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Woman Doesn’t Get What’s Wrong With Going To A Restaurant Before Closing, Gets A Reality Check
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Woman Doesn’t Get What’s Wrong With Going To A Restaurant Before Closing, Gets A Reality Check

Woman Doesn’t Get What’s Wrong With Going To A Restaurant Before Closing, Gets A Reality Check“It’s Their Job To Serve”: Woman Has No Regard For Restaurant Workers, Gets Called OutWoman Throws A Fit After Husband Calls Out Her Rude Perspective On Servers“They're Gonna Spit On Your Pizza”: Man Done With Wife Barging Into Restaurants Last MinuteGuy Isn’t Comfortable Ordering At A Restaurant 9 Minutes Before Closing Time, Wife Gets Upset“It’s Their Job”: Woman Enters Restaurant 9 Minutes Before Closing, Doesn’t See Why It’s RudeWoman Thinks She’s Entitled To Service After Coming In 9 Mins To Closing Time, Husband Turns RedWife Sees Nothing Wrong With Sitting Down To Eat At 9:51pm When The Restaurant Closes At 10pmHusband Tells Wife It's Not Nice To Sit At A Restaurant 9 Mins Before They Close, She Gets UpsetWife Gets Defensive After Being Told Sitting Down To Eat 9 Mins Before Closing Is Annoying
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A little bit of respect shown toward service industry workers will go a long way. It’s only common sense to treat others like you’d like to be treated, too. Sometimes, however, hunger can make you forget all about that. One contentious issue among people is the question about how close to a restaurant’s closing time is it no longer polite to barge in and order food. Some folks think that as long that the doors are open, it’s fine; others, however, avoid doing so near closing time.

That’s exactly the conundrum that redditor u/AppleBottmBeans and his wife faced recently, with 9 minutes left before a local place’s closing time. The internet user turned to the r/mildlyinfuriating online community to share what happened. Check out the full story below and the advice that the readers shared.

Restaurant staff still need to clean the place before leaving, so ordering food right before closing time may not be the best idea

Image credits: Alan Light (not the actual photo)

One man shared how he and his wife disagreed about this issue during a recent night out

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Image credits: Katerina Holmes (not the actual photo)

Image credits: u/AppleBottmBeans

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Good communication is paramount. The staff also need to let the customers know that they came in too late

Image credits: Andrea Piacquadio (not the actual photo)

The OP’s story made huge waves on Reddit. At the time of writing, u/AppleBottmBeans’s post had already gotten 66.3k upvotes. Meanwhile, a few users had given the author awards for the story as well.

The author explained that he thought it was rude to the restaurant staff to come in and order food barely 9 minutes until closing time. “I’ve never been a server but I could tell from their faces that they were really [effing] annoyed,” he wrote.

“I explained to her how I was uncomfortable going into a sit-down restaurant when it’s this close to closing time,” the OP shared on Reddit how his wife became upset when he voiced his concerns. “I tried to explain that the staff probably wants to clean up and go home, and it’s just common courtesy not to barge in right at the last minute.”

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Broadly speaking, the redditor is right: it’s quite impolite to demand food when the place is right about to close. The staff will have either already cleaned the premises and kitchen or were about to get started.

And if they’ve got fresh customers to serve, that means they’ll finish work later and arrive home closer to midnight than they’d like. So a little bit of extra empathy would work well here.

On the flip side, the restaurant could also communicate better on this issue, instead of expecting every single customer to read their minds and be thoroughly understanding. The staff could have ever-so-politely informed the couple that, unfortunately, the kitchen is already closed for the evening, but they’d be happy to reserve a table for tomorrow night.

A lot depends on the type of place you’re eating at. Fast food places aren’t much similar to fancy restaurants, for instance

Image credits: Pixabay (not the actual photo)

However, if the staff feels uncomfortable turning away customers, the restaurant could always put up a small note near its opening times, clearly explaining when their kitchen closes. That specific time will depend entirely on the business owner’s and manager’s policy.

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Of course, a lot will depend on whether you’re going to a sit-down restaurant, a local cafe, or a fast food place. You have a ton more flexibility with the latter (and the employees are likely to tell you straight up if you’re there too late).

Suppose it’s a local cafe run by the people from your neighborhood. In that case, they might be more flexible with their closing times because social connections and return customers are incredibly important for business.

But if it’s a (semi-fancy) sit-down restaurant, a good rule of thumb to keep in mind is to order your food at least half an hour before the official closing time (though some say that 15 minutes works fine, too). That should give the staff enough time to cook your food, serve you without rushing, and then get on with their cleaning and closing after you pay your bill (don’t forget the tip!).

Meanwhile, if you’re unsure about the specific restaurant’s policy, you can always ask the staff or call ahead. Good communication is the strongest tool in your arsenal right here.

Here’s what some internet users had to say about the situation

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Jonas Grinevičius

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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MR
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know the restaurant can, and should, say no. Sorry, the kitchen closed 20 minutes ago. We're only open now to allow current customers an opportunity to finish their meals.

Ace
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Quite so. It's really not clear from the post, but if we are to assume that 10 pm is the time that the kitchen closes, and the restaurant is happy to take orders up until that time, then it's not a problem. It's one or the other, either they choose to serve the customer, in which case they can't complain, or they tell her the kitchen is already closed.

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Donkey boi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To clear this up for those of you debating whether or not this is ok. Opening hours does not equal serving hours. When a sit down restaurant closes at 10, that means the business closes at 10. You need to have finished eating, paid, and be out the door by 10. In this instance, they are not going to prep, cook, serve a pizza , have you eat it, pay, and leave inside of 9 minutes. If it is a take away only establishment. Similar sort of thing applies, only as it's take-out, you have a little more time. I do think however, that the fault lies with a pizza place that doesn't lock their doors/say 'no more orders' at the point where they would not be able to close on time. It's one of the reasons pubs call last orders, so you will get the f**k out on time.

BluEyedSeoulite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The ONLY time I've done that is if I've called on my way and asked when the kitchen closes and got there before the kitchen closed for to go order. In the states, add a fat tip on top too

Donnaebb
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1 year ago

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MR
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know the restaurant can, and should, say no. Sorry, the kitchen closed 20 minutes ago. We're only open now to allow current customers an opportunity to finish their meals.

Ace
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Quite so. It's really not clear from the post, but if we are to assume that 10 pm is the time that the kitchen closes, and the restaurant is happy to take orders up until that time, then it's not a problem. It's one or the other, either they choose to serve the customer, in which case they can't complain, or they tell her the kitchen is already closed.

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Donkey boi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To clear this up for those of you debating whether or not this is ok. Opening hours does not equal serving hours. When a sit down restaurant closes at 10, that means the business closes at 10. You need to have finished eating, paid, and be out the door by 10. In this instance, they are not going to prep, cook, serve a pizza , have you eat it, pay, and leave inside of 9 minutes. If it is a take away only establishment. Similar sort of thing applies, only as it's take-out, you have a little more time. I do think however, that the fault lies with a pizza place that doesn't lock their doors/say 'no more orders' at the point where they would not be able to close on time. It's one of the reasons pubs call last orders, so you will get the f**k out on time.

BluEyedSeoulite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The ONLY time I've done that is if I've called on my way and asked when the kitchen closes and got there before the kitchen closed for to go order. In the states, add a fat tip on top too

Donnaebb
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1 year ago

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