People Are Sharing “Unwritten Rules” Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers)

Recently, Reddit user u/0_7_0 decided to find out what are the prime examples of common sense.

On July 13, they made a post on r/AskReddit, asking people "What is one 'unwritten rule' that you believe everyone should know and follow?" And it blew up.

As of this article, u/0_7_0's question has received over 3,400 comments, many of which are valuable tidbits we all should listen to. Here are some of the most upvoted ones.

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If I show you a picture on my phone, don't go swiping sideways.

Soft-Problem , bruce mars Report

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pusheen buttercup 3 years ago

Can't upvote that enough!

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Michelle M 3 years ago

Most mothers are guilty of this

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Rabbit Carrot 3 years ago

Not just mother’s, everyone!

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Hermione 3 years ago

Why would people want to look at all your photos? I can’t think of anything less interesting -unless you’ve done something extraordinary.

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Leslie Burleson 3 years ago

Lol , my son did that last week and saw a boobie pic that I sent my husband . He still hasn't recovered lmfao . That's what you get for swiping

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WildBerry 3 years ago

But did you see all the d**k pics he has on his phone? LOL

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Ivana 3 years ago

So I have a d**k pic on my phone. One night I dressed my husband's member up in a top hat and a monocle and drew a face for him with a little suit. You can't tell it is a d**k pic from first glance. But I hand my phone to my MIL and tell her not to scroll. A few moments later she says, "This is so cute. What is this?" And I glance over and scream, "Karen, I told you not to scroll!" I watched as her face went from confusion, to realization, to horror. She screams out and tosses my phone across to room where it lands on the sofa. I have no regrets. LOL

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denzoren 3 years ago

Exactly, unless I specifically say...you can swipe. I don't want you to see the 50 pics I took of me and my cat dressed as star wars characters.

7points

Jjiinnee 3 years ago

Literally everyone does this at work. So much so I dont let them hold my phone.

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Firedog810 3 years ago

one way to fix that when you do show a photo is to zoom in a little tiny bit, that way when they try to swipe, it won't work

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moose man 2 years ago (edited)

youre holding it wrong. i can still tell thats an iphone 7

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moeless 3 years ago

We need an app that puts something truly horrible on each side of the pic you intend to show. Something like Rashida Tlaib or similar would be perfect.

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ソーシャルメディア 3 years ago

I feel uncomfortable when people try to grab my phone

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Riddhi⭐ 3 years ago

YESSSSSSS

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Mark Kelly 3 years ago (edited)

How can someone even touched something of someone's like that without permission?

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v 3 years ago

Don't let the other person actually hold your phone.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

Well, anyone who g ets my phone to look at a picture can swipe left all they want. It's all going to be nature and dogs. Worst case there's a random person in nature, with a dog.

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Grace Geronime 3 years ago

If you do it it’s plain rude and your just being nosy

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Ivesx 3 years ago

for real! im showing you ONE photo. not all of them.

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Starbelly Eleven 3 years ago

And don't take the phone from me to look at it. Don't touch my phone.

1point

Jon S. 3 years ago

I don't have a smart phone. What does this mean?

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-asexual_axolotl- 3 years ago

It means if someone shows you a photo on their phone, don't go looking through all their pictures. Hope that helps!

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~hUmMuS vIbEs~ 3 years ago

Yes! This and if someone's texting in front of you, don't look at their messages or comment on them e.g. "who are you texting?" That's just rude and none of your business.

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WildBerry 3 years ago

If the person I'm meeting with for dinner pulls out their phone and starts texting, they had better be prepared for me to ask who they're texting and why. Because texting in some situations is extremely rude.

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Adam C 3 years ago

Zoom in little. Then you will notice when the person is swiping.

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Smelli Mel 3 years ago

If I'm going to show my phone to someone I know notoriously swipes further. I make sure I have a pic of bare boobs or butt. The face they get when they swipe too far is priceless. 😂

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backatya 3 years ago

why not that's how you see the nudes shes been taking lol

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Gregg Bender 3 years ago

That's why I don't hand people my phone.

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Baali Venomax 3 years ago

only applicable if you have a smartphone. I'll have to remember this if I ever get one

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Tiffiny 3 years ago

I place those photos in a “show and tell” album. Then I just open the album to show the pictures to whoever. They can only swipe to photos that are in the album.

