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As the world has become a more connected place, finding out about somewhere has become easier than ever. A quick online search for a country will inundate you with photos of the land, its people, outfits, food, and much more. This is all just a few clicks away, not a plane ride and a couple of thousand miles away.

However, nothing compares to visiting a place for yourself. Photos and videos can only replicate the sights and sounds of being somewhere else. Living and feeling it for yourself is an awesome sensory experience, and a personal one too.

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Scandinavia - You don't talk about religion. Got one? Good for you, but that's nothing to bring up/discuss.

Qzy , Kate Kalvach Report

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378points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

And Czech too. Probably makes their lives easier.

84points

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It’s incredibly refreshing to see everything from a new perspective and educate yourself on the wider world around us. With so many different cultures spanning the five continents, you could spend your whole life just seeing how others live their own lives.

Many people feel the same way and have committed themselves to do exactly that. Whether it’s for bringing a wider focus to small stories or simply for their own growth, sharing experiences through travel is a deeply rewarding experience.

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About We are not trying to be rude, we just don't do small talk. - Finland

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308points

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Robert T 3 years ago

Sounds like my kind of country :D

113points

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Mainland China: Do not buy traditional Chinese silk clothes and from a shop also sells wreath. (no matter how beautiful they are) Those clothes are for dead people, and that shop is a shroud shop. You have no idea how horrifying to se a foreigner wearing them and walking down the street.

rustyhalo93 Report

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292points

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Miss Cris 3 years ago

Oh, that's important! For me it also would be horrible to know I'm dressed like a dead woman at her own funeral. Thank you !!!

130points

But to get the most out of it, you need to open yourself up to new possibilities and shake off your unconscious biases. Your notions about life could be vastly different from how others in your chosen destination see the world.

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Ireland: Seriously, no one cares if you have an Irish great aunt twice removed, that absolutely does not make you Irish, and it's pretty insulting to claim otherwise.

rabbitgods Report

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288points

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Karl Baxter 3 years ago

Amen to that 😎

48points

England

Don't talk to people on the tube. Got that? The tube is as sacred to us as the shower; it is where we reminisce about our pasts in complete silence. It is a memorial to fallen dreams, a cemetery of missed opportunities, but most of all it is a sanctuary of regret. And you will treat it like a library; Sit down, shut the f**k up, read a f**king book and ignore the tears rolling down the face of the person next to you.

Don't tell anybody born north of Birmingham that Thatcher "wasn't all that bad".

We can complain about how s**te our country is all we want, but you're not allowed to. We won't protest too loudly about it and probably won't even say anything, but inside we're consulting our in-brain thesaurus for things to put in the strongly-worded letter we're going to write, expressing our discontent at your behaviour.

Final score:

276points

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Natalie 3 years ago

Do NOT jump the queue. People will be disgusted with you for years.

103points

So, when you’re a guest in another country, it’s important to remember that you’re exactly that—a guest. And this means being respectful to your hosts. Understanding the local customs will help you go a long way, so to speak, and your respect will be reciprocated. Eventually, you’ll adjust and be able to see a country just as the locals do.

On this, Dr. Asim Shah, a professor of psychiatry at Baylor College of Medicine, said, “By learning about people of different cultural backgrounds, you can increase your horizons. If you put aside any prejudices or biases you might have and you are open to other people, it can help prepare you to listen, talk and learn about other people and their cultures.”

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Finland: Do not go too near anyone. Our personal space is huge.

-manabreak , Giuseppe Milo Report

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264points

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Goth mouse (they/them) 3 years ago

I need to live here!!!

82points

AGirlNamedRoni , Priscilla Du Preez Report

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About USA...we are going to talk to you. We like to make small talk with strangers because it sometimes leads to friendships or even just perks of having acquaintances. Once we hear your accent, oh SNAP! We will have a million questions about your country. Some will seem ignorant, some will just be downright funny. Humor us.

Final score:

250points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

Well, this is nice. It's tiring to keep hearing about how loud and rude Americans are. Most people just believe the stereotype without ever meeting an American.

