“I Didn’t React The Right Way To My Husband’s Cheating Prank And Now Our Marriage Is Not The Same”
There are some things that just should not be joked about. Whether they are offensive to certain groups of people or just too sensitive of a topic to ever be funny, it’s best to avoid these things in your comedy. There are a million jokes and pranks that can be done without hurting anyone’s feelings, so why resort to a punchline that will feel like a kick in the gut?
Recently, one husband had no gauge of where the line is when it comes to pranks and crossed it without any hesitation. His wife then shared the story of his ‘prank’ (if you can even call it that…) on the True Off My Chest subreddit, so below, you can read the full story and decide how you would have responded in this situation. Let us know what you think of this husband’s ‘sense of humor’, and if you are planning any pranks for your loved ones, please don’t make the same mistake he did. Then if you’re looking for a more lighthearted Bored Panda article to read next, check out this story featuring pranks that are actually harmless and don’t result in anyone crying.
Recently, one wife shared the story of a ‘prank’ her husband pulled on her that has had lasting effects
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I’m not sure how this husband considered the idea of having an affair and betraying his wife funny in the first place, but I would guess that he would not find it as hilarious if she was the one “having an affair”. For a prank to be funny, it has to be harmless and/or ridiculous enough that it could not possibly be true. But unfortunately, infidelity is a common issue that tears marriages apart every day. Letting your partner even think for a moment, let alone hours that they have been cheated on is sick. And according to the Institute for Family Studies, men are more likely to cheat than women, so it’s no surprise that this wife believed what she had seen.
The wife continued to elaborate on the situation in the comments
Rates of infidelity are staggering, with 20% of married men saying they have slept with someone other than their spouse and 13% of married women saying the same. Realizing your partner is cheating is also a nightmare for many individuals, as it makes a couple over twice as likely to get divorced. Even if they agree to stay married, after someone’s trust has been broken, it can be incredibly hard to repair the bond between a couple. A funny prank would be putting googly eyes on the fruit in the fridge or hiding a fake spider in the cupboard. Causing emotional distress and leading your partner to believe that your marriage is ruined is not cute or funny.
Sadly, even though the affair was a joke, this couple now has to face the consequences of this husband’s immature actions. Hopefully, the wife will be able to convince her husband to attend therapy or work through this issue, or she needs to figure out what the best course of action is for the wellbeing of herself and her children. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation below and how you would respond in the wife’s shoes. Has your partner ever crossed the line with a prank? If you have ever been in a similar situation, feel free to share with your fellow pandas how you were able to either move past it or move on.
Many readers have reassured the wife that her reaction was not the problem, and that this ‘prank’ was way more than just a joke
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“Prank” him by leaving divorce papers out where he can see them..see how he likes that. What an a$$hole
You nailed the perfect thing for her to do to him. She should have him served with papers that include a legal eviction time limit to it, like pack your bags and be out of the house by midnight or something, plus have plenty of friends and family at her house that day, just to be safe. See how HE feels about it. Except, in this case, it should be legit, and the number should actually be for her lawyer’s office.
Load More Replies...That's not just gaslighting, it's setting the entire oil field on fire and telling you to be grateful for the warmth it provides.
Oh my lord. This man is definitely not mature enough to be a husband and father. What a truly twisted, cruel thing to do and then to gaslight her over her reaction as well? I would be seeing a lawyer.
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Load More Replies...I think the commenter who said the guy was playing "the pick me dance" has it spot-on. Hubby says he didn't know how he expected her to react, which is a lie. He just doesn't want to admit he was expecting her to weep, beg him to stay, ask what she did wrong "to drive him into another woman's arms" sort of thing. Now he's angry because he didn't get the ego-stroking attention he believed this cruel "prank" would produce.
I got 50 bucks that says he expected more sex, kinkier sex and possibly permission to keep screwing "Eve".
Load More Replies...This kind of prank is incredibly dangerous. Let's say that the "cheated" person went completely the opposite way, went mad and violent, and accidentally hurt (or worse) the partner... Or, in a moment of desperation, decided to kill themselves... It wouldn't be the first time that happened... Same as those pranks where you scare the other person to death; what if they get so scared they get a heart attack?
Or she could have gone mad and killed her children and herself.
Load More Replies...I don’t jump on the divorce train very quickly, but his need for her to be more something (he doesn’t even know what), and apologize for not being or doing the thing he can’t explain screams emotional abuse. Run, sweetheart, run.
Best advice I've seen! You summed this whole situation up perfectly
Load More Replies...It was an utterly cruel & immature prank that was totally uncalled for! The worst is, he still doesn’t get how much hurt he has caused his wife. Idiot!
Or his kids. That never occured to this selfish POS at all.
Load More Replies...This idea of a "prank" is worse than cheating, imho. Throw the whole husband out, you deserve better!
