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It’s okay if you sometimes feel like that dog in the “This Is Fine” meme. We all need some tonic to the flames of bad news and negativity online once in a while. Random acts of kindness and helping others can be that antidote. It’s like Gandhi said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

Enter the Wholesome Meets The Internet Instagram page. It’s a place of good vibes, positivity, and general wholesomeness to ignite that spark of goodness inside each of us. Ready to lift your spirits with some “awws,” Pandas? Don’t hesitate, and scroll down to see the wholesomest of the wholesome. And don’t forget to share your similar stories in the comments!

To know more about why we need wholesome stories and news in our lives, Bored Panda reached out to licensed Psychologist Dr. Nathan Brandon. He told us why positive content online is important for our mental health and overall well-being. We also asked Dr. Brandon for some strategies to cope with all the negativity online. Read our interview with him below!

Some days, it might feel like the Internet is a room full of people constantly yelling at each other. Whether it's news, entertainment, or social media in general, things seem to make people pretty angry all the time. And everyone hurries to express their opinion on any given thing. All that online noise can become irritating as time goes by. You might start to think then, just as Bo Burnham said in his 2021 (comedy?) special, Inside: "Can anyone shut the f*** up?"

That's why it's important this negative content doesn't drown out the good things that are happening in the world. Whether they're big good news stories or just simple everyday acts of kindness. Why exactly is it important? We asked licensed Psychologist Dr. Nathan Brandon to explain why being constantly bombarded with bad news is not so good for our well-being. He says that the positive content helps do just that – balance out the negativity we see or experience every day.

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"Engaging with wholesome or positive content online nurtures our psychological health by providing a sense of balance and perspective amidst all the negativity," Dr. Brandon told Bored Panda. "Our brains have a negativity bias, which means we tend to focus more on negative information and experiences. Therefore, regularly consuming positive content helps counteract this bias and promote a more optimistic outlook."

Dr. Brandon says that seeing positive content online can help us appreciate the beauty in everyday moments more, and it promotes themes of empathy and kindness at the same time. "[It] can elevate our mood, encourage positive thinking, and even inspire us to engage in acts of kindness ourselves," the licensed psychologist observes.

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Rob D
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone want to guess how far this bill's made it 3 years later in a republican state legislature? Texas found a way legislatively, to float razor wire across the Rio grande and eviscerate women's rights in a matter of months, but the above bill hasn't even been in committee (step 2 after above introduction).

Joshua
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that was immediately my first question. "Did it actually go anywhere?"

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pfeils wife
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(As of March 2, 2023) As part of President Biden’s historic Inflation Reduction Act, nearly four million seniors on Medicare with diabetes started to see their insulin costs capped at $35 per month this past January, saving some seniors hundreds of dollars for a month’s supply. But in his State of the Union, President Biden made clear that this life-saving benefit should apply to everyone, not just Medicare beneficiaries. This week, Eli Lilly, the largest manufacturer of insulin in the United States is lowering their prices and meeting that call. Eli Lilly announced they are lowering the cost of insulin by 70% and capping what patients pay out-of-pocket for insulin at $35. This action, driven by the momentum from the Inflation Reduction Act, could benefit millions of Americans with diabetes in all fifty states and U.S. territories. The President continues to call on Congress to finish the job and cap costs at $35 for all Americans.

pfeils wife
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

... it's a start. and its more than any republican has done to help their 'fellow americans' afford life saving meds.

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David
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And if we changed 1 paragraph of US Law it would be $10-12, but no one in DC wants to fix the real issue and we are left with states doing bandaid repairs like this. Read Professor Robin Feldman's book D**g Wars to better understand why d**g prices are so high in US, and how simple it would be to fix it.

JB
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not free. Please stop saying universal healthcare is free. Those of us who live in countries where there is universal healthcare are HAPPY to pay the taxes that allow others access to affordable healthcare instead of going bankrupt.

