Non-Americans Are Shocked At The Cultural Difference Of What Students Wear To School In The US
Interview With AuthorWhen I was in high school, I remember many students that were dressed to the nines. I would wake up early in the morning to straighten my hair and put on makeup (things I never do today), and plenty of my friends would show up for class in dresses, skirts, lots of jewelry and sometimes even heels.
But apparently, times have changed. Selma Doganson, an exchange student from Sweden who’s currently studying in the United States, recently shared a video documenting how often she sees fellow teens at her high school wearing pajamas. Below, you’ll find the full video that Selma posted documenting the “fashion” at her school, as well as a conversation between Selma and Bored Panda!
After noticing many of her American classmates wearing pajamas to high school, this exchange student decided to document the phenomenon online
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You can see the full “fashion show” right here
@selma.doganson Love going to school in pajamas #pajamas #us #exhangestudent #exhangeyear #jkitspajamaday #spritweek ♬ USA – The Star Spangled Banner – American National Anthem (Instrumental) – Glocal Orchestra
“If you wore pj’s to school in Sweden, I think a lot of people would look down on you and comment on how tired you look”
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To find out what inspired Selma to post this video in the first place, we got in touch with her via TikTok. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and share some of the differences she’s observed between school in the United States versus school in her home country of Sweden.
“I noticed people wearing pj’s for the first time maybe a week into school,” Selma says. “Before I got here, I heard that a lot of people wore pj’s, but I didn’t think it was that many. If you wore pj’s to school in Sweden, I think a lot of people would look down on you and comment on how tired you look.”
But this is far from the only difference in education that she’s noticed. “In Sweden, the school is so different. We go with the same 30 people in every class, and every class at the school has a different schedule, so we don’t have the bell,” Selma explained. “Some days, you can start at 8:30 and some days at 12.”
“In Sweden, we also get free school lunches,” the student noted. “The school in the U.S. is a lot easier than in Sweden, but since English isn’t my first language, it makes it a bit harder.”
We were also curious about the best and worst parts of being an exchanged student in the U.S. “My favorite aspect is the school spirit,” Selma says. “We don’t have school sports or anything in Sweden, so it’s fun to experience those kind of things. The school here is also more fun since the lessons are easier. But I can’t focus for 90 minutes every lesson, so that’s one of the things that is not the best here.”
“Another thing that I don’t like here is that the lunch is only 30 minutes, and you only have 5 minutes between classes. In Sweden, we have at least 1 hour for lunch and 15 minutes between classes. And in Sweden, we get paid $120 every month just to be in school, and I kind miss that.”
It’s important to be comfortable to be able to focus during class
School is about much more than just getting an education for many teens. It’s a place to socialize, form potentially life-long friendships, participate in extracurricular activities and learn about the world around you. And while I don’t think my parents would have ever let me leave the house wearing pajama pants as a teen, school doesn’t necessarily have to be a fashion show. So what’s the big deal with wearing leisure clothes to class?
Being comfortable in class can help students remain focused on their lessons, without being distracted by itchy pants, stiff uniforms or clothes that they don’t feel like themselves in. It can be challenging enough to grab the attention of teens who would rather be scrolling on TikTok than listening to chemistry lessons, so if pajama pants can make a difference in the classroom, they’re not harming anyone.
I don’t remember this being a common thing at my high school in particular, as it certainly was not something I saw every day. However, I did sometimes see students in sweatpants and hoodies if they wanted to be extra cozy. It makes sense for times to have changed in the classroom though, as the world has definitely shifted since I was in high school too.
Many remote workers prefer to wear pajamas during the workday as well
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The National Center for Education Statistics reports that due to the pandemic, 77% of public schools in the United States moved to “online distance learning” during the spring of 2020. It’s very possible that students became comfortable wearing pajamas while learning lessons at home and simply decided that they weren’t going to change their habits when they returned to the classroom.
In fact, adults aren’t much different. One 2023 survey found that a third of employees who work from home like to wear pajamas during the workday. And one in 12 employees enjoy wearing pajamas every day. Over half of remote workers will also wear something more appropriate for the office on top while keeping sweatpants or pajamas on the bottom (as they won’t be seen in video calls).
