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It’s okay if you sometimes feel like that dog in the “This Is Fine” meme. We all need some tonic to the flames of bad news and negativity online once in a while. Random acts of kindness and helping others can be that antidote. It’s like Gandhi said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

Enter the Wholesome Meets The Internet Instagram page. It’s a place of good vibes, positivity, and general wholesomeness to ignite that spark of goodness inside each of us. Ready to lift your spirits with some “awws,” Pandas? Don’t hesitate, and scroll down to see the wholesomest of the wholesome. And don’t forget to share your similar stories in the comments!

To know more about why we need wholesome stories and news in our lives, Bored Panda reached out to licensed Psychologist Dr. Nathan Brandon. He told us why positive content online is important for our mental health and overall well-being. We also asked Dr. Brandon for some strategies to cope with all the negativity online. Read our interview with him below!

Some days, it might feel like the Internet is a room full of people constantly yelling at each other. Whether it's news, entertainment, or social media in general, things seem to make people pretty angry all the time. And everyone hurries to express their opinion on any given thing. All that online noise can become irritating as time goes by. You might start to think then, just as Bo Burnham said in his 2021 (comedy?) special, Inside: "Can anyone shut the f*** up?"

That's why it's important this negative content doesn't drown out the good things that are happening in the world. Whether they're big good news stories or just simple everyday acts of kindness. Why exactly is it important? We asked licensed Psychologist Dr. Nathan Brandon to explain why being constantly bombarded with bad news is not so good for our well-being. He says that the positive content helps do just that – balance out the negativity we see or experience every day.

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Persephone
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I reach to pet my cat in the dark, after waking from a nightmare, he chirps to let me know where he is on the bed. Cats are capable of love and empathy. He knows I can't see, and he wants to be there for me. ❤️

Mocha the Lion
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

to anybody wondering how they typed this if they are blind they could have used text to speech, also most people who are blind dont actually see all black and its usually just parts of your vision that is obstructed

Parmeisan
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think if my cat was blind I would run into her less often haha. She intentionally runs right in front of us as we're walking. Silly kitty.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

XD mine tries to trn me down too! Swear he does it in the hopes itll bed ridden me so i never leave the house again xD

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David
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neither my cat or I are blind (yet) but we do the opposite. When I approach I say, "I see you" and that is her her signal that she doesn't have to move. While I don't believe she understands the exact words it is obvious she understands that if I am talking to her it means I see her there and am not going to step on her. She reacts differently depending on if I do or don't say anything to her.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the use of chirp in reference to a cat, it's an unappreciated cat noise. My cat used to chirp and it literally sounded like a pigeon and I had no idea what to call it.

Sophie
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cat likes to sit silently in the center of the room in the dark and not do a single thing to alert me until I run directly into him and topple on to myself in order to prevent hurting him and after he trots away, only then he meows. <3

Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love that k-k sound they make to inform me that a) there is a bug, and b) they got this!

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My blind kitty is the joy of my life. I'm so happy yours is too!

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"Engaging with wholesome or positive content online nurtures our psychological health by providing a sense of balance and perspective amidst all the negativity," Dr. Brandon told Bored Panda. "Our brains have a negativity bias, which means we tend to focus more on negative information and experiences. Therefore, regularly consuming positive content helps counteract this bias and promote a more optimistic outlook."

Dr. Brandon says that seeing positive content online can help us appreciate the beauty in everyday moments more, and it promotes themes of empathy and kindness at the same time. "[It] can elevate our mood, encourage positive thinking, and even inspire us to engage in acts of kindness ourselves," the licensed psychologist observes.

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Nowadays, we spend our days glued to the screen. Whether it's a computer at work, a smartphone at lunch, or a television in the evening, we're almost always online. At least that's what 28% of adult Americans told the Pew Research Center in 2019. Many of us would like to do something about it, but talking is always easier than doing it, right? Dr. Nathan Brandon says that people should try to curate their online experience.

