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“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick
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“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick

“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s SickPeople Are Praising This Woman Who Allowed Her Sick Husband To Rest And Took Up His Work, Pretending To Be Him“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Supports Sick Husband By Pretending To Be Him At His JobPeople Applaud This Loving Wife Who Stepped In For Her Husband At His Remote Work And Did His Job While He Was Sick“My Wife Pretended To Be Me And Did My Work While I Was Sick”Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband To Be Able To Help His Team With A Project While He's SickThis Man’s Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband At His Work, Avoids Voice Calls So She Won't Be Busted And It’s All Because He's Sick“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick“She Locked Herself In My Office And Started Doing My Work”: Wife Pretends To Be Her Husband And Does His Job While He’s Sick
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The purpose of marriage is companionship, mutual help and comfort. Your spouse in theory should be your best friend who will always support you or tell you the truth when you are doing the wrong thing. They will be with you and rejoice with you when you are successful and will help to drag you out of a dump.

The perfect example of a married couple being there for each other is a story Reddit user beepbeepboopbooopp posted in the subreddit True Off My Chest. Turns out, he got sick during a very important time at work. His wife who is in a similar field took initiative and filled in for her husband so that his work team wouldn’t suffer and her husband could rest.

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Being supportive is what marriage is all about and this couple helping each other with their work understand that perfectly

Image credits: Blake Patterson (not the actual photo)

The Original Poster (OP) and his wife are both software engineers and the only difference is that the man is a full stack developer while the woman is a front-end developer. Although their specialties are different, OP’s wife knows almost everything that her husband does.

She will actually help him out when he is working with long lines of code that are a tedious task to debug. The husband will give back the favor in return whenever he can. Such collaboration is possible since they both work from home.

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However, one time, the wife stepped in big time. At the time of writing the story, the OP was sick with a nasty cold and he really didn’t want to take a day off work as his team was being pressured to finish their project as soon as possible, so he wanted to be there for them.

When he told his wife about this, the man wasn’t expecting anything, but the woman ordered her husband to take a rest to get better sooner and she would handle the project. Her job is not as demanding and time-restricted, so the woman had more free time, and this time, she decided to use to take one for the team.

The author of the story, who is the husband, is a full stack developer and his wife is a front-end developer so they both are software engineers

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Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp

OP’s wife locked herself in the office and worked on the project that her husband was supposed to. She also made up a lie about the man having lost his voice to avoid talking on the voice call, which didn’t raise suspicion for anybody.

The husband now is taking his rest for his body to heal and is planning to do the same favor for his wife if she ever needs it, because he was so grateful to have someone who would do such a thing for him.

In the comments, the husband added that he talked with his wife more about this situation and they both agreed that it can’t become a regular thing and they wouldn’t do it if it was really a serious matter, because they heard stories of people getting caught and punished for it.

The jobs both of them have are too precious to lose or to break the trust with their teams and bosses. The OP said that some of the people at his job are his best friends, his pay is excellent and on top of that, he doesn’t need to go to an office, so he would have felt guilty for not helping out with the urgent project because of a cold.

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Since they started working from home, they would help each other out when one of them is stuck with a complicated task

Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp

Aside from the people who warned the OP to be careful to not be caught or make such job exchanges a habit, others found the story wholesome and were in love with his wife. They felt the spouses are true companions and expressed their envy for such a relationship.

While it seems that the OP and his wife are sensible people and won’t be pulling scams, working from home facilitated that, as there is a lot less control and surveillance. One of the ways employees have taken advantage of it is working more than one remote job at a time.

One day the husband got a really nasty cold right at the time when his team was on a time crunch to end a project, so he really didn’t want to let them down

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Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp

The Wall Street Journal says that “The approach doesn’t violate federal or state laws, according to employment lawyers, but it could represent a breach of contract or raise issues around confidentiality. And it could certainly result in an employee’s termination.“

They also spoke with such double employees and found out that they earn between $200,000 to nearly $600,000 a year, including bonuses and stock, but their work week doesn’t even last 40 hours. Those people managed to decrease their student loans or could put aside more money for their children’s college funds and had money to spare for something fun.

The way it works is that people don’t seek to be the best, but do enough to keep the job and can reap the rewards. They will start declining meetings and may take a vacation from one job to tackle the other’s project of the year.

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When his wife found out, she offered to work instead of him as she had free time and her husband needed to rest to get his health back quicker

Image credits: beepbeepboopbooopp

There is actually a whole website and community dedicated to people who are interested in working two remote jobs, Overemployed. They agree that this scheme has its own risks, but the worst thing that could happen is that you get caught and fired: “Ok, so you get fired and need to look for another job. Oh wait, you’re already a pro at landing remote jobs!”

However, there are a few nuances and the biggest one is that you have to lower your expectations and effort for each job. “You’ll need to accept average-to-above average performance in one job (the one you consider your primary job) and mediocre-to-subpar performance in the other job. Over the long term, this may have implications for your career and professional network.”

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They still believe that to be a superstar, you have to focus on one job, but “if you don’t care about a potentially unhappy boss or workplace politics, then this path is for you – a double income and early financial freedom.”

This way the husband’s team that he cared about a lot didn’t suffer, he was able to rest and was once again proven right about what an amazing wife he has

Image credits: Michael Coghlan (not the actual photo)

Do you feel you could pull off two jobs at one time? Would you say that honest work brings the best results? Also, how do you feel about the couple in the story? Do you think the wife’s actions are moral? Leave us your reactions in the comments!

While some people warned the couple not to make this a habit, others felt their hearts melting from the wholesomeness

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Image credits: verkeorg (not the actual photo)

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Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

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Saulė Tolstych

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Saulė is a photo editor at Bored Panda with bachelor's degree in Multimedia and Computer Design. The thing that relaxes her the best is going into YouTube rabbit hole. In her free time she loves painting, embroidering and taking walks in nature.

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TiaMa
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I love the most is the "we are of different faith" comment. No detail shifting the topic focus, simply a factual statement.

Bina Wei
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same I am of the faith that latched onto Christmas and I still loved it

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InvincibleRodent
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sounds like another one of those stories that are told like they're meant to be wholesome, but they're actually dystopic as hell.

Tinderella
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think people confuse dystopia with modernity way too often. It’s modern and not dystopic at all.

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Boris Long-Johnson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words “company is so s****y to work for you can’t just take time off and have to get your wife to cover”.

Sandor M
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't know if the company is s****y, he didn't even ask for time off

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TiaMa
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I love the most is the "we are of different faith" comment. No detail shifting the topic focus, simply a factual statement.

Bina Wei
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same I am of the faith that latched onto Christmas and I still loved it

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InvincibleRodent
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sounds like another one of those stories that are told like they're meant to be wholesome, but they're actually dystopic as hell.

Tinderella
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think people confuse dystopia with modernity way too often. It’s modern and not dystopic at all.

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Boris Long-Johnson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words “company is so s****y to work for you can’t just take time off and have to get your wife to cover”.

Sandor M
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't know if the company is s****y, he didn't even ask for time off

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