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After Her Boyfriend Humiliated And Left Her For Her Weight, This Woman Lost Over 140 Pounds
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After Her Boyfriend Humiliated And Left Her For Her Weight, This Woman Lost Over 140 Pounds

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Most people are not happy with their bodies, looks, or weight. There’s always something that we would like to change; however, some of us would like to look completely different. That’s what the hero of this story, Josie, decided to do. After a rough breakup with a guy that humiliated her because of her weight, Josie decided she would start working out, dieting, and losing weight.

In a video on a YouTube channel called Truly, she says: “I was the girl that my ex didn’t want, so I became the girl he couldn’t have.” She also mentioned that when she was bigger, she used to eat whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. But when she started working out and looking after her health and body, she lost over 140 pounds.

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This is Josie’s amazing transformation. She lost over 140 pounds (64 kilograms)

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Josie was kind enough to give Bored Panda an interview and told us more about what inspired her journey: “I was in a 3-year relationship. I lost myself within this relationship. It was very toxic. He left me 2 days after New Year’s Day, no reasoning behind it. He just simply didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely blindsided and this motivated me to start my weight loss journey. I wanted to get back at him and show him what he lost. But along the way, I found myself falling in love with fitness. And it was no longer a revenge body journey. It was a journey of self-love and bettering myself!”

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Josie used to weigh 300 lbs (137 kg)

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Josie shares when she started to work out and more about her regime: “I began my journey 2 weeks after my breakup. I hired a personal trainer who taught me the basics. I ate healthier, worked out every day, and was just more physically active. I cut out fast food and I just built a healthier relationship with food.”

Her boyfriend of three years left her two days after New Year’s Eve

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She also shared the hardest part about the weight loss journey: “The hardest part was realizing how much nicer people were to me as I lost the weight. When I was overweight, no one ever saw me. It was as if I was invisible and I didn’t exist. People just saw me for my weight. Society can be harsh sometimes. So as I lost the weight, it was mentally difficult seeing how much nicer people were to me.” She also shared that in this difficult time in her life, the thing that surprised her the most was her strength.

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So she started working out, changed her diet, and was determined to lose the unwanted weight

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Josie also shared some of her hobbies and what she does for a living: “Now my life completely revolves around fitness. I love fitness. It is now my passion. I am now a trainer and my goal is to help other women see their self-worth and achieve their fitness goals. One step at a time. I also love outdoor activities such as hiking!”

Soon, Josie started seeing results, but she wasn’t going to stop there

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If you’ve ever wanted to lose weight or were just not happy with your body, Josie has some advice for you: “My advice would be: ‘ask yourself why you want to lose weight.’ Once you find the root reason, start by making changes in your daily routine. The hardest part is starting; once you start, you will fall in love with the process. But most of all, never let anyone or anything discourage you!”Josie told us that it took her about two years to lose 145 lbs naturally. She is now on the path to becoming a bodybuilder. Fitness and wellness have become her life and goal.

Josie continued to work hard and the final result is absolutely amazing

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“It will all be okay. You are worthy You are beautiful and you don’t need anyone but yourself!” said Josie when asked what advice and encouragement she would give to her younger self.”

In the end, I lost all the weight because I wasn’t happy with myself. I was tired of being tired. I was tired of making excuses for myself. I’ve been overweight my entire life. It was time to do something good for myself. It’s not about being the most attractive or the skinniest. It’s about feeling comfortable under your own skin. And loving the person you see in the mirror. No matter what the number on the scale shows! My weight loss journey is not over. This is just the beginning. I am now training in hopes to become a bodybuilder and compete in a wellness physique competition!”

“Here to inspire, motivate, and help others achieve their goals!”

Image credits: josievr

Josie now weighs 155 lbs (70 kg) and she couldn’t be happier to have achieved her goal

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“No matter what journey you may be starting, whether it is a weight loss or career journey, always know that you’re capable of many things. You are worthy and you will achieve anything you set your mind to. Do what makes you happy. Do what fulfills you. This is your journey, not anyone else’s. Therefore, go at your own pace and don’t ever let anyone else tell you otherwise!

We need to normalize normal bodies. It’s okay if you have loose skin in your arms, it’s okay if your inner thighs are loose, it’s ok. Because you’re beautiful, that’s what makes you different. My weight loss journey started as a revenge body to get back at my ex, but along the way, I realized it’s not about him, it’s about me”

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Aelita Senvaitytė

Aelita Senvaitytė

Moderator, BoredPanda staff

My name is Aelita and I have been an Editor for Bored Panda since 2019. I spend my days working with my amazing team and making articles the best they can be. Fantasy and magic have always ruled over my world, from movies to TV shows, to Video Games to tabletop games like Dungeos and Dragons, I try to find magic in every part of my life. Writing is a big part of me too, I hope to publish a fantasy novel one day. I also enjoy playing guitar and singing, as music always help me to get in a great mood. I have an adorable German Shepherd named Hela and we get into all kinds of adventures together.