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Jason Jason 3 years ago

do not touch anyones phone ! rule of thumb just view what the owner of phone sees

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8Pillows 3 years ago

had a coworker do this after I specifically asked her not to. After I called her out for it, she didn't speak to me for a year.

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Dorothy Cloud 3 years ago

Maybe this is another reason why I should NOT get a cell phone!

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Kris “ADHD_Carrier” Dudoich 3 years ago

Wow, I feel old. I've shown a lot of people pictures on my phone and never had ONE swipe on it.

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ra tlau 3 years ago

i really hate it when people do that

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HungryUnicorn 3 years ago

YES!

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NWB 3 years ago

Mother in laws need this rule more than most!

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Paradox Skye 3 years ago

I was shocked when my colleague did this!

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Nick Kutzko 3 years ago

You don’t want your friends to see your cash and prizes?

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Mad Haberdasheress 3 years ago

And if you do, I'm not apologizing for what you see, lol!

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Leigh C. 3 years ago

Or don't grab someone's phone or put your hands all over the screen.

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s. vitkovitsky 3 years ago

P!ease stop showing me pictures on yer damn phone!

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Keyy 3 years ago

seriously

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Clearly sunny 3 years ago

True.

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Metaniel 3 years ago

I always ask

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is wearing headphones and is clearly keeping to themselves, leave them alone!

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Don't litter. It's really not hard to just not litter

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't watch loud videos on your phone at a restaurant. Can't believe this isn't common courtesy anymore

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow something, return it in the same condition

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is giving you a ride, you should be ready at the door before they get there. It’s so rude to have someone waiting on you when they are doing you a favor by picking you up

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The 'wave' of thank you when someone lets you in while driving in traffic. It's just polite

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Put the shopping cart back where it GOES!

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Just because you know someone who does something for a living, that doesn't automatically mean they owe you a discount if you ask for their services.

mstaff388 , Allef Vinicius Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you want to go for a hike and listen to music, come with earphones or headphones. Don't blast loud music.

AgeOfWomen , sweetlouise Report

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#11

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Quit pissing on public toilet seats. And if you do, at least have the decency to wipe it up

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#12

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Chew with your mouth closed.

alhern112 , ederick Medina Report

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#13

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't just show up randomly at someone's house. Call, text, or otherwise reach out and positivity confirm that it's okay before heading to someone else's home.

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#14

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you have a complaint with a retail store or business, please remember that the person you are speaking too (or yelling at sadly) is just the one that happened to pick up the phone or is standing at the till. they likely have nothing to do with what went wrong and have little sway in what can be done to help. They dont need to be yelled and screamed at for something they did not do or is under the control of a corporate office/higher up.

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#15

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don’t touch pregnant people’s bellies.

What is it about being pregnant that suddenly makes other people feel entitled to touch you without asking.

saturdazzzed , Felipe Bustillo Report

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#16

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) PERSONAL SPACE (even when not in a pandemic)

keri112493 , Austin Distel Report

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#17

Don't leave perishable items in random aisles or at the checkout. You're wasting food and driving prices up.

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Stand back before boarding a bus, subway, metro, or elevator so that those on can get off quickly without having to wait for you to back up first

Lightmareman , Petar Avramoski Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) On an escalator, stand on the right so people can walk on the left.

ChicagoSocs , Geri Chapple Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If u borrow even a damn dollar and promise to bring it back, bring it back

Tinny_fluff_kitty , Blogging Guide Report

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#21

Double flush if you must. Nobody wants to see your poop crumbs.

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#22

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never comment a person's weight, if they lost it, if they gained some. It's just very rude either way.

Product School Report

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392points

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#23

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't talk loudly on the phone while you're in public transportation, it's super uncomfortable for everyone

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390points

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#24

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Wear deodorant if you are out in public

kyogre120 , ana_essentiels Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Give up your seat to the pregnant lady on the bus/train (or to anyone else who needs it. Don't take up two seats because you like to put your feet/bag up).

Gherkinstein , Sigfrid Lundberg Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never ask a person if they're pregnant. It's just rude and you never know their medical history.

Nylos Report

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318points

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#27

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow a friends car or truck, always return it with a full tank of gas.

nraasch19 , SnapwireSnaps Report

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#28

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The last one to go to bed has to turn all the lights off

Rebeca2277 , Emma Fabbri Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When someone else is paying the bill, you shouldn't order something very pricey. (It's understandable if something expensive is the only thing you are able to eat.)

yomomma1000 , Blake Wisz Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you are shopping/looking for clothes and suddenly decide you don't want it anymore, put it back where you found it. Don't just dump it somewhere — it makes life hard for both workers who are cleaning up and the customers looking for something to buy.

