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#2

Check Out This Horror Of A "Mother"

Final score:

363points

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CatGirl 2 years ago

And I bet this horror calls herself a Christian as well

271points

#3

It Truly Is Funny How Being A Part Of Someone's Bridesmaids Or Being The Maid Of Honor Is No Longer Chosen By How Close You Are To The Bride But By How Well You Fit Her Aesthetic

Final score:

343points

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Helen Waight 2 years ago

Once got told to ‘make an effort to not take the attention away from the bride’ by a then friend who was getting married. She meant ‘lose weight and don’t use walking aids’. Didn’t attend and haven’t spoken to her in over 22 years.

220points

No wedding has gone without at least a tiny drop of drama. This is because people put the pressure on themselves a little too much, until for many brides and grooms, it becomes unbearable.

To find out more about navigating your perfect day in a way that doesn’t cost all your nerves, Bored Panda previously spoke with Jen Glantz, the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and The Newlywed Card Game, a 3x best-selling author, a voice of You’re Not Getting Any Younger podcast, and the brains behind Jen & Juice coaching, digital courses, & the Pick-Me-Up newsletter.

#4

You Want My To Cut My Hair. You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit

Final score:

312points

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BobTDG 2 years ago

I don't like your hair, you can't be a bridesmaid! More Narcissist.

138points

#5

Bridesmaid/Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence

Final score:

290points

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Francis 2 years ago (edited)

that's not a joke! that's just cruel! wtf is wrong with people?? EDIT: the stroy goes on (about 4 more pics); OP's whole family will be absent from the wedding. the sister is just "a child" and the sister dubbled down with "it's not like it was the actual skeleton of the dead sister"

194points

#6

Asking The Girl Your Fiancé Groomed To Be Your Photographer For Free

Final score:

252points

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BobTDG 2 years ago (edited)

Censors failed, Scott should be in prison. EDIT: dark topic but my first comment with more than 100 uppies.

265points

It turns out that conflict and drama starts as early as the bridal party. “That's because weddings are filled with decisions, pop-up challenges, and a lot of emotions. When you bring your friends and family into that equation and ask them to stand by your side, while also giving them a to-do list of things you expect them to do during your wedding adventure, it can bring a level of intensity that didn't exist before the wedding within that relationship,” Glentz explained.

#7

Too Bad, So Sad Wedding Photo Edition

Final score:

209points

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General Anaesthesia 2 years ago

Sure, for $3,200. She can even wear her wedding dress if she wants to.

172points

#8

Poor Photographer.. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

Final score:

182points

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Azolane 2 years ago

I would have stayed, and shot awesome pictures of this brawl. Memories for a lifetime.

45points

#9

Mother Of Groom Insists On Being In Son’s Wedding Portrait With Bust Of Deceased Husband

Final score:

169points

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Fembot 2 years ago

The s**t you have to put up with when your mother-in-law is also the sovereign of the largest empire the world has ever seen… 🙄

219points

A lot of conflicts, however, could be avoided with better communication and slightly lower expectations, Glantz argues. “So much can be avoided if the person getting married clearly states what they want from their bridal party and the people in the bridal party openly share what they are able and willing to do before the wedding process even starts,” she told us in a previous interview.

#10

I Paid $600 And Gave Her Six Months For My Wedding Dress Hem To Look Like This

Final score:

167points

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Commanda Panda 2 years ago

Seriously?

98points

#11

Host A Photography Competition Instead Of Paying For A Photographer!

Final score:

166points

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CatGirl 2 years ago

I think this is a great idea! And her description of the 'wedding naffness' was hilarious

160points

#12

With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies

Final score:

160points

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Minath 2 years ago

She tried to sabotage the wedding and OP's life, no way should she be allowed anywhere near the wedding.

212points

But no matter how much drama weddings may have, you may wonder if it’s still okay to shame these events and the people behind them. After all, are wedding shaming groups considered to have some form of hate that may be harmful to their targets?

Well, we previously asked that question to Darlene Lancer, who is a therapist, relationship & NPD expert, and the author of "Codependency for Dummies." Lancer explained that according to the FBI, “hate groups” direct their hatred against a particular race, religion, gender, ethnic group or people of a particular sexual orientation. They investigate these hate groups to protect democracy and individual liberty. “So defined, wedding haters and shamers are not members of a ‘hate group,’” she said.

