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Someone Asks, “What Will Die With Millennials?” And 45 People Don’t Hold Back Their Opinions
InterviewEvery generation has their own unique traits and is marked by important global events. Millennials, for example, were once mocked for their love of avocado toast and buying $5 lattes instead of setting money aside for retirement or to invest in a home. (And can you blame them? Who doesn’t love brunch?) But there are plenty of other trends and experiences that millennials will remember for the rest of their lives; they just might be the only ones who do…
One curious Reddit user recently asked, “What will die with millennials?” And thousands of people shared their thoughts in the replies. From trips to Blockbuster to find the perfect Friday night film to burning mix CDs on the family computer for their high school crush, we’ve gathered a list of some of the most quintessential millennial experiences that might get you a blank stare if you mention them to Gen Zers.
Be sure to upvote the things you fondly remember or the things you think should die out with millennials, and let us know in the comments how you feel about the “snowflake generation”. (Just kidding, that term will hopefully die out with the baby boomers!) Keep reading to also find an interview with the woman who started this conversation in the first place. Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article highlighting what it’s like to be a millennial today, look no further than right here.
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Time when internet was in the golden era.
More genuine content, no clickbait, no hidden agenda, no fake news and hate speech. It was a better and smaller community.
We reached out to the woman who started this conversation on Reddit in the first place, Lindsay, to hear what inspired her to ask this question. "I am a millennial, I identify as an elder millennial," she told Bored Panda. "I am a therapist and work exclusively with Gen Zers at my practice: Austin Teen Therapy. Honestly, I didn’t think much about my generation until there were grown up people in a generation following mine."
"There has been a lot of talk about millennials and the internet," Lindsay explained. "We hear about millennials being the first generation to have grown up with the internet. The flip side to that: we will be the last folks to remember life without the internet so widely available. And when we die that will die with us. This fascination with generational culture, disappearing culture, and technology led me to pose the question."
Calling someone’s home and not knowing who would pick up, and as a result, having unexpected conversations
We also asked Lindsay if she thinks certain things will always die out with every generation, or if technology has advanced to a point where that will happen less often. "I suspect things will continue to die with each generation despite advances in technology," she shared. "And for that very reason: technology continues to advance."
Listening to the radio all day waiting for your favorite song
With a usable cassette in the radio and your finger on the Record button.
Millennials get a lot of flack for being “snowflakes”, obsessed with brunch or being the “me generation”, but no generation is perfect. And just because many of them don’t have the “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” mentality of their elders does not mean they are lazy or entitled. They have just realized that being treated poorly by employers should not be the norm, and having a healthy work-life balance shouldn't be merely a fantasy. Plus, what some people call being “snowflakes”, others consider showing empathy for others and being sensitive to social issues. Potato, puh-tah-toe, right?
There are some great qualities about millennials that tend to be swept under the rug as well. For example, 90% of millennials say that working for a sustainable company is important to them, while only 77% of baby boomers feel the same way. These snowflakes are actually concerned about the future of the planet and want to ensure that climate change doesn’t add actual snowflakes to the list of things that die out when their generation does. Gen Z might be even more famous for being socially aware and active, but millennials certainly paved the way for their younger siblings.
Using your thumb and pinky to pretend you’re talking on the phone.
Gen Z uses their whole palm like a smart phone.
Watching “whatever was on”. Everything is always on now, you don’t stumble into an interesting (or awful) show because it’s the only thing mildly interesting on tv.
I really hope bullying in schools ends with us. I’ve noticed that kids are way more tolerant and accepting than we were. It’s not “cool” to make fun of other kids, it just makes you look like an a*****e. And conversely it IS cool to accept people who are different than you and find ways to help other students who need it. I hope that keeps being a thing.
I was on the bus once and a bunch of schoolkids got on with me. One was trans (as in literally wearing a trans pride badge), and the other kids were treating them as just one of the gang. It was awesome. I showed the kid my matching ace pride badge (they were both from the Prideosaurs line!) and all of them were like "hey, cool!" Those kids really gave me hope for the future. (When I was their age "gay" was a playground insult).
