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Man Gets An Ultimatum From His Vegan Girlfriend Who Demands He Give Away His Cat
Man Gets An Ultimatum From His Vegan Girlfriend Who Demands He Give Away His Cat
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Man Gets An Ultimatum From His Vegan Girlfriend Who Demands He Give Away His Cat

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Correct me if I’m wrong, but when people fall in love with someone really hard, they’re ready to sacrifice anything. Well, almost. We can stop biting nails, eat less junk, and swap that beloved gross hoodie we never part with for a nice shirt, but when it comes to pets, it’s a whole different story.

A 22-old-man has been dating his girlfriend for 7 months and according to him, “she’s amazing and we’re super compatible in a lot of ways.” She’s also a vegan, a fact which shouldn’t make a whole lot of difference, but the way she approaches veganism kind of does.

One day, the girlfriend sat him down and said that there was no future until the author gives his beloved furry friend away. Her reason was—it violates the principles of veganism. Read the full story right below and share what you think of the whole situation in the comment section!

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    In what felt like a slap in the face, this guy was demanded by his vegan girlfriend to give away his cat because she said it violates vegan principles

     

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    Here is the full story he shared on Reddit

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    In an update post the author later released on r/relationship_advice, he made it clear that his girlfriend’s extreme views on domestic cats are not representative of the vegan/vegetarian community as a whole. “I do think that, sometimes, new vegans can be a little overzealous. In reality, most of us are just doing the best that we can to not hurt animals!”

    For those who’re wondering, the author has also said that they broke up, “obviously.” “I would never, ever give up my cat Mittens,” he said and added that “Many users said that this situation was about control, not veganism, and looking back, I do see a pattern of control on my girlfriend’s part.”

    The author concluded that he was “blind to it” and given the issues they had, he decided it was best for them to part ways. The author also shared a picture of his furball Mittens which you can find under an Imgur link right here.

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    And this is what people had to comment on the whole situation

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    Liucija Adomaite

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    Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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    Paulina Prazmo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry but your girlfriend is crazy on whole new level 🙈

    Stina Kolling
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you sorry? She IS crazy. Nothing to apologize for.

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    Marianne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So am I getting this right? In her mind, all carnivores are basically evil for eating meat? Has she no understanding about how nature works?

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't make sense to me either. Carnivores are there to keep herbivores and pests from eating up their resources and weeding out the sick and weak. It makes the population of herbivores stronger and keeps disease from ripping through the herds. They should study up on Biology and Ecosystems to see why there needs to be a balance in the world.

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    Ivana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried following different vegans and things because I want a more plant based diet for environmental reasons and there were a few like the gf and it really made me have a bad opinion of veganism. Unfair of me because I now a lot of vegans are not like that. Basically just stopped going to forums and things and stick to researching vegan recipes. But the cat thing is a thing in the vegan community and that was my breaking point with any online vegan communities.

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    Iggy
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a wonderful relationship. She's a bully. She has a nerve demanding he get rid of Mittens. Regardless of any difference in ideologies, Mittens was there first. If he got rid of her, he would always regret it. He would also resent the girlfriend for it. Finally, I know no vegan who thinks owning a pet is against vegan principles. We have a choice. Domesticated animals (or any other animals) don't.

    Zaza
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fancy reading a post about a cat and seeing someone in the comment section with the same name as my cat. What are the odds...

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    Ivana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So why is she vegan? Is it a environmental thing then rather than an animal advocacy then? Sounds like she wants all carnivores to die. I have heard of this, vegans pretty much torturing and slowly killing their cats by trying to force them to have vegan diets. Cats have a 100% meat based diet, I understand that some vegans don't want cats because they don't want to buy the food for them and that is honestly the more responsible answer, but when you are asking someone to give up their pet, sending links about killing off cats, what you have is a heartless, horrible, nasty human being who has an inability to think or behave rationally because they are so beyond delusional about their own superiority. She has cult like devotion to this and that is her personality. If you had a kid and they required more protein in their diet and a nutritionist suggested they eat eggs would she give the kid up for adoption? Rip that band-aid off and go through the pain of the break up now.

    Iapetos
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are vegan cat foods, but many are lacking. And as this article shows, you can be both an asshole and a vegan.

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    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you care about animals you don't advocate abandoning them.

    Panda-riffic
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or killing them off??!!! Why stop at cats? What about raptors, dogs, wolves, lions, tigers, bears, sharks, lizards.....etc etc

    Load More Replies...
    mcborge1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This seems to be less about any vegan ideology and more about not liking cats. The girl is just using veganism as an excuse to get her own way, plain and simple.

    crazy_cat_notAlady
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's quite ironic for someone who is "against cruelty" to ask someone to give up their cat. the cat is obviously well-cared for and loved. a beautiful pet/ animal should never b kicked out or given up due to clashing ideologies. veganism is a human concept and practice. please don't drag compulsory carnivores into this debate. cats need non-vegetarian food or they can suffer from severe digestive and nutritional issues. if u r a vegan and if u still want a pet, please consider a strictly herbivore animal. but be cautious, some of the medicines and dietary supplements may have animal (non-veg) components. if u r a vegan, think it through before adopting a voiceless creature. spread the love.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please, use full words, not just letters! Be not b. Your not ur. It's just lazy and distracting.

