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“Dystopian Hell”: Woman Goes Viral For Exposing The Dark Side Of Living In Dubai
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“Dystopian Hell”: Woman Goes Viral For Exposing The Dark Side Of Living In Dubai

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A TikToker exposed the dark side of living in Dubai, United Arab Emirates (UAE), describing it as a “dystopian hell.” The executive director of a human rights organization has since reacted to the influencer’s now-viral video, highlighting gender violence and the danger that comes with trying to defend victims.

Taking to her TikTok page on August 5, a woman who goes by “Anna” uploaded a video showcasing a couple of photographs of her time working in Dubai.

Highlights
  • A TikToker named 'Anna' described living in Dubai as a 'dystopian hell' in a now-viral video.
  • Anna highlighted issues such as gender violence, poor treatment of immigrants, and fake nature in Dubai.
  • The video has sparked divided opinions, with some praising Dubai's safety and others agreeing with Anna's criticisms.
  • Khalid Ibrahim from the Gulf Centre for Human Rights supported Anna's claims, citing massive human rights violations.
  • Cases like that of flight attendant Tori Towey underscore ongoing gender discrimination and legal challenges for women in Dubai.

In the slideshow, which has amassed over 620,000 views, the first picture showed Anna seemingly posing on a bridge in the Emirati city, with a text that read: “If you asked me about Dubai.”

The second photograph displayed Anna sitting at what appeared to be an Emirati traditional dinner table, with a text stating: “I’d say I hated it.”

A TikToker exposed the dark side of living in Dubai, United Arab Emirates (UAE)

Image credits: Nextvoyage/Pexels

The slideshow then showed a snap of Anna petting a camel in the dessert, with the following caption: “Her petting a camel in the desert.”

The last picture showcased a skyscraper at night time, with a text denouncing: “I’d say it’s the worst place I’ve ever lived.” 

Anna added: “I’ll never forget the image of people ordering gold-covered steaks while immigrants worked in 43C heat right outside the window. 

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“Walking 3 hours without seeing one piece of nature that didn’t seem fake, even the beaches and waves was artificial as some sort of dystopian hell. 

“Seeing girls stopped by police for dancing, and botox adds targeting me at 24… Men walking around with 3 wifes who all looked miserable. 

“Animals, women, immigrants, and everybody else except rich men are treated like objects. Literal hell.”

Image credits: danish.girl.anna

Anna finally wrote in the caption: “The way i’m never going back.”

The slideshow ignited divided opinions, as a TikTok user asked: “Only Westerners complain about it, best part of Dubai is its safety, can you say the same about Europe / America?”

A person commented: “It tells so much about a person when they say ‘Dubai is so amazing’.”

She described it as a “dystopian hell” 

Image credits: danish.girl.anna

Someone else penned: “This might be the best video about Dubai I’ve ever seen.”

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A viewer shared: “I live in Dubai, what Dubai are you talking about it’s literally the safest country in the world. 

“I can leave my car unlocked with my bag on the roof go about my day and it’s still there hours later.” 

Image credits: danish.girl.anna

Nevertheless, Anna replied: “Except as a woman you are adviced to never press charges if a man [sexually assaults] you, because according to their laws you can end up charged yourself for s3x outside marriage. Really safe”.

Consensual sexual relationships between adults outside of marriage are generally legal in the UAE, At Alketbi explains.

“[I’m] so glad to see more people acknowledging this about Dubai,” a netizen added. “Money can’t buy basic humanity.”

The executive director of a human rights organization has since reacted to the influencer’s now-viral video

Image credits: Nextvoyage/Pexels

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An observer noted: “Girl [New York City] is the exact same if not even worse.”

A separate individual chimed in: “I’m usually a person who sees the positive things in life, is happy, and loves every part of it, however, being in Dubai has had a big impact on my mental health, making me overthink everything, people here don’t seem empathetic, it feels like i’m surrounded by robots.”

Dubai has gained notoriety as a controversial city due to its history of human rights violations, including labor exploitation of migrant workers, who often face poor living conditions and low wages, as well as strict laws limiting freedom of speech and LGBTQ+ rights. 

Image credits: danish.girl.anna

Despite these issues, it remains a popular destination for tourists and expatriates, drawn by its luxury lifestyle, modern architecture, and tax-free environment. The city’s global appeal continues to grow, even as criticisms of its human rights record persist.