However, not everyone is on board with students showing up to class in the pajamas that their grandmother mailed them for Christmas. Nearly 19% of public schools in the United States actually require students to wear uniforms, along with 57% of private schools. Despite the fact that a whopping 90% of middle schoolers don’t like wearing uniforms and only 17% think wearing them actually helps them focus in class, there are some benefits to them as well.
The vast majority of American schools have dress codes, but they don’t always prohibit pajamas
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Schools with uniform policies have been found to report less gang activity, alcohol usage, hate crimes, drug use, firearms, insubordinations and attacks than schools where students aren’t required to wear uniforms. Plus, 37% of students who wear uniforms to school admit that they worry less about their appearance since they never have to choose an outfit in the morning or compare their clothes to what their peers are wearing.
And even if teens aren’t expected to wear button down shirts and slacks to school, every institution will have a dress code deeming certain clothing appropriate for an educational setting. According to Education Week, many dress codes in the U.S. prohibit teens from wearing hats, bandanas, anything with foul language or suggestive images, anything that promotes drug or alcohol use, tank tops, short skirts and shorts, leggings worn as pants, open toed shoes, holes in jeans, shirts that expose cleavage, visible piercings and visible undergarments.
Pajamas, however, are not directly prohibited in many schools’ dress codes, meaning that as long as they don’t break any other rules, students are free to wear them. We would love to hear your thoughts on this video in the comments below, pandas. Do you see any issue with high schoolers wearing pajamas to class? Feel free to share, and then if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing dress codes, look no further than right here!
Viewers were quick to weigh in on Selma’s video, and many mentioned that this would never happen at their schools
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Pyjama bottoms are essentially scrub bottoms, which are sensible and comfy. Having said that, am I alone in noting how all the pyjamas in the photos look really bright and new, with nary a "normal" faded one in sight? The only caveat I'd have is I hope that they change into fresh pyjamas before getting into bed.
We do. I have no idea why people immediately assume that we wear the same pyjamas
Load More Replies...Idk. A lot of the schools don’t have too strict dress codes and don’t care about pyjamas unless it says something offensive. I love wearing my pyjama’s to school and anyone who is mad I think might just be jealous.
Load More Replies...As someone who is reading this while at school and is wearing pajamas. Why do you guys care so much?
Being comfortable promotes learning. Now if they'd just follow the science and start high schools later, and get control of the gun situation, we could really give kids the best chance for an education.
OP that was a designated pajama day done for school spirit. While yes there are a lot of students who dress like it is 3am, most do not.
I work in a school district and that was my first thought. We always have a few kids in pajama pants, but the girl in the full satin PJ set? That was a giveaway that this is spirit week, not a typical day.
Load More Replies...I saw this when on student exchange in Italy on fridays (I think it was friday) .. it was weird because at the same time they were very concious of style and grooming. They did not wear the PJs they slept in as far as I know, but fresh ones.
Clothes are clothes, I sleep in tshirts, so when I go out wearing a tshirt it's a pyjama? I doubt they sleep in them anyway, it's a fashion/casual day/pj day thing anyway!
That is likely pajama day and the person took the video for reactions, which they were given. 🙄
OK, so pro tip: if you don't like wearing pajamas in school...you should wear something else. That's it. that's the answer. Hope this helps.
I spent my freshman year of uni in pjs, it was comfortable and I wasn't there for fashion Also don't see a kid getting beat up cuz someone wants the Scooby Doo pjs
I'm a high school student in America. This isn't the overwhelming majority, about <30% show up in pajamas.
Another article designed solely to upset people. As long as the clothes are clean, who cares. I never wore pajamas to school and still wouldn't wear them in public, but that's me. It hurts no one.
It's not the first time pajamas were the in thing for North American school aged kids, and it won't be the last time either lol
So what's the problem? Pajamas are cheap and comfortable. I wouldn't do it; have never done it; but I don't get all the judgey comments here. Save money where you can and spend it where it matters.
I see no problem here. I am not American btw. Also, all the people commenting that it's "disgusting", have you heard of laundry, or buying more than 1 pair?
I'm nearly 60 and still traumatized by the 2nd grade play where we had to wear pajamas and I was mortified to have my classmates see me like that (even though they were in pjs too).
