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Some people like following the rules while others think that they exist for being broken. However, without them, our society would probably collapse, and we need a little bit of control. If we don't know if something is legal or not, we can consult our country’s law books, but turns out, there are many rules that are unwritten and even not spoken out loud.

You could say that these rules are social norms, things that are accepted culturally and things we think are right based on our personal experiences. Bored Panda has already compiled a few lists on the topic that you can find here, here, here and here.

But people have even more unspoken rules to share and listed them in Reddit threads that you can find here, here and here. The amount of rules people unconsciously follow really is surprising and it can get really awkward if you’re the only one who doesn’t know about a specific one. So let us know the one rule that was not yet mentioned that people need to know.

#1

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Your beliefs don't make you a better person, your behavior does.

MST3Kimber , Ondřej Vaněček Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Married people are off-limits weather they feel like they are or not.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” When dropping a friend off at home late at night make sure to stick around until they enter the house. You might not know if they left their keys and be locked out while you drive away. They may need to stay the night and sort things out in the morning.

Kezhia , Holly Lay Report

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Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always do this. Also if girls go out for a night together, never leave one behind..I've had a few unwanted late nights due to that one friend not wanting to go home, but making sure she got home safe was more important.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Replace toilet paper when you're done with it. Also, don't stop in the middle of a busy sidewalk.

PRnene , m01229 Report

#5

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Have some common f*****g courtesy and end your goddamn call before coming to cashier. This includes you pretentious f***s who use a hands free device.

[deleted] , Mike Mozart Report

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Hill Branda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. Person stands in line, comes up to the cashier and is prattling on, at the top of their lungs, while the cashier is waiting to say something like "You can enter your card now," but they can't get a word in edgewise because Joe Jackass is talking on the phone. Meanwhile, all the people behind him are getting really annoyed. Shut the f**k up for 10 seconds and let the cashier do his/her job, so we can all get on with our lives, you self-absorbed nit-wit.

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#6

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Do not put your bag on a seat next to you on the bus/train if there are no seats left.

tupungato , Frederick Dennstedt Report

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DennyS (denzoren)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you do that here in the Caribbean you'll get some very choice words from a stranger.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If I am walking my dog(s) and specifically trying to avoid you walking with your dogs. Don't come over to me and try to chat it up. Also do not let your kids come and pet my (or ANY) dog without asking first!

NickDWolfwood2 , Chris Gladis Report

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Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dog does not get along with other dogs, and as he gets older, need to watch him around smaller kids...also, he hates it when people come into his face with their hands or face..that's a huge no-no and he will give you a warning (I can go in his face all I want). Hes an Akita and wasnt brought up around other dogs or small kids. It's the worst when folks have their dogs off leash in a place that is on-leash only...and their dog comes up to my dog...always a s**t show so I've had to stop going to these places. Dont assume it's okay folks!

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#8

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” pick people up if they fall in a mosh-pit

6indy8 , Stephan Ridgway Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If you're sitting with a group watching tv and you get a phone call, get the f**k out of the room. If you sit there and talk you are a d**k.

UsernameTooShort , Aapo Haapanen Report

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Jo314129
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not just for when you're watching TV; that's for EVERY public setting IMO.

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#10

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” When someone says "Don't look now...but" you must immediately look with the most animated expression you can muster.

FaroutIGE , kayatheshepherd Report

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DennyS (denzoren)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The initiator must then immediately reply with "I said don't look!" after everyone has clearly noticed you looking.

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#11

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Don't f*****g interrupt people when they are speaking.

ShinedownBoomLay , Tatiana El-Bakri Report

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DennyS (denzoren)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes have a problem with this that I always have to apologize for....like I'll be listening and then I wouldn't know if they paused or if I should interject then I'd say something an realize they weren't finished or I'd want to add something because it's an answer to what they're talking about but I don't know when to say it and end up blurting it out.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” if you don't have anything nice to say, say it in your head and remember it for later when you can tell people who will think it's funny.

borumlive , Romain Guy Report

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Hill Branda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. File those snarky comments for later so you can share them with your friends.

