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Sometimes it feels like the internet is full of negativity. Every time I open social media or the news, I seem to be bombarded with the bleakest headlines imaginable. While it is important to be a well-informed citizen, constant doomscrolling can't be healthy. We all need to take breaks from the gloom and be reminded that there are plenty of wonderful things happening in the world as well.

Let us introduce you to "Wholesome Meet The Internet", an Instagram page dedicated to compiling the sweetest stories people have shared online and providing a purely positive platform to visit. With over 2,000 posts chronicling these wholesome encounters, mostly through screenshots from other social media sites, this refreshing page has amassed over 230k followers since 2019. So sit back, relax and soak up all of the positivity we've gathered from "Wholesome Meet The Internet". Then keep the good vibes flowing with Bored Panda's first piece featuring the sweet page.

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Milady Blue
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This lady is twice a hero - finding a use for what is otherwise waste, AND helping others in need. This should be MUCH higher on this list!

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I remember logging onto Facebook ten years ago and finding compilations of animals doing silly things and extremely simple yet relatable memes. Going online felt like a fun escape from the daily stress of middle school, but I can't say that I was learning much. It was purely for recreational purposes. Nowadays, it is amazing how much we can learn online. News is being shared at such rapid rates, and social activism seems to flood our feeds. Political debates, infographics, GoFundMe pages, donation links and news articles are unavoidable. Don't get me wrong, there are many upsides to the ever-educational internet we have today. Having access to knowledge about global issues increases our empathy, and spreading awareness is always a great thing. But positive outlets such as "Wholesome Meet The Internet" are a breath of fresh air when the negativity online becomes overwhelming. It can be easy to forget that every day a million little moments of positivity are happening as well. 

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One trap many of us can fall into online is "doomscrolling". This refers to the "the action of compulsively scrolling through social media or news feeds which relate bad news". Doomscrolling became so common during the pandemic that the Oxford Dictionary named it a word of the year in 2020 and even added it to the dictionary. While the term may have become popularized in 2020, it remains relevant while many of us seek out constant information about upsetting news stories, such as the war in Ukraine. 

Doomscrolling comes from a good place. We feel guilty about the injustices of the world or anxious about the uncertainties, and we want to be as informed as possible. Unfortunately, it can be very challenging to stop the cycle once we've begun. According to Mesfin Bekalu, a research scientist at Harvard, humans have "a natural tendency to pay more attention to negative news". He also explained "mean world syndrome", a term coined in the 1970's giving a title to the belief that the world is much more dangerous than it actually is. The combination of mean world syndrome and a tendency to doomscroll creates a vicious cycle of negativity for many people. 

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"Sunday I found a kitten at the zoo and brought it home. I was afraid that my parents would get mad at me but today I caught my father showing the family photos to the kitten"

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This constant exposure to bad news can actually affect our mental health as well. A 2020 study in Germany found a positive correlation between intake of Covid-19 related news and severity of anxiety and depression. Doomscrolling can also be a way of self-sabotaging our sleep schedules, according to Dr. Ariane Ling, professor and clinical psychologist at NYU. Be careful not to create a routine including doomscrolling before bed, she warns. "It wreaks havoc on your circadian rhythms, and then you’re not able to regulate your mood because you’re grouchy," she explains. "But if we're a little bit more alert and attuned to ourselves, we stand a better chance at being able to say, ‘Oh, God, I'm doomscrolling again’, let me put this down and refocus my energy on something that's meaningful, that's value driven and aligned with how I want to be living my life."  

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hold on... WASTING THEIR TIME??? What the hell how could you say something like that???

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Psychologist Dr. Susan Albers notes that doomscrolling also has the potential to cause "crazy-making". Ingesting so much media inevitably leads to finding conflicting sources, which can be very unsettling when our brains just don't know what to believe. Dr Albers warns that spending too much time staring at screens is never healthy anyway. "Burying your nose in a phone can exacerbate disconnection and loneliness. Being locked on a screen can zap your energy and leave you feeling drained.” Especially after being forced into isolation due to the pandemic, we certainly don't need to seek new ways to feel lonely.   

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Luckily, these experts have plenty of suggestions of how to break the habit of doomscrolling. One tip is to set boundaries for when and where you can use screens. Set timers, and be strict with yourself. Maybe allot an hour after work to check your devices and catch up on the news, then silence or turn off notifications. Perhaps you want to designate your bedroom as a phone-free zone (yes, they do still make alarm clocks) and pile your nightstand with books instead. Even having a non-smart watch and a physical calendar can reduce temptations to scroll and add more time into your day for activities you actually enjoy. 