“The UAE ranks among the worst countries in term of human rights,” Khalid Ibrahim, Executive Director for Gulf Centre for Human Rights (GC4HR), told Bored Panda in an email.

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Khalid further shared: “There is [not] even one single human rights defender. The last one was my colleague, member of the GCHR Board, Ahmed Mansoor, who was detained since 20 March 2017, sentenced to 10 years in prison, and placed in solitary confinement until now.”

The human rights advocate concluded: “I agree about what [Anna] said in term of massive human rights violations, including women’s rights.”

The human rights advocate highlighted gender violence and the danger that comes with trying to defend victims

Image credits: danish.girl.anna

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In the UAE, victims of rape risk being charged with “illicit sex,” which can lead to imprisonment or flogging, as seen in the 2010 case of an Emirati woman sentenced to jail after reporting her gang rape, as per the United Nations’​ PeaceWomen​. 

Despite some legal reforms, Emirati laws still discriminate against women, particularly in areas like personal status and domestic violence, leaving many without adequate legal protection or recourse, Human Rights Watch stated in 2021.

In a more recent gender-biased case, United Arab Emirates flight attendant Tori Towey, from Ireland, was detained in Dubai after being charged with attempting to end her life amid ongoing domestic abuse.

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After being hospitalized with extensive injuries following an alleged assault by Tori’s husband, her passport was reportedly destroyed, and a travel ban had been imposed on her.

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Tori had reportedly gone to the authorities seeking protection many times, but to no avail. Following one particularly severe beating in which her husband repeatedly tried to slam doors on her arms and break her limbs, the 28-year-old escaped upstairs, and she attempted to take her own life.

Tori was subsequently charged by the Emirati police and detained, without being told why she had been arrested, what she was being charged with.

As small amounts of alcohol had been found in her system, Tori was reportedly charged with alcohol abuse, in addition with “attempted suicide.”

Bored Panda has contacted Anna for comment.

Anna’s TikTok video continued to spark various reactions

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greenideas
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UAE, like many Middle Eastern countries, use slave labour, mostly from Africa, N. Korea or SE Asia. These people have no rights and are beaten, or worse. Many die in the heat and are dumped somewhere. The commenters saying it's safe...well, they're likely male and wealthy.

Shane S
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. And “employers” pay for their workers’ flights, room & board, and then use that as an excuse to hold their passport making it impossible for migrant laborers to leave regardless of what their working and housing conditions are until they work off their debt or meet their predetermined work agreement. And these workers are poor, uneducated, and often desperate for work so they don’t know their rights- if they even have any.

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Pyla
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in Saudi, I mean, this is no surprise at all. It is all over the socials, though, that Dubai is some sort of fairyland. I am glad she had the prescience to notice the Third Country Nationals (poor islamic citizens who go for the jobs, only to discover it's basically slaverey) toiling in the heat. She's right: if you are a wealthy male, you are a king.

BeesEelsAndPups
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in both countries, and Saudi Arabia is far far worse, but I wouldn't choose to live in any Arabian country. Maybe the Lebanon of 20 years ago. But not even Israel, which is the most "liberal" country on the peninsula.

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K Trumble
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone said NYC is as bad as Dubai? That person has some real problems. You might be able to walk while rich, but it's literally unsafe for every other type of person in Dubai.

MrsFettesVette
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I'd like to know what that persons life is like if they think NYC is like Dubai- we don't imprison LGBTQ people here or consenting adults who have sex outside of marriage. You won't be imprisoned for trying to unalive yourself or for drinking or having d***s in your system. You can seek medical or mental health help without being jailed. They are not remotely the same

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Lulu Waters
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you notice, the majority of people disagreeing with her, are male. No surprise there.

JayWantsACat
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"The video has sparked divided opinions, with some praising Dubai's safety..." Yeah, safe for the straight men who are citizens who don;t criticize the government but literally no one else.

T'Mar of Vulcan
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would NEVER go there because as a woman I wouldn't feel safe. Yes, your things are safe if you leave them somewhere but if someone r@pes you, you're the one who gets arrested. People who aren't Emirati who are born there aren't even citizens, even if their parents were also born there. And workers are so strictly controlled they ARE basically slaves. Hell to the no.