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"For individuals who find the online environment overwhelming or distressing, it's crucial to adopt strategies that safeguard mental health while enabling them to benefit from the digital world," Dr. Brandon tells Bored Panda. He advises people to consciously pick and choose who they're following.

"Follow accounts that align with your values and [unfollow] toxic or triggering content," he says. "It can also be beneficial to turn off notifications for news stories that may create anxiety so you can read them when you're ready rather than being bombarded with them throughout the day."

Dr. Brandon also recommends practicing mindfulness about how we consume content online. That might help us manage feelings of overwhelm and stress. "Taking breaks, setting time limits, and engaging in self-care activities offline can also help maintain a healthy balance between online and offline life. It's vital to prioritize self-care and offline activities that bring joy and fulfillment," Dr. Brandon says.

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For those who like to organize their day to a T, there's one more strategy that Dr. Brandon recommends. He says that 'digital detoxing' can be immensely beneficial.

"Designate certain times of the day or specific days of the week as screen-free, allowing time to reconnect with the physical world and engage in activities like reading, exercise, or spending time in nature," he notes. In other words, some literal touching of grass might benefit your mental health pretty well.

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If you want to reduce your screen time, find things you like to do apart from TikTok or Twitter. Whether that's knitting, photography, baking, or gardening – try out different things and see what works for you. "Developing hobbies that don't involve screens not only reduces online time but also enriches personal skills and happiness," Dr. Brandon observes.

Socializing and going out can also provide a welcome escape from the negativity spiral online. "Seeking support from communities or groups that focus on positive and uplifting interactions can provide a safe space away from negativity," Dr. Nathan Brandon tells us. 

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Whether that's sports, a book club, or volunteering at your local shelter, finding like-minded people and socializing with them is beneficial. "Engaging in discussions or activities that foster a sense of belonging and positivity can be a powerful antidote to the stress and negativity often encountered online," Dr. Brandon tells Bored Panda.

And why isn't socializing online the same? As psychology researcher Alex Danvers told Bored Panda in a previous interview, real-life social interactions are much more rewarding. "I'd think of online socializing as sort of the 'lite' version."

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"That may be nice to do when you're feeling tired or burnt out, but it's also not going to give you the full experience of connecting with another person. To have really satisfying connections, you do need to put in the effort of navigating the more complicated world of in-person interactions."

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

having the time for it, it's so precious, I hope you all get this chance <3

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do the same every year. Our old apple tree produces much more than we can eat, even with canning some, so I leave a crate in the park abutting my backyard, with a roll of plastic bags so people can help themselves. Got lovely thank you notes, even flowers, once.

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Mimi La Souris
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought the same for my nieces, they were so adorable babies, I didn’t want to see them grow but finally, I love to see them evolve and become such wonderful people. being able to do 3+7 is already great, but talking about mangas, universe and much more is so ... !!! :)

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is dystopian really. Who is taking care of the child all the time she's in hospital?

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

now all i can imagine is a deep thundering voice like hulk for some reason. please help

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's when you have to decide whether to traumatise them by telling them needles are involved. Lots of needles. For hours. By choice. Lol.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad told me it was lovely to hear me singing again after me not doing so for a while. It's so sweet when people notice things like that <3

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I (44y/o) did the same with my sister (41y/o) so I could play with her on her xbox. Then she went and bought me my own xbox. So now we have 2 xbox consoles in the house so we can play even more games together. She's the best 😍

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is why the Kondo method doesnt work for me. Everything i own sparks joy. Thats why i bought them in the first place.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was on day 7 or 8 of Covid, my husband put the baby gate up in our bedroom door to keep the dog out and remind the teenagers not to barge in on me, but also to allow me to not feel so terribly isolated.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have a herd of cows, you are a cowboy now. Time to yee your first haw.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know an infinite amount of math. (For those scratching their heads and going “Huh?”; how many numbers are there?)

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He’s probably a dad with a daughter about your age, so his dad instincts kicked in when he found out about the theft.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first I thought this person lied and I was like, "Haha, that's cute though" and then I realized he actually does know spiderman.

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