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Weddings are one thing. But the juicy wedding anecdotes that get passed around from guests in real life is another. From fussy bridezillas to nightmarish decor, hilarious invitations, accidents, "what da heck was dat" moments, and even full-blown fights… Some people live for the nuptial gossip.

And the chances are they belong to this quirky online community that deliberately targets some shame-worthy weddings. Captioned "let’s shame those weddings," the subreddit r/weddingshaming is the online home for roasting wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding parties, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors, and more. “You name it, we shame it!” states the community’s description.

Created in 2018, the controversial subreddit now has 151k members who love digging through anything wedding-related. So let’s take a look at what they dug up and shamed down below.

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Photographer Shaming A Guest

Photographer Shaming A Guest

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, that was inconsiderate of the guest. You really don't need to take a photo of everything to be deleted later on anyway.

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Just Hope There Isn’t A Third...

Just Hope There Isn’t A Third...

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The world of wedding shaming offers real-life drama combined with sassiness and a fair share of roasting, all in the comfort of a virtual environment. Groups like the “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming” Facebook group, which has 80.6k members, and the r/weddingshaming subreddit with 153k members have become somewhat of a phenomenon in the past 2 years. It turns out there’s something universally irresistible about ripping apart someone’s supposed best day of their lives.

Luna, the moderator from Australia at “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming,” told Wired that “There’s something about weddings, whether you’re invited or not, that just brings out the worst in people.” She suggested that this is precisely what gives the group a feel similar to reality TV shows.

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This online shaming trend became a hit back in August 2018 when a post from a group shamed a bride for asking her guests to pay about $1,500 towards her wedding. The story went viral after it was shared by model and social media star Chrissy Teigen.

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4 Weddings And A Cat Party

4 Weddings And A Cat Party

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Found On Twitter

Found On Twitter

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Bride Cancels Vendor For Supporting Black Lives Matter

Bride Cancels Vendor For Supporting Black Lives Matter

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But many people are not so positive about this new trend, claiming that “beneath those silly nuptial stories lies an online playground of hate.”

Bored Panda reached out to Darlene Lancer, clinical psychologist and the author of “Codependency for Dummies” and “Conquering Shame and Codependency.” Darlene said that wedding haters and shamers are not members of a “hate group,” according to the FBI.

She explained: “hate groups” direct their hatred against a particular race, religion, gender, ethnic group, or people of a particular sexual orientation. The FBI investigates these hate groups to protect democracy and individual liberty.” In that sense, wedding shamers are not one of them.

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This Is Terrible

This Is Terrible

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Hey! Why let a little inconvenience such as COVID spoil our big day?" was the general concensus of the wedding party. This how COVID multiplies at an exponential rate.

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Darlene further explained that “Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status.” Such behavior can be a compensation for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected.

Shaming others, the clinical psychologist suggests, is a way of protesting and ridding themselves of shame people have inside, which is often hidden and unconscious.

“It may be fueled by anger and envy because of the widening discrepancy between classes of haves and have-nots. Aggression and envy are also defenses to shame,” Darlene concluded.

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Real Life Soap Opera

Real Life Soap Opera

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Mimi777
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are allowed to cut toxic people out of your life even if they are family.

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#11

Bridezilla Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical

Bridezilla Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical

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It Can’t Just Be The Bride’s Big Day, You Know

It Can’t Just Be The Bride’s Big Day, You Know

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand the need for some people to steal someone else's thunder. Was the mother-in-law that insecure?

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You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride

You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride

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Karen Thinks Artists Are Ripping Her Off For Charging $1000 For A Live Painting Of Her Wedding Ceremony. Expects To Get A Literal Picasso For That Price

Karen Thinks Artists Are Ripping Her Off For Charging $1000 For A Live Painting Of Her Wedding Ceremony. Expects To Get A Literal Picasso For That Price

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This Girl Is An Icon. She Really Spilled Some Tea!

This Girl Is An Icon. She Really Spilled Some Tea!

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We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

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Downunderdude
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't like you enough to actually invite you, but give us money anyway.

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#18

A New Wedding Theme For You To Consider....

A New Wedding Theme For You To Consider....

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#19

Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a wedding planner who spelled 'ceremony' as ' seramony'. Ha, ha, ha! There are plenty of other errors, but I've decided not to be a grammar Nazi.

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Everyone In The Comments Is Calling Her Out. How Can You Think This Is A Good Idea?

Everyone In The Comments Is Calling Her Out. How Can You Think This Is A Good Idea?

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Mother Of The Groom And The Groom On Their Special Day

Mother Of The Groom And The Groom On Their Special Day

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“Please Shoot People So We Can Have Our Wedding Illegally”

“Please Shoot People So We Can Have Our Wedding Illegally”

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Downunderdude
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Words fail me. 'Tyranny defense device'? FFS. Look, no offense, Americans, but no wonder your democracy is on the point of total collapse.