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If you make an appointment and can’t keep it, cancel or let someone know. I manage sales for a car dealership and we thrive on appointments. We understand things come up, just let us know. That simple gesture goes a long way.

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#32

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If your advice or opinion wasn’t asked for, don’t give it.

heyNOTathrowawy , Mimi Thian Report

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#33

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you are going to talk with someone about your problems/issues, do a quick check-in first. Like, 'Are you in a good space for me to talk this out with you?' I’ve used it a few times, and I think just the basic courtesy of asking is such a relief to people!

lucille1234 , Andrea Tummons Report

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#34

The last of any food/drink is reserved for whoever bought said food/drink

Always leave stuff cleaner than it was when you got to it (campsites, AirBnBs, anything shared with people really)

L0NE_ Report

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219points

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#35

If someone can't fix an aspect of their appearance in five minutes or less, don't mention it.

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#36

If you’re about to turn the light on in a dark room and someone is there, you have to announce what you’re about to do so the person doesn’t get a surprise. I feel like it’s really disrespectful to turn the light on without announcing it

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When walking through a store, treat the aisles like lanes on a road. Keep to the right.

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#38

Don't bombard people with a ton of taking when they obviously feel tired and overwhelmed, they are having enough trouble with their own stuff, to deal with all of your stuff.

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161points

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never drink the last beer if you didn't buy them.

Digital_loop , kazuend Report

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Always space out by one urinal in the restroom.

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Serial pacifist 3 years ago

Also, if someone doesn't speak your language, don't yell the words at them. They are not def, they just don't understand you

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Evil Little Thing 3 years ago

Deaf

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Steve Barnett 3 years ago (edited)

The Golden Rule: Treat others as one wants to be treated.

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Katherine Boag 3 years ago

The platinum rule: treat others as they want to be treated. Something you think is polite and respectful might be insulting to them

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Verena Abt 3 years ago

Not everyone wants to be treated the way I want to be treated!

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Joe Alcocer 3 years ago (edited)

Remember the Golden Rule: He who has the Gold, Makes the RULES!!

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Nevits Yibble 3 years ago (edited)

The golden rule is flawed. Don't treat people how you want to be treated. Treat people how THEY want to be treated. How I prefer to be vs. how someone else does in a given situation can be very different. It isn't about me.

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Zephyr Anthem 3 years ago

And if people keep treating you bad, treat them the same way

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jjdubs W 3 years ago

I think this could be a much longer list. For example, 1. If it's down to two ice cubes, refill the tray. 2. It someone is using their turn signal (that is, you can figure out what they want), let them merge. 3. If something is running out (paper, toilet paper, cold beverages) and you know how to refill it and there's that item available, refill it. 4. Unless you have a mask on, sneeze into your dang elbow already. 5. If someone smiles and says hello or good morning, say it back. A less obvious one: 1. Don't tell a parent of a special needs child how to better help their child --especially if you don't know the situation very well. I would say even if you do know it well. You have no idea how challenging it is to manage this and having random suggestions (some of which logically aren't even possible, in conjunction with other suggestions) is even worse. There's more, but I'll stop.

28points

Jayne Kyra 3 years ago

The original post on Reddit is much longer: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ojm9te/what_is_one_unwritten_rule_that_you_believe/

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Sarah Baldwin 3 years ago

👏👏👏👏👏👏

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Cheri Aline Sydney 3 years ago

I think you'll find life much more enjoyable if you don't sweat all the small stuff!

2points

Jared Leto 3 years ago

Yes that right

1point

Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

DON’T CLIP YOUR &!#*^%! NAILS IN PUBLIC! 🤢🤢🤢

14points

Deena Salzman 3 years ago

Don't even clip them in front of your roommate! Yuck.

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Annabelle 3 years ago (edited)

Asking a woman in their thirties why they don’t have kids (I even have patients asking me that question). Hurts me everytime.

10points

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

Try saying "Erm, probably because I've never given birth to one."

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Joe Seibert 3 years ago

Pick up after your dogs.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

Yes! And also after your kids. If they need to 'go' in the woods (hiking for example), have the decency to bury the paper and any big business they leave. Honestly, as a person working in forests, that's way worse than dog-s**t. Which is already bad. But person-poop? And person-poop-stained toilet-paper? Dis-gusting! (Obviously the same goes for anyone's poop.)

