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Human memory is actually incredibly selective, and we often have no control over what we remember and how. Probably, each of you have had several cases when some completely unnecessary and petty nonsense crashed into your memory, but something really important left your mind almost immediately.

And this happens more than once or twice in life - even half a century later, we remember who made that silly fumble in a meaningless regular season football game, but at the same time, we can forget the date of our own wedding anniversary (God forbid doing this, in fact, it’s better to write down it somewhere, just believe me!) It's just how our memory works, and there's nothing to be done about it.

Moreover, such selectivity is typical not only for individuals' memory, but also for entire groups of people or even all of humanity. It is enough, for example, to recall the famous "Mandela effect," when after the death of the former President of South Africa and Nobel laureate Nelson Mandela in 2013, it turned out that many thousands of people around the whole world were for some reason completely convinced that he had passed away back in the mid-eighties, while in prison.

In fact, such phenomena of collective memory are not isolated, there are a huge number of facts and various things in life that are often not given attention, and people live as if they do not know this - although it is actually obvious to almost everyone. And so, a few years ago, a thread appeared in the AskReddit community, the topic starter of which asked people this question: "What fact is ignored generously?"

As of today, the original thread has over 66.5K upvotes and around 26.7K diverse comments, so there is a real danger of getting lost in this sea of information. Lucky for you, there is Bored Panda, who specially compiled this selection of the most interesting, unexpected and just extremely popular comments of the thread, so please feel free to scroll to the very end and we're almost sure that some submissions will surprise you at least for some reason. And of course, your own comments are highly appreciated as usual.

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#1

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Just because it's legally allowed doesn't mean you're not a douchebag for doing it.

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Laughing histerically in " Portuguese " right now. ( Our actual governament motto, " yea it looks bad, its probably not ethic, but hey it is legal though " )

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#2

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver "Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups."

- George Carlin

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Two_rolling_black_eyes
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never underestimate the power of stupid people. 1 guy sick with the symptoms of COVID decided since his son had COVID, he couldn't get sick since it had only been 4 days since his son's symptoms started. He was an UberEATS delivery driver and 8 people, including him, died because he worked 2 days maskless.

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#3

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Giving birth to a kid doesn't make you an expert on raising them. Nor do they owe you for being born.

Moral_Gutpunch , Lisa Fotios Report

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bingo. I didn't ask to be born, honestly i would probably prefer never to be born in the 1st place ( no problems, no worried, no disapointments, no pain etc )

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#4

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Admitting to a mistake is not a sign of weakness. Bending over backwards to cover it up and pretending like it never happened is.

Skuffinho , Liza Summer Report

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Bec
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! And a good boss or partner will accept your apology and work with you to move forward, not make you feel worse for messing up.

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#5

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Just because i don't agree with you doesn't mean i hate you

Absolute_Zero_EXE , Ketut Subiyanto Report

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#6

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver You have blinkers for your car so that you can tell other drivers that you're changing lanes.

Fun fact: it's the law

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Bob La Capra
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On the other hand, just because someone is using their turn signal it's no guarantee they're actually going to execute the turn. Make sure they've at least started the turn before you move.

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#7

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Prevention is more affordable than treatment

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DennyS (denzoren)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep...would you rather wear $20 safely glasses or $2000 to treat an injury? I'm saying this from being someone who didn't wear PPE all the time to someone now that wears it all the time. Thankfully no injuries.

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#8

Being a celebrity does not automatically make someone a medical, economic, or political expert.

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#9

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Orcas and dolphins aren’t happy in those aquatic parks

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Something
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People don't realize the extent to which this is true. It's not like animals in regular zoos. It's physically possible to give some zoo animals a habitat that matches the size of the amount of area they'd typically move around in in the wild. This isn't the case for large ocean-dwelling animals.

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#10

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Human memory is extremely unreliable.

We forget important details. We fabricate memories and convince ourselves that they're true. What we do remember is distorted to conform to our biases.

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#11

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Mob mentality doesn't mean you are right.

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Apatheist Account2
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As Ricky Gervais observed, just because you're offended, it doesn't mean you're right.