139points

Alexandervz , Jomjakkapat Parrueng Report

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About USA: do not pick up babies. Anywhere. I went to costco with a few Korean foreign exchange student friends and one of them picked up a baby from the cart. The mother was looking away and when she turned back I saw the instant fear in her eyes. I told my friend to put the baby down and explained to the mom that they were foreign and its okay to touch babies in Korea.

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222points

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Sara Rodrigues 3 years ago

Yeah I never saw anyone pick up babies in other countries, specially those that aren't yours or related to you!

186points

Otherwise, you might stick out like a sore thumb and instantly identify yourself as an ignorant tourist. Unfortunately, this stereotype is often applied to people of the good ol’ US of A when taking their vacations outside of the country.

Perhaps it’s their headstrong and confident nature that can be jarring to more introverted or reserved cultures. Or their animated behaviors and loud voices, previously only seen from a distance through movies and TV.

Either way, we’ve written a couple of articles specifically on it before, so be sure to check them out here and here once you’re done. Like we said though, it is just a stereotype so not every American is automatically lacking self-awareness and being disrespectful—we don’t want to be hypocrites here!

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30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About southern Italy:

Be loud

If someone is doing it, you can do it too.

Whatever you need, most people would love to help you, but usually have no clue on how to communicate with you. Make sure you appreciate the effort, no matter how clumsy.

Both guys and girls say hi with a kiss on each cheek.

No such thing as personal space.

If you're driving, be extremely careful. Everything is supposed to be an advice, not actual laws. (I mean everything is supposed to be laws, is just taken as an advice).

If you happen to have some friend's mother or grandmother cook for you, make sure you compliment her thoroughly and clearly state that you never had such an amazing meal wherever you're from (there's a reasonable chance that could actually be true).

If you're clubbing, don't randomly approach girls, unless you really know what you're doing. Guys tend to be overprotective with the girls that "belong" to their group.

If you're a girl, you're gonna get hit on no matter what. Try not to be too rude and just dismiss the guy laughing about it.

We wear shoes in the house. Unless you're hanging out with a younger crowd (then it's completely fine to get your shoes off) keep your shoes on.

You can drink wherever you please

Don't wear white socks with sandals, you're gonna be laughed at. Either wear shoes or sandals with no socks.

If you show any sort of effort of speaking Italian, you're gonna be loved for it.

I'm pretty sure this covers most of the basics, if anyone is curious we could get into more detail.

escaday , Michael Lucarelli Report

Final score:

221points

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achilles get down from there 3 years ago

Also, beware the giant tour buses taking the cliff road dog-leg turns at high speeds

38points

Grant Barke 3 years ago

Those guys are pros.

12points

Aleks 3 years ago

Northern Italy: EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE. Don't be loud; you'll be looked as crazy. Respect the other's physical space, don't get near. If you're a girl, you'll get aggressively hit, but you are free to flick off the guys or just ignore them: being complacent or nice would not stop them. Leave your shoes at the door. Don't look in the eyes the people walking around the city or the subway. Should you need directions, ask in English and everyone will be able to help you. just be nice with people, smile, say "thank you" (grazie) and you will be fine.

24points

QueenMiri 3 years ago

To all the girls: if you get hit on and you don't like it, f**k being polite. Be rude. Put them back in place. You do not need to be polite to people that make you uncomfortable. Stop teaching girls to be nice to assholes! No matter what country. Tell them to f**k off!

21points

Vicky Z 3 years ago

Exactly! I didn't get the "don't be rude" advice!! Unless is a safety advice? But still it's better to teach the men not to be assholes!

0points

blugeagua 3 years ago

"Don't be too rude" I'm sorry if I'm getting hit on when I dont want it, I'll be as "rude" as I want. Don't hit on me.

19points

Hugo Raible 3 years ago

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Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

This sorta feels like my version of hell, other than the fact htey appreciate my lousy AF Italian...

11points

Jomo 3 years ago

Such awful advice about not being rude to guys hitting on girls.....screw their precious male egos!

10points

Laura 3 years ago

Italians nd Spanish are sooo similar! I would add for both countries that we don't respect personal space. We're gonna touch you while talking to you, it doesn't mean we are flirting with you.