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Craig Silberman 3 years ago

all of these are common sense or things your parents should have taught you; none are "unwritten rules" that anyone reading this didn't already know

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shado 3 years ago

thank-you ... was beginning to seriously wonder about people out there after reading some of these

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Leigh C. 3 years ago

If someone, particularly female, is genuinely expressing pain, NEVER say "But you've given birth, right" or ask "Have you had a baby?" WTF kind of question is that, anyways? Are mothers expected to feel no pain after they've given birth for rest of their lives. IV without anesthetic are very painful. More painful than birth.

6points

Johnny Rodriguez 3 years ago

Alternative name for this list: What 'What kids should already know when they become teenager'..

6points

Mike Loux 3 years ago

This might not be an issue soon with Delta numbers on the rise, but don't ask someone why they're still wearing a mask in public. They might be immuno-deficient; they might just feel better wearing one (or being polite).

4points

Don't Look 3 years ago

Have you actually had this problem? I'm just wondering. I haven't yet. I wear a mask because I genuinely enjoyed not being sick at all last year. No one has bothered me yet. Gonna see what happens next week at AirVenture...

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Roald VandeMunt 3 years ago

Politeness, decency, empathy. Apply those 3 and solve 90% of the above.

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Heather Menard 3 years ago

Do not heat up fish in break room microwave.

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VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago

Also, idk if this was added or not I kinda skimmed the article, DONT TOUCH ME. I really hate being touched unless I say you can touch me, or your like my mom. But that’s it. And if your a sibling or a stranger, I will not hesitate to punch/slap you if you touch me. Respect people’s space. Don’t be an idiot. Also, quick thing, if someone comes out as gay/lesbian/bi or whatever, please don’t make a big deal about their sexuality. I have a friend who just came out as lesbian, and she told our mutual friend who then proceeded to make a big deal of it and just make things generally awkward. Unless they say the want it to be a big deal, don’t make it one.

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Donkey 3 years ago

Don't sleep with someone's partner. Just cos they're a shitty human, doesn't mean you have to be as well

3points

Todd Hunter 3 years ago

The store shelf or table is not your garbage can. No one that works in that store is there to clean up your mess, grow up and put your coffee cup, water bottle away yourself.

3points

fainasKeturatis 3 years ago

emm, these are rules for 10-year-olds and alike. I always considered these bare minimum of adult ethics.

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8Pillows 3 years ago

If you're paying for something at a cashier, get off your damn phone and acknowledge that a human being is standing in front of you.

2points

David Taylor 3 years ago

Where I am in the UK, most cashiers won't serve you until you are off your phone.

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KMill 3 years ago

“I don’t mean to interrupt, but…..” If you don’t mean to interrupt, then don’t.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

"I don't mean to interrupt, but is that your house on fire over there?"

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Tobin Kern 3 years ago

All of these are basic things a good parent teaches their kids. 1 generation of parents teaching kids to respect themselves and others and this world would improve so much!

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MrOwlAteMyMetalWorm. 3 years ago (edited)

DON'T BE AN ASSHOLE. article over.

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Indra Servo 3 years ago

Karen :"but....but.....I have rights to be asshole"

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Christina Uhlir 3 years ago

Many common sense, polite, considerate points which.........jerks will not follow. Waste of time.

1point

Robsaint 3 years ago

Wash up after yourself! You use something, don’t just leave it in the sink. Especially at work!

1point

Robsaint 3 years ago

Needs to be the toilet roll rule here too. When replacing the roll it should roll away from the wall. Over not under!

1point

Not Proud British 3 years ago

If you book a table in a restaurant and your plans change. Phone them and cancel. Restaurants lose loads of money by having no-shows. I don't understand it - it's just one damn phone call or email. That's it. Why wouldn't you cancel???

1point

Mishte Tine 3 years ago

Waiting in line: Do not make a person in front of you feel uncomfortable with agitated, impatient body language. Even if they are doing something wrong buying a full cart of items in 15 or less aisle, or they’re taking to long (for you). You never know what their life is like. The elderly could be having memory issues, someone may have just gotten a cancer diagnosis, is in extreme pain, etc…. I tend to be as polite as possible when in public, but I really learned about this after two simultaneous major traumas (one physical, one not) and I had real difficulty. I was rude at times without even noticing it - something I would *never* do otherwise. This works with driving too. Just imagine the person causing an annoyance (as you see it), make up a story for them. Even help if appropriate. It really helps.

