Person Agrees To Accommodate Friend’s SIL While She’s Getting Her ‘Mummy Makeover’, Regrets It After One Chat With Her
The subreddit ‘Choosing Beggars‘ is a place where people share stories and experiences of individuals who make outrageous or entitled demands, often in exchange for little or no effort on their own part. And if it had a hall of fame, this woman would definitely end up there.
Recently, she booked a butt job in another city and contacted Reddit user Mother_Customer7570 through her sister-in-law, demanding they give her a place to stay, drive her around, and feed her during the period leading up to the surgery and the recovery afterward.
This person was contacted by a stranger who had booked a butt job in their hometown and wanted them to allow her to crash at their place
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However, that was just the tip of the demand list
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Image credits: u/Mother_Customer7570
A Brazilian butt lift is a specialized fat transfer procedure that augments the size and shape of the buttocks without implants. During it, excess fat is removed from the hips, abdomen, lower back, or thighs with liposuction, and a portion of this fat is then strategically injected into the buttocks.
While pain is typically minimal and easily controlled with medication, the patient isn’t allowed to sit or lie directly on their buttocks for about 2 weeks after the “lift.”
During this time, the patient needs to sleep on their stomach or side, and either lie this way or stand for all activities except using the toilet. When they are ready, the cosmetic surgeon will allow them to sit in a modified position, using a “donut” seat or placing a pillow under their thighs to avoid pressure on the buttocks. Normal sitting activity is typically allowed after 8 weeks or so.
Following the surgeon’s instructions, the patient should be able to resume light daily activities within 1 week after surgery and return to work within 10 to 14 days.
So the choosing beggar would have definitely been a handful if the Redditor agreed to take her in.
As the story went viral, the original poster (OP) shared an update on the conflict
Image credits: Mother_Customer7570
There are many reasons why someone might attempt such an opportunistic move. But psychologist and decision researcher Eva Krockow, Ph.D., thinks stunts like this stem from human nature.
She said people experience a pleasant high after receiving a freebie in an expensive world where we frequently have to pay even for visiting a public toilet. It’s like winning the lottery with a ticket you found on the street.
“Well, it was quite a night,” Mother_Customer757 said after their story blew up. “I did not expect this post to get as much traction as it did. [I’m] glad to know I’m not the crazy one.”
“My friend’s friend (ex-roomie) who is also my friend was messaging [the choosing beggar] and she sent me screenshots of the stuff she was saying about me. Very below-the-belt hurtful stuff, a lot of wrong info but glad to know what [she] really thought about me. To think I almost had this woman in my home boggles my mind.”
The Redditor said that the popularity of their post has helped them and given them a better perspective of the bigger picture.
And while people expressed their outrage, the person provided more details in the comments
back in 1999, i had to have surgery at a hospital that specialized in it. the hospital was about 300 mi away from where i lived. since it was going to be outpatient surgery i had booked a hotel close by as post op appts would be easier. the dr required that i stay near by for at least 3 days just because i lived so far away and he wanted to make sure i could do the return travel. told family/friends that i would be fine as hospital did have shuttle to and from. so, i flew down & was blown away when i got off the plane to see my best friend standing there waiting for me. she wanted to help w/aftercare. also, she worked for major hotel chain which allowed one free overnight at any of their hotels. she worked it out that we would 'bounce' from two different hotels so cut costs there. that is what friends do-help but not use.
That’s so nice! I need some friends or family like that! I have to go to the hospital a fair amount, and on the days I can’t drive, because I’m too sick, I often get rolled eyes, or if it’s inconvenient for them some other pony excuse. The hospital is 25 mins away 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...Narcissists are 100% c**ty. OP needs to read about Echoism. Wish I’d known about this 60 years ago
Load More Replies...No reason whatsoever to let that kind of people into your life let alone your home. The friend has some explaining to do- sending that nightmare OPs way.
I'm guess the friend is getting manipulated too, but can't see it because it's closer to home. I'd recommend the OP set clear boundaries, back away from this situation, and let her friend know she'll still be around when this horrible SIL is no longer in then picture.
