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Dad Is Livid Over His Mother-In-Law Sneakily Breastfeeding His Daughter And Firing The Nanny Without Consulting Him, Calls The Cops On Her
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Dad Is Livid Over His Mother-In-Law Sneakily Breastfeeding His Daughter And Firing The Nanny Without Consulting Him, Calls The Cops On Her

Dad Is Livid Over His Mother-In-Law Sneakily Breastfeeding His Daughter And Firing The Nanny Without Consulting Him, Calls The Cops On Her“I Walked In My Daughter's Room And She Was Forcing Sammy To Latch”: Dad Catches His MIL Breastfeeding His Daughter, Calls The Cops And Asks If It Was The Right Thing To DoFamily Drama Ensues After Father Gets His Delusional MIL Charged For Trespassing After She Fires The BabysitterMan Is Shocked To Find Mother-In-Law Trying To Breastfeed His Baby, Finally Calls The Cops When She Comes Over Uninvited And Fires The NannyWidower Wonders If He's A Jerk For Calling The Cops On His MIL After She Tried to Breastfeed Her Granddaughter and Fired The Nanny“Am I A Jerk For Having My MIL Charged With Trespassing After She Entered My Home And Fired My Babysitter?”Widower Father Is Shocked After His MIL Tries To Breastfeed His Daughter, Fires The Nanny, And Trespasses Into His Home, Calls The CopsDad Catches MIL Trying To Breastfeed His Daughter, Wonders If He Went Too Far By Calling The Cops On Her For Firing The NannyWoman Who Tried To Breastfeed Her Granddaughter Gets Charged For Trespassing After Son-In-Law Calls The Police On HerFurious Father Calls The Police On Mother-In-Law After Catching Her Breastfeeding His Baby And Finding Out She Had Entered His House Without Permission
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A widowed dad who lost his wife Anne, 34, just minutes after she gave birth to their first baby Sammy, recently shared a story that blasted the internet. In a post on r/AITA, the dad who goes by the handle u/SammyandMe35 said that before going back for work, he asked his mother-in-law Sandra if she could recommend a nanny and she offered to do it for free.

Things then took a weird turn. “Everything was fine for the first couple of weeks until I noticed that Sammy’s not feeding as much. Her formula’s barely touched,” the dad recounted. But when he asked the MIL why the baby wasn’t feeding well, “She said she’s trying to breastfeed my daughter,” and added that “at first I thought she was joking, then I realized she wasn’t.”

It soon turned out this wasn’t the first time Sandra had tried to secretly breastfeed the baby and it was far from the only thing that pushed the dad to the brink of his nerves.

Recently, a widowed dad shared how he called the cops on his mother-in-law for trespassing after she entered his home and fired his babysitter

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The conflict blew up after the dad walked in on the MIL breastfeeding his baby daughter not once but multiple times

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Image credits: Erik Mclean (not the actual photo)

Later, the dad added some updates about how the incident evolved



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Many people felt shocked about this whole situation and showed their support to the dad







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Liucija Adomaite

Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Liucija Adomaite

Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Kotryna Br

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Kotryna is a Photo Editor at Bored Panda with a BA in Graphic Design. Before Bored Panda, she worked as a freelance graphic designer and illiustrator. When not editing, she enjoys working with clay, drawing, playing board games and drinking good tea.

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Jihana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That woman doesn't want a granddaughter, she's trying to replace her dead daughter.

Molly Whuppie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope OP doesn't hire that nanny back either. She was fired by someone who was a stranger to her, and didn't think to contact the person who hired her (the OP) to check a) if that was the case and b) if it was ok to leave the baby with this woman claiming to be his mother.

Marco Hub-Dub
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it may be more nuanced and not so b&w. Considering the MIL was there more than the father and had more contact with the nanny, coming and going as she pleases, there may not have been clarity of who was in charge. As far as we and maybe even the father knows, the MIL could have more than implied she was. The father had the responsibility for o communicate to nanny that even tho MIL is always present, she doesn’t make the decisions

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Beth S
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am absolutely stunned. For the first time reading these AITA posts I am shocked senseless. Just wow. NTA for the action taken for sure, however you are the AH for not protection your daughter from that mentally ill woman after the first discovery. Something as wrong as that should be a first strike and you are out kind of situation. That kind of messed up behavior does NOT deserve a second chance.

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Jihana
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That woman doesn't want a granddaughter, she's trying to replace her dead daughter.

Molly Whuppie
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope OP doesn't hire that nanny back either. She was fired by someone who was a stranger to her, and didn't think to contact the person who hired her (the OP) to check a) if that was the case and b) if it was ok to leave the baby with this woman claiming to be his mother.

Marco Hub-Dub
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it may be more nuanced and not so b&w. Considering the MIL was there more than the father and had more contact with the nanny, coming and going as she pleases, there may not have been clarity of who was in charge. As far as we and maybe even the father knows, the MIL could have more than implied she was. The father had the responsibility for o communicate to nanny that even tho MIL is always present, she doesn’t make the decisions

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Beth S
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am absolutely stunned. For the first time reading these AITA posts I am shocked senseless. Just wow. NTA for the action taken for sure, however you are the AH for not protection your daughter from that mentally ill woman after the first discovery. Something as wrong as that should be a first strike and you are out kind of situation. That kind of messed up behavior does NOT deserve a second chance.

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