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People say that if there’s no risk, there’s no reward. That may be true, but there’s also a limit to that thought. There are aspects of our lives where we take more risks than we should that can be blindspots for us. When one Reddit user asked others to share which warnings they think people don’t take seriously enough, the responses became an excellent list of tips for what might not be worth risking in life.

The responses seem to have drawn on a vast variety of different life experiences and come from different fields. We think that just about anyone will find some wisdom on this list that would be worth taking into consideration in their own lives.

#1

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Letting the culture war distract you. The purpose of the culture war is to be a distraction. We don’t need to worry about pronouns and drag queens. We need to worry about the extremely rich taking advantage of us all.

Intelligent-Bottle22 , Ono Kosuki Report

#2

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen The fact that we need to pay our teachers more these are the people who are teaching the next generation and we pay them a mere pittance of what they are worth. They need to be able to support their families and we do not pay them accordingly.

leolawilliams5859 , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a teacher of 20 years, I have to say that this depends on where in the world you live. Some countries value education and their teachers as fundamental components of their culture and lifestyle, and pay them accordingly. Some don’t.

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#3

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Keeping their kids away from social media for as long as humanly possible. They are too young for the 24/7 drama.

snunley75 , RDNE Stock project Report

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Nina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nicely worded. With social media, especially with kids, you're never "offline" so you don't get a rest. The apps are created to be addictive and with developing brains it's worse.

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Quite a few of the ignored risks covered on this list have to do with our health. That’s one of the most valuable things that any of us possess, so we thought we could flesh the list out with more information about some of the most serious public health risks people face today.

#4

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Sleep deprivation.

That s**t'll kill you. Slowly. Painfully. Insidiously. Your body will wear out. Your mind will waste away. You will be sick all the time. Your judgment, self control, and emotional continence will fail with astonishing regularity. You'll develop cognitive decline in your 50s or 60s that shouldn't happen south of 80 or 90. It will destroy your quality of life.

Allfunandgaymes , Ivan Oboleninov Report

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#5

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Escooters are becoming more and more of a thing. I see kids zipping around town no helmet.

WEAR A F*****G HELMET. I might look goofy but if go down at 40mph I won't get brain damage or die.

ComplexPackage117 , Brett Sayles Report

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Nina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad they're mandatory now for every scooter over here (Netherlands), not just the faster ones.

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#6

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen The way you speak around your children

My mother once reffered to my little sister as chunky and said they'd have to cut back on her diet

And I had to stop and remind her that was the exact sort of thing that my dad and his gf said to me that caused me to develope an ED

ted_dyy , RDNE Stock project Report

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Tammy Kirks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 57 and STILL dealing with being taken to Weight Watchers when I was 12. I was a bit chubby, but when puberty kicked in and I grew, all that "baby fat" was gone. Diet culture is beyond toxic!

Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel if folks ate 'real' food in moderation, they wouldn't get overweight. Kids are fed so many processed junkie foods that are addictive and full of sugar and fats. Eat properly, do something as simple as going for an walk each day. As a side note..I tend to gain a few pounds over the winter due to holiday eating and being outside less...i am not better than anyone else when it comes to eating well but i do mostly eat properly and get my legs moving on a daily basis.

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El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Positive reinforcement. Never call children 'a name' and never say they 'are bad'

The Veil of Fire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kids bodies change over the years. I went through my chunky years, thin years, overly depressed I won't eat a thing years....each one of those years I was considered obese and I was never over 150 lbs. At 5'3ish. Now I have back degeneration about 200 lbs. Not one doctor has called me obese. I know I'm over weight. With health issues. But I'm ok with it. All those other years I hated myself. I actually eat so much better for myself now then back then. For some people fluff is good. My extra skinny friends from HS has extra weight now. We all change over time. Life happens.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 3 yr old calls my 1 yr old a "chubby baby". It's cute now but if it carries on I'll eventually have to put a stop to it!