Load More Replies...At first I thought that this is some vital and necessary surgery, and from experience I know how helpless it is to feel afterwards. I needed an escort to the bathroom and help with washing, not to mention the pain, and it was "just" my knee. Then I read that it's cosmetic surgery and one of the deadliest one, so I was like, thanks, bye. You should really use that thinking brain.
This CB has lost her ever loving mind thinking that a stranger would do all this for her, for free. She's batshît crazy but really seems truly personality disordered. That's no kind of friend to suggest this kind of imposition to her SIL. CB trying to bulldoze OP with her bullying, gaslighting, and delusional, comments. She wants a taxi, home health care, a personal chef, a waitress, a hotel, and a personal maid, for 7-14 days free of charge, she's seriously out of touch with reality. I hope OP sticks to her word because there's no way in hêll I'd let that woman near me or my home. CB and the friend can kick rocks.
She also has three children to take care of and is spending tens of thousands on cosmetic surgery when she apparently doesn't have enough left over to pay for a hotel and food. I can't imagine completely draining my savings for a cosmetic procedure and I don't even have children to think about. I'd save up until I had enough for the surgery and still have a basic emergency fund.
Load More Replies...Why would you want to stay 1.5 hours away from the place you have surgery? It would be incredibly inconvenient, and mean 1.5 hours in the car right after surgery - painful and exhausting. FFS get a hotel room next door to the clinic, preferably one that has room service. If you can't afford it, wait a few more months and save some more money, this is purely cosmetic surgery, so there's no rush. This woman is cheap and crazy, as well as being an entitled b***h. Nope out fast, you don't want her crazy a*s in your house demanding food, and after care, and taxi services.
BBL is one of the most dangerous cosmetic surgeries, there is no way I would ever get one. I just can't believe that someone is capable of being so rude to someone doing them a favour. I think I would have to break the friendship since it was the friend that brought all the stress to OPs door.
In other words, her husband has prepared for widowhood and the children know how to prepare for life without a mother. How selfish (well, there may be a serious mental disorder in the background) can a person be. Isn't there a disease classification for this kind of unhealthy body mutilation? Fortunately, there is such a thing for tanorexia, for example.
Load More Replies...I used to live next door to a woman who really needed to be in a nursing home but she didn't want to go to one. She had 3 adult kids who refused to take care of her but didn't want her in a nursing home because it would take all her income and she was paying premiums for life ins. her kids would get after her death. I felt sorry for her and started helping her. Well that turned into a full time UNPAID job every single day. The woman and her kids became more and more demanding acting like I was obligated to take care of her instead of actually appreciating what I was doing for all of them. After several months, she had to go to the hospital. I let her know 3 days before she was discharged that I wouldn't be able to help her anymore. The sh!t hit the fan with her and her kids screaming at me, cursing and threatening me and even vandalizing my property. I'm not opposed to helping people but I'm very cautious now to not be used by people who think they're entitled.
That is truly awful behaviour. Wow. I'm actually stunned at that. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you are alright. Try to do something nice for someone and are treated that way. Screaming at you and vandalising your house is not on - ever! What a way to behave. Gees!
Load More Replies...They offered $100. That is hysterical. Simply allowing use of your guest room post surgery is asking too much. Some hotels refuse renting to surgical patients because the aftercare is horribly messy and considered hazardous medical waste.
back in 1999, i had to have surgery at a hospital that specialized in it. the hospital was about 300 mi away from where i lived. since it was going to be outpatient surgery i had booked a hotel close by as post op appts would be easier. the dr required that i stay near by for at least 3 days just because i lived so far away and he wanted to make sure i could do the return travel. told family/friends that i would be fine as hospital did have shuttle to and from. so, i flew down & was blown away when i got off the plane to see my best friend standing there waiting for me. she wanted to help w/aftercare. also, she worked for major hotel chain which allowed one free overnight at any of their hotels. she worked it out that we would 'bounce' from two different hotels so cut costs there. that is what friends do-help but not use.
