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From how we dress and what we eat to how we talk and even what we allow ourselves to feel; we humans need to internalize a lot of rules if we are to properly function in our societies.

But as you probably know, it can be tricky to rationalize if our actions are acceptable or not.

Recently, Reddit user IPlayBongos was browsing the platform when they came across the question "What feels illegal, but isn't?" in one of the subreddits they follow. "I can't remember which one now, but it was a post that had ... one funny answer (I think it was ... about feeling guilty to leave a supermarket without buying anything.)," they told Bored Panda.

"I thought there must be so many other things that feel this way in life so I just went to r/AskReddit to see what people can come up with."

IPlayBongos reposted the same question there and it instantly caught the eye of the 35.6M-big community. So even though it's not technically an original idea, the Redditor did correctly identify the immense potential of entertainment it possessed. And we're really glad they decided to seek more replies because of the nearly 9K comments IPlayBongos has received, many pinpointed the exact circumstances our moral ambiguity kicks in.

Since we at Bored Panda had such a blast going through the discussion, we decided to compile the most interesting ones and bring you in on the fun too. Enjoy!

#1

A hundred-billion-dollar corporation paying absolutely zero in taxes whilst also owning several billion-dollar businesses.

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#2

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Bringing your baby home from the hospital the first time. I remember thinking “they’re really going to let me just walk out of here with this fragile infant and no experience?!”

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"I would say most of the answers were driven by some expectations that should be fulfilled by some societal measures, but it somehow feels wrong if they are not," IPlayBongos said. "Like in the supermarket example above, it just feels strange to go inside a store and not buy anything because if you leave empty-handed it feels awkward to just pass by the cashier and simply say bye to them or to just slip out around so many paying customers."

Or consider another scenario: you're talking to colleagues during a coffee break and your boss rolls around. "Even if he doesn't say anything and you're perfectly ok joking around on your break, it somehow reminds you of your duties and the fun dies down."

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"One of the top comments was a guy who uses a wheelchair, but still can stand up if needed," IPlayBongos added. "It makes perfect sense to use a wheelchair even if you're not completely disabled, but maybe it's also the fault of pop culture and the infinite gags about faking a disability that we feel like wheelchairs are strictly for people with serious disabilities and others are fakes."

The Redditor said it was actually one answer that they did not expect to hear and that is precisely why they like the platform. "There's always someone who faces completely different challenges than you and it is eye opening [to hear about them]," IPlayBongos said.

#3

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Asking someone for the money you lent to him/her.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dear old dad used to say not to lend more money than you're willing to lose. Solid advice, I don't lend money to anyone besides my mom. I never expect her to pay me back because she's mom and has only ever asked twice to borrow money.

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#4

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine It feels illegal getting out of my wheelchair. I’m not paralyzed but it helps to have a wheelchair, but people always think I’m faking a disability when I get out of my chair.

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Beth S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With all the disabled parking vigilantism and overall disbelief that someone is ill coupled with the general stupidity of the public in regards to chronic illness/injury - this does not surprise me at all.

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#5

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Your employer will tell you you're not allowed to discuss your wages but legally you are and you cannot be fired for it

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Dee Bowmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It may be legal to discuss your wages with fellow employees, but I bet you're two to one if you do it and you tell your boss that they'll figure out a way to fire you.

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#6

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Calling in sick when you're actually sick.

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Ciara Eynon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also making your voice sound a little strained and raspy to really highlight that you're super sick, even though you are super sick but has nothing to do with your tonsils 😂

Rahul Pawa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a red flag. If your workplace is like this, start looking for a new job.

DennyS (denzoren)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. Always having to make sure your illness sounds serious enough to warrant leave.

pemdas927
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More over I miss companies having "sick days". I go in not feeling 100% because I lose money and I'll accumulate "points" that can get me terminated.

Liesl English
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first job, I tried to call in sick, was told I would be fired if I didn't come in sick. Came in with a fever (husband had to drive me to work because I couldn't actually focus enough to drive), and got called in for a discplonary meeting for the fact that I had even tried to call in sick. They also got upset that my husband had hung around all day (because we couldn't afford gas money for him to drive home and then back to pick me up again, and also we were worried I might collapse and he wanted to be there) and were completely paranoid that he was going to try to rob the place. The whole meeting had a very chastising and accusatory tone while they tried to intimidate me. I quit that day and had to deal with the typical "your generation just doesn't understand and doesn't want to work" attitude from a lot of people.

buttonpusher
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like that with everything. "I mean ffs that's typical of your mother to go and die on a Tuesday!"

