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Expectations are a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it’s fun to imagine all the wonderful scenarios that might play out in real life. On the other hand, if your expectations are a tad on the unrealistic side, they can completely wreck your emotional state when you step down from your daydreams and come face to face with reality.

But what about fairly realistic expectations? Surely, if somebody advertises a product or a service, the customer can expect to get exactly what they pay for… right? Spoiler alert: oh, dear Lord, no! TikTok users have been uploading videos showing the huge differences between what they (un)realistically wanted and what they got. From clothes to dog haircuts and more.

People have been adding TikTok user Keelyknight aka Madeline’s audio (where she’s crying because of the nails she got) to their own videos, and we’ve collected some of the best ones for you to watch, dear Pandas. Have a look, upvote your fave vids, and be sure to let us know which ones were your favorite, why, and if you’ve ever been in a similar situation yourselves.

@kneelyknightThis was the worst experience I’ve ever had. #nails #help #foryou #foryoupage♬ original sound - Madeline

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When it comes to getting something we totally didn’t want, there are two aspects that you have to consider. The actual quality of the service and managing your own expectations so that you don’t end up being constantly disappointed.

The first aspect is fairly straightforward, even though it might not be easy to get around. If the product or service you’ve received doesn’t meet your standards of quality or what’s been advertised, then you’ve got to ask for a refund. Complain! Often and loudly.

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Obviously, try to be as diplomatic as you can with your complaints—you’re dealing with other human beings after all. And it’s not always the person who’s registering your complaint who was responsible for what you got. So try not to make their life hell and they’ll be more likely to help you out.

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If a company has a genuine customer-first policy in play, they’ll take serious complaints, well, seriously. They’ll hear you out, offer you support, follow up on your complaint, and do whatever they can to make up for their mistake. But we all know that far from every company is willing to be so friendly and instead has a “profit comes first, collateral damage is all right” kind of mentality.

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Karin Gibson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That happened to my Westie once and I have never seen a more upset pooch. Bless him we couldn't help laughing and he sulked for a weeks

Amy R. Cohen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few times when my dog had gone too long without a grooming they have to shave him. It looks horrible and he doesn’t look like my baby but it does always grow back. He actually looks like Mandy Patinkin.

Anna roberts
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had my Golden shaved because the poor thing did not lose hair and was miserable, went to pick him up and they had left the hair on the tail. Nope, try again LOL

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Kristie Yuill
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a dog groomer, this dog was most likely matted and the groomer had no choice but to shave it down. They should have set the customer's expectations straight from the start though.

Amy R. Cohen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. This has happened to my dog especially during lock down when he went 4 months without a grooming. It’s upsetting but I was prepared. Luckily he’s a floof again and is back to getting groomed once every 6 weeks.

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Crystal Wilson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, how matted was this dog beforehand? But please blame the groomer for not performing miracles, or subjecting the dog to cruel treatment.

Vicky Z
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it was a cat, it would kill you in your sleep for that😅😅😅

Jovita A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't really look like it's the same dog... But what do I know...

Petra Christovová
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One would say that it is not possible to make such beautiful doggie ugly, and yet here we are ....I would want my money back.

Isa
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ohhh poor puppy...the good thing its that the hair will grow back!Poor thing!

Easily Excitable Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor thing looks humiliated! He's probably asked "Mommy, what did I do wrong?"

Tina Well
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

but what condition was the dog before it went in? As a groomer I have had someone bring a pic and say I want this but the dog was too matted to do it and had to shave it down.

Aaricia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It could be the groomers fault, but it could also be the owners fault. If dogs like that don't get brushed every week or have gone without an appointment for too long there will be knots at the start of their fur. You have to shave it otherwise you'll be torturing that dog by brushing.

Christy Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From looking like a soft, snuggle-y teddy bear to what the actual f**k did you do to me.

tuzdayschild
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor baby. He looks ashamed and he did nothing wrong. Picking up on owners vibes I guess.

