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Manager Returns From Bereavement Leave To Find All Of His Employees On The Verge Of Quitting
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Manager Returns From Bereavement Leave To Find All Of His Employees On The Verge Of Quitting

Manager Returns From Bereavement Leave To Find All Of His Employees On The Verge Of Quitting“This Was The Last Straw”: Manager Starts Investigation On VP After Whole Team Wants To QuitManager Returns From Bereavement Leave To Find All Of His Employees On The Verge Of QuittingManager Calls For An Investigation After VP’s Sabotage Leads To Threats Of Mass ResignationManager Faces Mass Resignation Threat After VP Creates Havoc In His TeamPerson Is At A Loss When Team Plans On Quitting Because Of VP, Reports Him To HRCreative Director Reports VP To HR After His Whole Team Threatened To Quit Because Of HimCreative Director Returns From Time Off To Find His Whole Team On The Verge Of QuittingVP's Actions Trigger Threat Of Mass Resignations, Leaving Manager In Crisis
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Quitting is usually not a decision that is to be taken lightly. If you don’t have a new job lined up yet, it’s a huge risk to jump ship. But if you’re fed up with your boss, your salary, your workload or your colleagues, it’s sometimes worth it to just say, “Sayonara!”

However, a mass exodus of employees can be extremely stressful for managers who value their teams. That’s why one creative director recently reached out to the Managers subreddit seeking advice on how to convince his employees not to quit just yet. Below, you’ll find the full story, as well as some of the suggestions readers shared.

This manager had to miss a couple days of work while on bereavement leave

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But when he returned, he found that his entire team was on the verge of quitting

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Managing a team is never easy

Being a manager certainly isn’t an easy job. You constantly have to make decisions, delegate tasks, ensure that your employees respect you but are still comfortable, and you’re required to be a liaison between the higher ups and your own team. You might develop strong relationships with your employees, but you have to be careful not to be too cozy with them, as you shouldn’t show anyone special treatment or allow team members to take advantage of your kindness.

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Managers should listen to their employees’ concerns and do everything in their power to respond to employee input, but it’s impossible to please everyone. Difficult decisions will come up frequently, and it’s important for managers to know how to adjust their leadership style based on who they’re working with and what their goals are. 

A manager must also provide feedback to their workers that’s relevant, timely and helpful, and they’re required to make sure that everyone is keeping up with their responsibilities. Plus, it’s important for managers to know when they need to ask for help. Whether that means reaching out to HR or seeking guidance or resources from their own boss, a good manager knows that they won’t always have the answers. 

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Over half of employees have left a job due to their boss

Another one of the most challenging aspects of managing a team is trying to keep them all happy, so they stick around for a while. According to Inc, a whopping 86% of employees decide within their first six months at a new job whether they want to stick around long-term. First impressions are important, and there’s no time to waste when it comes to keeping employees satisfied. 

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And if you want to keep your team happy, you better be a great boss. A study from DDI reported that 57% of workers have quit a job because they didn’t like their manager, and 14% of employees have done this multiple times. Meanwhile, a third of workers have seriously considered quitting a job because they were unhappy with their manager. 

It’s disappointing to know that there are so many poor managers out there, but it’s not surprising when you find out that 70% of frontline managers admit that they weren’t actually expecting to be promoted to a leadership position. Nearly a fifth of managers actually regret their promotions, and 41% admit that they’re unsure whether it was the right move or not.    

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It’s important to prioritize employee satisfaction before it’s too late

According to Thomas Griffin, employees who leave because of a bad manager usually make their decision to move on because their boss refuses to lead by example, doesn’t offer support or recognition and fails to communicate effectively. Other management issues that might push employees out the door are micromanaging and fostering an unhealthy work environment.     

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It’s wise for bosses to be aware of some of the signs that an employee is about to quit, so they can try to do something before it’s truly too late. High turnover rates are costly, frustrating, take up time and resources and frankly don’t look great for business. So it’s best to focus on keeping employees satisfied. 

If a team member starts taking more time off than usual, becomes reluctant to commit to long-term projects, starts becoming active on LinkedIn, avoids social events at work, starts taking more personal calls or makes unrealistic requests, managers should become aware of the fact that they might be quitting soon, Homebase explains. It might be too late to change their minds, but a concerned manager should not hesitate to reach out for help.

We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation down below, pandas. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another piece discussing why employees quit, we recommend reading this article next!        

Later, the creative director responded to comments and provided more info on the situation

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Readers weighed in on the story and shared suggestions for what the manager can do next

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Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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panther
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder who the VP is related to, too get away with the garbage he is doing and not get fired.

Hashim Siraj
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There’s only two ending possibilities. Either the team quits or the vp resigns. No other way.

MR
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And OP needs to make this point to the CEO. He went to the trouble to keep him. Now he needs to do his actual job and deal with this problem.

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Stacy Jones
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like it's probably too late to save this company, and it's the CEO's fault for putting the VP on probation instead of canning his sorry butt. Here's hoping the last-minute Hail Mary of talking to the CEO works, but it'll only happen if the CEO is willing to take action, and so far they have proven that they are not.