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#13

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Never make someone sorry they did something nice for you.

GhengisKhe , Eric E Castro Report

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And if you ever do a favor to someone NEVER EVER, throw that to their face, if you do a favor, you do it and it " dies " there, you don't f*****g use it for leverage later, thats not a favor, thats a f*****g service.

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#14

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” "Don't F**k With Someone Who Handles Your Food"

Sal9 , jim Report

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Headless Roach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@Zara, you see this? This tentacle used to belong to someone who could not keep his mouth shut about stealing some roach legs.

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#15

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” "Try not to cause an inconvenience to someone else."

The reasoning behind every legit rule can rely on that.

Drewbus , vloss Report

#16

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” if you don't know the other guy, downward nod. If you are friends, upwards nod.

ThePeskyWabbit , nikkirjakub Report

#17

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If you notice that someone has a visible booger protruding from their nose...quietly let them know so they don't embarrass themselves for the rest of the night. Same goes for ladies whose makeup may have gone awry.

amroki96 , Dan4th Nicholas Report

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Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many folks dont do this and let whomever just go about their business with said booger hanging off them. I've stopped strangers in a mall letting them know their zipper is undone, or that poor waitress who's nipple was showing in a very busy bar and NO ONE told her!.. I puled her aside and said 'I'm not sure if you want it showing but.. ahem, your nipple is peeking out'...she was mortified as no it wasnt deliberate. (I thought maybe it could have been a ploy for more tips, one never knows)

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Your phone's microphone is right next to your mouth during normal use. Using your outdoor voice does not improve call clarity.

nothreaux , Tim Parkinson Report

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Lisa H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone please tell my Dad this. I can't get through to him. He is hard of hearing, but HE doesn't need to shout into the phone.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” When you're a talkative person and someone that you're trying to chat up is only giving 1-word answers, stop talking to that person

ClassieLady , Kars Alfrink Report

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Headless Roach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This may not sound like me, but offline I don't say much. Please do talk to me all you want. If I'm not in the mood, I'll walk away.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Never touch buttons when in somebody's car. If you want to change the song or turn on the heater, ask the driver if it is OK to do so. They know how everything in their car works to ensure that no settings get f****d up.

DaBahoo , dave_7 Report

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Christoph
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

passengers can do whatever they want in my car when I am driving. Climate and music wise

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If you are my roommate, I don't mind sharing my sh*t with you - but do not use up all of something I bought, and then not tell me. Because when I go to make a sandwich and all my cheese is gone and I had no idea, I'm going to be really annoyed.

TheEmsleyan , flamingo331 Report

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Sleepflower
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't imagine helping myself to someone else's food full stop, let alone helping myself, using the last of something and not replacing it.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Serious answer: Don't speak ill of someone's deceased friends or family.

Not-serious answer: Don't sit *right* next to me at a movie theatre when there's a ton of seats open. Go creep somewhere else, Mr.Herman.

EDIT: Americans don't have assigned seating in movie theaters, which apparently, many Europeans do.

Ihavenocomments , Thomas Widmann Report

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LH25
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More of our US theaters are getting assigned seating. I like that a lot, since I've had to get picky about where I sit based on my and my mother's mobility issues.

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#23

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Phone calls: If the call gets disconnected for ANY reason, the person who originally made the call should be the one to call back.

mortimer_the_moose , Brave New Films Report

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Headless Roach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, that's not why I 'a c c i d e n t a l l y' disconnected the call

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” You're supposed to hold the door when you walk in after someone. Not just leave them there to hold the door for the stampede of people after you. It's a pass-off deal.

[deleted] , Aure Séguier Report

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Thegoodboi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was taught to get the next door if there is one so that the previous holder had a door held for them.

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#25

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” The last piece of gum in a pack is reserved for the owner of the pack.

SerArysOakheart , Marcus Quigmire Report

#26

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Just open your f*****g can of soda/bag of chips. It will make noise no matter what; make it quick.

