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TikToker Who Fled Amish Community Shares Facts That “Always Disturb People”
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TikToker Who Fled Amish Community Shares Facts That “Always Disturb People”

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While many people find solace and purpose in their faith, others may perceive these same beliefs as unconventional or even belonging to a cult. 

Despite societal judgment, one woman has demonstrated remarkable courage by fully leaving her faith and community behind, and documenting her journey on social media.

Lizzie Ens used her TikTok page to share three surprising facts about her upbringing in a strict Amish community

Image credits: lizzieens_wellness

Highlights
  • Lizzie Ens fled her strict Amish community at 19 and joined TikTok to share her story.
  • Lizzie's parents had 19 children, including three sets of twins, all born naturally.
  • She left without a social security number and only $20 to her name.
  • Lizzie is trilingual, speaking Pennsylvania Dutch, German, and English.

36-year-old Lizzie Ens escaped from her highly regimented Amish community, unveiling three aspects of her upbringing that never fail to astonish people. 

The Ohio resident fled from the Amish way of life at the age of 19 and has never once glanced back. 

As a former Amish member turned nutrition coach, Lizzie now shares eye-opening details about her early years with her 183,000 followers on TikTok. 

Lizzie was raised within a Swartzentruber Amish community, recognized as the strictest faction

Image credits: lizzieens_wellness

In a recent video, the influencer divulged the three most surprising facts about her upbringing, which included having 18 siblings and being proficient in three languages.

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In the now-viral TikTok entitled “3 of the biggest things that shock people about my Amish life”, which has received 2.6 million views, Lizzie said that one of the most astonishing aspects of her life was the fact that her parents had a total of “19 children.”

She explained: “My parents have 19 kids and within those 19 kids are three sets of twins and I’m a twin. 

“But not only that, my mom birthed all of these kids naturally.”

The 36-year-old ex-Amish posted a TikTok which has received 2.6 million views

Image credits: lizzieh_wellness

The ex-Amish followed this fact by saying that she did not possess a social security number during her upbringing.

According to Investopedia, a social security number is a numerical identifier assigned to US citizens and other residents to track income and determine benefits.

“When I left, I had to go apply for a social security number, and let’s not forget I had $20 to my name when I left,” Lizzie revealed.

Many people were particularly amazed at the fact that Lizzie’s mom had given birth to 19 children

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Finally, the entrepreneur also shared that it was her proficiency in three distinct languages that never failed to amaze people.

“We are bilingual. Actually, we are trilingual,” Lizzie said. Our first language is Pennsylvania Dutch, and then we learn German and English when we went to school.”

The Pennsylvania Dutch are a group of Americans of German ancestry who came to the US in the 17th, 18th, and 19th centuries to escape religious and political persecution, The Collector explains.

The website states that the language has endured in the 21st century, thanks in part to many of its speakers having strict rules surrounding their culture and traditions.

Moreover, groups like the Amish still speak it as a first language in their communities.

Lizzie revealed that when she fled her community and sought out a social security number, she only had “$20 to her name”

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The TikToker went on to reveal that she had grown up in one of the most strict forms of Amish communities one could possibly grow up in. 

Lizzie was raised within a Swartzentruber Amish community, recognized as the most traditional faction.

Within the Swartzentruber Amish community, members abstain from indoor plumbing, milking machines, and communal phone booths.

The group is also known to reject observing daylight savings time, relying on horse-drawn buggies for transportation, and exclusively utilizing wood-fired ovens for cooking and heating.

Windmills and traditional hand pumps are their means of obtaining water, while women are required to wear dresses that extend down to the hem of their shoes.

Lizzie speaks Pennsylvania Dutch, German, and English

Image credits: lizzieh_wellness

According to Ohio’s Amish Country official website, the Amish are “averse to any technology which they feel weakens the family structure.”

Ohio’s Amish Country magazine also states that “it is common for Amish communities to allow the use of telephones, but they do not allow them in the home.”

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Additionally: “several Amish families will share a telephone housed in a wooden shanty in a nearby location.”

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Image credits: lizzieh_wellness

Amish Experience at Plain & Fancy Farm President Clinton Marti told Bored Panda that although most Amish allow phones, there were some exceptions, such as with the ultra-strict Swartzentruber Amish sect that does not allow phones of any kind.

He also revealed that some Amish are only allowed flip phones with no internet, while others do have smartphones, and are not supposed to use applications such as Facebook and YouTube.

Lizzie has previously mentioned that members were permitted to date, but with restrictions. They could only meet a potential partner once every two weeks and were prohibited from being seen together in public.

The influencer who happens to own her own nutrition business also pointed out that typical dates involved spending hours cuddling.

You can watch Lizzie’s original video below

@lizzieh_wellness Always some of my top favorites to share that shocks people. 😝 #amishtiktok #examish #amishrenegade #breakingamish #amishlife #fyp #escapingamish #amishcountry ♬ original sound – Lizzie Ens

Her initial attempt to break free from the Amish world occurred when she was 17 years old, alongside her twin sister. However, they both returned shortly after their initial departure.

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Two years later, at the age of 19, Lizzie made a permanent departure, just before her sister’s wedding. Leaving the community meant she was no longer allowed to attend the wedding.

