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When I Was 15, My Boyfriend Took Advantage Of Me
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When I Was 15, My Boyfriend Took Advantage Of Me

When I was 15, my then boyfriend Luke took advantage of me. I decided to break up with him, but my horrifying experience didn’t end there. There was a video with inappropriate content connected directly to me…

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Gintarė Kozakaitė

Gintarė Kozakaitė

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Gintare is a project manager at Bored Panda. Here, she coordinates the project based on true teenagers' stories called Dear Diary. She graduated with a BA in Information And Communication and MA in New Media And Digital Culture. Before joining Bored Panda, she was creating social documentaries and working as a journalist. Her greatest inspiration is people who dare to be different. And well, she truly believes that some great stories actually start with a salad. By the way, she laughs more than she talks. True story.

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Gintarė Kozakaitė

Gintarė Kozakaitė

Author, Community member

Gintare is a project manager at Bored Panda. Here, she coordinates the project based on true teenagers' stories called Dear Diary. She graduated with a BA in Information And Communication and MA in New Media And Digital Culture. Before joining Bored Panda, she was creating social documentaries and working as a journalist. Her greatest inspiration is people who dare to be different. And well, she truly believes that some great stories actually start with a salad. By the way, she laughs more than she talks. True story.

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Felix Feline
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way that you were treated makes me so angry. No one should experience what you went through. The school district is lucky that you didn't sue them.

Scarlet McCall
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how porn might have been implicated in this. Where else would 15-year-old get the notion of filming themselves doing something intimate? When I was 15 we didn't even do things that were especially intimate. Our entire society is being corrupted by porn and teen and pre-teen girls are being victimized.

Angel
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When did this happen? Where did this happen? Better yet, why did this happen?!

Theresa Tzitzira
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am baffled by the attitude of all the official authorities in this case: school, police, even parents. Why has a restraining order affected HER life so negatively and everybody took HIS side??? Is it normal for a guy to break into somebody else's apartment so much so that it doesn't raise red flags to anybody among those who took his side? Is it just an "innocent coincidence" that wherever she would go he seems to be already there or go shortly after?? How is that nobody appear not to have given too much thought as to the reasons of the girl's actions. After all, she wanted to break up, why would she have to face threats, retaliations and stalking? I am at a loss understanding as to how everybody found all that Ok to do on the guy's side!!

AmandaDesmond Desmond
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best Way to Get Your Ex Lover Back Fast Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!. I just got my husband back through the help of genuine love spell caster DR.AISEDION. My name is Diana and I am from Tx,USA. My husband left me for another woman, This was just 3 years of our marriage. The most painful thing is that I was pregnant with our second baby. I wanted him back. I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to my friend and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back. I had no choice than to try it. I messaged the spell caster called DR.AISEDION and he assured me there was no problem and that everything will be okay before 11 hours. He cast the spell and surprisingly 11 hours later my husband called me. I was so surprised, I answered the call and a

Joe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is fairly old...and has already been around the internet..why post it now?

Brian Parks
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's terrible that a victim would be treated that way. The part before the restraining order is puzzling. She was 15 and living alone in an apartment? She had no parents to deal with this but no one called cps? Taken advantage of, in what way?

Dorothy Parker
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wasn't this on here several years ago? Awful, but was more added or?

anarkzie
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish the video was clearer on what was meant by being taken advantage of, was she raped, did he make promises that he did not keep, If it was the former why did the police officer do nothing, also was there an actual video or were they just rumours? I really hope she's ok but the way the story is told requires us to fill in a lot of blanks in our own head.

jane don
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5 years ago

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took advantage of you????????????? Was he a lot Older??? so far this does'nt make any sense !!!!!

Viviane Katz
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't tell if he used emotional blackmail or physical force or both. The fact that people rallied to his defense and bullied her suggests that he may be manipulative. In any case, there's no justification for stalking her.

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Col BatGuano
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5 years ago

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Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Too bad you were a dirty whore. Good luck ever getting over it, but at least you are an example for others. The video is still out there - you can probably find it on the dark web by now.

Felix Feline
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way that you were treated makes me so angry. No one should experience what you went through. The school district is lucky that you didn't sue them.

Scarlet McCall
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how porn might have been implicated in this. Where else would 15-year-old get the notion of filming themselves doing something intimate? When I was 15 we didn't even do things that were especially intimate. Our entire society is being corrupted by porn and teen and pre-teen girls are being victimized.

Angel
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When did this happen? Where did this happen? Better yet, why did this happen?!

Theresa Tzitzira
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am baffled by the attitude of all the official authorities in this case: school, police, even parents. Why has a restraining order affected HER life so negatively and everybody took HIS side??? Is it normal for a guy to break into somebody else's apartment so much so that it doesn't raise red flags to anybody among those who took his side? Is it just an "innocent coincidence" that wherever she would go he seems to be already there or go shortly after?? How is that nobody appear not to have given too much thought as to the reasons of the girl's actions. After all, she wanted to break up, why would she have to face threats, retaliations and stalking? I am at a loss understanding as to how everybody found all that Ok to do on the guy's side!!

AmandaDesmond Desmond
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best Way to Get Your Ex Lover Back Fast Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!. I just got my husband back through the help of genuine love spell caster DR.AISEDION. My name is Diana and I am from Tx,USA. My husband left me for another woman, This was just 3 years of our marriage. The most painful thing is that I was pregnant with our second baby. I wanted him back. I did everything within my reach to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so badly because of the love I had for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to my friend and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back. I had no choice than to try it. I messaged the spell caster called DR.AISEDION and he assured me there was no problem and that everything will be okay before 11 hours. He cast the spell and surprisingly 11 hours later my husband called me. I was so surprised, I answered the call and a

Joe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is fairly old...and has already been around the internet..why post it now?

Brian Parks
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's terrible that a victim would be treated that way. The part before the restraining order is puzzling. She was 15 and living alone in an apartment? She had no parents to deal with this but no one called cps? Taken advantage of, in what way?

Dorothy Parker
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wasn't this on here several years ago? Awful, but was more added or?

anarkzie
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish the video was clearer on what was meant by being taken advantage of, was she raped, did he make promises that he did not keep, If it was the former why did the police officer do nothing, also was there an actual video or were they just rumours? I really hope she's ok but the way the story is told requires us to fill in a lot of blanks in our own head.

jane don
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

took advantage of you????????????? Was he a lot Older??? so far this does'nt make any sense !!!!!

Viviane Katz
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't tell if he used emotional blackmail or physical force or both. The fact that people rallied to his defense and bullied her suggests that he may be manipulative. In any case, there's no justification for stalking her.

Load More Replies...
Col BatGuano
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Too bad you were a dirty whore. Good luck ever getting over it, but at least you are an example for others. The video is still out there - you can probably find it on the dark web by now.

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