Ileana Sky Aviles
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This just happened to my dear poodle who has completely lost his self-esteem and refuses to come out from under the sofa😞 I've never seen him so defeated. He really knows when he's not his best!

Christy Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awww, he looks like an abuse case in the 2nd one, I'd be pissed.

Sarah McManus
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww...poor pupper. They do say there's only 1 week between a bad haircut and a good haircut but there are limits

Susan Widomski
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It'll grow back. Just keep telling the dog how pretty they are - they'll believe you.

Cupcake168
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most important: act like everything’s okay, otherwise your dog would feel guilty because they think it’s their fault. "Oh, cuuuuutie! You’re SO beautiful! This accentuates your funny side!" Than hit the groomer behind closed doors.

Chelle R.
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor baby...he/she had more fur when he/she was born! Sad doggie...he/she is going to be bullied by his "old" friends at the dog park for being naked!

Donna Leske
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The facts are the 'before' photo is just that; a photo. We don't know what state the owner's dog was in before taken to the groomer - who may have had little choice but to shave it down. Doesn't explain the top of the head but...

M Kate McCulloch
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, the hair will grow and probably look just like the pic in about a month.

judy baker
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That pupper was really cute before. Unless necessary to give it a haircut don't mess with cute.

Nicky Melville
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor little dog! He looks so sad! I hope you told him it would soon grow out!

Id row
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Post that before and after on their Yelp page. That isn't even funny.

Caroline Overill
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor little darling doesn't want to be seen out. Get him a nice non embarrassing coat to wear and wait for the hair to grow back.

Scruffy Streeter
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's actually a well executed haircut. Those aren't even the same dog. One has a tail, the other does not. One appears to be a toy poodle, the other is some kind of Maltipoo.

4848532
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well . . . at least you'll get your money's worth out of that haircut. :-|

Marilyn Holt
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor doggo. It'll grow in. Meanwhile--might could use a t-shirt.

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Consider seeking legal aid if the product was especially expensive or if you, your loved ones, or your pets suffered because of what happened. If somebody’s blatantly advertising something that’s clearly false as a way to make a quick buck, then you’ve got to do your part in putting an end to it.

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However, there’s that pesky second aspect when it comes to not getting what we wanted. And that all comes down to our expectations. Sometimes, what we want is so perfect, requires so much skill and craftsmanship, that not everyone can fulfill our orders. In those cases, what we envision and what the local craftspeople can provide simply don’t sync up. Or, to put it more bluntly, you get what you pay for.

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Don’t expect your nails to look like a model’s when you’re getting them done at a discount store at your local mall. Similarly, you can’t expect a newbie dog groomer to get the same results as a grandmaster with decades of experience: they’ll do their best but you simply can’t expect them to perform according to your imaginary expectations.

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In life, it’s best to do your very best to get the result that you want and then relinquish any and all expectations. You did your best. Well done! Now sit back and don’t fret, find something else to do. If you get what you want, fantastic. If not, no big deal—you’ll try again later. Maybe with a different tactic in mind.

Having low expectations is a healthy mindset, similar to the one where you’re encouraged to do good things for people without expecting anything in return. Life has a pleasant way of surprising us when we’re not desperate, needy, and whiny.

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PsychCentral explains that the first step in relinquishing unrealistic expectations is being able to spot them. Of course, that’s easier said than done because we may have had certain expectations for years and years. And a lot of it’s connected to our desire to maintain control over everything.

Some examples of completely unrealistic expectations include the beliefs that everyone should like you and that the world should be fair. We simply can’t have that kind of control over the world (well, unless we’re a superhero, the Emperor of the Universe, or a member of the Greek Pantheon).

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Similarly, if we’re constantly disappointed by results and not having our expectations met every step of the way, well, maybe it’s time to analyze them in detail. Spend the weekend looking at your belief structures.

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Give yourself permission to not have everything go perfectly. Embrace flexibility. That doesn’t mean giving up your high standards (quality is good stuff, people), but you have to be relatively down to earth. Otherwise, you’ll spend the rest of your life making wanted vs. got TikTok videos.

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