That’s so nice! I need some friends or family like that! I have to go to the hospital a fair amount, and on the days I can’t drive, because I’m too sick, I often get rolled eyes, or if it’s inconvenient for them some other pony excuse. The hospital is 25 mins away 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...Narcissists are 100% c**ty. OP needs to read about Echoism. Wish I’d known about this 60 years ago
Load More Replies...No reason whatsoever to let that kind of people into your life let alone your home. The friend has some explaining to do- sending that nightmare OPs way.
I'm guess the friend is getting manipulated too, but can't see it because it's closer to home. I'd recommend the OP set clear boundaries, back away from this situation, and let her friend know she'll still be around when this horrible SIL is no longer in then picture.
Load More Replies...At first I thought that this is some vital and necessary surgery, and from experience I know how helpless it is to feel afterwards. I needed an escort to the bathroom and help with washing, not to mention the pain, and it was "just" my knee. Then I read that it's cosmetic surgery and one of the deadliest one, so I was like, thanks, bye. You should really use that thinking brain.
This CB has lost her ever loving mind thinking that a stranger would do all this for her, for free. She's batshît crazy but really seems truly personality disordered. That's no kind of friend to suggest this kind of imposition to her SIL. CB trying to bulldoze OP with her bullying, gaslighting, and delusional, comments. She wants a taxi, home health care, a personal chef, a waitress, a hotel, and a personal maid, for 7-14 days free of charge, she's seriously out of touch with reality. I hope OP sticks to her word because there's no way in hêll I'd let that woman near me or my home. CB and the friend can kick rocks.
She also has three children to take care of and is spending tens of thousands on cosmetic surgery when she apparently doesn't have enough left over to pay for a hotel and food. I can't imagine completely draining my savings for a cosmetic procedure and I don't even have children to think about. I'd save up until I had enough for the surgery and still have a basic emergency fund.
Load More Replies...Why would you want to stay 1.5 hours away from the place you have surgery? It would be incredibly inconvenient, and mean 1.5 hours in the car right after surgery - painful and exhausting. FFS get a hotel room next door to the clinic, preferably one that has room service. If you can't afford it, wait a few more months and save some more money, this is purely cosmetic surgery, so there's no rush. This woman is cheap and crazy, as well as being an entitled b***h. Nope out fast, you don't want her crazy a*s in your house demanding food, and after care, and taxi services.
BBL is one of the most dangerous cosmetic surgeries, there is no way I would ever get one. I just can't believe that someone is capable of being so rude to someone doing them a favour. I think I would have to break the friendship since it was the friend that brought all the stress to OPs door.
In other words, her husband has prepared for widowhood and the children know how to prepare for life without a mother. How selfish (well, there may be a serious mental disorder in the background) can a person be. Isn't there a disease classification for this kind of unhealthy body mutilation? Fortunately, there is such a thing for tanorexia, for example.
Load More Replies...I used to live next door to a woman who really needed to be in a nursing home but she didn't want to go to one. She had 3 adult kids who refused to take care of her but didn't want her in a nursing home because it would take all her income and she was paying premiums for life ins. her kids would get after her death. I felt sorry for her and started helping her. Well that turned into a full time UNPAID job every single day. The woman and her kids became more and more demanding acting like I was obligated to take care of her instead of actually appreciating what I was doing for all of them. After several months, she had to go to the hospital. I let her know 3 days before she was discharged that I wouldn't be able to help her anymore. The sh!t hit the fan with her and her kids screaming at me, cursing and threatening me and even vandalizing my property. I'm not opposed to helping people but I'm very cautious now to not be used by people who think they're entitled.
That is truly awful behaviour. Wow. I'm actually stunned at that. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you are alright. Try to do something nice for someone and are treated that way. Screaming at you and vandalising your house is not on - ever! What a way to behave. Gees!
Load More Replies...They offered $100. That is hysterical. Simply allowing use of your guest room post surgery is asking too much. Some hotels refuse renting to surgical patients because the aftercare is horribly messy and considered hazardous medical waste.





































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