While millennials may only be 26-41 years old at the moment, we can already predict some of the trends, memories and experiences that will become things of the past as this generation ages. Technology has progressed rapidly during their lifetimes already, and most of Gen Z has no memory of a world without smartphones and streaming platforms. Remember when watching a movie on Netflix meant being sent a DVD in the mail? Or watching a film on Friday night meant a trip to Blockbuster? If you’re not a millennial, you might not remember those days!
There are also various cultural phenomena that no one will remember as well as millennials do. For example, one of the responses on this list mentions how normal it was for millennials to mention their Harry Potter houses. Similarly to how Gen Z might mention their astrology signs, knowing what Hogwarts house you fell into was imperative when I was growing up. The Harry Potter books became the most sold book series of all time, and anyone who did not read the series, or at least watch the films, could be easily left out during lunch time chats. However, with the controversy surrounding J.K. Rowling’s transphobic tweets and the fact that times simply change, reading the Harry Potter books might not be a rite of passage for all kids in the coming generations.
I remember a time when long-distance communication was more expensive than local communication. These days, WhatsApp and Discord make it free. We also had family in another country and could go years without seeing their face, and now video calls are easy. Social media isn’t all bad
I've made some amazing new friends who once upon a time I would never have had a chance of meeting, thanks to social media! Going to Melbourne for the weekend? Awesome, I can meet up with that buddy of mine who I met on Facebook! Parents are going to Prague? Oh hey, I know someone who lives there and can show them around! (Which is exactly what happened, as a matter of fact!)
Now that millennials have reached the age where they’re raising children of their own, some outdated mindsets and views might be going extinct as well. Katy Steinmetz wrote a piece for TIME examining just how parenting is shifting over time, where she noted that millennials are raising their kids the way they wish they had been raised. “These young adults, having been raised to count individuality and self-expression as the highest values, are attempting to run their families as mini-democracies, seeking consensus from spouses, kids and extended friend circles on even the smallest decisions,” Steinmetz writes. “They’re backing away from the overscheduled days of their youth, preferring a more responsive, less directorial approach to activities. And they’re teaching their kids to be themselves and try new things—often unwittingly conditioning their tiny progeny to see experiences as things to be documented and shared with the world.”
Memory of having a ‘house phone’
Add "using a rotary phone" to the list. Also, how frustrating it was when you almost got to the end, and then accidentally turned a wrong number. 555-556... damn it!
The hustle culture. Having 2 jobs to make ends meet or working and studying at the same time. We never asked for living wages or lower tuitions or free healthcare or better public transportation as hard as Gen Zers. I’m happy, Gen Z has realized this system is rigged for the rich and the corporations.
In like the 50s and 60s you could support a family with one non college-educated income. Like factory work type jobs. The expectations of being able to afford middle class life stayed the same, but the income potential people had went way down and expenses went way up. It took a while for people to become more aware of the fact that things in society had to change for that to be possible.
Privacy. The kids today share everything they will even post someone else online. Millennials understand life before the internet and we see the internet as a tool. The younger generations see it as real as real life. They have no problem signing their rights away online and posting every aspect of their life for all to see.
My kid posted her drivers license to show she was 18...we LOST OUR MINDS!...she took it down within 20 minutes
And while millennials are also famous for their optimism, it can be challenging to raise kids in a world full of influencers and constant pressure on social media. Nearly 90% of millennials are active on social media, meaning that it is extremely easy for them to compare their own lives, including their children, to others. But sharing baby pictures on Facebook and documenting every “first” a child has might just be the new norm. Millennials will likely be the last ones to remember growing up without their parents posting on Facebook or having access to it when they were teenagers, and the idea of not being on social media, or at least not knowing how to use it, will be a thing of the past.
Remembering someone’s phone number
I know my wife’s phone number, and the number we had when I was nine in 1980. 794-9865. Didn’t have to dial the area code back then.
Memories of watching movies on VCRs.
I still have VHS tapes and a player, though the player is not connected to the tv, again just in case hahahahaha
Kids today have a completely different experience growing up than millennials did when they were young. It will be interesting to see how having a digital footprint of essentially their entire lives will impact them. “Children growing up will have multiple identities,” Sarita Schoenebeck of the University of Michigan told TIME. “They will have a more public one that has been created by their parents, that’s been cultivated by grandparents. But they will maintain a more personal and private independent identity as well.” Gone are the days of having to print photos or keep journals for memories. The children of millennials will have everything at their fingertips.