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GoldfishCrackers
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can I share something I learned recently? Insulin is dependent on refrigeration. So when the power goes out or a natural disaster knocks out utilities for an extended period, people who are insulin dependent can be in a real pickle. And it can’t be frozen, so you can’t just stock pile a ton to defrost later. Anyway. The more you know. 🫤

Purple_bio
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is what the world needs more, people who has been through the tough times to take charge and change the world for the better

Populus tremuloides(they/them)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have a source to cite because I don't remember where I learned this but didn't the person who invented insulin injections make the patent publicly available and want it to be free and accessible, and then his estate went behind his back and sold it to pharmaceutical companies?

Carol Bovee
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's true. But sadly d**g companies have altered it and now patent and charge more. Same med just different.

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D W
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the d**g companies will still make vast profits, in Europe Insulin is around $5-10

Dee Birnie
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the uk insulin is free on the National Health Service. Other d***s have a small charge of about £10 per month. If you ae over 60, a student or unemployed or diagnosed with cancer you get your medication free. Our NHS is brilliant.

Gogubaci
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not impressed one bit. politicians and rich people only understand normal people's plight only when it happens to them

Tamra
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wondered if I was the only person thinking this. This change should have happened long, long ago. How many people have died from rationing insulin? Now a politician is affected and, hey look, something gets done. I'm trying to see the good in this, but I seem to have grown quite cynical.

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Eric S.
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is not enough. Next should come mandatory prison sentences for pharma execs who scam Medicare by overcharging for lifesaving generics that are cheap to produce. They make money selling insulin at $30/month, but figured out a way to charge more than 50 times more, siphoning public money and getting people in precarious situations to have to choose between lifesaving medication and food. Jail is too good for these monsters.

Miki
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Move to Europe. Here diabetes don't ruin your finances. I know. I am diabetic in Europe.

Patricia Smith
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very true, Bartlet. But thank god that happens or maybe a democracy would get nothing done. Causes move people. It makes powerful politics.

Eunice Bentley
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe how anyone can demand such profit on a product that was freely given to the world to help diabetics. Thank you for your efforts.

Barbara R
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I"d like to think he paved the way for the new cap at $35.00

Tina Harnish
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Too bad you had to bring in legislation to make the prices more reasonable. So glad I'm not American. Have had health problems all my life. I'd probably be millions in debt.

Strega Nonna
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rep Talarico (TX) is a true hero who got the ball rolling in TX. Now, as of 1/1/24, insulin is now capped at $35/month in the U.S.

Savannah greenleaf
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the US I have seen type 1 diabetics have to go to the ER because they could not afford their insulin. That is something that should never occur. What is more cost effective readily available, affordable insulin, or the cost of an ER visit? I hope this can happen.

Laurie Ostergaard-Overbey
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

our society is broken, and our health care (read INSURANCE) SHOULD BE ABOLISHED

Mike Ray
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there is any better example of the greed of Big Pharma I don't know what it is

Lady Lestrange
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know what to say. It indeed is unfortunate that he had to go through it, but the brighter side is that he did something about it. He indeed is a hero.

Smol Frog
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Insulin is a life source. People shouldn't have to pay for it

Sarah Jay Co
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Life saving medication/treatment should be free for everyone. Well done to this guy!! Greedy greedy pharmaceutical companies

carne asada
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Genuine Question, but is this law in a certain state or city, or is it spreading to all of the US (He is US, right?)

Fred L.
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are lots of Democrats in the Texas legislature, just still in the minority. To the obvious detriment of Texas and the Texans.

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LokisLilButterknife
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a disgusting, vile comment- both you an CP have no freaking empathy. You seem to have a lot of hatred in your heart if you are happy for a young man who worked to change legislation for the pricing of diabetes medication. I hope you both have miserable days.

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Nowadays, we spend our days glued to the screen. Whether it's a computer at work, a smartphone at lunch, or a television in the evening, we're almost always online. At least that's what 28% of adult Americans told the Pew Research Center in 2019. Many of us would like to do something about it, but talking is always easier than doing it, right? Dr. Nathan Brandon says that people should try to curate their online experience.