1point

Diemond Star 3 years ago

Please leave a tip for your server.

1point

Ninn Kynok 2 3 years ago

Or: 1. Pay staff a decent wage, 2. Don't impose your flawed system on other cultures.

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

Some of these are fine, but a lot of them are some people thinking they have the authority to define social norms for the entire world. If you don't like something, okay, but it doesn't mean that everyone thinks like you, so don't tell us not to do something.

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Brian Early 3 years ago

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Tapio Magnussen 3 years ago

Summary: education and public spirit.

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Monica Pryts 3 years ago

I can't believe we have to remind adults of stuff like "keep your hands to yourself."

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Myriam Ickx 3 years ago

Most of those advices are so basic that I wonder in which rude society the people who gave them live that they need to state such obvious things. All this is elementary courtesy/decency of living in a society and should have been told them by their parents.

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L. Lawrence 3 years ago

(My first post ever) People know it's rude to be late, but not that it is equally rude to show up early. The person you're meeting may think they still have 15 minutes to shower or finish up whatever they are doing. So if you are supposed to be there at 6pm....don't show up at 5:45 unless you get the all clear.

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

all European working class men (hourly workers) who come over to the US to work on loan from your companies back in Germany or France, take note: in the US, you are expected to shower or bathe every day, wear deodorant, and wear fresh clothes. This is practiced by all working men in the US. Workers from Germany come over here to Texas to work at the Bayer plant. They have to take an orientation class, "Working in Texas" its called. The first bullet point of a long list is to bathe every day and wear fresh clothes. Working men in Germany may only take a thorough bath once every month. They think it is enough to towel off at the end of the day with a wet towel and to wear yesterday's smelly clothes. A frenchie electrician came over here to commission a generator plant with equipment sold by a french firm. He never got the message, even after US workers left "presents" on his desk of bar soap & deodorant. The US workers called him "Monsieur Steenkeey" (Mr. Stinky) after a while. This goes for you Australian working men also. Come on, guys, bathe or shower. Wear fresh clothes. Okay?

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jk nbt 3 years ago

side note: I met a british working man once who did not appreciate the advice. He said, "Now listen here, you bleedin' colonial: I bathe once a year whether I need it or not". A**hole....

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shado 3 years ago

far too many KARENS out there, making life much more complicated than it needs to be ... remember when good old COMMON SENSE used to get you through most everything?

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Natalie Oleander 3 years ago

It's sad that basic manners and respect are so foreign these days. Is no one teaching this anymore?? This was a huge deal when I was a kid. My mom made sure I was polite and respectful in all cases.

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shado 3 years ago

kind of expected with babies having babies - younger and younger parents don't have the skills or time to teach these days so this is what you get

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Catherine Brady 3 years ago

These were all great ideas.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

Don't be offended if other people don't feel like you do. Some people might actually LIKE other people.

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skint boy 3 years ago

Here is an unwritten rule - dont steal other people's stuff. Like for example how bored panda steals reddit and twitter stuff all the time. like this 'article'

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Tracy Sellars 3 years ago

The hardest one of all to master be respectful of everything and everyone. We are all guilty at times of failing this one, but it is one we should try to master.

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Ka Se 3 years ago

Definetly missing: If a public service vehicle stops: Let the people leave BEFORE you try to get inside!!!

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John Dough 3 years ago

Uh. That was on the list.

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Robert Thompson 3 years ago

If you are not busy and want to talk...talk, but don't get in my way while I am listening to you and getting ready for work.

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Heather Menard 3 years ago

Do not date a friend's ex

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Jarrod Nichols 3 years ago

For God's sake, courtesy flush!

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jpaul 3 years ago

1/ if you ask for a job, and get hired, don't miss work until you're very ill. Your salary falls only because your boss company is running. 2/ Don't buy stuff if not really needed. You'll get bored of it, and it pollutes. Also aim for more expensive, but more durable stuff

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John Dough 3 years ago

You mean don't miss work unless you are ill, even slightly. Going into work sick gets everyone else sick and costs the company more than if you just stayed home.

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Nevits Yibble 3 years ago (edited)

If you're on an expressway entrance ramp, YOU need to accelerate and safely merge with the rest of traffic. We're going full speed and have the right-of-way - don't just cut in front of us at half the speed we're driving.