DE Ray
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Corporate espionage" sounds like something way more than it is (usually boring as can be), but this sounds a bit like a classic operation: get someone hired into a company with a false resumé, usually upper-middle or the bottom tier of top management, and have them absolutely destroy company culture and any effective teams. The people who hired the saboteur often resist firing them because either they feel it will look bad on them for hiring them in the first place or sunk-cost fallacy. It's a good way for a competitor to get the upper hand in the market.

John Smith (he/him/xy/️)
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cancers like that need to be attacked from top, middle, and bottom, preferably all at once.

SPQRBob
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Office Space had a scene with a fax machine which would be the most appropriate resolution for this VP as well.

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Lucky2BAlive
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think he sees a light at the end of this mess, but fails to realize it’s Amtrak, on coming. Leave. We are becoming aware of how important mental health is , and there is nothing wrong with attending to his own. It also sounds like perhaps the VP has the desire to replace you all with his buddies, fellow gamers. Maybe he will figure out real life is not a game.

Kate Johnson
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd tell the CEO, "You know what's going on here and are sitting on your hands. My entire team is going to walk out, and two already are interviewing. So you need to engage here, or plan for the loss of the entire team, including me, because I'm not staying if you're going to be passive in the face of the abuse of employees."

Worst Cop in Britain
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've finally run into a manager that will make me quit, after being in my position for 6 years and with the company for 8... 😢

Ruth Watry
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your team is comfortable with it, talk to the CEO, tell him everything that you included in this post, and let him know that he can fire the VP or he will lose your entire team.

Fox with a Dragon Tattoo
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbh nothing about this surprised me. This higher your position in a company. Especially in America. The more useless, entitled and brazenly incompetent. All you had to say was VP and knew this guy was trash. And nothing will happen to him and he knows it.

QueenOf Hearts
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look VP either has a*s kissing down to an art or he's a diversity hire. Because I've seen this song and dance before, and it's almost always a diversity hire thing or he kisses the right a*s religiously. If you can't prove what they did either retaliation is nigh or all he has to do is pull the race card and you're in deep s**t.

Steve Dowell
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right... because it's not like minorities are qualified for positions or anything.... /s

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SlightlyTarnished
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really where the world is today where someone ask the reddit universe for advice? Pathetic.

panther
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder who the VP is related to, too get away with the garbage he is doing and not get fired.

Hashim Siraj
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There’s only two ending possibilities. Either the team quits or the vp resigns. No other way.

MR
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And OP needs to make this point to the CEO. He went to the trouble to keep him. Now he needs to do his actual job and deal with this problem.

Load More Replies...
Stacy Jones
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like it's probably too late to save this company, and it's the CEO's fault for putting the VP on probation instead of canning his sorry butt. Here's hoping the last-minute Hail Mary of talking to the CEO works, but it'll only happen if the CEO is willing to take action, and so far they have proven that they are not.

DE Ray
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Corporate espionage" sounds like something way more than it is (usually boring as can be), but this sounds a bit like a classic operation: get someone hired into a company with a false resumé, usually upper-middle or the bottom tier of top management, and have them absolutely destroy company culture and any effective teams. The people who hired the saboteur often resist firing them because either they feel it will look bad on them for hiring them in the first place or sunk-cost fallacy. It's a good way for a competitor to get the upper hand in the market.

John Smith (he/him/xy/️)
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cancers like that need to be attacked from top, middle, and bottom, preferably all at once.

SPQRBob
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Office Space had a scene with a fax machine which would be the most appropriate resolution for this VP as well.

Load More Replies...
Lucky2BAlive
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think he sees a light at the end of this mess, but fails to realize it’s Amtrak, on coming. Leave. We are becoming aware of how important mental health is , and there is nothing wrong with attending to his own. It also sounds like perhaps the VP has the desire to replace you all with his buddies, fellow gamers. Maybe he will figure out real life is not a game.

Kate Johnson
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd tell the CEO, "You know what's going on here and are sitting on your hands. My entire team is going to walk out, and two already are interviewing. So you need to engage here, or plan for the loss of the entire team, including me, because I'm not staying if you're going to be passive in the face of the abuse of employees."

Worst Cop in Britain
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've finally run into a manager that will make me quit, after being in my position for 6 years and with the company for 8... 😢

Ruth Watry
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your team is comfortable with it, talk to the CEO, tell him everything that you included in this post, and let him know that he can fire the VP or he will lose your entire team.

Fox with a Dragon Tattoo
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbh nothing about this surprised me. This higher your position in a company. Especially in America. The more useless, entitled and brazenly incompetent. All you had to say was VP and knew this guy was trash. And nothing will happen to him and he knows it.

QueenOf Hearts
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look VP either has a*s kissing down to an art or he's a diversity hire. Because I've seen this song and dance before, and it's almost always a diversity hire thing or he kisses the right a*s religiously. If you can't prove what they did either retaliation is nigh or all he has to do is pull the race card and you're in deep s**t.

Steve Dowell
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right... because it's not like minorities are qualified for positions or anything.... /s

Load More Replies...
SlightlyTarnished
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really where the world is today where someone ask the reddit universe for advice? Pathetic.

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