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    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone asking me to get rid of my cat (or whichever pet) regardless of the reason, is out of the door. No-one has the right to make the other person choose, especially when the pet is there before!

    KombatBunni
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I told my partner flat out that if they ever tried to make me get rid of my pet bird, they would be the one looking for a new home. Anyone ever tries to make you dump a pet for stupid reasons, show ‘em the door.

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    Linda Cowley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Death penalty for being another species? Violates vegan core principles. I think we have an illogical control freak who hates cats. Let her go.

    Lola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she hates more than cats. He dodged a bullet with her. I pity the man who will find her next.

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    Paulina Prazmo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry but your girlfriend is crazy on whole new level 🙈

    Stina Kolling
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you sorry? She IS crazy. Nothing to apologize for.

    Load More Replies...
    Marianne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So am I getting this right? In her mind, all carnivores are basically evil for eating meat? Has she no understanding about how nature works?

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't make sense to me either. Carnivores are there to keep herbivores and pests from eating up their resources and weeding out the sick and weak. It makes the population of herbivores stronger and keeps disease from ripping through the herds. They should study up on Biology and Ecosystems to see why there needs to be a balance in the world.

    Load More Replies...
    Ivana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried following different vegans and things because I want a more plant based diet for environmental reasons and there were a few like the gf and it really made me have a bad opinion of veganism. Unfair of me because I now a lot of vegans are not like that. Basically just stopped going to forums and things and stick to researching vegan recipes. But the cat thing is a thing in the vegan community and that was my breaking point with any online vegan communities.

    Load More Replies...
    Iggy
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not a wonderful relationship. She's a bully. She has a nerve demanding he get rid of Mittens. Regardless of any difference in ideologies, Mittens was there first. If he got rid of her, he would always regret it. He would also resent the girlfriend for it. Finally, I know no vegan who thinks owning a pet is against vegan principles. We have a choice. Domesticated animals (or any other animals) don't.

    Zaza
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fancy reading a post about a cat and seeing someone in the comment section with the same name as my cat. What are the odds...

    Load More Replies...
    Ivana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So why is she vegan? Is it a environmental thing then rather than an animal advocacy then? Sounds like she wants all carnivores to die. I have heard of this, vegans pretty much torturing and slowly killing their cats by trying to force them to have vegan diets. Cats have a 100% meat based diet, I understand that some vegans don't want cats because they don't want to buy the food for them and that is honestly the more responsible answer, but when you are asking someone to give up their pet, sending links about killing off cats, what you have is a heartless, horrible, nasty human being who has an inability to think or behave rationally because they are so beyond delusional about their own superiority. She has cult like devotion to this and that is her personality. If you had a kid and they required more protein in their diet and a nutritionist suggested they eat eggs would she give the kid up for adoption? Rip that band-aid off and go through the pain of the break up now.

    Iapetos
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are vegan cat foods, but many are lacking. And as this article shows, you can be both an asshole and a vegan.

    Load More Replies...
    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you care about animals you don't advocate abandoning them.

    Panda-riffic
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or killing them off??!!! Why stop at cats? What about raptors, dogs, wolves, lions, tigers, bears, sharks, lizards.....etc etc

    Load More Replies...
    mcborge1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This seems to be less about any vegan ideology and more about not liking cats. The girl is just using veganism as an excuse to get her own way, plain and simple.

    crazy_cat_notAlady
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's quite ironic for someone who is "against cruelty" to ask someone to give up their cat. the cat is obviously well-cared for and loved. a beautiful pet/ animal should never b kicked out or given up due to clashing ideologies. veganism is a human concept and practice. please don't drag compulsory carnivores into this debate. cats need non-vegetarian food or they can suffer from severe digestive and nutritional issues. if u r a vegan and if u still want a pet, please consider a strictly herbivore animal. but be cautious, some of the medicines and dietary supplements may have animal (non-veg) components. if u r a vegan, think it through before adopting a voiceless creature. spread the love.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please, use full words, not just letters! Be not b. Your not ur. It's just lazy and distracting.

    Load More Replies...
    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone asking me to get rid of my cat (or whichever pet) regardless of the reason, is out of the door. No-one has the right to make the other person choose, especially when the pet is there before!

    KombatBunni
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I told my partner flat out that if they ever tried to make me get rid of my pet bird, they would be the one looking for a new home. Anyone ever tries to make you dump a pet for stupid reasons, show ‘em the door.

    Load More Replies...
    Linda Cowley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Death penalty for being another species? Violates vegan core principles. I think we have an illogical control freak who hates cats. Let her go.

    Lola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she hates more than cats. He dodged a bullet with her. I pity the man who will find her next.

    Load More Replies...
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