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#12

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Being at a job for a long time does not mean someone is good at their job.

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#13

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver That just because someone tells you something is a fact doesn’t mean that it is. (Make sure to do your research!)

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Dan Holden
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't stress this enough, especially given the last few years. Know what doing your research entails! It does not mean find the first website/person online that agrees with your preconceived notion. Sometimes it means taking a long hard look at your worldview and letting the facts challenge that worldview.

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#14

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver The number of people who die after a war to consequences of war (hunger, disease, etc) are not counted in the statistics.

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Jorie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kind of like the COVID statistics they kept throwing at us. The collateral damage caused by the mishandling of the pandemic is inestimable.

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#15

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Older doesn't always mean wiser. Wisdom is obtained from what you do with your time, it's not about how much time you've had.

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Kathryn Baylis
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Older also doesn’t mean unhireable or not the right person for the job or someone who’s going to leave the company to retire in a couple years anyway. Some of us can’t afford to retire at 65, and need to keep—-or get—-jobs that are in our field, not the f*****g greeter at Walmart, ffs. Jobs we might have to stay at until we’re well into our eighties. Now, we may not work as lightning fast as someone younger—-though we’re not that f*****g slow—-but we make sure our work is done completely and correctly, instead of fast, dirty, and half-assed. Additionally, some of us got degrees or additional degrees as older adults, so have education and training that’s just as recent as that of someone in their twenties—-and we probably got better grades as well. So don’t ignore our resumes, and don’t let our age be the deciding factor for hiring us or not. We may be older, but we still have bills to pay—-often way more than younger people, including student loan payments for recent degrees we thought would help us but are now hindering us—so need a steady income too, ffs.

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#16

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Being rich doesn't mean you're great with money or someone who should be trusted with business decisions.

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#17

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Most people are not very smart

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Luke Branwen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine how dumb is an average person. Now consider half of them is even dumber.

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#18

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Concentration camps in china are still going on.

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#19

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver That colds and flu are caused by viruses, not by being cold or wet.

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darqemm
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And being cold can compromise your immune system making you a little more susceptible. But overall, yeah, cold doesn't cause flu, etc.

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Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver facts aren't opinions

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Luke Branwen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also racism, homophobia, transphobia etc. aren't "opinions", it's bigotry.

RandomFrog(He/They️‍️)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When someone’s transphobic to me and say ‘it’s jsut my opinion so it shouldn’t hurt’ I always tell them ‘ur ugly af but it’s just my opinion so it shouldn’t hurt’ ussually shuts them up, and for some reason they get just as offended as I was about the transphobic stuff.

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Joseph Holtom
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Homosexuality isnt necessarily a "choice".... you think I want to wake up every day knowing I already have a strike against me?

Mistletoe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everyone who doesn't do what you want or think you deserve is homophobic or racist. These days if you don't hire someone or rent them your house etc. there is often a reason not connected to your sexual orientation or race. Don't assume discrimination about everything that doesn't go your way. Remember what it means when you assume. "Makes an a-- out of you and me". Old timer here - learned that from my father and found it to be true many a time.

TotallyNOTaFox
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends which side judges it, some facts are uncomftable and will get shut down as opinion.

Jeremy Crocker
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a "conversation" with someone in a YouTube comments section. The video poster was doing a "free" restoration project for one of their viewers. The commenter said it was so kind and generous of him to donate his time and expertise for free and that he does it all out of the kindness of his heart with no care for views and likes. I pointed out that he was going to make a lot more off the video than what he would have simply providing the service in private and that he also asked for likes at least 4 times during the video. The person said it was just my opinion. I gave them actual numbers based on their over a million subscribers and average million views per video and how many thousands of dollars the video would likely make. They still insisted it was just my opinion that he'll make money off the video. Very frustrating!

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Sonja
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But not all facts apply to everyone the same way. There are always exceptions and situations where something might be a fact, but some other facts are more important or certain circumstances mean that one fact looses impact. For example: it's a fact that internet self diagnosis can be dangerous and it's generally better to see a doctor, but it's also a fact that some people are poor and cannot afford a doctor. So the third fact is: in that case, an internet recherche and self treatment might be all they have available to them, and it's better than nothing at all.