Going to Blockbuster and trying to find a film to watch, or a one new and one old combo
For office workers, my hope is the traditional expectation of being in an office, at a desk, 9 AM to 5 PM five days a week. With our ability to be connected from almost everywhere, the whole idea of driving back and forth between an office to sit a desk for 8ish hours a day, just to drive back home at stare at one’s possessions seems very antiquated.
Pre-pandemic I commuted between a suburb and a major city 5 days a week, often spending between an hour to an hour and a half each way in my car. Now that I am set up with a remote office from home, I don’t think I can ever go back to that way of doing things.
Me neither!! Working from home has saved me!! I can never go back!!
One negative idea that will hopefully die out with millennials is the stigma around discussing mental health issues. For the most part, millennials are open to engaging in conversations about mental health and promoting practices like therapy, but Gen Z is even more open-minded. In fact, 70% of teens say that anxiety and depression are major issues for their age group, according to Pew Research Center. With young people starting to talk about and be mindful of mental health issues at increasingly young ages, hopefully any stigma associated with taking care of mental health will soon be a thing of the past.
Knowing what the save icon actually is...
Playing multi-player video games with split screens in one room.
"NO YOU CANT LOOK AT MY SIDE" Or "No i like that side better" *cue remote and place switch*
Millennials aren’t going anywhere any time soon, but it’s interesting to think about how rapidly the world has changed during their lifetime already. Keep upvoting the responses that you agree with or that you thought raised interesting points, and then feel free to share what else you think will die out with millennials in the comments. And if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing what it’s like to be a millennial today, we recommend reading this piece next.
AOL Dial Up.
I've worked in a call centre and there are still a few fax lines about. It makes me smiile that anyone under 30 doesn't recognise the sound.
Burials. Most people I hear from want to be cremated plus do you know how f*****g expensive dying is? Probably will have to pay rent on the plots by the time we all die too ffs
In my country you always had to pay rent for the plots. You get rental agrement and all (well your relatives do). If the rent is unpaid and 30 years passed since burial they just reuse the plot, chuck the headstone and bury someone else on top of the remains, or move the remains to mass grave at the back of cemetery.
Playing video games without having to buy DLC to get the full experience.
No, but you had to buy a GameShark to get the ultimate experience.
Not knowing the answer to something and saying, 'I guess we’ll never know.'
Yes but as more stuff goes into the internet it may be harder to find the truth about certan things.
I once tried to explain the my niece that phones used to be wired to walls. She's ten (she was six at the time) cell phones are all she's ever known.
Among the reasons she guessed as to why they were "tied" to walls: To stop people from stealing them.
At this rate, an ecosystem that is inhabitable for humans, probably
Cable TV. It's already on its way out.
I use a refurbished desktop computer to watch YouTube on an ad blocked browser on my tv. There are too many subscription services out there so it's easier for me to subscribe to none of them.
Being able to go into the cockpit mid-flight on a commercial aircraft is something people younger than me will not experience. I remember going in there, and not being able to see anything over the dashboard. I wondered how they could fly the plane if they couldn't see in front of them. But I now realize that I was just little
having kids or not as many kids... we just can't afford it
Headphone jacks 😔
Hopefully virtue signalling one's believed moral superiority by getting offended as much as possible on behalf of groups you are not associated with.
The phrase "virtue-signalling" can die too. Somehow the people who use it never seem to realise that it is, itself, a virtue signal.
How about all of those solid oak "entertainment center" cabinets, with fixed shelving spaced out to accommodate a 2 foot deep 4:3 aspect-ratio CRT television? No one's going to want those. A larger 16:9 flatscreen isn't going to fit in that square space, and a smaller one that does is going to look awkward and weird in it.
Same deal with all the china cabinets. Who is going to want all the old china cabinets the boomers have, or for that matter, all their expensive china? Millennials seem less likely to see the point of owning a bunch of dishware that only gets used about twice a year.
The special china thing probably came about because once upon a time that sort of thing was expensive enough to be given the status of "family heirloom", so of course you'd want to keep it safe (and maybe be forced to sell it if the harvest failed and you needed to pay the rent in a hurry).
I think the “bootstrap” mentality. It’s already declining in millennials but there are still plenty on the front end of the generation that still believe in working themselves to death and grinding 24/7.