Gavin Johnson
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Friend of mine got deserted there by her now ex-husband, they lived and worked there. She and her 6 month old daughter weren’t allowed to leave the country without his written permission. She’s from SA, he’s a Brit. She was stuck there ‘cause he left the country, had a breakdown and didn’t return. Obviously a lot more ins and outs but essentially she was stranded there until he decided to return. Bizarre.

TotallyNOTAFox
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think people should be educated about their rights when it comes to such things, for example it's possible to get an appointment at the own or even some foreign embassies to get help. The british embassy in Dubai for example would have provided help if her then husband was a british citizen

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RobotMonkey God
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

looks like a haven for rich tossbags who think their bank accounts are a substitute for personality...

rullyman
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many comments her blaming her for not researching before she went. Dubai has a lot of advocates, you know, and every country has good and bad bits. I see people online all the time going on and on about how they love the place, it's so safe, it's lovely, it's paradise etc. It's my idea of hell, but I can understand why someone would trust those people and choose to go. It's the same with any country. There are good and bad bits and you'll find people talking about both online. If you trusted what some people say about London, for example- then it's a gang ridden hellhole full of violence and robbery and so on, and you might be put off.

Arenite
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In what way is NYC “exact same” as Dubai? Someone is seriously delusional! And, what do you expect in an Arab country? Women are nothing, and have no rights. How I wish people would stop dumping money into this hellhole pit.

Steve Robert
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the Muslims do in the Middle East, the "christians" want to do the same thing here in the US.

P Peitsch
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You won't build a metropolis in the middle of the dessert in just some years expecting it wouldn't be artificial, and would respect the human rights.

David Ray
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is literally a paradise for a few wealthy men and their trained from birth to be domestic/sex slave "wives", I had friends that would have a local medicine man/ priest/ voodoo/islamic nonsense pimp who would marry them to a beautiful and completely obedient russian/eastern european woman for a few hours then divorce them all for a generous "donation to the priests pocket" . These guys were dressed and probably completely legitimate religious men but they specialised in the legal loophole of prostitution with a few extra steps. This is not a rumour or something exaggerated, it was routine and accepted at major hotels. Islam has a lot of loopholes as do most religions for exploitation for monetary gain. The women get nothing, just pretty dresses and nice rooms to stay. no retirement plan for UAE overnight wives club.

Lethal Knelt (Lethal Lenders Hewn Knelt)
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not really safe if your a woman, or a foreigner, or are outspoken. Dystopian Hell seems pretty accurate.

Ivan Stojnov
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's not forget that sharia law in in place there. A girl from UK was raped there, and upon reporting that to police, she got arrested for "having sex outside marriage". Rapist was never proccessed since he was an local arab.

Maria Maria
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood why anyone would travel to Dubai. I would rather go to North Korea. To the person who said that New York City is the same as Dubai, l say get a brain.

kansasmagic
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Safety" is the rallying cry of fascists and authoritarians everywhere. "What about human rights abuses?" "Yes, but it's *safe* [for the favored few, but why let that detail get in the way of glitz and glam]."

Karl
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My boss holidays in Dubai and he’s a total c**t so no surprise there

Bernd Herbert
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at the people in my town who fly to Dubai I have to agree with you partially….one half is c***s the others are idiots

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similarly
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some places in the world I have zero interest in living. Dubai is one of those places. People can say "Why didn't you ..." F that! People are ALLOWED to not like a place. People are allowed to complain about a place. People are allowed to go somewhere without doing research, or having bought into the marketing of a place, or having heard only a limited perspective of a place, and then arriving there, be shocked about things they don't like. I notice that a lot of people agreeing with her are women and a lot of people making snide and disgusting comments are men. I don't find that surprising.

Gary
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is she being congratulated for highlighting this, every one knows this, these are known facts for like ever?

Ivan Stojnov
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's not forget that sharia law in in place there. A girl from UK was raped there, and upon reporting that to police, she got arrested for "having sex outside marriage". Rapist was never proccessed since he was an local arab. BTW, rascism is the norm. If there are 3 people in the shop, first one to be serviced is an arab, then a white man, and a black girl at the end.

Guess Undheit
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dubious dubai, hell hole of theocratic islamic fascism along with many others. The only ones that feel safe their are wealthy cisgender heterosexual males. Atheist, queer, Transgender? They'll imprison, torture, or kill you. A cis woman? They'll rape you and get away with it.