SirDigbyChickenCaesar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't even have the option. If I call out sick the place I work will literally just close for the day because there's no one else to come in and the other person there can't be expected to do it alone as it's just too much for one person.

Emma
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Entirely this. I had a fever of 102° but I still felt scared telling my boss. Glad I did because it turned out I had COVID. (That's what I get for having worked in a mall where almost none of our customers wanted to follow the mandate.)

Carla Laudicina
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been denied sick pay 2x for 2x encountering legitimate health issues. 2022

Dee Bowmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked at restaurants where if you called in sick they would give you a hard time until you came in even with a fever no matter how sick you were. This was in restaurants.

Wendy Lam
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Especially now CoVID no joke, if I have a cold and fever yes definitely call in sick

Robin Garcia
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously. I called in sick day before Easter. I tried downing dayquil and taking in caffeine just to get functioning but I had a fever and a raging headache. I felt terrible. Then two days after Easter my boss is walking around telling the room how she has bronchitis and her boyfriend told her to call out but she "didn't want to be a terrible person". 😑

John Montgomery
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate society has trained us to feel bad about not being at work. Weather it's being sick or just needing a mental health day, the workplace should feel bad for us needing it.

Ivy la Sangrienta
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just text my boss. No guilt, since I only do it when I'm actually sick. Which was in 2018.

Laura Brown
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most people don't want whatever illness you have, your boss included...funny, that doesn't cross their minds until it's too late, LMAO

Cartoon Fan Girl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I go places while sick in order to get things done, I'm not that sick at those times though.

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#7

U.S legislators are allowed to trade stock in and sit on boards of private companies while passing legislation affecting those companies.

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martin734
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In many countries, including the UK, this is either illegal or very tightly regulated.

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#8

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Walking out of a store without buying smth

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. I would just kinda anxiously nod at security at the exit and fear they'll stop me, thinking I might've shoplifted something. :')

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#9

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Driving next to a cop at the speed limit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or in front of. Heck, I get nervous driving behind them because I had a cop use his rear speed radar and some questionable and unsafe driving tactics to goad me into speeding, just long enough for him to drop behind me then pull me over. He ultimately fined me for doing 70 in a 60, saying he could've nailed me for 75. Judge threw it out in court after hearing about his shenanigans on the highway. Apparently he had a habit of using unorthodox and unsafe maneuvers to trick people into breaking a traffic law just so he could ticket them. I still had to pay admin fees but that was nothing compared to the $300 fine itself.

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#10

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Being a 30-something male and taking your 4 yr old niece to a kid's live musical. My partner and I took my niece to the Frozen live musical today. Because we purchased tickets at late notice, I had to take a seat in the row behind my (female)partner and my niece. The stares I was getting from the other audience members because I was a dude sitting by myself at a kid's musical... I felt like I should've been in prison.

9/10 though would do it again, the Frozen musical was great!

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Dr. M.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So stupid. So us woman are allowed to enjoy music, theater etc for kids because it's cute but men aren't? Stupid people

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#11

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Sitting at the restaurant, not liking the menu, and leaving.

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Tamsin Far
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

German restaurants usually have the menu posted outside so you can read it before you enter - don't you have this in the US? It saves everyone a lot of trouble, especially if you are vegetarian.

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#12

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Telling your barber that you don't like the haircut

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#14

Big companies buying up a whole bunch of housing in some city and renting it out to visitors.

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#15

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Not liking dogs. People treat it as the worst thing in the world if you aren't deathly allergic and just don't like dogs.

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#16

Having fun at work. Your boss walks around the corner and everybody scatters in the most totally not suspicious way.

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#17

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Bringing reusable grocery bags to a different grocery store than the one the bags are branded as.

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Tamsin Far
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel completely the opposite - I am always worried that they will ask me to pay for it again if I use it in the shop it came from. No problem with one from another store :).

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#18

Using the other genders bathroom when yours is occupied

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#19

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Card counting in a casino. It’s totally legal within the law, but the security and management will make you feel like a criminal for doing it.

