know the truth... And the Truth is an ever changing Reality. Verify this and see if it's true (or not)! Being wise is being able to doubt about truths presented to you, verify them, and correct them. "Nativi, Veni, Vidi, Dice Veritatis" and "In se Numeros Veritatis". Both are true for me. What about you?
Load More Replies...It's practically impossible to get to where you want to be in life without putting yourself in SOME form of debt. As a disclaimer: YES I UNDERSTAND THAT'S NOT THE CASE 100% OF THE TIME. It's become so normalized to have to throw ourselves into a lot of debt to get ahead in life. Whether it's an education, buying a car, buying a home, etc etc. People dying left and right in debt until the day they die. It's such a horrible way of life. Makes me want to live off the grid and raise my family like they did way back in the day. We can't even live independently off the grid without government agencies coming after us trying to find some way to get money out of us.
Wages haven't grown significantly in 50 years. The cost of housing, college, and many other things have. Until wage stagnation is addressed we will continue to have each new generation that enters the workforce be worse off than the one before it. This isn't new for Millenials, it was there for Gen X as well, though it has certainly gotten worse. And it will continue to until we make changes to taxation, minimum wage, etc. That starts with different leaders in the White House and Senate. Until poor Republicans get this, I don't have much hope. It ain't about guns or abortion or immigrants - it's about money and always has been. Those other issues are just what some wealthy people in positions of power have used to distract voters from the money.
The OP read to me like she ranted it all in one breath. I tell you what, let's stop putting ourselves into all these categories then going along with them without deconstructing them. They're all b******t because there's such diversity between the lives of people born on the same day, let alone within 10 years of each other. There are so many factors that determine the courses of our lives that labels are worthless (always have been). This is one major flaw that humans have. We restrict our understanding of ourselves and each other by sticking labels all over each other as though they mean the same to everyone. With this, we are still stuck with primitive thinking.
GenXer who worked my a**e off through countless career/job changes to get where I am now. Never expected to make a load of money as soon as I graduated college with a four-year degree, and knew I would have to work myself up the ranks to eventually get there. So that is what I did. Bought my first house at age 36. Because it took me that long to get to that point. And I'm proud of how hard I worked to get there, and how far I've elevated in the past 11 years since then. And I don't regret a thing about it.
As a millennial myself (32) I can say I am very lucky. I have a hard working dairyman as a husband, four beautiful children and a college education to back me up. I couldn't be more thankful for the life I have, the life I worked so hard to have. I am a millennial but I WILL tell you to work your butt off. You are not entitled to ANYTHING. You must work. Life isn't all butterflies and roses.
Millennial here. As I see it, the economy the boomers inherited was unnaturally strong due to the outcome of World War 2. A large portion of the population returned home with new skills and the advancements made in technology during the war led to a slew of new industries for them to find employment in. Short of another massive conflict, I'm not sure what the boomers could have done to keep the economy at such an unnatural level, but thank goodness WW3 never happened. So yeah, boomers can be a bit insensitive/oblivious to our struggles, but I don't think they deserve all the hate they get - it's not like they set out to ruin their children's futures. They lived in a time of boundless potential and accelerated growth which made a comfortable lifestyle much more achievable for the average person. Naturally, our generation feels a bit left out.
You talk like there are two different species depending on what year they were born in. You're not a millennial, no-one is a boomer.
Load More Replies...I would be living under a bridge, if I was still alive, except for my parents and a lot of dumb luck. I'm 62.
Should I get married and live out of a renovated UPS van or become a social media influencer 🤔
Great article but throwing a whole generation into a category is like profiling brand of bread then comparing to the older types or newer types even though its the same thing.... Bread and always has been bread, just different economy, different place and time. People are people. Whats been will always be. Just different circumstances.I cant stand the word millennial. Gen y seems better fit. 2000 kids are millennials. 90s like early 90s kids dont do or care about half that stuff. I've never wanted to or never will go to college, eat avocado toast, hate social media and arent on any platforms, dont need a safe space, i actually like talking not texting, i dont use my phone constantly, dont need a safe spot, dont care about revolt and revolution or being this or that, dont use fancy words, and certainly dont club or go back packing or anything my or newer generations do. I just work that it, some of us in generation y dont care about external c**p. We just want to survive.