10points

Franc Esca 3 years ago

Very untrue. Most italians are talkative, not loud and it's considered rude to be loud. No personal space is ok ina clothes shop or among friends, not wit strangers. Downvoting this so hard.

9points

Martha Meyer 3 years ago

By central European standards you guys definitely are loud.

10points

Dado 3 years ago

Grazie, sto scemo ha scritto troppi stereotipi

7points

Mirek Hotový 3 years ago

Maybe you confuse shouting with being loud. Being loud does not mean you necessarily shout. Italians are loud and they even shout more often than other cultures when in standard argument exchange.

1point

Alexia 3 years ago (edited)

Oh, we were in Rome once and we got lost (no google maps or internet available). We entered a cafeteria to ask for directions. Apart from the person we asked, another 3 or 4 people started talking to us simultaneously, with large gestures and very enthusiastic expressions. I was unable to follow any of them :)))) We thanked them, said goodbye for a few minutes (because all of them had something to add) and left. Once in the street, we burst into laughter. "Did you get the directions?" my friend asked. "No, but they were sweet" :)))

5points

Janine B. 3 years ago

😂 Cute story.

2points

Sandra Tanios 3 years ago

Gotta love the Italians!!!

5points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Omg Italy sounds amazing!!

4points

S 3 years ago

Went to Italy for a while after I graduated high school. Hands down my favorite place to be. The people, the culture, the architecture, the food, THE WINE. Amazing.

4points

Miss Cris 3 years ago (edited)

Most of them are fine in Spain, too. Also, if someone is trying to talk to you in your language but you don't understand anything, just make a big smile and say "yes" with your head. And never, never, never say anything not good about local food (that's easy because it's always excellent). If you don't know about what to talk, don't do small talk, talk about food or football (we take it very seriously, it's never small talk). Be always xtra deferencial for elders and take care of all children, not only yours.

4points

Chris Yuen 3 years ago

Also in Italy, you talk with your habds

4points

Carla Serafi 3 years ago

Io personalmente ( sono del sud Italia) bacio sulla guancia solo persone che conosco! È solo se mi trovo a mio agio con loro, e non in questo periodo di pandemia.

2points

Valter Giardini 3 years ago

A sentire questi, noi italiani passiamo il tempo a sbaciucchiarci sulle guance, a insidiare le donzelle (meglio se straniere) e a urlarci dietro: ce l'hanno su con noi perché siamo la culla delle LORO civiltà.

1point

Glirpy 3 years ago

“Don’t be mad when I plant my shin squarely between your balls for hitting on me. It’s going to happen no matter what.”

2points

King Kashue 3 years ago

Guys, don't talk to girls because they *belong* to other guys. Girls, when guys talk to you - and they 100% will - don't do anything to suggest that's not okay. Vaffanculo with that s**t.

2points

Anthony Nizza 3 years ago

Now I would fit in wonderfully in southern Italy!!! I'm from the US but I'm Italian and Sicilian and would love to go there.

2points

Jill Ferguson 3 years ago

What is it with the shoes in the house? I don’t get it?

2points

BastWren 3 years ago

Different customs for different countries. Or in some countries it depends on the area or the household, like in the US. I don't wear shoes indoors, but many people I know do. The US is simply too large to have any national agreement on things like shoes on or off. To each their own.

1point

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François Carré 3 years ago

Once I was driving in Italy, I remember pointlessly stopping at a red light everybody but me was going through, while off the road two motorcycle cops (a man and a woman, both really good-looking) were flirting together, completely ignoring the traffic.

2points

Valter Giardini 3 years ago

Fairy tales.

0points

Tamara Kroonen 3 years ago

This country should stop making excuses for and justify sexual harrasment. You are teaching your boys the wrong morals. The girls should learn about CONSENT and self-worth. You are not a piece of meat.

1point

Valter Giardini 3 years ago

The same things hapened in every corner of the Europe, not only in Italy.

0points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

And you don't need to tip

1point

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Oops wrong country, forgive me

0points

Sandra Sansolino 3 years ago

No, you cannot drink wherever you want. We have laws about it, but nobody seems to care for it.