OhnoI’vebeencensored
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, best quote from the 3 yr old to the 1 yr old (said in serious monotone voice): "Sit down in the bath chubby baby fat belly." I just about died laughing!

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April
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I raised a daughter who has a healthy relationship with food and is comfortable in her own skin, despite how I was raised and all the issues I still deal with. It's one of my proudest achievements.

Demongrrrrl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm in my 50s and my dad still finds ways to say vicious things about my weight. He thinks he's being subtle and that I'm too stupid to catch on.

SkyBlueandBlack
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So why do you give him the opportunity to say anything? F**k that noise. Tell him that your parents (or just your dad) told you if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. He'll get the point. Then hang up, because you don't have anything to say to him.

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Wysteria_Rose
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still remember my mom's remarks about how she couldn't wait for me to swim all summer because I would certainly lose weight and the chlorine water would help clear up my acne (which isn't really a fact, so not sure where she got that idea). I was told to diet in 6th grade and was shamed for my weight. My sons have always been on the super skinny side but I never said a thing about it b/c I don't want them to have the same guilt/shame over their body.

Bevo Nostro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You could worry about specific words you might use differently, or you could just get better at seeking effective feedback from children and acting on it sooner.

George D
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The irony is in some cases it's the parents giving their kids fruit juices and carb treats at an early age and often to the point their dna is altered. It's of their own doing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair depending on how old and how "chunky" she was it might have been a needed diet change, but there's ways of saying it

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is a little extreme. If your sister was in fact, chunky, then there is no harm in telling her so. If a kid is overweight, they should be told so and you should help them to eat better. It doesn't have to be mean to tell somebody the truth. Don't be so fragile. If you developed an eating disorder because somebody said you were "chunky", there was probably other stuff going on with you.

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Alcohol use, though mentioned on this list, is worth expanding upon. Some studies suggest that very moderate alcohol consumption can be beneficial, but many people use a bit too much. Tens of thousands of deaths every year are attributed in various ways to alcohol, from accidents and violence to a number of related illnesses.

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen How fundamentally AI is going to change our society. It's going to be bigger and more disruptive than the internet and we are still only at the very early stages. Things are gonna get real weird real fast but funny AI says silly things haha so nobody listens to me.

kurtums , Pavel Danilyuk Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm kind of freaked out by the game mods for Skyrim that are being made with voice-synth AI. I've tried a couple of them and can't tell any difference between the actor's originally recorded lines and the faked ones. So now if there is a sample of a person's voice out there, they can be digitally made to say anything you want. With the deep-fakes and voice synthesizing, it's going to be hard to believe anything you see on the news.

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#8

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Antibiotics. It's imperative to follow the prescription and finish the bottle. I've known people who stop taking them when they start to feel better and save the rest of the bottle for "the next time I'm sick"

PoeJam , Polina Tankilevitch Report

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Emma London
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's a way to ensure that you'll only heal partially, develop a resistance towards that antiobiotic and to antibiotics in general, and in the future you might catch a hospital bacteria, nothing wil work against it and you'll die or end up disabled.

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#9

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Buzzed driving, is drunk driving.

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Pattie B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd also add talking on the phone while driving. Some studies indicate it's as dangerous as driving with a BAC of 0.08 but plenty of people who would never drive drunk are more than happy to yammer away on their cell phone while driving.

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Food safety can be more important than many believe. Those who aren’t severely harmed or even killed by food-borne illnesses can still be seriously sickened, causing usually easily avoidable suffering.

#10

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Wearing sunscreens.

Surprisingly, more people hadnt got a grasp on how important it is on our skin in the long run.

canonelise , Mikhail Nilov Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m a pale-skinned Aussie. If I stick my arm out of the car window in summer I can literally feel my skin cooking. SPF 50 people!

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Wear your seat belt. It's like the old PSA goes: whether it's down the street or to the moon, buckle your seat belt.

lukas_the , Kelly Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to talk to my friend the other day about how stupid she was by not using her seat belt. She said it was too uncomfortable to wear... And to be honest, the way she drives is frightening; I always feel like I'm white-knuckling when I ride with her because she drives too fast, doesn't stick to her lanes, gets easily distracted and doesn't pay enough attention to the road. She claims to have passed an advanced driving test...