Cathy
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bit what I really, really do not understand is why, if you have so much money and you are a religious person, why you do not make sure that your workers have clothes and food?? Why?

Joe Bloe
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She found out it was fake only AFTER someone pay for her visit to this hell-hole... She should have looked before putting herself into danger.

Anony Mouse
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here are a bunch of pictures of ME looking cute in this dystopian hellhole. Look at me! I made a boring tiktok about how cute I look in this soulless garbage land. Look at MEEEE!

LokisLilButterknife
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never understood the appeal of Dubai. It sounds like Las Vegas on steroids. There's no history and no true culture. Honestly, it is just a playground for the super wealthy. I don't think I would feel comfortable there as a queer woman as some parts of the Middle East unfortunately does not have the best track record for human rights. Furthermore, Dubai was built and is still being built using slave labour.

Tabitha
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Notice who it is who says Dubai is a great place to live. Sure, if you’re a rich man it is. But if you’re not, it sounds like a dystopian hell

David
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know there are other parts of the UAE other than Dubai, ones that are less fake

Sergio Bicerra
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I hear Dubai I think sand, slavery, malls and Lambos. That's all, no appeal to me.

Cathy Roberts
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like every other argument about privilege. The people who aren't affected think it's not an issue, while it clearly is for every other group. The comments on safety are all relative. Is it safer? It depends, again, on the group you're in. Is the US more dangerous? Cities, I mean....maybe? You can still have someone arrested if you are SA'd without having to fear you'll be charged (at least so far, let's hope project 2025 doesn't come to fruition). But, I live in a town of 3,000 people with virtually no crime at all. There are huge portions of this country where crime is a complete non-issue, you just don't see them on TV or hear about them from fear mongering politicians.

Imadoggo
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know I'm commenting this from my safe ( ish ) home in the US but Saudi Arabia and the UAE are all just countries built on the bodies of slaves

SAF saf
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yep, I mean everything that is used to attract people to Dubai involves being exceedingly wealthy. If you're already rich you can enjoy yourself anywhere...you have means to. Well unless you're into some shady s**t like owning a person or hunting people or some dark s**t like that. Come on... equating Dubai to NYC is BS. You can always leave New York that can't be said for Dubai.

Zull&Panda
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why we are not collectively boicotting Dubai is a mistery to me. It's not even the fact that they exploited lands to build it and created an unsustainable environment in a desert land, but the fact that workers there are slaves and can not go back to their home countries because employers have their passports is unaccetable on every level.

TotallyNOTAFox
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because we humans don't have a hive mind - There are always idiots that like facist states, socialist/communist systems or support theocratic hierachies.

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Cathy
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband had to work on a three day project there, many years ago. he said he saw people who had rags as clothes and were using pickaxes in the middle of the desert, like it was the middle ages.

Trundle
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the person who said NYC is the same thing as if that was a winning argument. Everyone already knows nyc Is awful lmaoo

Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of my old GFs was there back in the 90s when she was touring with Circ Du Soleil. She did not like it one bit. I can only imagine it's gotten worse over the last three decades.

Hoi-Polloi
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drop insane oil wealth, Islam, and a desire for foreign tourism into a bowl. Stir. Now you've got Dubai. If my daughter wanted to go there, I'd eat her passport.

Freya the Wanderer
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Still not convinced that Dubai is Hell on Earth with a thin veneer of paradise? Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30gZVau_SkM

der sebbl
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1 month ago

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Miki
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who in the right mind would like to live there. I mean if you are not wanted by your country law enforcement agencies.

Kalpana Sharma
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 month ago

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I have lived in Qatar and now Bahrain, and have visited the UAE many times, only two of the Emirates though, Dubai and Abu Dhabi, and I really don't understand the hate these places get, obviously Dubai in this instance. Have most of the people trashing Dubai, ever actually been, or are they just commenting on how much they hate the idea of a place? I love the middle East, love living in the region, love working in the region, though Dubai probably doesn't hold the same appeal as a weekend destination that it did in my late 20s early 30s now that I am 40, but that's no different from a city like Vegas, its not just the Strip, people live work and raise families there. . After stints in Myanmar and Thailand, we realized we needed to move back to the ME, we missed it, it was a great lifestyle and lovely people. On the most basic level, who argues with big salaries, no taxes and low crime?

