Whether that is health issues as well

That's BS. We just tend to forget the times when our instincts were wrong

How about don't pass off 6 month old articles as new? Lazy panda

Tend to do that when I need to walk to or from my car in the dark but my cell phone has a personal safety app. I can set it to require a check in after a certain time, if check in doesn't happen, then my location is shared with my emergency contacts with a notice that I didn't check in with the app to say I was safe, it will also notify them of what phone calls I make. I can hit the power button 5 times in a row to auto call 911 , my emergency contacts will me notified , my phone's location will be shared with them and 911, and it will be record video and audio that will be shared with my emergency contacts. I've used it a few time walking to my car in the dark at work because I'll be left there alone and no one will tell me they are leaving , last one out has to close the gate to the parking lot and it's not a nice neighborhood so the app is a nice comfort.

If I had listened to my gut, I wouldn't have had an ex-wife

If you don't have anxiety that is.

Absolutely 💯

ALWAYS!!!!!

At least take into consideration that the thing you're feeling might not be an obstacle, but a road sign.

when we had a bad winter one day i had a gut feeling that my dad almost got in a accident on the highway and it was true when i asked him

We have instincts for a reason. They kept your ancestors alive. I say F**K being polite and worrying about hurting someone's feelings, I am staying alive and unharmed.

Ask yourself, what do THEY benefit from this.

I made some of my best friends at work. Let's just agree on "NOT ALL of your coworkers are your friends". Like probably every other place in your life. Be careful who you choose to trust.

Don't forget to celebrate as well

And kindness is its own reward!

lol

Sometimes that can be a relief...not all parents are good

As a CIO I travel the world each week to each of our factories and offices. The receptionist (who are often also the telephone operator) at every site are all key contacts that I quickly get to know personally. I know their names, their kids names, family pets, birthdays, births, deaths, marriages etc, they know mine. We often catch up for a while whilst I'm travelling, arriving or watiing for a car to leave. Same with great people who drove the company cars and buses shuttling us between airports, hotels are our locations. We have hundreds of locations. On the frequent times glitches crop up with my interaries, these are the wonderful people who will go out of their way to remove my problems and keep me safe/housed/travelling etc. People are people the world over at any level - respect anyone irrespective of their salary, grade, religion, language, gender etc. People who pull rank or ignore others as they feel superior due to their role or position are generally a*****s

1 is great advice!

225-340 ml (Had to look it up and thought about sharing. 🙈)

I think it's supposed to meet *two out of three* of those criteria. So for example, if something is true and necessary, it should be said whether it is kind or not. If something is true and kind, say it even if there is no other reason. And if only say something untrue on the occasion that is both kind and necessary.

We stan Dolly

When we first got computers at school a teacher was hired to do her job plus be the IT person. I would send her emails about issues with the computer and she would send nasty replies and never do her job she was paid to do. I waited a couple of weeks and got a stack of them. Then replied " you know emails can be printed out". Then I acted on it.

I remember once being told - "take your time, think a lot. Think of everything you've got. For you will still be here tomorrow. But your dreams may not"

Exactly! When I was with my former employer (retired now), we had a Manager’s meeting that was going around in circles about how to respond to a recent politically delicate, yet absurd resource request. When it came my turn to contribute, I said simply “ ‘NO!’ is a perfectly good answer” and left it at that. Well, I was puzzled that others in the room were taken by surprise by what I thought to be obvious, and no one could offer any counter argument. At my retirement some years later, a few colleagues echoed that back to me as one of their most memorable moments, and to this day I do not understand why.

Apologies Glasia, first time posting and it didn't look like it had saved when I hit the button. I did report it as a duplicate and ask for it to be deleted. If there is a way I can do that myself I would be happy to learn it

I was told, never do anything to you don't want to explain to paramedics.

Let's not gatekeep all our emotions. Regret is normal. It's pathological if you hang on to it. But to sit around pretending like you have none because logically it doesn't make sense is silly. A lot of this advice is silly.

Nearly everything in life is situational, but not telling people hurtful things is generally going to be okay. That said, there will be times when it’s a kindness to tell someone they’re being delusional…just find a way to be gentle about how you tell them,

I've had great conversations by text. Maybe this is antiquated.

In Les Miserables, Jean Valjean steals from the priest who gave him shelter and sneaks out into the night. The police apprehend him and return him to the priest to give back what he stole. The priest then asks his wife to fetch the silver. She argues, but he insists. Telling the policemen that Valjean had not stolen anything from him, he hands the silver to the thief, saying 'Here, you forgot to take this'. The priest insists that Valjean is set free as he has committed no crime and the officers acquiesce. This is a turning point in Valjean's life. My questions would be, at what point should you stop being kind and why are we so afraid of being taken advantage of? BTW I'm not religious.

Yup....buy cheap, buy twice my Grampa used to say

Those were the exact words of my maths teacher before he failed me.

I was taught this. I was also taught to ‘drive like everyone around you is an idiot’ and also ‘the right of way is yielded never taken.’ Just because that person is supposed to stop doesn’t mean they always will. It helps you prepare to react to others when they make mistakes. Seriously, think of how many times you’ve seen someone do something dumb when you’re driving.

No.

I'll do you one better... always stack a stash of roles within a reach

Life is too short to be around miserable, toxic people. Sometimes the best way to deal with them is to cut them out of your life. Your well-being is important.

Brutus, duh. :)

I kind of like knowing what other people think. Is that bad? To actually want to hear another person's opinion?

Sometimes it's better to just do it any way you can with your given resources than not do it at all. A quick short-term fix is better than the situation deteriorating even further 🤷‍♀️

You need to let go. For yourself. Not them. Let go of the bitterness, and the hate, and the hostility. Try to maybe see where they were coming from. But that doesn't mean you EVER have to say it was OK. Or invite them to dinner. Forgiveness has been misunderstood. Better said is to let go. And you are always allowed to feel it wasn't OK. There is too much pressure to "forgive" nowadays. And what that means has become twisted. Some people are predators and should always be viewed so. Even though we can have compassion for what got them there. It doesn't make it OK and it doesn't make them safe. And knowing that is 100% totally fine!!

Also there's a difference between is it possible and is it likely.

I'm shocked at how many people don't do this. Ew. Lol

Think on it, understand it, solve it. Worry? worry will just get in the way. Worry is useless, it just interferes. Why bother?

You are not your F$%#!&g khakis

"Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely." Lord Acton

Yep, buy a sledgehammer right away, never just a normal hammer again. If it fails the task, buy larger one. Same with screwdriver - if it doesn’t fit, keep buying larger ones, until it fits. Trust me, if it doesn’t work for you, you’re not buying large enough tools /s