1point

Valter Giardini 3 years ago

In che senso? A me sembra che si possa bere ovunque e ne è prova il cimitero di bottiglie di birra vuote nel parco sotto casa mia.... negli U.S.A. questo non si può fare e ti arrestano se bevi una birra in pubblico. Di quali leggi parlavi?

1point

F. H. 3 years ago

The traffic rules really are suggestions. On a school trip a policeman lead pointed to our driver that he should go through the wrong side of a one way street to save some time.

1point

Katchen 3 years ago

So these are both true: “don’t randomly approach girls” and “if you’re a girl you’re gonna get hit on.” Thanks but no thanks.

1point

Denise Melek 3 years ago

Ok, i think I prefer Finnland.

0points

Rosemary Moreland 3 years ago

I think I might love Itsly

0points

McWiggins 3 years ago

... is there any country where you can pull off white socks with sandals? XD

0points

Robert St. Thomas 3 years ago

Be careful what you do with your hands.

0points

Jace 3 years ago

My dad’s side of the family is southern Italian and they’ve mostly been loud as hell. My dad is loud when he talks. I’m loud when I’m emotionally riled up. It has resulted in endless annoyance to others. Yet, Americans are goddamned loud themselves. The difference is ... I don’t even know. Hierarchy? The specific people I’ve had in my life who don’t like me being passionate about things? I have never understood and I was born in this place.

0points

𝔓𝔲𝔯𝔭𝔩𝔢𝔓𝔞𝔫𝔡𝔞ℜ𝔞𝔢N 3 years ago

💖❗💖❗💖❗💖❗💖❗🇮🇹

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memyselfandI 3 years ago

Don’t wear socks with sandals in public in America either. Just no.

0points

BasedWang 3 years ago (edited)

As a half Sicilian American who also visited Italy, I can say I observed almost ALL of this and it totally shows even thru the generations. And our tour guide told us the same thing about the signs and "laws" and ended it with "Pedestrians do NOT have the right of way" ....Also, no matter where you live.. If you wear socks with sandals, you are a turdgurbler

0points

Valter Giardini 3 years ago

...and don't forget, never never forget: italians do it better!

0points

Di Franks 3 years ago

keep shoes on! oh yuk, no way unless you change into house shoes.

0points

Shon 3 years ago

As an Italian, I can confirm that....... this is a collection of stereotypes which doesn't really have much basis in reality. No, we're not going to randomly hit on you if you're a girl. No, we're not going to ignore your personal space if we don't know you. No, we too think loud people are rude.

0points

Fiona Autiero 3 years ago (edited)

Do not be loud , please.

0points

Jake 3 years ago

As an American married to a Southern Italian, your description is quite correct. Thank you!

0points

v 3 years ago

"If someone is doing it, you can do it too." Which connotation am I supposed to interpret this by?

0points

John C 3 years ago

I'm pretty sure my effort at "speaking italian" will get me beat up. "Momma Mia! That'sa spicy meetball!"

0points

CatWoman312 3 years ago

I don’t do socks with sandals, but even if I did I could careless if someone laughed at me for it

0points

Niall Mac Iomera 3 years ago

"don't approach girls" "If you're a girl, you'll get approached a lot" Huh?

-1point

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30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Denmark: DO NOT STAND OR WALK IN THE BIKELANE! You will get yelled at and/or run over.

Tiralina , Bike Lane Report

Final score:

201points

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Not only in Denmark!

71points

Draculas_Dentist , Henrik Sandklef Report

#12

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About I live in Sweden.

Don't get too close to me, our personal space is rather big.

If you're taking the bus, do not ever sit down next to another person if there's other free seats.

You take your goddamn shoes off when you're inside your house or someone elses.

Final score:

197points

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Natalie 3 years ago

I think I need to move to Sweden.

47points

It does raise an important point for those traveling, however. How can we learn to be respectful of other cultures? It requires some retraining of our thoughts and some self-assessment.

For example, Susan Goldberg, the editor-in-chief of National Geographic, addressed the history of the long-running magazine and faced the accusations that their reporting in the past was feeding into clichés and stereotypes of the time. A sort of tourism of other cultures, viewed from an outsider perspective without the respect given accordingly.