#13

Say Yes To The Dress Bride Wanted An “Avatar Unicorn.” My Friend Had Thoughts

Final score:

152points

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BobTDG 2 years ago

Poor horse. If done properly it shouldn't have harmed the poor beastie.

73points

#14

Mother In Law And Sister In Law Wore White

Final score:

149points

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Autumn 2 years ago

Very classy 🙄

74points

#15

Mil Really Wanted To Be Bride. I'm Now Divorced From Her Son, Who She Posed With In The 2nd Picture

Final score:

144points

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alwaysMispelled 2 years ago

I do not understand women/mothers that do this. It's SO PSYCHO

247points

Having said that, Lancer explained that blaming and shaming often is done by people with low self-esteem and who carry shame themselves. “They shame others to project and rid themselves of the shame they have inside, which is often hidden and unconscious. Projection is a defense that works for them. It may be fueled by anger and envy because of the widening discrepancy between classes of haves and have-nots. Aggression and envy are also defenses to shame.”

#16

From My Cousins (The Grooms) Wedding, Of Which I Wasn’t Invited

Final score:

141points

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BobTDG 2 years ago

Narcissistic Bridezilla! Fun/s

103points

#17

Guy Asks Fiance If He Can Invite His Friends On Their Honeymoon

Final score:

133points

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Jill Rhodry 2 years ago

YTA

259points

#18

Spare A Thought For This Poor Girl Who Has Been Dealt The Injustice Of Being Gifted A Mere $32,000 For Her Wedding

Final score:

128points

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Katarzyna Gratka 2 years ago

Since she is an adult, she can pay for her wedding herself. If she can't afford it, it's her problem, not her future in-laws. A wedding can always be modest.

295points

“Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status,” a therapist said. This is to compensate for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected, she concluded.

#19

Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

Final score:

126points

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Jennik 2 years ago

Looks like they rummaged through the florist's bin for the bits stripped of the wedding bouquet flowers

157points

#20

Guests Called The Police To The Reception Because They’d Been Unknowingly Drugged By The Bride!

Final score:

124points

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BobTDG 2 years ago

Florida! What did you expect?

97points

#21

Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

Guest demands to bring their son (18) daughter (23), 3 grandchildren, and a dog to the wedding. Bride puts her foot down and guest ominously ends the friendship with ellipsis

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Final score:

123points

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Helen Waight 2 years ago

I had a no kids wedding. Some people just sent their regrets - still okay with them. Some sent me long diatribes about how weddings are ‘about babies’ and how evil we’re being - don’t speak to them anymore. No loss.

186points

#22

Received This Abomination Of A Save The Date… Whole Card Was Filled With It

Final score:

119points

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Kassiopeia 2 years ago

To not produce waste we send you a letter full of waste. And the letter will be waste too

220points

#23

Just Got This In My Email After Receiving The Invite 2 Days Ago

Final score:

118points

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Ripley 2 years ago

Wedding, or airline?

153points

#24

What In The Hell. What A Nightmare!

Final score:

116points

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Sheila Stamey 2 years ago

They're lucky she didn't have a weapon and found was àble to find alcohol. That was atrocious!

87points

#25

A "Friend" Took Our Wedding Photos As A Gift To Us And Then Ghosted Us. It's Been 6 Months

Final score:

115points

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LuckyL 2 years ago

I have the feeling, there are two sides to this story.

238points

#26

From A Wedding Group I'm In. People In The Comments Were Ragging On The Step Mum's Choice Of Shoes

Final score:

113points

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Francis 2 years ago

those shoes are a bad choice... but not as bad as the dress...

147points

#27

Bride Doesn’t Want Her Great Aunt’s Nurse To Attend The Wedding

Final score:

106points

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🧶𝔹𝕚𝕥𝕔𝕙 𝕂𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣🪡 2 years ago

Wow 🤦🏻‍♀️ How heartless do you have to be to discriminate against a guest, your own family member whom you presumably WANT to bear witness to your wedding, for having a disability that requires a nurse?! The nurse would literally be working during the entire event, watching over the aunt. What does she think she's gonna do?!

116points

#28

A Former Coworker Of Mine. She Was Always Extra At Work. It's No Surprise She Posted This Before Her Wedding. I'm Glad I Wasn't Invited

Final score:

104points

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Jill Rhodry 2 years ago

I don't agree with her tone, choice of words or method of delivery but I do understand the sentiment - people, as guests, can be just as rude as bridezillas these days.

231points