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The United States of America is the land of the free and full of opportunities. It is one of the largest economies in the world and it has always amassed people for the life one can create there. But, like every country, it has its own way of functioning and the people living there have their own culture. And if you are also attracted to this country and would like to travel to the United States or you are planning of moving there, you should expect to encounter things you‘ve never seen before or things done differently to what you are used to.

A few days ago, Reddit user Ymij asked people to share some things Americans don‘t realize exist only in the United States. And people had a lot to say. The post got more than 10k answers and Bored Panda gathered a list of some of the most upvoted responses.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group GoFundMe being an acceptable replacement for a health care system

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Literally being too poor to go to the doctor, but have too much income for any kind of assistance

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Tipping as a wage subsidy. Many countries don’t have tipping and those that do generally tip a small amount for good service.

Also displayed prices not including taxes or other fees.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Pronouncing corruption as "lobbying"

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Assuming that everyone on the internet is American until proven otherwise.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group The pledge of allegiance. If you tell people here that in America they make kids stand up and recite some prayer to a flag every single morning, they'll look at you like you just grew a third arm.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group I want to say for-profit prison systems.

These things are f***** up. If the state doesn't keep up the prisoner quota they gotta pay a fine to the company they owns the prison.

So this basically makes them try to keep existing prisoners

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Gender reveal parties

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John Smith
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The woman that 'created' these said they need to stop. In a recent case, a father killed himself accidently setting up one. They are of little value to many Americans, too.

PjandBolt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd have to agree, a simple "it's a ____!" Will suffice. Gender reveal parties have literally set wildfires throughout the west before. It honestly depends though, an explosive smoke bomb or firework, nope. But a fun cake or ballon with confetti inside, that might be nice!

Baby Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i dislike gender reveal parties because i think it's just a waste of time and also what if the child is trans or non-binary?

PjandBolt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good point!! But if the child is trans or non binary, they'd probably figure that out when they're much older, and how would the parents know? Plz don't downvote, I'm genuinely asking, I don't know and I'd like to be educated on this! <3

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Susan Green
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These gender reveal parties have become ridiculous. What is wrong with just wishing the parent/s have a healthy baby regardless of the gender.

BlackLabOwner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah live in Texas never been to one we just text each other ultra sounds and say the gender why waste money for a party

Id row
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even the creator of this ridiculous thing wishes she never came up with it.

Xan A. Du
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok. This is so confusing. We only know the sex of the baby at birth, right? We don't know the gender until they themselves understand their own gender, correct? Then why would people have a gender reveal party during pregnancy? Plus...fires.

Sanne H.
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Literally speaking it’s only a sex reveal party. To reveal or even define its gender, the kid first needs to be born and develop some self-conscious.

Chodz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every kid gets a gender reveal party, it´s called birth.

Aliquid A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You aren't even revealing the gender, you are revealing the sex.

Alex the awful German
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't have them here (Germany)..To me that seems odd. But I'm really curious when this trend will arrive here and I get my first ever invitation to one. Lcukily babies are still born without having a gender reveal party.

TheReader19
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately it's already in the UK. I really don't know how Babies were previously being born without this ( sarcasm oviouly).

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Monica Martinez Castañeda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The gender reveal of my boy: I was at an ultrasound with a friend of mine, week 12 of pregnancy. Doctor: do you want to know the gender of your baby Me: Ok! Doctor: it seems to be a boy Me: Cool! That was it :)

Nadine
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Announcing genitalia is weird to me, like what exactly are your friends and family going to do with that information.

lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know something have NEVER understood is birth videos. To whom and where will you show those videos?

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Mark Fuller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just kinda weird. You're having a baby. Do we honestly give a toss what gender it is?

Julia Hoffman
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I learned the hard way that exposing myself to guests while serving finger sandwiches does NOT make it a gender reveal party!

Iusedtobecute
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This gender reveal party became popular around the time social media became popular. It's just another attention grabbing look at me thing that the younger generations embrace to show off on their Instagram.

lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Gender reveal parties" are stupid, arrogant, indefensible and nothing more than a show off action. No one cares what kind of or if you are having a "human" child. Get over yourselves. People have been having babies for millennia and it is no big deal because you can procreate.

Jods
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some hospitals that will not reveal the gender of the baby.

Skylar King
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, whenever I reveal my gender, I get arrested for public indecency.

TheReader19
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's okay so long as your not setting the environment in fire. How do people even manage to do this?

Ozacoter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its not. Why the gender or sex of your baby is relevant at all?