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#12

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Listening to music so loud on your headphones that I can hear it. This happens at the gym and it’s all the young high schoolers listening to their music so loudly. Gonna blow their ears out eventually

Big-Routine222 , Marcelo Chagas Report

Depending on the quality of care where you are, healthcare-associated infections can be a serious risk. There isn’t much that most patients can do to avoid this risk when in the care of medical professionals, but when relevant, be sure to carefully follow all hygiene and care instructions to avoid catching serious preventable illnesses.

#13

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Microplastics

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We absolutely must develop alternatives to petroleum-based plastics - alternatives that biodegrade. Plastic is killing our environment, and us.

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#14

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen I’ve spent the last year teaching at various schools in the LA area, grades 3 up to seniors in high school. I can not emphasize enough the effect of cell phone use on young people. Many of the high schools I go to don’t even make a legitimate effort to make students put their phones down. There were theater games I’d play with seniors in high school where I would have to explain the simple rules so many times that we’d barely ever accomplish getting through the game. The 3rd graders would get it immediately and play for half an hour. Every single time I’d give the high school kids a simple direction they would look at me for a second and then say “Wait…what?” It was alarming.

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Em
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cell phones barely existed when I was in high school and this was still the norm.

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#15

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen owning a fire extinguisher. you never know how fast your life can change until a natural disaster/fire hits. and yes, it could be you

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Emma London
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They also sell those to be kept in cars. I bought mine when a car parked right next to mine caught fire.

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Having mentioned alcohol twice in this article, we’d be remiss if we didn’t mention tobacco use as well. Fortunately, general trends suggest that more and more of us are becoming aware of the risks. In the US, the Center for Disease Control and Prevention reports: “Current smoking has declined from 20.9% (nearly 21 of every 100 adults) in 2005 to 11.5% (nearly 12 of every 100 adults) in 2021.”

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen propaganda/advertising really bother me

I read something recently about an area of research called "consumer neuroscience" which is basically the term they are using for a collection of research and imaging to figure out how best to exploit your psychology to make it more effective to own your attention. Research into psychology should benefit people, not the interests of whoever-the-f**k, but that's where the money is

The reason it bothers me is because manipulating and controlling people is morally wrong, this is obvious in relationships but not from outside. The reason nobody cares is because either they assume it is harmless or they think I am crazy for caring about something that seems so innocuous on the surface

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Rick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

AI is already being used. Your data is everywhere, being collected and used to manipulate you without you even realizing it. It goes way beyond 'robots will take over'. It is a manipulation of reality on an individual and mass scale.

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#18

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Alcohol. It is literally poison and your body doesn't enjoy it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't drink, and I never have. It deeply saddens and concerns me the number of people I've encountered who absolutely CANNOT understand how I have any fun without alcohol.

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Drug abuse is another serious issue. Different drugs can have different impacts on our lives, but nearly all of them can cause significant health issues and addiction problems. According to American Addiction Centers, “Drug abuse and addiction cost American society more than $740 billion annually in lost workplace productivity, healthcare expenses, and crime-related costs.”

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Falling.

You can hurt yourself grievously when hitting your head on the ground or on nearby objects. Concussions are nothing to laugh about, no matter your age.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's good to learn how to break your fall, if you practice falling on a mat (with someone to teach you) often enough, eventually it becomes habit to keep your chin tucked and hit the ground properly. It might still sting on regular floors and there's always the risk of landing on furniture and break-falls won't do a ton for that, but is far less likely to cause serious injuries. Martial arts classes usually teach it, I would imagine gymnastics classes would too. You could find a video, but have a person nearby in case you do it wrong and hurt yourself until you get the hang of it.