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same! I had right handed scissors for ages, now that I have left ones it is so much easier. I know that feeling!

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Another important tip is to change our negative habits. Try replacing doomscrolling with going for a walk, journaling, reading an uplifting book or baking. Over time, the urge to flood our brains with negative news will lessen, and we will be in a healthier place to educate ourselves on difficult topics. Lastly, seeking out positive news can be a healthier habit to form as well. "Understanding that scrolling through good news brings us joy could help make us more aware of how our online behavior affects our emotional state." (So if you haven't followed "Wholesome Meet The Internet" yet, now's your chance!)

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Lakota Wolf
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad lived with a catastrophic brain injury for over 20 years after an accident in 2000. We took care of him at home. In May of last year, he deteriorated, got pneumonia and staph in both lungs. He was put onto the hospice floor of the hospital. My mom and sister emotionally weren’t able to endure staying, but I stayed… the night my father died. I held his hand. My boyfriend stayed with me and held my dad’s other hand. We played some oldies very quietly on an iPad, and I told my dad how much I loved him. I talked to him until he took his last breath at 3am. I hope he heard me and knows how proud I am to be his daughter and how grateful I am that he adopted me.

MRSS
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my Sister was placed into a medical coma before she passed away I did the same. Granted she did it to her self from server Alcoholism I promised her I would not leave her side if this were to happen and vice versa. For 3 weeks I did not leave her side in Hospic and I got all my anger for what she did out to her and all the fun, stupid things we've done, how much I loved her and despite what she did to herself, her two amazing kids,me and my Mother, she was so brave. She squeezed my hand and passed with her s**t eating famous grin on her face.

Alice Landers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in a drug induced coma for 5 weeks ...I was a single mom , two boys and my best friend (who had passed a few,years before) talked to me and said "follow me home ,I will take you home to yours boys" and I made it

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in a coma for six weeks, thanks to a car accident. My wife was there for everything. I know most people won't understand, but I couldn't hear her, but I could always sense when she was there

Gina Babe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in a medically induced one. I dreamt about what was around me. I knew the people were there but imagined the scenarios.

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Betsy Novack
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If making lemonade when life hands you lemons, with all of us crying have any shot turning off tears had better get busy frying up some onion rings to go with that lemonade.

Quicksilver40
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Talk to your loved ones when they're in comas. My dad passed from covid complications, weeks in a coma, couldn't see him until the last fours days due to restrictions, but my mom could be there. Talk to them, if they come out of it, it could have helped them. If they don't come out of it, you give comfort to them and possibly had a last chance to say something. There is advantage to both...

Mittens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I already want to cry and this is making it harder to hold myself together

Susan Atkinson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You may not have been perfect but you were perfect in your mother's heart. ❤️

J
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard that hearing is the last thing that goes when you die. I don't know whether this is true or not, but I'm sure your mum heard you and knows how much you loved her.

PoeticWolfWriter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Im not a good daughter either..But you know...Your mom loves you...and you love her. Thats all that matters.

Clover
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You did the right thing. You came through for her in the end.

Tonia Sizemore
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe that it all depends on the people involved, wether or not you're deemed a "good son", & I believe your mother (RIP), would probably say you are a good son

Beanie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah but to your Mom in those last hours, you were the best son ever x

Enrico Fiala
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I'm sure, the hearing sense goes away as the last of all, so I think she heard him

Crispy Toast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read to my Mom when she was on a ventilator, (years ago, not Covid). Read The Hobbit, I believe.

Donna Clanclan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a friend in a medically induced coma for a while. Would see her during visiting hours. She was allowed to wake up for a little bit each day. She would always cry when she saw me. I couldn't take it anymore and stopped going, as it was clearly an unhappy cry. She had memories of everyone else visiting her, except me. She also had clear memories of this woman from church she hated coming to visit, which never happened. She mistook me for the witch from church. :D

MalP
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my mom was going, I talked to her. And let her know my hubs would take care of me & our kids so don't worry about us. She passed that night.

Tx jac
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She heard, I know she did ...and Im sure it was so soothing to her to have you with her

Caleb R
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I swear, I need to hire some anti-onion-ninja ninjas

Casey Burns
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This hits so hard. But at least I'm incredibly lucky to be able to make up for it as an adult.