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Rodney Bowie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They would be banning you from doing math in your own head, right? Loads of dystopian sci fi novels tell me that's "thought policing."

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#20

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Purchasing an item with no bag, and leaving the shop with it under your arm

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Robert T
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did this yesterday. I always keep the receipt in my hand just so I can wave it at security if they should stop me. In almost half a century, nobody ever has! LOL

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#21

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Watching a video on your phone at full volume in a public place, I've done this a few times on accident and I wanted to crawl out of my skin and [pass away].

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#22

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Taking time off work always feels illegal. Even if it's paid time off I've earned.

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#23

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine The first time driving a car after you've got your license

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#24

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine My dad had a tendency to go to a store and eat and drink off the shelves. Then go pay for the wrapper at the end. Always thought we'd get arrested for that.

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martin734
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This technically is actually illegal. Until you pay for the goods, you do not own them and the shop owner/manager has the right to withdraw any goods from sale. By eating or drinking the produce before you pay for them you are taking away the owner/manager's right to exercise control of their goods.

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#25

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Walking into a store with a mask on, your hood up, all with sunglasses

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Steve Kenney
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not illegal but it is shady, First the mask thing is nothing, everyone is wearing or not wearing masks right now, However when you walk into a store with your hood up and sunglasses on inside a store it possibly could put the staff on notice that you - might - be there to steal. I know it's not fair but they don't know you, they've never met you so they have to go with their instincts.

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#26

Breaking off a banana from the bunch in the store

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#27

Going to a concert after covid. After the last 2 years of avoiding crowds and people it just feels wrong.

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K Miller
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do they mean "after" covid?... it's still happening... one of my coworkers has been living her life like normal even after mask mandates were lifted... she just tested positive smh...

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#28

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Getting a haircut from someone other than your regular hairdresser

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Beth S
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't feel illegal but it does feel like cheating on them. LOL

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#30

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Pulling your pants down when you have 2 pairs of pants

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#31

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Being at a red light next to a Police officer

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Beth S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't not feel illegal - just anxiety inducing. The whole bug under a magnifying glass type of effect in my case.

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#32

Taking the hotel freebies

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Kimi Tomminello
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're paying for them anyway. Do you honestly think the owners are coming out of pocket to restock them?

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#33

Smuggling your own (non-alcoholic/hot) snacks into the cinema.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would rather buy the overpriced snack that pay $25 a ticket. Many theaters depend on the concession sales to stay in business

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#35

Watching the next episode of a box set without your significant other.

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Anna Banana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Singles' version: starting an episode of a series (where continuity is not a big issue), realising you don't like it, and skipping it to watch the next one. It took me decades to realise I could do that!

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#37

30 People Share Things That Feel Illegal Even Though They're Perfectly Fine Using a bathroom for disabled/handicapped people.

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#40

When we got out of covid lockdown in Melbourne: going outside, going out to a restaurant/bar, having friends in your house.

Now it’s just not wearing a mask at the supermarket

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#41

Reading a book completely in a book store then not buying it.

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#42

Calling customer care.

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Eleanor Watcin-Thomas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love doing it, it's done because something is unjust and you want it put right. What's wrong with that?

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#43

Staring at someone through binoculars from your house

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#45

after turning 18 or 21 in some places and being able to just do anything, without anyone's permission, with your own car that can take you wherever you please. Still feels weird

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Liam F.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol not if that's all you've ever wanted your whole life and have been looking forward to that day because your insanely overprotective parents wouldn't let you do anything on your own...this might've gotten a little personal but fr

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#46

Driving on german Highways with a speed of 200-250 km/h

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The consequences of a mistake at that speed are where the legalities lie.

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#47

Turning right at a red light.

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Trevor Nicholson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's illegal in Montreal. And it just results in really weird crossings for pedestrians. Lots of scatter crossings but also where one side and cross and another can't, and lots of advanced cross for pedestrians.

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#48

Using conditioner first

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#49

Facebook stalking

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Barry Mckokiner
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't have an account with them. Now you can't stalk and you get bonus happiness points for not letting Facebook stalk you.

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#50

Taking someone’s shopping cart with their groceries in it, while inside the store.

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