Auntriarch
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in the UAE in the 80s. Everything was fine, great place to live, until something went wrong. We were lucky, not everyone I knew was.

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Ekaterina Myers
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1 month ago

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6 years in the UAE and I do feel safer here. After all I can still keep my table by just leaving my phone and bag there when I need to go to the bathroom outside of the cafe. Can you do it in Europe? We don’t lock the doors. I am not worried about weirdos sending their unsolicited images to me or my kids, my car won’t get vandalized or stolen like it happened in my own country to me before etc.

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1 month ago

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My father-in-law is a disabled man who lives in Dubai. As a disabled person he says he feels safer there than he does in the USA.

Mike F
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1 month ago

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Did she do no investigation before moving her life to a country that is KNOWN as being patriarchal to the point of misogynistic and expecting them to just change to suit her? 🤔 Would she also expect to pack up and relocate to a place that practices cannabilism and not wind up between 2 slices of bread? What a fruitloop.

greenideas
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UAE, like many Middle Eastern countries, use slave labour, mostly from Africa, N. Korea or SE Asia. These people have no rights and are beaten, or worse. Many die in the heat and are dumped somewhere. The commenters saying it's safe...well, they're likely male and wealthy.

Shane S
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. And “employers” pay for their workers’ flights, room & board, and then use that as an excuse to hold their passport making it impossible for migrant laborers to leave regardless of what their working and housing conditions are until they work off their debt or meet their predetermined work agreement. And these workers are poor, uneducated, and often desperate for work so they don’t know their rights- if they even have any.

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Pyla
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in Saudi, I mean, this is no surprise at all. It is all over the socials, though, that Dubai is some sort of fairyland. I am glad she had the prescience to notice the Third Country Nationals (poor islamic citizens who go for the jobs, only to discover it's basically slaverey) toiling in the heat. She's right: if you are a wealthy male, you are a king.

BeesEelsAndPups
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in both countries, and Saudi Arabia is far far worse, but I wouldn't choose to live in any Arabian country. Maybe the Lebanon of 20 years ago. But not even Israel, which is the most "liberal" country on the peninsula.

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K Trumble
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone said NYC is as bad as Dubai? That person has some real problems. You might be able to walk while rich, but it's literally unsafe for every other type of person in Dubai.

MrsFettesVette
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I'd like to know what that persons life is like if they think NYC is like Dubai- we don't imprison LGBTQ people here or consenting adults who have sex outside of marriage. You won't be imprisoned for trying to unalive yourself or for drinking or having d***s in your system. You can seek medical or mental health help without being jailed. They are not remotely the same

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Lulu Waters
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you notice, the majority of people disagreeing with her, are male. No surprise there.

JayWantsACat
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"The video has sparked divided opinions, with some praising Dubai's safety..." Yeah, safe for the straight men who are citizens who don;t criticize the government but literally no one else.

T'Mar of Vulcan
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would NEVER go there because as a woman I wouldn't feel safe. Yes, your things are safe if you leave them somewhere but if someone r@pes you, you're the one who gets arrested. People who aren't Emirati who are born there aren't even citizens, even if their parents were also born there. And workers are so strictly controlled they ARE basically slaves. Hell to the no.

Gavin Johnson
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Friend of mine got deserted there by her now ex-husband, they lived and worked there. She and her 6 month old daughter weren’t allowed to leave the country without his written permission. She’s from SA, he’s a Brit. She was stuck there ‘cause he left the country, had a breakdown and didn’t return. Obviously a lot more ins and outs but essentially she was stranded there until he decided to return. Bizarre.

TotallyNOTAFox
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think people should be educated about their rights when it comes to such things, for example it's possible to get an appointment at the own or even some foreign embassies to get help. The british embassy in Dubai for example would have provided help if her then husband was a british citizen

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RobotMonkey God
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

looks like a haven for rich tossbags who think their bank accounts are a substitute for personality...

rullyman
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many comments her blaming her for not researching before she went. Dubai has a lot of advocates, you know, and every country has good and bad bits. I see people online all the time going on and on about how they love the place, it's so safe, it's lovely, it's paradise etc. It's my idea of hell, but I can understand why someone would trust those people and choose to go. It's the same with any country. There are good and bad bits and you'll find people talking about both online. If you trusted what some people say about London, for example- then it's a gang ridden hellhole full of violence and robbery and so on, and you might be put off.