So, acknowledging your own differences and seeing others with an open mind from home is a starting point. And it’s recognizing what makes us similar, not different that brings us together.

#13

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About I live in Korea. Off the top of my head:

people are going to touch / gently push / bump into you in public places, without saying anything like "excuse me" or the Korean equivalent - this is a crowded place, get used to it

small talk with clerks or whatever in public places is not expected and is downright strange

you should always be extra deferential to elders, especially if you're young (say under 30) (giving them your seat on the subway, letting them cut the line, things like that)

people will ask you your age not because they're rude, but because in Korea it's important for establishing how they should address you when they speak

lotsa complicated rules for eating and drinking which I don't have time to go into here but would if someone was interested

PDAs are frowned upon, even minor things like a long kiss

same-gender touching/hugging/holding hands is common, without there being any sort of homosexual connotation

men should avoid going shirtless in public, even when exercising or running or something like that (some guys even keep their shirts on at the beach, and not because they're overweight or something)

waynefoolx , cattan2011 Report

Final score:

191points

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Premislaus de Colo 3 years ago

and if you have a baby, someone may pick it up ;)

158points

#14

Australia

Don't pick up or touch insects - or any other kind of animal that you're not familiar with. You might end up not needing your ticket back.

DO try to put on an Australian accent. Seriously, it's hilarious for us.

This is Australia; you can do whatever the hell you like.

Stick to the marked walking tracks, don't drive your car places it's not designed to go, and if you DO want to see some really wild, memorable places off the beaten track- make sure you have an experienced friend with you, with all the gear you need. If you do have a capable 4wd, make sure you've at least used it off-road too before you try something too difficult. Your soccer mum Audi Q7 is not a capable car, leave that s**t parked beside the hair dresser where it belongs.

Final score:

170points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago (edited)

Don't swim in places that have croc, bluebottle/box jellyfish or shark warnings. But most of all, watch out for rips, they are even more deadly. Make sure you slip, slop, slap, seek and slide aka slip on a shirt, slop on sunscreen, slap on a hat, seek shade and slide on sunnies during spring and summer.

90points

#15

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Vietnam - commit to crossing the road. I know it looks scary due to the endless scooter stampede but if you just cross at a steady pace, they'll avoid you. Do not try to dodge or make sudden movements, you will get your ass hit and there will be no sympathy.

ricehatwarrior Report

Final score:

165points

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Marette 3 years ago

I experienced this first hand a few years ago... in the end a lovely man grabbed my arm & 'escorted' me to the other side as I just couldn't do it on my own 😅

74points

#16

UK. You never, ever, jump a queue

Aliktren Report

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163points

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Aroace tiger (any pronouns) 3 years ago (edited)

Isn't this rude everywhere tho?

74points

#17

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Also lived in Japan. This is what I have to say. Bow to people who bow to you. Bow to people in general when they give you a service. It's a sign of respect and it goes a long way.

Also, take off your shoes and respect the culture

LazzzyButtons , Jezael Melgoza Report

Final score:

155points

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Alex Luiz 3 years ago

I really try to be respectful in any country I visit, but bowing is something we just never do in the UK. I would worry about getting it wrong and accidentally offending someone-is it better to try and bow or just not risk it?

13points

#18

Small town USA:

When we ask questions, we're looking for ways in which we're similar. We want to know how you fit in, which is more or less a question of how we fit in, where we can help each other, what it is that brings us together.

Example: "I am from Sweden."

"You're from Sweden? That's so cool, I had a cousin that went to Sweden before, he said it was really awesome. I've visited France before, is Sweden anything like France?"

"Not really."

"Oh okay, that's understandable, but at least you're both European, right?"

"I guess."

"Well I've had Swedish fish before, is Swedish fish actually Swedish?"

"Well yes."

"Cool so do you guys eat it all the time!"

"Not really, not more than you guys eat candy I suppose."

"Right, that's true, yeah, we both like candy!"

"Right."

(Note: this does not imply ignorance. It's an effusiveness of our desire to want to belong in a community. The local community knows and cares for each other and so an opportunity to bring someone else who fits in is an exciting way of expanding your proximal agency.)