I'm a boomer. I just turned 62. When I was in the seventh grade I delivered the Washington post to 72 households before going to school each day. I delivered the paper seven days a week for a Little over a year. Took me almost 10 years to get a four year degree. I went to school, then stopped and worked multiple jobs afford to go back to school. I sacrificed. I never had a new car until I was well into my 40s. I moved several hundred miles away from where I grew up/family/friends/etc. to make a decent life for myself. If you want it bad enough You can get it. You just have to persevere.
Ok 1. We no longer do child labor. 2. Money went way farther then. 3. No one they're talking about is getting new cars. I don't even know someone who wants to get a new car. 4. Moving costs money. Even if you're renting, it's probably a minimum of 3 to 5 thousand just to move. I'm sure you also walked up hill in neck deep snow to school everyday. But look at the numbers. People who came of age in the current s**t storm have it difficult to just live, let alone get ahead.
Load More Replies...One thing I have noticed about the boomer generation "not taking advice from a literal f*****g child" is that for most of their lives, they had no way to readily access all the information in the world. If they didn't know how to do something )and were too proud to ask) they had to just take a guess at it and move forward. One thing they may have a hard time understanding is that significant 'experience' doesn't mean their way is the best way, it's just the one they know. Kindly inform them of advancements in knowledge and technique, rather than tell them they're doing something 'wrong.'
While I agree to an extent, how many millenials would take advice from a Gen Z, using that same logic?
Load More Replies...Did the college thing 4 years after i finished high school. Managed to pay for it all by living in the dingiest apartment building in town on the cheap, lived off buns and soup. Once I got a job at a hospital our income exploded but we've been through alot of financial ups and downs over the last 5 years. Just recently managed to buy a townhouse in the Vancouver area which was dam near impossible but by sheer luck my husbands dad gave us $50,000. That combined with what we had saved got us our own home again just a few months ago. Started my retirement fund back when I was 24 so hopefully i wont be back to soup and buns when im old :/
A savings account with your bank is what every financial advisor calls "going broke safely". Savings accounts will never gain enough against the cost of living.
I am a millennial (albeit, a very early one. So those towards the end of the millennial group tend to discount me) and I owned a house before I ever had a degree, and before I had a job that paid more than $24k/yr. I didn't get a head start, nobody but me funding anything. I had and still have a c**p ton of debt. I have decided that owning a house isn't worth the cost. I also learned that my degree is practically useless, and it is in computer science. Sure, it sounds and looks good, but I have not received a single dime in increased pay because of it. I did better before I had that debt....so maybe it is more about realizing what expenses will actually benefit you and deciding not to stay on the path that you are pushed on. Then again, I am swimming to my eyeballs in debt now and have changed my spending processes to exclude any sort of borrowing in the future. The house I own? it isn't mine...it is the banks. The car? nope, the banks. Time for me to stop borrowing.
He just kept talking in one long incredibly unbroken sentence moving from topic to topic so that no-one had a chance to interrupt, it was really quite hypnotic
The post made by Lauralot89 seems..... odd. In summary, they're saying "hey, look at my amazing life, that I only managed to get because I had the dumb-luck of privilege, and having a decent family - otherwise, I wouldn't have my great life. But hey, if your life sucks, at least you're still trying hard". It *sounds* encouraging, but in reality, it sounds a bit too similar to "they're starving, because don't have any bread to eat? Let them eat cake!".
I see it as an accurate accounting of society. There are haves and have nots. Which one you are is just pure luck and a reflection of how your parents did.
Load More Replies...What about a little taste of live in Brazil? U.S. still seems nice.
I still live at home aged 25 with minimal savings no car and basic wage job
I might have misunderstood the term "millenial" if a millenial is 25-35 in 2020
gen x is 1965-79, gen y is 1980-94 (also called millenials), gen z is 1995-2015. Gen XXX is the new gen raised on internet.
Load More Replies...Make sure, before then, you get their, there, and they're nailed down. People do judge on spelling.
Load More Replies...Again an American post. The world is bigger than your backwards country where people go into crippling debt for an education or healthcare.
How about you stop posting meaningless - actually, stupid - comments? Does anyone force you to visit the BP web site or read any of the articles? Your online name says it all.
Load More Replies...Not really hilarious at all. Just because a handful of Boomers invented certain technology doesn't mean that MOST Boomers knew anything about it then -- and/or cannot keep up with it now. I'm comparitively tech savvy but now, at 60, I do ask my son about some of the newer developments and issues.
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