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marianne eliza 3 years ago

Learn about and use the courtesy flush when using public restrooms. It covers noise and reduces odors by quickly removing offending matter.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

The what now? What's a courtesy-flush?

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ChinmayGhule 3 years ago

Boredpanda is just stealing stuff from reddit and posting it in another fashion.

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Ninn Kynok 2 3 years ago

That's their business described in one sentence!

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Sky Render 3 years ago

Use your turn signal, other drivers can't read your mind. Also, if you see someone trying to merge ahead of you, don't speed up to get past them before they can do so; that's a great way to get sideswiped.

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Demi Zwaan 3 years ago

Ah, if only being a parent required some basic knowledge of parenting and good morals. But alas, every nutcase can breed and feed a child and no one intervenes if they don't actually raise the child. Leaving us with many people who need stupid posts like this to learn basic human decency (and then don't, because they don't read it or don't care).

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First Name Last Name 3 years ago

#41 If it is on reddit, leave it on reddit. If it is on Facebook, leave it on Facebook. There is no point to calling your website SleepyZebra or something if all that is on it is reposts from some other site(s). Might as well call it RedditReposts or FacebookFunnies if you aren't going to post anything original.

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First Name Last Name 3 years ago

#42 Don't assume that someone who disagrees with you or doesn't approve of what you do hates you. That is illogical and usually wrong.

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DC 3 years ago

List could be longer. Or shorter - whoever you interact with, talk it through. Whatever you agree on, do exactly that. Retalk if it don't work out well.

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Life is ? 3 years ago (edited)

Ha ha. Some weirdo just turned 18 and read a book on etiquette and wrote this.

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Serial pacifist 3 years ago

Also, if someone doesn't speak your language, don't yell the words at them. They are not def, they just don't understand you

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Evil Little Thing 3 years ago

Deaf

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Steve Barnett 3 years ago (edited)

The Golden Rule: Treat others as one wants to be treated.

37points

Katherine Boag 3 years ago

The platinum rule: treat others as they want to be treated. Something you think is polite and respectful might be insulting to them

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Verena Abt 3 years ago

Not everyone wants to be treated the way I want to be treated!

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Joe Alcocer 3 years ago (edited)

Remember the Golden Rule: He who has the Gold, Makes the RULES!!

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Nevits Yibble 3 years ago (edited)

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Zephyr Anthem 3 years ago

And if people keep treating you bad, treat them the same way

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jjdubs W 3 years ago

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Jayne Kyra 3 years ago

The original post on Reddit is much longer: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ojm9te/what_is_one_unwritten_rule_that_you_believe/

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Sarah Baldwin 3 years ago

👏👏👏👏👏👏

2points

Cheri Aline Sydney 3 years ago

I think you'll find life much more enjoyable if you don't sweat all the small stuff!

2points

Jared Leto 3 years ago

Yes that right

1point

Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

DON’T CLIP YOUR &!#*^%! NAILS IN PUBLIC! 🤢🤢🤢

14points

Deena Salzman 3 years ago

Don't even clip them in front of your roommate! Yuck.

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Annabelle 3 years ago (edited)

Asking a woman in their thirties why they don’t have kids (I even have patients asking me that question). Hurts me everytime.

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

Try saying "Erm, probably because I've never given birth to one."

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Joe Seibert 3 years ago

Pick up after your dogs.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

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Craig Silberman 3 years ago

all of these are common sense or things your parents should have taught you; none are "unwritten rules" that anyone reading this didn't already know

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shado 3 years ago

thank-you ... was beginning to seriously wonder about people out there after reading some of these

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Leigh C. 3 years ago

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Johnny Rodriguez 3 years ago

Alternative name for this list: What 'What kids should already know when they become teenager'..

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Mike Loux 3 years ago

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Don't Look 3 years ago

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Roald VandeMunt 3 years ago

Politeness, decency, empathy. Apply those 3 and solve 90% of the above.

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Heather Menard 3 years ago

Do not heat up fish in break room microwave.

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VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago

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Donkey 3 years ago

Don't sleep with someone's partner. Just cos they're a shitty human, doesn't mean you have to be as well

3points

Todd Hunter 3 years ago

The store shelf or table is not your garbage can. No one that works in that store is there to clean up your mess, grow up and put your coffee cup, water bottle away yourself.

3points

fainasKeturatis 3 years ago

emm, these are rules for 10-year-olds and alike. I always considered these bare minimum of adult ethics.