Big city USA:

When we ask questions, we're looking for ways in which we're different from each other. This is so that we can distinguish ourselves amongst the giant crowd of people we're surrounded by every day. We want to know what unique, idiosyncratic new perspective you can bring on board, because for the most part we've already heard of and dealt with all the rest.

Example:

"I'm from Sweden."

"Yeah I know a few people from Sweden, which part of Sweden?"

"Stockholm."

"Yeah it seems most the people I meet from Sweden are from around there, what neighborhood do you live in?"

"Södermalm."

"Yeah I had a buddy that lived there, what did you do while you lived there?"

"I was a banker."

"Well so was he but which bank? "

(Note: this is not to imply arrogance. It's an effusiveness of our desire to extend our network and our reach into further corners of global map so that we can increase a larger and more competitive social safety net, or in short, to find community within a mass of people).

PolarisDiB Report

Final score:

140points

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Witchling 3 years ago

This is actually a great way to explain American small talk w foreigners!!

109points

#19

England here. If someone asks 'you alright?' Or 'alright mate?', this is not an invitation to explain how you are doing in any sort of detail. The only acceptable answers are 'yeh mate, you?' And 'not bad, yourself?' Anything else is just weird.

JackLegg Report

Final score:

127points

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Edward Shaw 3 years ago

A nasal grunt is also an acceptable reply.

57points

#20

Brazil

Contrary to popular belief, you shouldn't take off your clothes in public in Brazil. Yes, at least a few tourists are arrested every year for this.

Try not to bribe too many officials.

We are going to touch you. This is the tropics, it isn't f**king Scandinavia. Give us a hug. And three kisses in our cheeks. This is how I greet strangers.

SPEAK UP. I CAN'T HEAR YOU. Brazil is loud.

If a woman touch you, it doesn't mean she wants to have sex. Be respectful, dammit.

Contrary to popular belief, we're not "easy". Maybe you'll think that it's easier to kiss someone here than in Europe, but people won't have sex to you just because they kissed you. It might mean nothing.

Contrary to popular belief, Brazil is actually quite a conservative place. Don't judge what is acceptable or not to do based on what people do in carnival or what 18 year olds do in wild nights out.

Top less is not allowed in 99.99999% of public places. We are very conservative. Even walking around in bathing suits can get you in trouble if you're not by the pool or in a beach.

There are people who don't like football. They exist.

schmook Report

Final score:

126points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Quite a bit of this is a surprise, and not a bad one either. Glad to know it’s not a wild party free for all in Brazil. Just have to get rid of Bolsinaro.

37points

#21

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Southerners, USA: Be really mindful if someone says "bless your heart," because that could mean you earned high favor or just stepped in a big pile of trouble.

napalmkitten , Austin Distel Report

Final score:

121points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

'Bless your innocent heart' with a gentle shake of the head and pitiful look - You're in big trouble.

51points

#22

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About been hearing a lot of northern Europeans talking about bike lanes, so: In America, if you rent a bike, you should be aware that even if the bike lane is painted onto the street in a rainbow pattern with flashing neon lights, nobody gives a s**t. You are not safe in the bike lane.

unknown , Jasper Garratt Report

Final score:

120points

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Two_rolling_black_eyes 3 years ago

Bike lanes are the Brussel sprouts of transportation in America. Those who know better keep giving them to us but we don't want them and just seeing them makes many of us angry. In many cities, bicyclists are truly hated because many defy all traffic laws and take up our precious street parking.

24points

#23

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About India

There's lots of little cultural taboos. But one thing I can remember right now is, never refer to someone older than you by their name. If you are young (below 20-ish), you can refer to middle-aged and older people as 'Aunty' and 'Uncle', or 'Sir' and 'Ma'am'. It gets slightly confusing when you are around 20 (like I am) and the person is in their late twenties or early thirties. But yeah. Never call someone older by their name.

DO NOT DRINK THE TAP WATER.

stephenhawking5 , Antonio Rubio Report

Final score:

120points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

This is a thing in Nigeria too. Sometimes, younger siblings do not refer to their older siblings by their real name. Instead of John, you say 'brother John.' And you don't refer to someone's parent as Mrs this or Mr that. We say John's mom or Moji's dad. Elderly people are Mama, Baba, Papa, Grandma, Grandpa. We don't observe this in my family but most Nigerians do. Respect is a big thing here

47points

#24

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About When going to a friend's house and the family offers you have dinner with them, it is impolite to say no.