Arenite
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In what way is NYC “exact same” as Dubai? Someone is seriously delusional! And, what do you expect in an Arab country? Women are nothing, and have no rights. How I wish people would stop dumping money into this hellhole pit.

Steve Robert
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the Muslims do in the Middle East, the "christians" want to do the same thing here in the US.

P Peitsch
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You won't build a metropolis in the middle of the dessert in just some years expecting it wouldn't be artificial, and would respect the human rights.

David Ray
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is literally a paradise for a few wealthy men and their trained from birth to be domestic/sex slave "wives", I had friends that would have a local medicine man/ priest/ voodoo/islamic nonsense pimp who would marry them to a beautiful and completely obedient russian/eastern european woman for a few hours then divorce them all for a generous "donation to the priests pocket" . These guys were dressed and probably completely legitimate religious men but they specialised in the legal loophole of prostitution with a few extra steps. This is not a rumour or something exaggerated, it was routine and accepted at major hotels. Islam has a lot of loopholes as do most religions for exploitation for monetary gain. The women get nothing, just pretty dresses and nice rooms to stay. no retirement plan for UAE overnight wives club.

Lethal Knelt (Lethal Lenders Hewn Knelt)
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not really safe if your a woman, or a foreigner, or are outspoken. Dystopian Hell seems pretty accurate.

Ivan Stojnov
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's not forget that sharia law in in place there. A girl from UK was raped there, and upon reporting that to police, she got arrested for "having sex outside marriage". Rapist was never proccessed since he was an local arab.

Maria Maria
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood why anyone would travel to Dubai. I would rather go to North Korea. To the person who said that New York City is the same as Dubai, l say get a brain.

kansasmagic
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Safety" is the rallying cry of fascists and authoritarians everywhere. "What about human rights abuses?" "Yes, but it's *safe* [for the favored few, but why let that detail get in the way of glitz and glam]."

Karl
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My boss holidays in Dubai and he’s a total c**t so no surprise there

Bernd Herbert
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at the people in my town who fly to Dubai I have to agree with you partially….one half is c***s the others are idiots

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similarly
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some places in the world I have zero interest in living. Dubai is one of those places. People can say "Why didn't you ..." F that! People are ALLOWED to not like a place. People are allowed to complain about a place. People are allowed to go somewhere without doing research, or having bought into the marketing of a place, or having heard only a limited perspective of a place, and then arriving there, be shocked about things they don't like. I notice that a lot of people agreeing with her are women and a lot of people making snide and disgusting comments are men. I don't find that surprising.

Gary
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is she being congratulated for highlighting this, every one knows this, these are known facts for like ever?

Ivan Stojnov
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's not forget that sharia law in in place there. A girl from UK was raped there, and upon reporting that to police, she got arrested for "having sex outside marriage". Rapist was never proccessed since he was an local arab. BTW, rascism is the norm. If there are 3 people in the shop, first one to be serviced is an arab, then a white man, and a black girl at the end.

Guess Undheit
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dubious dubai, hell hole of theocratic islamic fascism along with many others. The only ones that feel safe their are wealthy cisgender heterosexual males. Atheist, queer, Transgender? They'll imprison, torture, or kill you. A cis woman? They'll rape you and get away with it.

Cathy
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bit what I really, really do not understand is why, if you have so much money and you are a religious person, why you do not make sure that your workers have clothes and food?? Why?

Joe Bloe
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She found out it was fake only AFTER someone pay for her visit to this hell-hole... She should have looked before putting herself into danger.

Anony Mouse
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here are a bunch of pictures of ME looking cute in this dystopian hellhole. Look at me! I made a boring tiktok about how cute I look in this soulless garbage land. Look at MEEEE!

LokisLilButterknife
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never understood the appeal of Dubai. It sounds like Las Vegas on steroids. There's no history and no true culture. Honestly, it is just a playground for the super wealthy. I don't think I would feel comfortable there as a queer woman as some parts of the Middle East unfortunately does not have the best track record for human rights. Furthermore, Dubai was built and is still being built using slave labour.