Wearing pyama pants all day remind me a bit too much of working from home during the 2020/2021 lockdowns…
Okay. I mean, I'm against dress codes that unfairly target girls for wearing clothing that could be deemed as 'revealing,' but I live in the US and the whole pajama thing is kind of annoying. Like, jeans or other trousers can be comfortable too, yeah? When people wear PJs to school, it's kinda slobbish and like no one actually gives any effort. Don't downvote me into oblivion please, I want other people to consider other opinions.
Why don't they get up a little bit earlier in the morning so that they have time to dress themselves properly? If a child where I live goes to school wearing pj's it will immediately be assumed that the parents are lazy slobs who don't care about their children at all.
There probably sleep deprived enough as it is. Besides it’s comfy and clearly no one gives a s**t, so why not?
Load More Replies...Pyjama bottoms are essentially scrub bottoms, which are sensible and comfy. Having said that, am I alone in noting how all the pyjamas in the photos look really bright and new, with nary a "normal" faded one in sight? The only caveat I'd have is I hope that they change into fresh pyjamas before getting into bed.
We do. I have no idea why people immediately assume that we wear the same pyjamas
Load More Replies...Idk. A lot of the schools don’t have too strict dress codes and don’t care about pyjamas unless it says something offensive. I love wearing my pyjama’s to school and anyone who is mad I think might just be jealous.
Load More Replies...As someone who is reading this while at school and is wearing pajamas. Why do you guys care so much?
Being comfortable promotes learning. Now if they'd just follow the science and start high schools later, and get control of the gun situation, we could really give kids the best chance for an education.
OP that was a designated pajama day done for school spirit. While yes there are a lot of students who dress like it is 3am, most do not.
I work in a school district and that was my first thought. We always have a few kids in pajama pants, but the girl in the full satin PJ set? That was a giveaway that this is spirit week, not a typical day.
Load More Replies...I saw this when on student exchange in Italy on fridays (I think it was friday) .. it was weird because at the same time they were very concious of style and grooming. They did not wear the PJs they slept in as far as I know, but fresh ones.
Clothes are clothes, I sleep in tshirts, so when I go out wearing a tshirt it's a pyjama? I doubt they sleep in them anyway, it's a fashion/casual day/pj day thing anyway!
That is likely pajama day and the person took the video for reactions, which they were given. 🙄
OK, so pro tip: if you don't like wearing pajamas in school...you should wear something else. That's it. that's the answer. Hope this helps.
I spent my freshman year of uni in pjs, it was comfortable and I wasn't there for fashion Also don't see a kid getting beat up cuz someone wants the Scooby Doo pjs
I'm a high school student in America. This isn't the overwhelming majority, about <30% show up in pajamas.
Another article designed solely to upset people. As long as the clothes are clean, who cares. I never wore pajamas to school and still wouldn't wear them in public, but that's me. It hurts no one.
It's not the first time pajamas were the in thing for North American school aged kids, and it won't be the last time either lol
So what's the problem? Pajamas are cheap and comfortable. I wouldn't do it; have never done it; but I don't get all the judgey comments here. Save money where you can and spend it where it matters.
I see no problem here. I am not American btw. Also, all the people commenting that it's "disgusting", have you heard of laundry, or buying more than 1 pair?
I'm nearly 60 and still traumatized by the 2nd grade play where we had to wear pajamas and I was mortified to have my classmates see me like that (even though they were in pjs too).
Wearing pyama pants all day remind me a bit too much of working from home during the 2020/2021 lockdowns…
Okay. I mean, I'm against dress codes that unfairly target girls for wearing clothing that could be deemed as 'revealing,' but I live in the US and the whole pajama thing is kind of annoying. Like, jeans or other trousers can be comfortable too, yeah? When people wear PJs to school, it's kinda slobbish and like no one actually gives any effort. Don't downvote me into oblivion please, I want other people to consider other opinions.
Why don't they get up a little bit earlier in the morning so that they have time to dress themselves properly? If a child where I live goes to school wearing pj's it will immediately be assumed that the parents are lazy slobs who don't care about their children at all.
There probably sleep deprived enough as it is. Besides it’s comfy and clearly no one gives a s**t, so why not?
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