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Mustn’t eat the mango 🥭
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t do something to benefit other people or effect other people, do it for yourself <3

Bogaert David
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These kind of stories make me cringe : the ex-boyfriend said she looks unhealthy and should lose some weight also because he isn't attracted to this unhealthy kind of body .. Boyfriend breaks up and then she finally sees she should lose weight and does exactly that.. And then she dare to say: “I was the girl that my ex didn’t want, so I became the girl he couldn’t have

CP
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) It is okay for someone to break up with someone for that reason. 2) I am happy for her, but the question is would she have done this if she wasn't dumped? 3) I really don't like the idea that she did it to get back at him. Breaking up with someone isn't inherently evil. Sometimes it can be a good thing. Why be with someone you are not happy with.

Matt Hollis
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It annoys me, i see this exact story over and over again. If this is what it had to take to get you to get your body healthy and fit then I think the guy did you a favor, think how unhealthy and depressed you would have felt for the rest of your life if you just carried on the way you were.

Ms.GB
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well maybe that was the reason she had to go through that relationship. I think things happened for a reason.

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TheReader19
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The best form of revenge is good living. Never let another person who isn't even with you control how you feel. Fake it till you make it is real people

Rens
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he don't love you anymore, walk your fine @55 out the door!

Sleepyhead
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes me happy she still has a fullness to her face. Sorry, please let me know if this sounds weird or insensitive or dumb, I’m a guy; but even when I was 155 pounds (70 kg, for the smart countries), my cheeks were always full. I always thought I would be handsome if I could just shrink my face, but hard drugs and surgery aren’t for me. It still bothers me a bit, but it makes me happy seeing she made a transformation and still has her smile. Idk, is that weird? Did I say this wrong?

Norart
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if he dropped her because she was a toxic girlfriend?

Bole Perishon
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I hear is her boyfriend tried to get her to lose weight, she was careless enough to think it didn't matter until he got fed up.

Ms.GB
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok but if he broke up with her because of her looks then he didn't truly love her so I think it's good for both of them. He can find someone he truly loves and she is healthy and happy...what's the downside

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Sinkvenice
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"She also mentioned that when she was bigger, she used to eat whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. But when she started working out and looking after her health and body, she lost over 140 pounds." Well obviously, that's how being obese and losing weight works. I can't begin to imagine what losing an entire human in weight feels like.

Sakuhana
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm happy if she feels better now. I wouldn't want to change my plus size body for that kind of reason, but to each person their own happiness

Thenatural
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why should anyone,man or woman,try to maintain a relationship when the partner hasnt even got enough self respect

Thenatural
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Didn't finish that...if a man or woman allows themselves to balloon to over 300 lbs why should the partner stay? I wouldn't....It's physically repulsive and unhealthy.

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Xan A. Du
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very happy for her, but revenge is not a reason to lose weight. For herself! That's the reason. The only reason.

Chewie Baron
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd love to know how f the boyfriend DARED to try and worm his way back to her. And she said f**k you!

Mia
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at you now! I hope you stay happier n healthier forever!!

Gogubaci
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if humiliation is what it took for her to do something about her weight she should thank him. there, I said it, I don't give a s**t, weighing 137 kg and not doing something about it it's on you, can't possibly tell me that's "healthy" and "body positive".

Thomasin Grace
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand why woman glue on those 5 inch curved obviously fake nails.

Nicola Grenzner
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These kinds of posts make me want to delete my BoredPanda app and stop visiting the site. Fat-shaming articles are unhealthy and spreads a lot of disinformation. You can be healthy at any weight and it's not true that obese people are unhealthy or that obesity is unhealthy. Obese people can also have restrictive eating disorders. Posts like these can exacerbate the eating disorders in people of all sizes. Furthermore, fat-shaming, harms real people. You can and should do better, BoredPanda.

Znaya
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she got it straight in her head that she was doing it for herself and not for any type of revenge because the results will be long term and not temporary, congratulations 😀

Happy_Pandalover
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The result is great! Congrats to her for becoming a healthier and stronger version of herself. I‘ll be honest though. I‘m not a fan of „She/he die that because her/his ex broke up with them“ behaviour. Do it, but do it because you want it - not because someone broke up with you.

tomruns12
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is the ex. a bad guy for wanting her to be healthy?

S
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was gorgeous before she lost the weight. Healthier now, of course, but the true weight lost was the f**k boy she was dating. Good for you girl <3

Aroace tiger
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3 years ago

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EQXL
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is she know proving the point that if you just confront people that they'll do it? Awesome for her, but she could have done that before or does she feel shittier now than she felt back then? You just know this story will just end up in another confrontation, this time with somebody who can't help it.

Daria B
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's true for some, untrue for others. She didn't prove what you're suggesting because people are different.

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Brett Connor
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3 years ago

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He gave her the strength to make a difference in her life. Often people need a reality check before it finally sinks in.

Bole Perishon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My point, also. She ignored the fact that she could and should do something about her health until she realised it made her sexually undesirable.