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Colleen Garland
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop. Just stop. Grow up, you are having a baby. Most of us do. In 1973 I had twins and I liked them both.

Vladimíra Matejová
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this and the necessity to paint the walls in blue or pink and buy every toy/ piece of clothes in blue/pink. you guys know other colors exist right?

Thomas Register
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Let's proclaim our child's sexual anatomy by blowing something up!". Just plain nuts.

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3 years ago

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Debby Fendel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A waste of time and money unless you sell the things used to make the reveal.

Artist... I guess
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can someone just tell me why this is so bad? I’m sure I will change my mind after I hear the reasons. I’m indifferent. 🧐

KT
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People are too dumb to have these responsibly. Massive fires started from this nonsense

JamesRTK
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see lots of negative comments. But why? (Except fires). Why would you be against them? What is so bad just to have fun and just another occasion to meet with family and friends? What about birthday parties? I personally found them really strange. Because we have only one birthday! X years ago. And all others are not our birthdays. But days when the new year count for our passport and other documents starts. Moreover (another argument in this thread) - who cares... Nonetheless, I have never been against birthday parties. Let’s have some fun.

Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, putting it on Facebook for friends and family is OK, but putting it out there for everyone is ridiculous. Unless we’re really good friends, I don’t give a s**t. And if you do it in a park, sanctuary, refuge, or historical site, and leave trash or harmful chemicals behind, you should be put in jail long enough to have your baby there.

Martin Zoul
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i've always imagined them as a bunch of people staring at a kid. then there is a drumroll and parents lift the blanket covering child's genitalia.

Annette Easton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm in Canada, I've been to 2 of them. Did not appreciate being crammed into a space with a bunch of people I didn't know to witness the unveiling of the sex of their child. I've never understood why people want to share what to me is an intimate moment with so many people. Maybe record it and post it for others to see?

CowboyHank
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a gender reveal cake for our latest baby. It was just my wife and I and our 3 girls. It was a really sweet way for us all to find out at the same time.

Leslie Burleson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trust me , not all Americans are into this. But if you want to laugh, look up gender reveal memes

Roxy Eastland
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's guess what the baby's genitals are going to look like . . .

The Dave
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agreed with Spork420. Many Americans think they're ridiculous too.

K Miller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a caveat should be added onto that. *over the top gender reveal parties should not be a thing. My sister had cupcakes made and filmed her oldest eating it to find out if he was getting a brother or sister. Little, cute things like that are ok. Starting wildfires for a stunt is not.

deanna woods
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These things are really stupid. I, as an American, don't understand them.

Princess Amara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here you go a reenactment of every gender reveal party Mother: Ok guys we're going to open the box take out the fireworks and set them off in this dry forest Father:I hope it's a boy Mother: weird way to pronounce girl *generic laughter* Crowd:*More generic laughter except for that one girl who laughs like a witch* Mother Father: *opens box, purple balloons float up, puts fireworks of dry leaves* Mother Father: Ok guys in 3......2...1... cut to giant forest fire *silence* Mother: IT'S A GIRL crowd: *feels no regret* YES SUCK IT DAD Thank you thank you *takes bow* Really tough all you have to do is get your family together and go hey fam the baby is a female but that does not mean they are a girl. and were going to let them be their own person. and boom you're done with no fire (btw Im american and gender reveal parties are the dumbest thing ever)

Lucy Skinner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm hon, should we burn down California if it’s a girl and Nevada if it’s a boy? Sound good to me!

GaeFrog
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think anyone cares about the gender of your kid?

Tim Haight
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

see to many butthead do this and have it literally blow up in their face. Really stupid thing to do

elStiJneriNO
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

does it matter if the kid chooses a new fantasy gender later?

PineappleQueen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But their actually super fun because you get the suspense of finding out they gender in super fine and exciting ways

Leila Noury
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3 years ago

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Because we want our existing kids to cry when they find out they are getting a younger _____

Dillon Hughes
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3 years ago

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I think there dumb but they like it so let them have fun, it's not hurting anyone. I wonder what the whole trans gender people do, like purple or orange. Isn't it sexist to assume a sex now a days...?

Ozacoter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is sexist to make such a big deal about the sex of the baby. As if it matters a t all.