Also, they would insist that you stay over in case you've had too much a lambanog and will give you the next best mattress they have.

Before you leave, accept the leftover they give should you be hungry on your way back home.

Filipino hospitality at its essence.

hanbanee , tofuprod Report

Final score:

118points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

If I had 30 Filipino friends, I would never worry about dinner again.

39points

#25

Portuguese here:
Speak in spanish with us and you will get punched in the throat

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Sara Rodrigues 3 years ago (edited)

Hahaha not punched, but we will definitely answer in portuguese, english or "portunhol" (which is just portuguese with a spanish accent and maybe some spanish words xD)

31points

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#26

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Germany:

our waiters usually earn above minimum wage, so you never tip more than 15%, normally 10% for small amounts and a bit less for larger bills.

on the escalator, if you want to stand, stand on the right side and let others pass left.

if you rent a bike, don't drive like your own granny, drive fast and if you want to pause, get off the bike lane. Also, don't walk on our f**king bike lanes, they are clearly marked (blue signs with a white bike and mostly red paint on the bike lane). If you approach a tram or bus stop, brake and let people get on and off the train.

queue from the right at things like a burger joint so that passer-byes are not blocked. At museums, trains or the airport, queue frontally.

yes, it is common to encounter nude people of all ages in the sauna or at some lakes or even at some few parks in the city. Don't stare and for god's sake don't comment on this.

not everyone here is from Bavaria or thinks Bavaria is great. Likewise, not everyone loves beer and sausages.

and don't mention the war, k?

Final score:

103points

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Marik 3 years ago

Don't cross the street when the traffic light is red - especially with children around. Exception: when the traffic light is green at the point you already stepped on the street you may cross it. 🙃 Also, you need help to get around? Don't fear to ask. We may look as if you will be dismissed but we will try to help (I learned that the most helpfull, and knowlegdeable ones are the weird looking and homeless). ☻ Lastly, if a street-artist is catching your attention to stop for at least a minute - leave a little money. 💃

29points

#27

Iceland

Don't drive offroad. Because the tracks will stay for long time in the land.

Final score:

103points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Wish it was like that here in the US. I shudder to think of the habitats that are destroyed just to boost someone’s testosterone level.

37points

#28

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Thailand

When you meet someone you have not seen for a while , they will make a comment about your weight .. Heavier or Skinner .. they're not trying to be offensive .. it's just how they are ..

We're pretty much the least homophobic place on earth , two dude who are stright like to make gay lover jokes to each other..

You can pay the policemen to get out of minor traffic stuff.

Feet are consider very dirty .. and head is very important .. dont mix them up , ie : dont put your shoes on any shelve that taller than your head.

You dont have to tip a lot when dine out ,

If you're a tourist .. expect to pay way more than local when buying something .. a lot of business charges 3x the amount of service for tourist especially westerners. Bring a local with you to haggle!

damn_jexy , Luca Conti Report

Final score:

92points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

I only saw 'You can pay the police to get out of minor traffic stuff.' Is that a nice way to write 'bribery' or is that a rule over there?

33points

#29

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Mexico. When eating in a taquería, you'll find that the tacos are small but cheap (and also that they don't resemble anything you gringos would name a taco). You don't immediately order all the tacos you plan to eat. You order the tacos you'll eat in ten minutes. That way you get them right out of the fire. You need to put lime and onion, and several sauces on them to make them live to their full potential. Then you order again. Don't worry about counting; your waiter will keep track. When you pay and leave, just leave the tip on the table. Tipping is completely up to you, depends on the quality of the service and the usual amount is 10% because we don't let our servers starve.