Mike Soigne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t believe anyone here is saying that "do your own research" always equals spouting crazy conspiracy theories. Calm down.

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Josh Gilland
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Facts don't care about your feelings, your background or your beliefs. They also aren't phobic or ist they just represent the data. Phobic and ist are human made and human problems.

JacPot
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No idea why you're getting downvoted, but have an upvote. Very true statement!

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Heather Talma
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What are these "facts on milk" exactly? Are they facts or are they lies people call facts?

M Favaloro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Everyone is entitled to his own opinion, but not his own facts." Patrick Moynihan

Saralee Seal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To quote RAH, "What are the facts? Again and again and again--- what are the FACTS? Shun wishful thinking, ignore divine revelation, forget 'what the stars foretell', avoid opinion, care not what the neighbors think, never mind the unguessable 'verdict of history' --- what are the facts, and to how many decimal places? You pilot always into an unknown future; facts are your single clue. Get the facts! If it can't be expressed in figures, it is not science: it is opinion.

Joseph Mainusch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

However most things people call "facts" are, in reality, opinions.

David Baylis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And opinions aren't necessarily factual. And the U.S. no longer has a working first Amendment.

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Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver The importance of getting 7-9hrs of sleep every single night.

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Benita Valdez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know the importance but my body ignores it. Won't even listen to reason and insists it can do what it wants.

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#22

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver TikTok is literally Chinese spyware

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#23

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Every single year, cruise ships dump 14 billion pounds of garbage into the oceans

GravyxNips , Pixabay Report

#24

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Humans overestimate what they can do in a day and underestimate what we can achieve in an year

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#25

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Nearly every hand you shake has held a penis.

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Pedantic Panda
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And all have been inside a uterus. Edit; this is in reference to during pregnancy.

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#26

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver That you should really get off your phone and go to sleep.

Edit: lol guys I meant at night

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#28

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Just because a movie or a book is good, doesn't mean you like it.

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If its good it means i like it, now if the sentence was " just because some One says a movie or a book is good, doesn't mean you Will like it " then i would agree.

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#29

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver That we all have confirmation bias

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K W
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true but I've had a lot of fun doing research papers during college where I look at all the info regardless of what my initial idea is. Some things do have overwhelming data for one side and some things are very complex and deserve nuanced discussions and conclusions. Not that social media or media in general are geared toward nuance or complexity.

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#30

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Everyone is a huge hypocrite when it suits them...including me

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Na na na, i despise hipócrits with a passion, i rather face nasty reprocutions than being a hipócrite ( and i allready did )

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#31

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Experience is not equal to competence

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#32

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Just because some people are naturally talented doesn't mean you shouldn't work hard.

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Rilmar
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sheer talent can only carry you that far, after that you either put in the effort, or you fall behind. Actually being "gifted" often puts you in disadvantage because you don't learn to work for it from the start. I say it as a former gifted child and a current mediocre, depressed adult

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#34

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver France didn't stop executing people by guillotine until 1977.

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#35

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver Being well known doesn’t always make you popular, as you may be well known for pissing yourself in class.

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Pedantic Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is kinda obvious, many of the most well know people, both contemporarily and historical are not well liked.

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#36

Depends on the agenda of the people doing the ignoring. People only care about the facts that agree with them.

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#37

You shouldn’t have a child unless you are emotionally and financially ready, and have a stable partner.

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Melody Johnson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Welp..... I guess me being a single mom goes against your opinion, friend. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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#38

Person Asks "What Fact Is Ignored Generously?" And 30 Folks Online Deliver You aren't supposed to stick q-tips in your ears

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Felicia Dale
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve been using cotton buds since my late teens to dry my ears after showering. Never, ever had a problem. In fact, last year my doctor checked my ears and expressed admiration at how clean and healthy my ears were. Your mileage may vary.

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#40

The government is trying to pass an anti encryption bill that could strip away any and all privacy given to US citizens.

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