If this is true - what an absolutely evil act. The act of a shallow, self-centered narcissist who cannot handle that they aren't the Only Main Character of their husband's life. I hope the husband left her. I can't imagine his agony. Just because he kept PHOTOS of his previous wife doesn't mean he didn't LOVE OP. My boyfriend once dumped some of my dead dog's ashes into the toilet and flushed them because he was trying to make a point to me - that the "physical reminders" of dead pets and relatives are meaningless. That was over 10 years ago and I never forgave him. Spoilers: he never changed, he is still a horrible person like OP, and I'm getting out of the relationship finally. I hope OP's husband did the same.

Woman was rotten to start with. It's all I want, want, want. Wanted this man, wanted to not share, wanted the photos gone, right now. Want to put it right, ... only when discovered. Pah.

OP is a monster. She knew what she was going was horrible and did it anyway. With each justification in the post it got worse. She's sorry now because she got caught. I hope husband is now ex and children are NC.

You know, put the pictures and other stuff aside in a box or two, with the stepdaughter’s name on them. You don’t have to see them, but you’re not depriving your stepchild of pictures of their dead mother. Children are curious about who they are, including who they look like in the family, and when it comes to a deceased parent, their curiosity is multiplied a hundredfold. If she has any memories of her mother, maybe some of them were captured in a picture. Throwing away/donating 100% of the dead mom’s stuff and pictures means wiping that part of the child’s past away. It’s gone; at the bottom of a trash dump, in some stranger’s house, or on some stranger’s back. That was a cruel act on OP’s part, done for no other reason than OP being eaten up with jealousy of a dead woman. She’s sorry now, but it’s too late. The easiest way to stay out of trouble is to not get into it in the first place. Talking with her then fiancé about how the number of pictures and all of his first wife were affecting her, and asking for it to be put away for his daughter would’ve been a way more reasonable place to start.

OP should have gotten an abortion and left. That level of harm she did to that family was so insanely disgusting. Oh, you love him. But you don't actually care about him. You knew all that time what you did was wrong but didn't say anything. You then baby trapped him. I have zero sympathy for her or her feelings. What she did was just so wrong it can't be undone.

Absolutely inexcusable behavior. No amount of counseling would help me get over my wife throwing out my and my daughter's past. There are books of photos of my wife's ex (still alive) that haven't seen the light of day in decades. But they are here if their kids want them. I can't stand him, but it isn't my stuff.

"I wasn't going to lie to him! I told him the truth!". Hideous woman. She lied by omission for two years and now wants props for spilling the beans after she was approached.

If you cannot handle that your significant other will forever be missing their late spouse/SO, do not ever be with someone who has a late spouse/SO.

OP's son must be 6 by now, since the original post is 7 years old!

Vile vile woman enjoy life alone bet you become a harder now

I have pictures of all my exes because I have a past! I don't look at them every day, they are storaged on a box, but I have them because those men were part of my life.

Jealousy is fundamentally a selfish emotion. It's about caring more about your own possessive desires more than the other person's well -being.

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This is absolutely appalling and despicable. I hope they’re divorced.

Wow, what an evil woman! I don't blame OP at all for her stance. No one gets to tell anyone to 'get over it'' if they are not over it. All the other family members want is not to have to deal with this, that's all. Purely selfish. This woman has deprived OP of the tangible reminders of her mother's life and personality: she basically killed OP's mother.

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