Most on the younger side of the generation see right through it and have taken a “job is just to support my lifestyle” perspective.
Our parents still think we need to go in with our resume and demand an interview. Our kids constantly show us kids that have made it on YouTube / tiktok/whatever. We’ve seen both sides of it and we’re just not real impressed.
Speaking as a Gen X, we entered the job market just as all the best parts our parents enjoyed were being sucked out of it. We went in knowing that employers trained and promoted employees within the business; employers paid most or all of the continuing education and recertifications, that employers provided our insurance and benefits, and that getting raises and keeping the same job until you retired and got a paid pension were a thing. We saw our parents; mothers too, get White Collar jobs with diplomas from two-year colleges, and we saw that even four-year college student loan debt could be paid off in full within two years of steady employment. The advanced college education was only optional too, and it was only accepted if it directly related to the duties of the type of employment you had or sought. We were the first to get ****ed over, again, and again, and now we're just exhausted.
Apparently using a Haynes or a Chilton’s manual to work on your car. I hate using YouTube videos for car maintenance, but it looks like that’s all I have left.
Getting along with people who have different political views as you have.
Strip malls. They're ugly and unsustainable.
BP could have used a photo of an actual strip mall rather than Las Vegas' Fremont Street, which ISN'T a strip mall 🤔
Declaring your Harry Potter house to others in normal conversation
No I think as people still quote movies from 50 years ago now it’ll be the same. Harry Potter has attractions around the world, stage plays, merchandise etc. it ain’t going anywhere for a long time. At most they’ll come a time when someone will just buy the rights off jk Rowling perhaps
It'll be longer than fifty years. "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn" and "I've got a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore" are both instantly recognisable quotes - and both from films released in 1939.
Load More Replies...My husband & I communicate in movie quotes all the time, although I don't think we've ever gone quite this far.
But if it matters to you, you'll be able to choose...The Sorting Hat takes your choice into account
Load More Replies...Never met anyone who declared their Harry Potter house. I didn't even know it was a thing.
i hate when people do this when are we going to stop pretending that its normal that a 45 year old women is running around saying shes a hufflepuff. and also with their zodiac signs like if someone spills a glass of water and then their like oh im such a capricorn. i dont know why but ut annoys me so much
It's a fandom thing. I'm not a Potter fan, but other fandoms have things they talk about to show what they love. Live Long and Prosper and May the Force be with you!
Load More Replies...Hopefully their love of avocado toast. Then we get the economy back on track.
Please let it be people who wear Ugg boots in the snow. Goddamn, is that ever impractical.
Memory of 9/11
Using the term "millennial" to describe anyone under the age of 60 rather than specifically actual millennials.
Using a word to describe an entire "generation". Not everyone in that age group is going to have the same beliefs and morals. Where you're born and how you're raised is going to have an impact, probably more so than being born in an arbitrary timeframe. Edit: Spelling.
Especially baby boomers. The term covers millions of people born over an 18 year time span. Some of the very oldest boomers became the parents of the very youngest. (People started early back then - I had classmates who got married straight out of high school, and it wasn't a shotgun wedding either.)
Load More Replies...Hopefully this meaningless which generation is better p**s contest would end soon too. I mean a small and greedy portion of people (from all generations) getting richer and richer each day and most of us (again, from all generations) getting poorer and instead of this we are wasting our time with boomers this millenials that arguments which leads us nowhere.
#6 bullying. The kids aren't always the bullies, sometimes it's the teachers. If only they were held accountable. That's why homeschooling is so popular.
Anyone else tired of being blamed for everything that goes wrong in our society? These articles need to stop or get their facts straight. If I'm to believe all the articles I've seen: I am inconsiderate, I am going to be the end of communities, businesses, and warm fuzzy feelings. Stop trying to blame a generation and realize we're all people not just trying to survive but thrive. It's on all of us not just millenials.
I could be wrong but I believe you're gen X like me (I was born in 1977).
Load More Replies...I have also noticed that younger content creators say 'click the microphone at the top of your screen and type...' when they are talking about the magnifying glass next to the search bar.
The title for this is stupid. And im at an age that grew up with most of this list and glad they're mostly gone lol.