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Milady Blue
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sat down at the bottom of the stairs one time when it was raining. There was an awning over the staircase, which kept me dry. My cat came up to me, and sat in my lap. So I had two sublime natural noises - the rain and the purring of my sweet kitty.

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We've all heard that laughter is the best medicine, right? As it turns out, science supports this claim. According to the Mayo Clinic, laughter is actually linked to reducing stress. Some other benefits of enjoying a good giggle are soothing muscle tension, relieving pain and improving our moods. Frequent laughter can also help improve our immune systems when our positive thoughts "release neuropeptides that help fight stress". From a social perspective, laughter brings people together as well. Sharing a joke with a loved one (or even with a stranger!) can help us feel much less alone in this crazy world.  

Don't underestimate the power of positive thinking. Even smiling more has been shown to reduce heart rate and blood pressure during stressful situations, according to a University of Kansas study. Thankfully, smiling is contagious too. “This is because we have mirror neurons that fire when we see action,” says Dr. Eva Ritvo, a psychiatrist and co-author of "The Beauty Prescription: The Complete Formula for Looking and Feeling Beautiful". As the name implies, mirror neurons cause us to reflect behavior we observe in others and have been linked to our capacity for empathy. Passing along a smile is so easy and will likely create a domino effect, we might as well be generous with them!  

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crowes are one of the smartest birds. They have facial recognition n use tools.

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When you can't give someone an in-person smile, forwarding a funny video or a post from "Wholesome Meet The Internet" is the next best thing. Explored in the i-D article "How Self-Isolation Made the Internet Wholesome Again", many have found creative ways to use the internet for positivity. Aside from the joy of sharing memes and funny videos, the article mentions crowd-funding for hospitals and food banks as well as donating to Mutual Aid groups. Even finding new creative outlets and sharing talents and skills we've acquired during the pandemic helps spread a little positivity with our online communities. 

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"An elementary school bus driver asked every kid on his bus what they wanted for Christmas. He bought every child a gift."

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While there is certainly no shortage of negativity online these days, there are plenty of joyful stories out there too. Thanks to pages like "Wholesome Meet The Internet", we can all combat doomscrolling and receive our recommended daily allowance of good vibes and smiles. Remember, a wholesome story a day keeps the doctor away... Or something like that.

Be sure to upvote your favorite examples in this list, and please feel free to share your own uplifting anecdotes with us in the comments!

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lots of people suffering from allergies today. I'm not crying your crying!

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Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's the little things children remember. It's sweet and such a reminder. They want you to be present with them. Often adults (I'm guilty of this too) spend time (and money) for the kids and not with them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that way the monsters can take one of his parents first and he'll have time to get away

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My brother was the same, no words - but now he's a chatterbox 😄 (edit: others got nice stories below 👇)

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Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's so rude to comment on peoples bodies. No matter if they went smaller or bigger or whatever. You don't know what that means to them. Blah! And beauty is not about body size. Good for him doing the basic thing but still, it's not that he's decent - it's the comments that are rude and uncalled for.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People who were so excited about teamtree thought it would end global warming. We must look at these efforts not as an endgame solution or we won't fix anything. It is a cleanup.

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aah yes, *me inhaling some fresh air, nodding to all you Pandas*..... It's frigging true, it IS fantastic :D

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Lakota Wolf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was ruined when my dad suffered a catastrophic brain injury when I was 18. I can’t fathom how much worse it must feel for a parent to lose a child, no matter how old the child is.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My nephew has one too, it stayed at my place for some weeks, while I took it on adventures and sent pictures of the owl in the supermarket, next to a dog we met, out for drinks etc, it was hilarious

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Hseed
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't have that in my life, maybe once or twice that I remember clearly. So I'm trying really hard to do that to my kid as often as I can. Those are the memories that stick really hard to your soul. not the material things.

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Roxy Eastland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gyms should definitely be welcoming places with a kind and social feel to them.

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aw, this is so nice. I used to do this too with my husband. And we would just get out of bed at like 05 and make coffee because we couldn't get back to sleep :D

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this is meant well but please be careful if this inspires you. Most shelters have specific brands they like (for good reasons) so maybe check the website of the shelter or check with them directly before buying something that might not get used.

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UNP Snae
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your husband did the normal and asked if you needed anything, but he was SURE you would say no! After that he proceeded buying yours as intended in the first place! Long story short, he just didn't want you to touch even a molecule from his burger!

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