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#20

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Always use fans on your plants when you are growing them indoors!
Especially seedlings.
Plants hate still, stagnant air. They are able to transpire moisture more effectively when the air is moving.
A strong breeze will also keep your seedlings from dying due to damping off.
It also strengthens the stems so that they don't just fall over when you move them.

tricularia , Huy Phan Report

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen South American here: Send your kids to English lessons as early as possible.

It's expensive but you are giving them a golden ticket for their future.

UnAccomplished_Pea26 , olia danilevich Report

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We all know we’re supposed to brush our teeth, but a proper dental hygiene habit goes beyond this basic step. Oral health is a significant issue for many and causes  both pain and suffering and unwelcome expenses! As the World Health Organization reminds us, “Most oral health conditions are largely preventable and can be treated in their early stages.” Make sure to floss and rinse!

#22

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen The importance of foot strength. A lot of knee, hip, back issues stem from weak feet/ ankles. People think they need softer insoles but it’s actually making your feet even weaker.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can't tell by looking at me, but my legs are uneven, causing me lower back problems. I have to put 2 insoles in my left shoe to compensate or the pain becomes so intense I'd never make it through an 8 hr shift

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#23

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Recycling. I know many people who are proud of the fact that they litter, despite being college educated. They do not care about the effects this has upon our environment or the animals that suffer from human carelessness. I find it to be a mob mentality; “everyone else litters so why should I change?”

LoopyWaffleman , Robert So Report

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TomasL
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never heard anyone say they were proud to litter. I believe this post is fabricated.

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#24

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Saving/planning for retirement.


A lot of my coworkers say they will die working which is a real possibility but if you don’t die, you will need money to survive. One of my coworker is almost 50 and has zero savings, zero 401k and cannot afford to survive on her own if anything happens to her partner.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The issue is that many don’t earn enough to put something aside for retirement. You can’t save when you already live hand to mouth. Or when your meagre savings get wiped by one or two big emergencies (car engine failure, rotten house timbers etc).

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Having enough insurance for your home and belongings. Your stuff is probably worth way more than you think, once you start adding it up, and a total loss event will flip your entire life on its end, and if there’s not enough insurance money, it can be impossible to come back from.

We had a total loss wildfire, and were dramatically underinsured. We’re only able to rebuild because a family member could rewrite their will and give us an early inheritance and that, added to our insurance settlement, was just enough to build half the house we had before. Our home will be furnished almost exclusively with things we bought at thrift stores and estate sales, because we don’t have the money to rebuy all that we had.

toomuchisjustenough , Mikhail Nilov Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I think I'm living a relatively normal life. Then I read something like this and realize I've had at least two total loss events, and neither of them was much more than a hiccup because I just don't own anything. Sucked having to go to the laundromat every other day until I could buy new clothes, though.

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Workplace Safety and proper claim filing for injuries. Too many times I see workers getting hurt due to haphazard working environments, then not filing because they are ingratiated to their superiors and don't want to rock the boat (their excuse). I put safety first people, your job won't care if you lose a limb or a life, they just write it off and keep going. At most you or your family gets a settlement. At the least you may get a plaque or written warning or termination notice, you know just a piece of paper to cement how much they care for you not going after them or for you not being safe.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn’t it illegal to terminate people that got disabled due to hazardous working conditions?

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Working safely at heights. I work with people who worry more about sun safety than they do about working at heights greater than 2 meters.

Buford1991 , Kelly Report

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29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Got to United States is having droughts and that some major states are losing their water supplies but I can never get anybody to have this conversation with me. Droughts I'm becoming more prevalent and big States Los Angeles Utah Colorado Phoenix these things used to only happen in Europe people need to take heat and pay attention

leolawilliams5859 , Darya Sannikova Report

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#29

29 Things People Try To Warn Others About But They Don't Listen Damaging their hear with loud music, tv...
They all put it on my sound sensitivity but the walls are shaking 🫨

Purple_Mousse_4950 , JÉSHOOTS Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did this when I was younger, just got my first set of hearing aids at 60.

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