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Mustn’t eat the mango 🥭
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t do something to benefit other people or effect other people, do it for yourself <3

Bogaert David
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These kind of stories make me cringe : the ex-boyfriend said she looks unhealthy and should lose some weight also because he isn't attracted to this unhealthy kind of body .. Boyfriend breaks up and then she finally sees she should lose weight and does exactly that.. And then she dare to say: “I was the girl that my ex didn’t want, so I became the girl he couldn’t have

CP
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) It is okay for someone to break up with someone for that reason. 2) I am happy for her, but the question is would she have done this if she wasn't dumped? 3) I really don't like the idea that she did it to get back at him. Breaking up with someone isn't inherently evil. Sometimes it can be a good thing. Why be with someone you are not happy with.

Matt Hollis
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It annoys me, i see this exact story over and over again. If this is what it had to take to get you to get your body healthy and fit then I think the guy did you a favor, think how unhealthy and depressed you would have felt for the rest of your life if you just carried on the way you were.

Ms.GB
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well maybe that was the reason she had to go through that relationship. I think things happened for a reason.

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TheReader19
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The best form of revenge is good living. Never let another person who isn't even with you control how you feel. Fake it till you make it is real people

Rens
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he don't love you anymore, walk your fine @55 out the door!

Sleepyhead
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes me happy she still has a fullness to her face. Sorry, please let me know if this sounds weird or insensitive or dumb, I’m a guy; but even when I was 155 pounds (70 kg, for the smart countries), my cheeks were always full. I always thought I would be handsome if I could just shrink my face, but hard drugs and surgery aren’t for me. It still bothers me a bit, but it makes me happy seeing she made a transformation and still has her smile. Idk, is that weird? Did I say this wrong?

Norart
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if he dropped her because she was a toxic girlfriend?

Bole Perishon
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I hear is her boyfriend tried to get her to lose weight, she was careless enough to think it didn't matter until he got fed up.

Ms.GB
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok but if he broke up with her because of her looks then he didn't truly love her so I think it's good for both of them. He can find someone he truly loves and she is healthy and happy...what's the downside

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Sinkvenice
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"She also mentioned that when she was bigger, she used to eat whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. But when she started working out and looking after her health and body, she lost over 140 pounds." Well obviously, that's how being obese and losing weight works. I can't begin to imagine what losing an entire human in weight feels like.

Sakuhana
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm happy if she feels better now. I wouldn't want to change my plus size body for that kind of reason, but to each person their own happiness

Thenatural
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why should anyone,man or woman,try to maintain a relationship when the partner hasnt even got enough self respect

Thenatural
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Didn't finish that...if a man or woman allows themselves to balloon to over 300 lbs why should the partner stay? I wouldn't....It's physically repulsive and unhealthy.

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Xan A. Du
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very happy for her, but revenge is not a reason to lose weight. For herself! That's the reason. The only reason.

Chewie Baron
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd love to know how f the boyfriend DARED to try and worm his way back to her. And she said f**k you!

Mia
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at you now! I hope you stay happier n healthier forever!!

Gogubaci
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if humiliation is what it took for her to do something about her weight she should thank him. there, I said it, I don't give a s**t, weighing 137 kg and not doing something about it it's on you, can't possibly tell me that's "healthy" and "body positive".

Thomasin Grace
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand why woman glue on those 5 inch curved obviously fake nails.

Nicola Grenzner
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These kinds of posts make me want to delete my BoredPanda app and stop visiting the site. Fat-shaming articles are unhealthy and spreads a lot of disinformation. You can be healthy at any weight and it's not true that obese people are unhealthy or that obesity is unhealthy. Obese people can also have restrictive eating disorders. Posts like these can exacerbate the eating disorders in people of all sizes. Furthermore, fat-shaming, harms real people. You can and should do better, BoredPanda.

Znaya
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she got it straight in her head that she was doing it for herself and not for any type of revenge because the results will be long term and not temporary, congratulations 😀

Happy_Pandalover
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The result is great! Congrats to her for becoming a healthier and stronger version of herself. I‘ll be honest though. I‘m not a fan of „She/he die that because her/his ex broke up with them“ behaviour. Do it, but do it because you want it - not because someone broke up with you.

tomruns12
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is the ex. a bad guy for wanting her to be healthy?

S
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was gorgeous before she lost the weight. Healthier now, of course, but the true weight lost was the f**k boy she was dating. Good for you girl <3

Aroace tiger
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment has been deleted.

EQXL
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is she know proving the point that if you just confront people that they'll do it? Awesome for her, but she could have done that before or does she feel shittier now than she felt back then? You just know this story will just end up in another confrontation, this time with somebody who can't help it.

Daria B
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's true for some, untrue for others. She didn't prove what you're suggesting because people are different.

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Brett Connor
Community Member
3 years ago

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He gave her the strength to make a difference in her life. Often people need a reality check before it finally sinks in.

Bole Perishon
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My point, also. She ignored the fact that she could and should do something about her health until she realised it made her sexually undesirable.

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