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Bacony Cakes
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3 years ago

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HEY HIROHOTO! IT'S A BOY! *drops bomb on nagasaki*

𝔹𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕒
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They’re fun and a good excuse to hang out with people

Fred and George Weasley
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah and they cause wildfires too. i'd rather not set half the usa on fire just so people know the gender of my child 😂

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group People who angrily DO NOT WANT healthcare.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Having the restaurant take your credit card - in most countries it's considered impolite to disappear with the card as they might write the digits down to charge extra later. Therefore they normally bring a portable terminal to your table so you can keep the card in eyesight and have the (optional) tip actually charged when the card is run and not added after the fact.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group The Imperial System, Fahrenheits, massive ad breaks. I swear i watched US Television once and i nearly had time to go take a s*** before the adbreak ended. And i'm one of those people that play on their phone while on the throne

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I am from Europe and I have never seen in supermarkets scooters for people that are so obese they can't walk by themselves.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Medical debt

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Waiting like 8 weeks after your elections till the new guy comes in to power is pretty f****** weird

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Massive gaps on all sides of toilet cubicle doors, like why even bother with a door at all when people can see through so easily

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Flags. Everywhere

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This may be a shot in the dark but product prices not including tax when they’re displayed? Like if something says it’s $10 and you only have $10, what’s with the surprise tax at the till?

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#18

Your toxic grind working culture. I find that Americans define their entire personality around their profession. It all feels so shallow and hollow way of living. Like I work so I can do the things I enjoy ( pre covid) I don't work because it defines me as a person.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Absurdly long election campaigns. In most countries I've been to election campaigns last a month or two, in the US they seem to go for a full year.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group College sports, people do not care about nor have college sports like we do here.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Food portion sizes... In EU you get food portions you can finish and are generally calculated to be pretty much fill/satisfy you over the entire meal.

When I go to the US I can fill myself up with half of the appetizer

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Unused vacation days

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#23

The use of the words junior, sophomore and senior in school. I don't think I have ever heard these outside of an American TV show or movie.

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I can't speak for the whole world, but having elections on a weekday seems crazy to me. We do it in the weekend so that people are off work anyway.

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A single pool of paid time off that you use for both vacation and sick leave. Therefore having to forego vacation to keep a bank of leave just in case you get ill.

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People constantly thanking god for every day occurrences

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Those commercials featuring some sort of drug or medication. With the typical closing where the narrator states "Side effects includes blah blah blah...Discuss with your doctor about blah blah blah"

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Tipping, most other places actually pay their waiters/waitresses and tippings just for extremely good service or rounding up.

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Having to drive everywhere. I'm 27-years-old, not from the US and never learnt to drive. I've also never felt like I needed it.

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It's pretty funny watching Americans moan over their super-cheap petrol prices. "But we drive everywhere, cars are fundamental to our society". Yep, same here in Australia, too. Your fuel is still incredibly cheap.

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Garbage disposal units in sinks. I've been to nearly 20 countries, and I've never seen one.

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#32

Longer ad breaks in the Muppet Show.

The UK version had two minutes of extra content in every episode due to restrictions on the amount of ads you could play on British TV.

That's 240 minutes of extra Muppet content that most Americans never saw.

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Playing the national anthem before sporting events. There may be a handful of other countries that do, but in much of the world it's only played for international matches.

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#34

Your identity politics used to be just in America, then it spilled out like a burst sewage pipe.

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Red solo cups. My european cousins asked me if parties in the us really had those red cups.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Bumper stickers. They’re a lot less common in Europe anyway, not sure about the rest of the world.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Nearly everything about their high schools

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Free refills at restaurants

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Stores like Wal-Mart where you can buy everything that are open all the time. Groceries, alcohol, plants, medicine, tires, toys...

The first time I went to Germany on a work trip it was a bank holiday and everything was closed.

I live in Jerusalem now and there is a separate store for everything.

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#40

Girl Scout cookies?

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#41

Graham Crackers.

Remember when I picked up a friend's mother and her friend at the airport, fresh from the US. One of them was like 'They don't have Graham crackers here?' I'm like nah mate we have crackers for everyone.

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45 Things That Are Normal In The US, But Seem Bizarre In Other Countries Shared In This Online Group Parking lot size. I’ve been to about 20 different countries, all over the place, and I have never seen a standard Walmart sized parking lot anywhere out of America.

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#43

Buscuits and gravy. This conjures up images of having a plate of cookies smothered in a sauce made from the the meat juices of a roast.

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I wanna say jaywalking. Like, in Europe, you can pretty much cross a road wherever you want but when I visited America there seemed to be this weird sense you were being judged if you walked out into an empty road. Maybe just me idk.

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It always surprises me when someone from another country has never heard of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

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