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Bride Freaks Out After Finding Her Own Post On Reddit

Bride Freaks Out After Finding Her Own Post On Reddit

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$250 Min Gift To Attend

$250 Min Gift To Attend

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Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time

Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time

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Downunderdude
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No problem here, sweetie. If she's REALLY a good friend, she'll have an abortion so that she doesn't ruin your day with messy kids. Over-reacting? No, of course not: it's all about YOU, not her.

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She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride

She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride

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IlovemydogShilo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just walk past her holding a large very large glass of red wine and “accidentally” trip when you get next to her. If she protests just say “well at least it’s not a REAL wedding dress”

Louloubelle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it truly so hard to find a dress in any other color but this? Bull cookies. There needs to be a rule for guests that goes like the mother of the groom rule "Wear beige and shut up".

Jo Choto
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not the bridezilla type, but if somebody showed up to a wedding like that, I think it's fine to uninvite them.

Connie Martin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And he is posing for a picture with his hand on her ass. Oh, maybe he's her father. That's okay then, right?

WilvanderHeijden
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trailer trash class: Wearing white on someone else's wedding.

Dorothy Parker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do we know she's not the bride and someone just wanted to post something?

lara
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would tell everyone that she was from "renta bride."

serge
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Need to find out what relationship she has to the bride and groom. His ex? Her sister? Can't be a friend. His mother Mrs Jocasta? His transgender dad? Am I getting close?

Bita
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she's not the bride, why has he got his hand on her butt? Fake story🤔🥀

Faith Hurst-Bilinski
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weirdly, it does not say if this is the groom. I know that this dress is inappropriate, but why is every groom interchangeable with the wait staff but the bride is, usually, really easy to spot?

Inquiring Mind Wants To Know
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at where his hand is ...he looks waaaayyy too comfy!! GET OUT OF THERE BEFORE THE CEREMONY STARTS. IF THE CEREMONY IS OVER GO STRAIGHT TO A LAWYER TO HAVE THE MARRIAGE ANNULLED.

B-b-bird
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Waiter would be happy to receive a tip to "accidentally" spill some wine. Some stuff you need to outsource and enjoy your day :D

Eulalie Grace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm really not one for sticking to rules hard and fast, but anyone other then the bride wearing white/cream at the wedding is a huge NO NO. And to me - a ticket out the door. Morons.

Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clearly, she’s insecure. Wants all the attention on her. Too bad their faces are covered.

AzKhaleesi
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well who is it and why his hand on her ass? So many questions.

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I’m All For A Nudist Wedding But The Kid?

I’m All For A Nudist Wedding But The Kid?

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Tell Your Wedding Guests To Die

Tell Your Wedding Guests To Die

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Politics At Non-Political Events Is Probably My #1 Pet Peeve

Politics At Non-Political Events Is Probably My #1 Pet Peeve

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Jarno Flinkers
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey dad, I have a riddle for you. How many Trump supporters do you need to put in a light bulb? None, because they are shooting at the room for being black.

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Bride Urges Guests To Uber To Her Wedding In Order To Avoid The “Quarantine Police”

Bride Urges Guests To Uber To Her Wedding In Order To Avoid The “Quarantine Police”

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Vorknkx
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't mean to sound cruel, but some people just *deserve* to get the virus... even if only as a form of karma.

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Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centrepieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Op’s Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centrepieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Op’s Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

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Vorknkx
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where I live (the Balkan region in SE Europe), the mere notion of a child refusing to do something or generally disobeying their parents is unthinkable. And you can be sure there would be a punishment for such behavior.

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The Bride Is On The Right

The Bride Is On The Right

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cybermerlin2000
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should have turned her away before she even walked through the doors

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From Pinterest. I Really Dislike Things Like This... Is Someone Forcing You To Get Married!?

From Pinterest. I Really Dislike Things Like This... Is Someone Forcing You To Get Married!?

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Katy McMouse
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sick to death of cutesy signs every time you turn the hell around.

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I Can’t Believe You’re Afraid Of Covid, What About My Wedding?

I Can’t Believe You’re Afraid Of Covid, What About My Wedding?

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Lauren Caswell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How dare You not risk you life to watch me walk around in person rather than waiting til it's safe. Ur selfish desire to live is breaking my heart.

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Normal Thing To Do...

Normal Thing To Do...

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cybermerlin2000
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just saw the date 8th of December 2019. I think none of them will be getting what they want

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A New Low?

A New Low?