Yes. I would be likelier to forgive actual cheating than this
Load More Replies...Heartbreaking and cruel. If you've been cheated on before, this can send a person into a panic attack. When you've built a life together for years, and see it crumbling down, it's devastating. This is behavior people do so they can say "it's a joke, it's a joke." And then go on to cheat. If he's being defensive instead of sorry, I don't think I would be able to continue a marriage with someone who gets enjoyment out of my suffering. Stand up for yourself. Also, I would bet that he's done other behaviors that are red flags, too.
It was remotely done and professionally handled with few requirements. Things were not going well for me in my relationship, I was so confused and I didn't know what to do. things became worse when my husband started telling me he needs to stay long hours at work almost every night for clubs and out with friends not knowing he was seeing someone else, it is good as dead when you cant take charge of your relationship because it was so surprising to me what was happening because he wasn't lacking anything. But I was helped by Fred Hacker who monitored his activity and found out that he had been blackmailed by his past life and in the process he was sleeping with who was blackmailing him. It was terrible for me and if you want to catch your cheating partner, reach out to him and he'll surely help you. Contact him on fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text,call him on +19782951763 and you can whatsapp him on +15177981808
Load More Replies...Get rid of him while the kids are still young, otherwise he will pull this c**p on them, too.
Ding ding ding! Is he going to think it's funny to claim one of the kids is pregnant/got someone pregnant, got arrested, is someplace they shouldn't be? Is he going to pull pranks like this on the kids, and make them question reality and their own experiences? He's a lousy husband and father.
Load More Replies...“Prank” him by leaving divorce papers out where he can see them..see how he likes that. What an a$$hole
You nailed the perfect thing for her to do to him. She should have him served with papers that include a legal eviction time limit to it, like pack your bags and be out of the house by midnight or something, plus have plenty of friends and family at her house that day, just to be safe. See how HE feels about it. Except, in this case, it should be legit, and the number should actually be for her lawyer’s office.
Load More Replies...That's not just gaslighting, it's setting the entire oil field on fire and telling you to be grateful for the warmth it provides.
Oh my lord. This man is definitely not mature enough to be a husband and father. What a truly twisted, cruel thing to do and then to gaslight her over her reaction as well? I would be seeing a lawyer.
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Load More Replies...I think the commenter who said the guy was playing "the pick me dance" has it spot-on. Hubby says he didn't know how he expected her to react, which is a lie. He just doesn't want to admit he was expecting her to weep, beg him to stay, ask what she did wrong "to drive him into another woman's arms" sort of thing. Now he's angry because he didn't get the ego-stroking attention he believed this cruel "prank" would produce.
I got 50 bucks that says he expected more sex, kinkier sex and possibly permission to keep screwing "Eve".
Load More Replies...This kind of prank is incredibly dangerous. Let's say that the "cheated" person went completely the opposite way, went mad and violent, and accidentally hurt (or worse) the partner... Or, in a moment of desperation, decided to kill themselves... It wouldn't be the first time that happened... Same as those pranks where you scare the other person to death; what if they get so scared they get a heart attack?
Or she could have gone mad and killed her children and herself.
Load More Replies...I don’t jump on the divorce train very quickly, but his need for her to be more something (he doesn’t even know what), and apologize for not being or doing the thing he can’t explain screams emotional abuse. Run, sweetheart, run.
Best advice I've seen! You summed this whole situation up perfectly
Load More Replies...It was an utterly cruel & immature prank that was totally uncalled for! The worst is, he still doesn’t get how much hurt he has caused his wife. Idiot!
Or his kids. That never occured to this selfish POS at all.
Load More Replies...This idea of a "prank" is worse than cheating, imho. Throw the whole husband out, you deserve better!
Yes. I would be likelier to forgive actual cheating than this
Load More Replies...Heartbreaking and cruel. If you've been cheated on before, this can send a person into a panic attack. When you've built a life together for years, and see it crumbling down, it's devastating. This is behavior people do so they can say "it's a joke, it's a joke." And then go on to cheat. If he's being defensive instead of sorry, I don't think I would be able to continue a marriage with someone who gets enjoyment out of my suffering. Stand up for yourself. Also, I would bet that he's done other behaviors that are red flags, too.
It was remotely done and professionally handled with few requirements. Things were not going well for me in my relationship, I was so confused and I didn't know what to do. things became worse when my husband started telling me he needs to stay long hours at work almost every night for clubs and out with friends not knowing he was seeing someone else, it is good as dead when you cant take charge of your relationship because it was so surprising to me what was happening because he wasn't lacking anything. But I was helped by Fred Hacker who monitored his activity and found out that he had been blackmailed by his past life and in the process he was sleeping with who was blackmailing him. It was terrible for me and if you want to catch your cheating partner, reach out to him and he'll surely help you. Contact him on fredvalcyberghost@gmail.com and you can text,call him on +19782951763 and you can whatsapp him on +15177981808
Load More Replies...Get rid of him while the kids are still young, otherwise he will pull this c**p on them, too.
Ding ding ding! Is he going to think it's funny to claim one of the kids is pregnant/got someone pregnant, got arrested, is someplace they shouldn't be? Is he going to pull pranks like this on the kids, and make them question reality and their own experiences? He's a lousy husband and father.
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