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"For individuals who find the online environment overwhelming or distressing, it's crucial to adopt strategies that safeguard mental health while enabling them to benefit from the digital world," Dr. Brandon tells Bored Panda. He advises people to consciously pick and choose who they're following.

"Follow accounts that align with your values and [unfollow] toxic or triggering content," he says. "It can also be beneficial to turn off notifications for news stories that may create anxiety so you can read them when you're ready rather than being bombarded with them throughout the day."

Dr. Brandon also recommends practicing mindfulness about how we consume content online. That might help us manage feelings of overwhelm and stress. "Taking breaks, setting time limits, and engaging in self-care activities offline can also help maintain a healthy balance between online and offline life. It's vital to prioritize self-care and offline activities that bring joy and fulfillment," Dr. Brandon says.

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For those who like to organize their day to a T, there's one more strategy that Dr. Brandon recommends. He says that 'digital detoxing' can be immensely beneficial.

"Designate certain times of the day or specific days of the week as screen-free, allowing time to reconnect with the physical world and engage in activities like reading, exercise, or spending time in nature," he notes. In other words, some literal touching of grass might benefit your mental health pretty well.

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If you want to reduce your screen time, find things you like to do apart from TikTok or Twitter. Whether that's knitting, photography, baking, or gardening – try out different things and see what works for you. "Developing hobbies that don't involve screens not only reduces online time but also enriches personal skills and happiness," Dr. Brandon observes.

Socializing and going out can also provide a welcome escape from the negativity spiral online. "Seeking support from communities or groups that focus on positive and uplifting interactions can provide a safe space away from negativity," Dr. Nathan Brandon tells us. 

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Whether that's sports, a book club, or volunteering at your local shelter, finding like-minded people and socializing with them is beneficial. "Engaging in discussions or activities that foster a sense of belonging and positivity can be a powerful antidote to the stress and negativity often encountered online," Dr. Brandon tells Bored Panda.

And why isn't socializing online the same? As psychology researcher Alex Danvers told Bored Panda in a previous interview, real-life social interactions are much more rewarding. "I'd think of online socializing as sort of the 'lite' version."

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"That may be nice to do when you're feeling tired or burnt out, but it's also not going to give you the full experience of connecting with another person. To have really satisfying connections, you do need to put in the effort of navigating the more complicated world of in-person interactions."

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

having the time for it, it's so precious, I hope you all get this chance <3

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do the same every year. Our old apple tree produces much more than we can eat, even with canning some, so I leave a crate in the park abutting my backyard, with a roll of plastic bags so people can help themselves. Got lovely thank you notes, even flowers, once.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought the same for my nieces, they were so adorable babies, I didn’t want to see them grow but finally, I love to see them evolve and become such wonderful people. being able to do 3+7 is already great, but talking about mangas, universe and much more is so ... !!! :)

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is dystopian really. Who is taking care of the child all the time she's in hospital?

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

now all i can imagine is a deep thundering voice like hulk for some reason. please help

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's when you have to decide whether to traumatise them by telling them needles are involved. Lots of needles. For hours. By choice. Lol.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad told me it was lovely to hear me singing again after me not doing so for a while. It's so sweet when people notice things like that <3

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I (44y/o) did the same with my sister (41y/o) so I could play with her on her xbox. Then she went and bought me my own xbox. So now we have 2 xbox consoles in the house so we can play even more games together. She's the best 😍

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is why the Kondo method doesnt work for me. Everything i own sparks joy. Thats why i bought them in the first place.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was on day 7 or 8 of Covid, my husband put the baby gate up in our bedroom door to keep the dog out and remind the teenagers not to barge in on me, but also to allow me to not feel so terribly isolated.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have a herd of cows, you are a cowboy now. Time to yee your first haw.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know an infinite amount of math. (For those scratching their heads and going “Huh?”; how many numbers are there?)

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He’s probably a dad with a daughter about your age, so his dad instincts kicked in when he found out about the theft.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first I thought this person lied and I was like, "Haha, that's cute though" and then I realized he actually does know spiderman.

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