Tabitha
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Notice who it is who says Dubai is a great place to live. Sure, if you’re a rich man it is. But if you’re not, it sounds like a dystopian hell

David
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know there are other parts of the UAE other than Dubai, ones that are less fake

Sergio Bicerra
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I hear Dubai I think sand, slavery, malls and Lambos. That's all, no appeal to me.

Cathy Roberts
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like every other argument about privilege. The people who aren't affected think it's not an issue, while it clearly is for every other group. The comments on safety are all relative. Is it safer? It depends, again, on the group you're in. Is the US more dangerous? Cities, I mean....maybe? You can still have someone arrested if you are SA'd without having to fear you'll be charged (at least so far, let's hope project 2025 doesn't come to fruition). But, I live in a town of 3,000 people with virtually no crime at all. There are huge portions of this country where crime is a complete non-issue, you just don't see them on TV or hear about them from fear mongering politicians.

Imadoggo
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know I'm commenting this from my safe ( ish ) home in the US but Saudi Arabia and the UAE are all just countries built on the bodies of slaves

SAF saf
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yep, I mean everything that is used to attract people to Dubai involves being exceedingly wealthy. If you're already rich you can enjoy yourself anywhere...you have means to. Well unless you're into some shady s**t like owning a person or hunting people or some dark s**t like that. Come on... equating Dubai to NYC is BS. You can always leave New York that can't be said for Dubai.

Zull&Panda
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why we are not collectively boicotting Dubai is a mistery to me. It's not even the fact that they exploited lands to build it and created an unsustainable environment in a desert land, but the fact that workers there are slaves and can not go back to their home countries because employers have their passports is unaccetable on every level.

TotallyNOTAFox
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because we humans don't have a hive mind - There are always idiots that like facist states, socialist/communist systems or support theocratic hierachies.

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Cathy
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband had to work on a three day project there, many years ago. he said he saw people who had rags as clothes and were using pickaxes in the middle of the desert, like it was the middle ages.

Trundle
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the person who said NYC is the same thing as if that was a winning argument. Everyone already knows nyc Is awful lmaoo

Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of my old GFs was there back in the 90s when she was touring with Circ Du Soleil. She did not like it one bit. I can only imagine it's gotten worse over the last three decades.

Hoi-Polloi
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drop insane oil wealth, Islam, and a desire for foreign tourism into a bowl. Stir. Now you've got Dubai. If my daughter wanted to go there, I'd eat her passport.

Freya the Wanderer
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Still not convinced that Dubai is Hell on Earth with a thin veneer of paradise? Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30gZVau_SkM

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Miki
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who in the right mind would like to live there. I mean if you are not wanted by your country law enforcement agencies.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 month ago

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I have lived in Qatar and now Bahrain, and have visited the UAE many times, only two of the Emirates though, Dubai and Abu Dhabi, and I really don't understand the hate these places get, obviously Dubai in this instance. Have most of the people trashing Dubai, ever actually been, or are they just commenting on how much they hate the idea of a place? I love the middle East, love living in the region, love working in the region, though Dubai probably doesn't hold the same appeal as a weekend destination that it did in my late 20s early 30s now that I am 40, but that's no different from a city like Vegas, its not just the Strip, people live work and raise families there. . After stints in Myanmar and Thailand, we realized we needed to move back to the ME, we missed it, it was a great lifestyle and lovely people. On the most basic level, who argues with big salaries, no taxes and low crime?

Auntriarch
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in the UAE in the 80s. Everything was fine, great place to live, until something went wrong. We were lucky, not everyone I knew was.

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Ekaterina Myers
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1 month ago

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6 years in the UAE and I do feel safer here. After all I can still keep my table by just leaving my phone and bag there when I need to go to the bathroom outside of the cafe. Can you do it in Europe? We don’t lock the doors. I am not worried about weirdos sending their unsolicited images to me or my kids, my car won’t get vandalized or stolen like it happened in my own country to me before etc.

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My father-in-law is a disabled man who lives in Dubai. As a disabled person he says he feels safer there than he does in the USA.

Mike F
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Did she do no investigation before moving her life to a country that is KNOWN as being patriarchal to the point of misogynistic and expecting them to just change to suit her? 🤔 Would she also expect to pack up and relocate to a place that practices cannabilism and not wind up between 2 slices of bread? What a fruitloop.

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