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Weddings are one thing. But the juicy wedding anecdotes that get passed around from guests in real life is another. From fussy bridezillas to nightmarish decor, hilarious invitations, accidents, "what da heck was dat" moments, and even full-blown fights… Some people live for the nuptial gossip.
And the chances are they belong to this quirky online community that deliberately targets some shame-worthy weddings. Captioned "let’s shame those weddings," the subreddit r/weddingshaming is the online home for roasting wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding parties, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors, and more. “You name it, we shame it!” states the community’s description.
Created in 2018, the controversial subreddit now has 151k members who love digging through anything wedding-related. So let’s take a look at what they dug up and shamed down below.
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#1
Imma Use This One Sometime
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#2
Photographer Shaming A Guest
#3
Just Hope There Isn’t A Third...
The world of wedding shaming offers real-life drama combined with sassiness and a fair share of roasting, all in the comfort of a virtual environment. Groups like the “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming” Facebook group, which has 80.6k members, and the r/weddingshaming subreddit with 153k members have become somewhat of a phenomenon in the past 2 years. It turns out there’s something universally irresistible about ripping apart someone’s supposed best day of their lives.
Luna, the moderator from Australia at “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming,” told Wired that “There’s something about weddings, whether you’re invited or not, that just brings out the worst in people.” She suggested that this is precisely what gives the group a feel similar to reality TV shows.
This online shaming trend became a hit back in August 2018 when a post from a group shamed a bride for asking her guests to pay about $1,500 towards her wedding. The story went viral after it was shared by model and social media star Chrissy Teigen.
#4
4 Weddings And A Cat Party
#5
Found On Twitter
#6
Bride Cancels Vendor For Supporting Black Lives Matter
But many people are not so positive about this new trend, claiming that “beneath those silly nuptial stories lies an online playground of hate.”
Bored Panda reached out to Darlene Lancer, clinical psychologist and the author of “Codependency for Dummies” and “Conquering Shame and Codependency.” Darlene said that wedding haters and shamers are not members of a “hate group,” according to the FBI.
She explained: “hate groups” direct their hatred against a particular race, religion, gender, ethnic group, or people of a particular sexual orientation. The FBI investigates these hate groups to protect democracy and individual liberty.” In that sense, wedding shamers are not one of them.
#7
This Is Terrible
#8
What A Hilarious Prank!
#9
I’m All For Using An Uber Sure But Come On
Darlene further explained that “Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status.” Such behavior can be a compensation for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected.
Shaming others, the clinical psychologist suggests, is a way of protesting and ridding themselves of shame people have inside, which is often hidden and unconscious.
“It may be fueled by anger and envy because of the widening discrepancy between classes of haves and have-nots. Aggression and envy are also defenses to shame,” Darlene concluded.
#10
Real Life Soap Opera
#11
Bridezilla Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical
#12
It Can’t Just Be The Bride’s Big Day, You Know
#13
You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride
Full of Giggles 4 years ago
A glass of red wine and a fake misstep would easily rectify this situation.
#14
Karen Thinks Artists Are Ripping Her Off For Charging $1000 For A Live Painting Of Her Wedding Ceremony. Expects To Get A Literal Picasso For That Price
#15
This Girl Is An Icon. She Really Spilled Some Tea!
#16
Mother Of Bride Wearing Bridal Gown!
#17
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
Downunderdude 4 years ago
We don't like you enough to actually invite you, but give us money anyway.
#18
A New Wedding Theme For You To Consider....
#19
Do Not Talk To The Bride At All
#20
Gahhh This Is Bad
#21
Everyone In The Comments Is Calling Her Out. How Can You Think This Is A Good Idea?
#22
Wedding Guest Shaming
#23
Yikes Yikes Yikes
#24
Mother Of The Groom And The Groom On Their Special Day
#25
“Please Shoot People So We Can Have Our Wedding Illegally”
Downunderdude 4 years ago
Words fail me. 'Tyranny defense device'? FFS. Look, no offense, Americans, but no wonder your democracy is on the point of total collapse.
#26
Bride Freaks Out After Finding Her Own Post On Reddit
#27
$250 Min Gift To Attend
#28
Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time
Downunderdude 4 years ago
No problem here, sweetie. If she's REALLY a good friend, she'll have an abortion so that she doesn't ruin your day with messy kids. Over-reacting? No, of course not: it's all about YOU, not her.
#29
She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride
IlovemydogShilo 4 years ago
Just walk past her holding a large very large glass of red wine and “accidentally” trip when you get next to her. If she protests just say “well at least it’s not a REAL wedding dress”
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KombatBunni 4 years ago
My partner and I are going to wait until it’s safe again to have our wedding. Not sure when that will be but we are 100% certain that we don’t want to risk anyone’s heath..I have no issues with waiting :)
CamlikesCookies 4 years ago
That may have been a hard decision to make, but it was the right one :)
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Cecilia Bivald 4 years ago
I got the sudden urge to have a wedding where everyone is in white dresses and I’m dressed in black.. how’s that for a white wedding?
westwing 4 years ago
Man, There are a lot of selfish, willfully, ignorant hillbillies getting married who get their health advice from Donald Trump, a guy who isn’t smart enough to take care of a hamster....LOL
Steve 4 years ago
Actually, Mama Panda has as a point. Guests wearing wedding dresses, demanding huge gifts, tying puppies to tables and 97% of the rest of this has nothing to do with Trump, just bad taste
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KombatBunni 4 years ago
My partner and I are going to wait until it’s safe again to have our wedding. Not sure when that will be but we are 100% certain that we don’t want to risk anyone’s heath..I have no issues with waiting :)
CamlikesCookies 4 years ago
That may have been a hard decision to make, but it was the right one :)
Load More Replies... Cecilia Bivald 4 years ago
I got the sudden urge to have a wedding where everyone is in white dresses and I’m dressed in black.. how’s that for a white wedding?
westwing 4 years ago
Man, There are a lot of selfish, willfully, ignorant hillbillies getting married who get their health advice from Donald Trump, a guy who isn’t smart enough to take care of a hamster....LOL
Steve 4 years ago
Actually, Mama Panda has as a point. Guests wearing wedding dresses, demanding huge gifts, tying puppies to tables and 97% of the rest of this has nothing to do with Trump, just bad taste
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