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8Pillows 3 years ago

If you're paying for something at a cashier, get off your damn phone and acknowledge that a human being is standing in front of you.

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David Taylor 3 years ago

Where I am in the UK, most cashiers won't serve you until you are off your phone.

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KMill 3 years ago

“I don’t mean to interrupt, but…..” If you don’t mean to interrupt, then don’t.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

"I don't mean to interrupt, but is that your house on fire over there?"

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Tobin Kern 3 years ago

All of these are basic things a good parent teaches their kids. 1 generation of parents teaching kids to respect themselves and others and this world would improve so much!

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MrOwlAteMyMetalWorm. 3 years ago (edited)

DON'T BE AN ASSHOLE. article over.

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Indra Servo 3 years ago

Karen :"but....but.....I have rights to be asshole"

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Christina Uhlir 3 years ago

Many common sense, polite, considerate points which.........jerks will not follow. Waste of time.

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Robsaint 3 years ago

Wash up after yourself! You use something, don’t just leave it in the sink. Especially at work!

1point

Robsaint 3 years ago

Needs to be the toilet roll rule here too. When replacing the roll it should roll away from the wall. Over not under!

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Not Proud British 3 years ago

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Mishte Tine 3 years ago

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Diemond Star 3 years ago

Please leave a tip for your server.

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Ninn Kynok 2 3 years ago

Or: 1. Pay staff a decent wage, 2. Don't impose your flawed system on other cultures.

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

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Tapio Magnussen 3 years ago

Summary: education and public spirit.

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Monica Pryts 3 years ago

I can't believe we have to remind adults of stuff like "keep your hands to yourself."

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Myriam Ickx 3 years ago

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L. Lawrence 3 years ago

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

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jk nbt 3 years ago

side note: I met a british working man once who did not appreciate the advice. He said, "Now listen here, you bleedin' colonial: I bathe once a year whether I need it or not". A**hole....

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shado 3 years ago

far too many KARENS out there, making life much more complicated than it needs to be ... remember when good old COMMON SENSE used to get you through most everything?

0points

Natalie Oleander 3 years ago

It's sad that basic manners and respect are so foreign these days. Is no one teaching this anymore?? This was a huge deal when I was a kid. My mom made sure I was polite and respectful in all cases.

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shado 3 years ago

kind of expected with babies having babies - younger and younger parents don't have the skills or time to teach these days so this is what you get

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Catherine Brady 3 years ago

These were all great ideas.

0points

Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

Don't be offended if other people don't feel like you do. Some people might actually LIKE other people.

0points

skint boy 3 years ago

Here is an unwritten rule - dont steal other people's stuff. Like for example how bored panda steals reddit and twitter stuff all the time. like this 'article'

0points

Tracy Sellars 3 years ago

The hardest one of all to master be respectful of everything and everyone. We are all guilty at times of failing this one, but it is one we should try to master.

0points

Ka Se 3 years ago

Definetly missing: If a public service vehicle stops: Let the people leave BEFORE you try to get inside!!!

0points

John Dough 3 years ago

Uh. That was on the list.

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Robert Thompson 3 years ago

If you are not busy and want to talk...talk, but don't get in my way while I am listening to you and getting ready for work.

0points

Heather Menard 3 years ago

Do not date a friend's ex

0points

Jarrod Nichols 3 years ago

For God's sake, courtesy flush!

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jpaul 3 years ago

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John Dough 3 years ago

You mean don't miss work unless you are ill, even slightly. Going into work sick gets everyone else sick and costs the company more than if you just stayed home.

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Nevits Yibble 3 years ago (edited)

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marianne eliza 3 years ago

Learn about and use the courtesy flush when using public restrooms. It covers noise and reduces odors by quickly removing offending matter.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik 3 years ago

The what now? What's a courtesy-flush?

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ChinmayGhule 3 years ago

Boredpanda is just stealing stuff from reddit and posting it in another fashion.

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Ninn Kynok 2 3 years ago

That's their business described in one sentence!

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Sky Render 3 years ago

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First Name Last Name 3 years ago

#42 Don't assume that someone who disagrees with you or doesn't approve of what you do hates you. That is illogical and usually wrong.

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DC 3 years ago

List could be longer. Or shorter - whoever you interact with, talk it through. Whatever you agree on, do exactly that. Retalk if it don't work out well.

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Life is ? 3 years ago (edited)

Ha ha. Some weirdo just turned 18 and read a book on etiquette and wrote this.

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