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While We’re On The Topic Of Cake Toppers....i Can’t Stand The “Woman Trapping The Man And Keeping Him From Things He Likes To Do” Trope. There Are Far Too Many Versions Of These

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Videographer Refuses To Do Same-Sex Weddings

Videographer Refuses To Do Same-Sex Weddings

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Pamela24
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"We'd rather lose a good portion of money than support people who love each other in expressing that." How ridiculous. Especially during COVID times.

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My Idiot Cousin Is Getting Divorced. After My Friend Told Me How They Got Engaged, I’m Not Surprised. Karma

My Idiot Cousin Is Getting Divorced. After My Friend Told Me How They Got Engaged, I’m Not Surprised. Karma

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Bride In The Middle, Cow Who Turned Up To The Wedding In A White Dress With A Train On The Right

Bride In The Middle, Cow Who Turned Up To The Wedding In A White Dress With A Train On The Right

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Jo Choto
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I seriously do not understand what kind of person does this or why.

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Is It Wedding Shaming If The Groom Doesn’t Even Know They’re Dating?

Is It Wedding Shaming If The Groom Doesn’t Even Know They’re Dating?

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Candace Fitzpatrick
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, but I feel like this has to be fake. Regardless if she misheard him or whatever the case would’ve been.... planning a wedding for 7 months and they didn’t even have ONE conversation about how it was coming along? I don’t buy it

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Taken From A Party Planning Site, Advising How To Have A Free Wedding. Other Gem Advice Was To Get Mother-In-Law To Make The Wedding Cake

Taken From A Party Planning Site, Advising How To Have A Free Wedding. Other Gem Advice Was To Get Mother-In-Law To Make The Wedding Cake

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We Both Got Covid But All That Matters Is That We’re Married

We Both Got Covid But All That Matters Is That We’re Married

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

150 people may have contracted COVID, and "it was still all worth it". Can I throttle these newlyweds?

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Well Ok Then....

Well Ok Then....

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Ekate
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They just need a dog about 6 paces behind with a shirt saying "The Divorce".

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Brilliant Job By Videographer

Brilliant Job By Videographer

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Oh no, I botched the crowd shots... where can I possibly find a suitable substitute?" :D

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Girl I Rarely Speak To Anymore Asks If She's Invited To Our Wedding. After Telling Her That She Isn't She Tells Me I Should Rethink Marrying My Fiancé

Girl I Rarely Speak To Anymore Asks If She's Invited To Our Wedding. After Telling Her That She Isn't She Tells Me I Should Rethink Marrying My Fiancé

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"Hey, I Have An Amazing Idea For A Super Unique Pic!"

"Hey, I Have An Amazing Idea For A Super Unique Pic!"

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Pamela24
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weird choice but compared to many others here...I don't see that much of an issue.

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I Don’t Know What To Say About This

I Don’t Know What To Say About This

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Lauren Caswell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to make a young probably teens step child feel even more embarrassed about their braces than they already were. I would never want someone who would be so oblivious to be my child's step-anything. Thank God my son's stepmum is a gem, she always treats him as one of her own, as I tell my boy, parental decisions are made between the three of us (myself, his father and his stepmum). I don't think that's common though we are quite lucky.

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Making Fun Of Corona And Blm At Your 200+ Person Wedding. Yes This Was The Only Time Anyone Wore Masks

Making Fun Of Corona And Blm At Your 200+ Person Wedding. Yes This Was The Only Time Anyone Wore Masks

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Uh Oh... Shame. On. Us. (18k In The Group On Facebook)

Uh Oh... Shame. On. Us. (18k In The Group On Facebook)

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Troux
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Whichever one of you" "We both know who you are" I'm pretty sure you have no idea.

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Because We All Want Our Guests Knowing We’ll Be Too Drunk For Sex On Our Wedding Night

Because We All Want Our Guests Knowing We’ll Be Too Drunk For Sex On Our Wedding Night

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Found In A Disney Shaming Group- I’m Sure Ashley Tisdale Would Be There!

Found In A Disney Shaming Group- I’m Sure Ashley Tisdale Would Be There!

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Monday
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...are these people mature enough to get married? I have nothing against marrying young, but this just seems...weird.

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#60

I Didn't Realize A Pandemic Stopped Once You Are "Over It"

I Didn't Realize A Pandemic Stopped Once You Are "Over It"

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#61

"People Are Still Afraid." I Mean, It's Not Like The Pandemic Is Still Happening, Right?

"People Are Still Afraid." I Mean, It's Not Like The Pandemic Is Still Happening, Right?

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I’m Sorry, You’re Trippin About Your Ex At Your Wedding? Wat

I’m Sorry, You’re Trippin About Your Ex At Your Wedding? Wat

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This Trend Is Universally Bad, But This Iteration Is The Worst I've Personally Seen To Date

This Trend Is Universally Bad, But This Iteration Is The Worst I've Personally Seen To Date

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