BaconIsAFruit , bobbsled Report

#27

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” This is a work related one.

Just because my office is closest to the printer, does not mean I am there to fix it for you or tell you how it works. I figured it out, so can you.

Astromachine , Tracie Hall Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” When you know someone is unleashing a torpedo in the same public washroom and you are washing your hands, use the air dryer instead of paper towels.

It helps nervous people.

FirenMedic , Josh Graciano Report

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Headless Roach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or just leave with your hands still wet. Air Dryers have a universe of happy clingy bacteria on their own.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Refilling the Brita if you kill it.

mynameisvance , Tatsuo Yamashita Report

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Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thars just sheer laziness if one cant refill.. like not refilling the toilet paper roll.. it literally takes seconds of ones life to do these things 😁

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” When in a busy place and walking at a leisurely pace, for f***'s sake, stay to the right. Or at least try to get single-file with the other dawdlers.

miranders , MelisaTG Report

#31

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” * Don't kill people.
* Don't eat people.
* Don't eat poop.

anon , m01229 Report

#32

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Give firm handshakes, please.

Uniqueorn , EU2016 SK Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” You cannot call "Shotgun" unless the vehicle is in sight.

reelbigfishtml , NatalieMaynor Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Don't eat a nature valley bar over my just-vacuumed carpet.

legaljargonguy , Elliott P. Report

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Alison Hell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those are so crumbly and messy.. .not a good idea to eat in a vehicle either..you'll be finding crumbs until the end of time.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Nobody ever told me this, but deep in my heart I feel I'm not supposed to lick strangers whom I like.

tupungato , DariaV Report

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Thegoodboi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does it count if you're a pup? Because I very much want to lick your cheeto hands please and thanks..

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#37

If you can avoid it, please stop touching me on the train. Stopstopstop.

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Always get your round of drinks. Don't be *that* guy. He's a d**k.

septicman , 2Tales Report

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Always thank the bus driver.

Ketchup, mayonnaise and other sauces at the late night fast food establishment must be provided free of charge.

No eye contact on the tube.

Stand on the right of the escalator.

You can't go for a s**t in nightclubs. In the toilets or indeed anywhere else.

Try not to go for a s**t on National Express coaches or similar.

Queue properly.

When waiting to be served at the pub and the bar staff attempts to serve you before another patron who has been waiting longer, you must indicate you wish them to be served first with a slight tip of the head/hand gesture and a gruff 'him first mate/love'.

Don't eat a McDonalds/Burger King/chicken tikka masala pasty on a crowded/hot train.

If someone spills their pint on you in the pub, don't make a fuss. Instead laugh it off as that person might be you in 2 hours' time (this one is sometimes difficult but rewarding).

Don't be silly.

EDIT: Brain fart re: which side of escalator you stand on. 60 years ago that sort of mistake would out a man as a German spy.

ShockTictacs , Dave Collier Report

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Libstak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with most except the toilet, when you gotta go you gotta go. Everybody shits. Not everybody has the same capacity to hold their shits. Get over it all you holier than thou, I know you s**t too and will for the rest of your lives. When you get the inevitable runs at some point let's see how you feel about your stupid rules then. Having said that, keep it freak8ng clean and don't leaveparcels for others to deal with.

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#40

35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” Don't talk to the pitcher in the latter stages of a no-hitter

anon , Dan Gaken Report

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Michael Largey
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Instead spend your time doing your job and helping him get a no-hitter. (In the spring of my senior year of high school, I achieved twenty-seven strike-outs in a row. So I ended up not going to the prom.)

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If you own a luxury car, you can't put bumper stickers on it.

soullessworkerdrone , Luca Masters Report

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DennyS (denzoren)
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a coexist sign (windshield not bumper) but my car is far from a luxury vehicle. Lol

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35 People Answer "What Is The Most Important/Biggest Unspoken Rule You Know?” If you're a guy and walking beside a male friend and you brush his hand, do not look at him or say anything just act like nothing happened.

anon , meaduva Report

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Robert B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lean over slightly and quietly ask “did we just have a moment?”

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