Woman Was Cheated On 12 Years Ago, Exposes Mistress’s Past To Her New Husband
One woman who had put her previous engagement far behind her was recently confronted with someone from her past that she hoped to never see again. Below, youâll find the full story that she posted on Reddit seeking advice, as well as an update she later shared and some of the replies invested readers left her.
This womanâs previous engagement was ruined by cheating
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Now, over a decade later, sheâs encountered the woman her ex prioritized over her
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Cheating occurs in about a third of unmarried couples who live together
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Getting engaged can be an extremely magical experience for many people. Youâre head over heels in love, and youâve finally agreed to spend the rest of your life with your partner. But being engaged sometimes makes people realize that theyâre actually not ready for marriage at all, and many end up getting cold feet or breaking up before they can walk down the aisle. In fact, a 2018 survey from MyGemma found that one fifth of all engagements are called off before anyone can say, âI do.â
And while no one wants to imagine the love of their life going behind their back and betraying them, the woman who shared this story is far from the first to have experienced it. According to Techopedia, cheating occurs in a whopping 30% to 40% of couples who arenât married but are living together.
As far as why people are being unfaithful, 72% of men who cheated reported having low relationship happiness, while 62% of women who cheated said the same. 69% of men who decided to stray from their partners also reported having low sexual satisfaction in their relationships, while 40% of women who cheated admitted that they felt the same way.
When it comes to where people are cheating on their partners, the United States is the biggest offender. But Germany, the United Kingdom and Brazil arenât far behind with their infidelity rates. Men are also more likely to cheat than women, as 23% have admitted to betraying their partners, while only 19% of women have done the same.
There are even certain professions that tend to attract more cheaters than others. Techopedia reports that men working in trades, IT and entrepreneurs are the most likely to be unfaithful. On the other hand, women working in the medical field, education and entrepreneurs have the highest rates of cheating. And a whopping 70% of military marriages have dealt with at least one instance of infidelity. Â
Itâs best to be honest with your partner about your past
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Itâs not a secret that most people would be hesitant to date a cheater. Many believe âonce a cheater, always a cheaterâ and arenât willing to take that risk. But what if it happened over a decade ago? Should it still be considered a problem?Â
Dating and Relationship Coach Ravid Yosef believes that itâs actually a good idea to be open and honest with your partner about this uncomfortable part of your past, as it can help the two of you build trust. “Just as you would want to know that someone is divorced and why, you would want to know this,â he told Bustle.Â
Itâs also probably not a great idea to hold onto this information for too long, because then it might look like you were intentionally hiding it. Be honest in the early stages of your relationship to show your partner that youâre not trying to keep secrets.Â
While it might not be easy to have a conversation about past cheating, Yosef says that we all deserve to know exactly what weâre getting ourselves into when entering a new relationship. And we all know that honesty is a crucial component of any healthy relationship.
We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Do you think this woman did anything wrong by exposing Camillaâs past? Feel free to weigh in. Then, if youâd like to check out another Bored Panda article discussing similar issues, look no further than right here!
Readers assured the author that she had done nothing wrong, and she joined in on the conversation to share more details
Finally, the woman shared an update on the situation, including where Daniel and Camilla’s relationship stands
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Cheaters never prosper. Cam could have just quietly apologised again but she chose to escalate instead and victim blame... then paint herself as the victim instead. Glad they got therapy. Now everyone needs to move on.
This, exactly! Camilla still chose to lie instead of telling the truth from the get go. That would be my problem with cheaters, that lying comes so naturally to them!
Load More Replies...If she didn't want to be exposed as a lying, cheating whoree she shouldn't be a lying, cheating whoree. Yes I'm slutt shaming, I DESPISE cheaters
Cheaters never prosper. Cam could have just quietly apologised again but she chose to escalate instead and victim blame... then paint herself as the victim instead. Glad they got therapy. Now everyone needs to move on.
This, exactly! Camilla still chose to lie instead of telling the truth from the get go. That would be my problem with cheaters, that lying comes so naturally to them!
Load More Replies...If she didn't want to be exposed as a lying, cheating whoree she shouldn't be a lying, cheating whoree. Yes I'm slutt shaming, I DESPISE cheaters
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