Well answered.

And I bet this horror calls herself a Christian as well

Once got told to ‘make an effort to not take the attention away from the bride’ by a then friend who was getting married. She meant ‘lose weight and don’t use walking aids’. Didn’t attend and haven’t spoken to her in over 22 years.

I don't like your hair, you can't be a bridesmaid! More Narcissist.

that's not a joke! that's just cruel! wtf is wrong with people?? EDIT: the stroy goes on (about 4 more pics); OP's whole family will be absent from the wedding. the sister is just "a child" and the sister dubbled down with "it's not like it was the actual skeleton of the dead sister"

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I can not even begin to wrap my mind around how someone could do this AND how the family actually DEFEND her. The whole bunch needs serious help. ASAP.

That sister needs her head checked.

That's just cruel and heartless. Not a joke at all.

Saw this on another site before. Really glad this person stuck by their fiancé. That’s not edgy or funny, it’s evil.

I'd probably go: What sister???!!! I have NO such sister and sure as hell ain't gonna allow a c**p excuse of a human being to my special day! And if the rest of you (family members) want to take her side, then I'll be happy to have a smaller but more compassionate guest list! Smh...

It's not just a "stupid prank". A stupid prank is when you impulsively pull someone's chair away when they're about to sit down. The skeleton thing took thought and planning ahead of time, and at no point in the process did that failed adult think "maybe this is a bit much"

I can kinda see why the sister thought that doing something so cruel was okay. If, the entire family, including older people like parents and aunts, defended her actions, to the point of actually skipping the wedding, they showed her she was "right" to behave that way. The groom seems to be the only one in that family who knows right from wrong.

Ok I'm twisted and morbid and have a very dark sense humor but this is way out of line. That sister is just a piece of garbage and his family should be ashamed of themselves.

This is perhaps the most diabolical, sickest thing I’ve heard of someone doing to anyone! To the Groom, you are NOT THE A*S HOLE!! There is no excuse, no apology, that could ever fix this in my mind. I’m trying to put myself in the fiancé’s shoes but I’ve not lost a sister like this and no one I know would ever do anything like this. It’s obvious she has no remorse about what she did, nor is anyone doing her any favors by telling the groom to “get over it”! I’m proud of the groom but so sorry this has happened. The death of his fiancés younger sister doesn’t get funny as time goes by and I can’t in my wildest imagination ever begin to think what kind of a persons mind at age 20, could and would conjure up this mortifying scene. There are no other words I can think of that relate to how sick this is, and if I were the couple, I believe I’d definitely have to remove her from the wedding party. There are no explanations needed if they do.

No your not invited to my wedding. There are no excuses for what she did. How did she even end up over there? WTH

That is noy a joke nor a prank and them calling her (a TWENTY YEAR OLD) a "kid" its not like she was 6-10 shes an adult. Who should know better.

I am appalled and offended that your sister would do such a thing. I teared up reading this. It's even more appalling that she seems to have the support of your family in spite of how this affects you, your fiance and her family as well. I hate to sound callous but I would ghost all of them, at least until after the wedding. No offense but your sister is cruel, entitled and jealous of your upcoming nuptials. She has been enabled by your family to the point where she thinks that this type of disgusting behavior is no big deal. Show them better than you can tell them by moving on without them. TBH your (fiance) did not display the full extent of her hurt out of consideration for you and your family. Now it's your time to consider her by showing your family that this sort of disrespect will not be tolerated. Stick to your guns!!! Failing to do so only condones your sister's BS. Congrats on your nuptials. Wishing you the best!

Without a real, personal apology from the sister I think everything else is irrelevant.

one the one hand, I've been on the fiancee's side, where someone was mean to me but I eventually forgive them, but someone close to me stays mad. it can be really annoying. but also if I were the person writing this, I would probably still be angry at the sister. and "prudence" has a really good point: it's YOUR wedding, you have every right to make it as safe of an environment as possile

That's heartless.

That actually made me cry

That was poor taste, insensitive and cruel. She probably pulls the wings off flies!

Dear Prudence is a reliable source of WTF questions / people.

She's 20 yo, not a child! Stand your ground, if none of your family shows up so be it, it's their loss

What is WRONG with this sister? How unfeelingly cruel and heartless!

It’s his wedding too! He doesn’t have to invite his sister if he doesn’t want to, and if his whole family boycotts the wedding over this, so be it. You just know the sister is going to behave badly at the wedding if she gets to go. Her feels are hurt because she got called out, and a narcissist can’t let that go unpunished, or let her brother and SIL have the spotlight to themselves for a day.

Sister is a sociopath.

I'd rather have none of my family show up than allow my sister to get away with that, especially since she never apologized.

The OP is the SOLITARY healthy branch in that totally toxic, narcissistic 😳 sociopathic family tree!! I would completely distance myself, period. A wedding is not worth further abuse. It's a wager Id win - a thousand times over - the couple is being set up for further humiliation and disgusting behavior and actions, at any related events to the wedding. That is one f'd up family, seriously, pure EVIL.

Please, please, be made up story

That's ridiculous.

What most people don't understand is that when you do something which angers, offends or hurts another person, you apologise for the anger, the offence, the hurt which was caused, usually unintentionally. You also apologise when and if you actually do care about the person and you want them to be your life and continue to be in your life. You don't put your foot down and insist you didn't do anything wrong even if you are sure of it. It's not about being wrong or right, it's about how much you care enough for the other person to actually do the right thing by them. Looks like the sister doesn't give it a s**t. And so is the rest of the family.

His fiancé is better than me, i would've cleaned her clock right then and there. I'm sorry, my sister can't be here because she's recovering from reconstructive surgery after a rousing game of f#%k around and find out

You're not the bad guy. Your sister , however..... When the karma will come for her , don't forget to say "oh come oooon....it's just a joke." to her.

Everyone is going on about how stupid/cruel/sociopathic his sister is. There cannot be two opinions about that. But when everyone including the bride to be is advising to "let it go". Then that is what he should do. But he should tell everyone including his side of family as well as his in laws that this is something which he strongly despises and condemns and he is just forgetting and not necessarily forgiving and after the wedding he and his wife can decide whether they would have anything to do with his sister.

Too long. Yawn

As someone who has lost there sister, that is not okay and highly disturbing. The wedding is a special day for you and your fiancé. The rest of your family doesn't have a say in who is in it and who's not. You should be surrounded with the people who love you and RESPECT you. And most importantly, the ones who respect both of you and your choices. Stand your ground, even though your fiancé just wants to try to keep the peace, it's not going to work if you are not happy.

This one is kind of jaw-dropping.

My thoughts exactly!

After giving extensive and heartfelt apologies in person to your fiancée she should be allowed to attend the wedding IN THE BACK, and certainly not as a bridesmaid.

Censors failed, Scott should be in prison. EDIT: dark topic but my first comment with more than 100 uppies.

Sure, for $3,200. She can even wear her wedding dress if she wants to.

I would have stayed, and shot awesome pictures of this brawl. Memories for a lifetime.