Exploring Amish Country explains that “Amish shunning is the use of social exclusion as a method used to enforce Amish church rules.”

Lizzie’s surprising Amish facts sparked many questions on social media

When asked about whether some Amish parents keep seeing their non-Amish kids regardless of shunning policies, Ex-Amish Misty Griffin told Vice: “The rule of thumb, if you’re shunned, is that you can only visit every few years.

“You would have to eat at a separate table. It is like this in most Amish churches, but some of the most liberal Amish churches have relaxed the shunning a bit. I do know that usually, parents and siblings don’t want to enforce the shunning policy, but they have to or they’ll be shunned themselves.”

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As Lizzie used her TikTok page to shed light on her unusual Amish upbringing, many people couldn’t resist asking for more

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Anony Mouse
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, since nobody has commented yet, I'm going to voice my unhappiness with the direction BP is taking. This is yet another boring tiktok post. And now you've added more buzzfeed-like shopping posts that always have dozens of upvotes - seriously who is upvoting these? And they also have fake comments. The one on the homepage now says it has 3 comments, but if you open it, comments are turned off and there are none. This site used to be cute animals, clever art, inspiring stories, etc. Now it's just copy/pasted reddit threads, whiny tiktokkers, and ads disguised as content. You're going the wrong way, BP. Keep posting fake AI "art" and your weekly hate-America-post, anti-work or anti-landlord reddit threads, and dull tiktoks and I don't think this site will last. I can only imagine a few months from now when every other post will be purchased by the kardashian or Taylor Swift publicists. Thank you for your time. I Edit: I'm not associated in any way with "DB", the idiot who commented on this. What a moron.

moi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's wild. Does anyone know of other websites that are similar to what bored panda is meant to be. It is just mainly aita nonsense now...and I read it but it's because I'm used to coming on to the site to pass time so I just go along with it like a drone haha. Suggestions welcome for any websites that aren't just this

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Pyla
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Read up on the rescues who are always getting horses out of the auctions. Amish have a long history of buying standardbred trotters off the track, because harnessing is involved and they are well handled, and then running them into the ground. Then dumping them at auctions. Worse horses arrive with harness marks (drafts and carriage animals), injuries that are unattended by a vet, worn to the bone, and lame. A more despicable group I can not imagine.

Rebekah Krause
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also known for puppy mills with terrible conditions, child abuse, shunning victims of sexual assault. It’s not wholesome just because they don’t have technology.

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Jill
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can someone please tell me why they keep using the word "escaped" all the time here? The Amish allow ppl to leave. It's just that those who leave are shunned by their family and community. It's not like they lock their kids in the barn or something. In fact, all the teenagers have "rumspringa" where they are encouraged to go learn about the world and live like the rest of us. In fact, it's during this time that the Amish kids can go really wild. It's only after the kids return that they join the church as official members. As for having large families of 19 kids....well..yeah, that's not uncommon for even non Amish farming families in the 1800's.

Mysteria
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some Amish communities can be really strict tho. We need more info about this girl to know the situation she was in

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Anony Mouse
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, since nobody has commented yet, I'm going to voice my unhappiness with the direction BP is taking. This is yet another boring tiktok post. And now you've added more buzzfeed-like shopping posts that always have dozens of upvotes - seriously who is upvoting these? And they also have fake comments. The one on the homepage now says it has 3 comments, but if you open it, comments are turned off and there are none. This site used to be cute animals, clever art, inspiring stories, etc. Now it's just copy/pasted reddit threads, whiny tiktokkers, and ads disguised as content. You're going the wrong way, BP. Keep posting fake AI "art" and your weekly hate-America-post, anti-work or anti-landlord reddit threads, and dull tiktoks and I don't think this site will last. I can only imagine a few months from now when every other post will be purchased by the kardashian or Taylor Swift publicists. Thank you for your time. I Edit: I'm not associated in any way with "DB", the idiot who commented on this. What a moron.

moi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's wild. Does anyone know of other websites that are similar to what bored panda is meant to be. It is just mainly aita nonsense now...and I read it but it's because I'm used to coming on to the site to pass time so I just go along with it like a drone haha. Suggestions welcome for any websites that aren't just this

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Pyla
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Read up on the rescues who are always getting horses out of the auctions. Amish have a long history of buying standardbred trotters off the track, because harnessing is involved and they are well handled, and then running them into the ground. Then dumping them at auctions. Worse horses arrive with harness marks (drafts and carriage animals), injuries that are unattended by a vet, worn to the bone, and lame. A more despicable group I can not imagine.

Rebekah Krause
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also known for puppy mills with terrible conditions, child abuse, shunning victims of sexual assault. It’s not wholesome just because they don’t have technology.

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Jill
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can someone please tell me why they keep using the word "escaped" all the time here? The Amish allow ppl to leave. It's just that those who leave are shunned by their family and community. It's not like they lock their kids in the barn or something. In fact, all the teenagers have "rumspringa" where they are encouraged to go learn about the world and live like the rest of us. In fact, it's during this time that the Amish kids can go really wild. It's only after the kids return that they join the church as official members. As for having large families of 19 kids....well..yeah, that's not uncommon for even non Amish farming families in the 1800's.

Mysteria
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some Amish communities can be really strict tho. We need more info about this girl to know the situation she was in

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