Me too, this shouts "my generation was better, damn millenials" This people would be 80 in a couple of decades and still blame millenialls and not the parents that grew that generation.
Load More Replies...I don't normally get angry with articles. But this one irritated me. Nothing Rowling said sounded transphobic to me. Looked like most of it was facts. You can't change the facts of biology as much as you may wish you could. A trans male can never be a woman. Period. Your feelings inside do not change this biological fact. Anyone who believes otherwise needs to sit their butt back in a biology class and relearn the basics. Men can not give birth... EVER. This is the one crucial thing that almost all women have in common. Women around the world should be appalled and insulted by this trans movement that has taken hold in society and should be doing everything in their power to stop it. Just look at how it it destroying women's sports. Records set by biological women are getting smashed to bits. It's shameful and outright dangerous. Just look at the volleyball girl who was severely injured because of this nonsense as proof. Allow it to continue and it will become more frequent.
This " list" isn't even about Millennials! I'm a Gen X mom and I think my son was born the last year that was considered a Millennial. He's never lived in a home or had friends with land lines , he's always had 100's of tv stations to choose from, never used a floppy disk, I think he only ever saw some in our garage years ago before I purged all the obsolete tech stuff. I usually love BP, but this list is way off .
LOL hardly. Millennials are no more respectful than anybother generation, and Gen Z no less. You're just getting old.
Load More Replies...Using the term "millennial" to describe anyone under the age of 60 rather than specifically actual millennials.
Using a word to describe an entire "generation". Not everyone in that age group is going to have the same beliefs and morals. Where you're born and how you're raised is going to have an impact, probably more so than being born in an arbitrary timeframe. Edit: Spelling.
Especially baby boomers. The term covers millions of people born over an 18 year time span. Some of the very oldest boomers became the parents of the very youngest. (People started early back then - I had classmates who got married straight out of high school, and it wasn't a shotgun wedding either.)
Load More Replies...Hopefully this meaningless which generation is better p**s contest would end soon too. I mean a small and greedy portion of people (from all generations) getting richer and richer each day and most of us (again, from all generations) getting poorer and instead of this we are wasting our time with boomers this millenials that arguments which leads us nowhere.
#6 bullying. The kids aren't always the bullies, sometimes it's the teachers. If only they were held accountable. That's why homeschooling is so popular.
Anyone else tired of being blamed for everything that goes wrong in our society? These articles need to stop or get their facts straight. If I'm to believe all the articles I've seen: I am inconsiderate, I am going to be the end of communities, businesses, and warm fuzzy feelings. Stop trying to blame a generation and realize we're all people not just trying to survive but thrive. It's on all of us not just millenials.
I could be wrong but I believe you're gen X like me (I was born in 1977).
Load More Replies...I have also noticed that younger content creators say 'click the microphone at the top of your screen and type...' when they are talking about the magnifying glass next to the search bar.
The title for this is stupid. And im at an age that grew up with most of this list and glad they're mostly gone lol.
Me too, this shouts "my generation was better, damn millenials" This people would be 80 in a couple of decades and still blame millenialls and not the parents that grew that generation.
Load More Replies...I don't normally get angry with articles. But this one irritated me. Nothing Rowling said sounded transphobic to me. Looked like most of it was facts. You can't change the facts of biology as much as you may wish you could. A trans male can never be a woman. Period. Your feelings inside do not change this biological fact. Anyone who believes otherwise needs to sit their butt back in a biology class and relearn the basics. Men can not give birth... EVER. This is the one crucial thing that almost all women have in common. Women around the world should be appalled and insulted by this trans movement that has taken hold in society and should be doing everything in their power to stop it. Just look at how it it destroying women's sports. Records set by biological women are getting smashed to bits. It's shameful and outright dangerous. Just look at the volleyball girl who was severely injured because of this nonsense as proof. Allow it to continue and it will become more frequent.
This " list" isn't even about Millennials! I'm a Gen X mom and I think my son was born the last year that was considered a Millennial. He's never lived in a home or had friends with land lines , he's always had 100's of tv stations to choose from, never used a floppy disk, I think he only ever saw some in our garage years ago before I purged all the obsolete tech stuff. I usually love BP, but this list is way off .
LOL hardly. Millennials are no more respectful than anybother generation, and Gen Z no less. You're just getting old.
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