Also, and this is very important: three things are sacred here: the Flag, the Virgin and the Football Selection. Even if you are talking with a malinchista, atheist, obese man who doesn't care about the three, you are not allowed to insult them. EVER. We can, we're Mexican and we can s**t on anything Mexican if we want. If you do it, you're on your own. What Miley Cyrus did to our flag, done anywhere else by anyone else is enough to get you brutally murdered and the records missing. Do not touch our three sacred things. EXCEPTION: if your Selection is playing against ours you can s**t on it up to six hours after the match started, and only of you win. The exception does not apply if you're talking to an angry drunk man.

dontknowmeatall , Jezael Melgoza Report

Final score:

90points

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Trillian 3 years ago

I'll just stick with the tacos then

6points

#30

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About I live in Singapore. Where I'm at, such as fast food restaurants and food courts, there's a common practice known as "chopeing", where one can "chope", or reserve a table by placing a packet of tissues on the table. Tourists who have no idea of this usually take the table obliviously and gets dirty looks from the local who "choped" the table.

RadioactiveNewt Report

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82points

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Sara Rodrigues 3 years ago

A packet of tissues, really??

17points

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#31

Canada - Ontario

Smaller towns are often much more polite than big cities like toronto.

If you bump into someone say sorry.

If someone bumps into you, say sorry.

It's common courtesy to hold a door open for someone, however when it's someone elderly, you wait there until they have walked through the door.

Say thank you everytime someone holds the door for you. In the event that there are two doors (like at a mall entrance) if they hold the first for for you say thanks and hold the next door for them.

Our food is quite often very salty, add salt after your first few bites to get a better judgment if you should.

If you go to a bar and someone calls you bud, you made a friend.

We are very social in restaurants. Talk to your waiter and waitresses.

When ordering your morning coffee a "Double Double" is two cream and two sugar. I prefer a double double with milk. Either way is acceptable.

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46points

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JXXXF 3 years ago

You can't say c**t in Canada

17points

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#32

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Alright, so here's some French stuff, specifically Parisian.

ALWAYS greet the people working in a shop with bonjour. Even if you don't speak to them again or leave without buying anything, you also have to say au revoir. It's rude not to.

French waiters might seem rude to some, but they're just doing their job, and that doesn't include the whole dog and pony show pretend to be your friend thing. They want to know what you want, they want to bring it to you, then they want to collect your money. In fancy restaurants it's a little more formal but in cafés don't be offended if you have to flag them down to get another coffee. They don't have time to hover around twice or three times while you make up your mind on what you want. It's not personal, they're just busy and don't see making friends as part of their job.

If you're staying with French people, always ask if they need help in the kitchen. They will refuse, but you're expected to get up and help anyway. They might still protest, but you should still try to do the dishes or something.

In many metro cars, the doors still have a manual open signal. If you're closest to the exit door, you're expected to twist the lever and make it open. Do this just a second before the train actually stops to look like a local. And push down hard, those things are tougher than you would think to activate.

If you accidentally make eye contact with a random person on the street, don't smile. You will be considered a weirdo.

If you want to rent a car in France and can't drive stick, you have to go to the airport. If you speak good enough French the clerk will make fun of you for not being able to drive a stick.

To successfully drive in Paris, you have to drive like a total as***le. None of this polite waiting for a gap in traffic to turn left. Just f**king go for it and expect everyone else to stop. No one is insured at the arc de triomph, so drive through that particular roundabout at your own risk. Nobody honks except in huge emergencies. And if traffic is suddenly stopped in front of you, turn on your hazards

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42points

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Moiselle Jeanne 3 years ago

Nobody honks? I don't know where you've been staying in Paris but I can assure you that everybody honks in my neighborhood!

21points

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#33

There seems to be an absence of Arabs here, so here goes:

Men kiss men on the cheek. It's fine. You'll know when its happening.

Never shake hands with a girl unless she initiates the hand shake.

Don't refuse gifts and treats. Arabs are very hospitable people and we like to treat and pamper visitors.

Queues? What queues? Don't stand in line unless there is a line.

Don't try to speak Arabic unless you want to be corrected over every. little. pronunciation. Our language is hard and we have many letters and sounds that you simply don't have the skills to say.

Note: Arabs are very diverse and we are quite different but the above applies to most, if not all, Arab countries.

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39points

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Georgina Cochrane-Dyet 3 years ago

I found growing up in Abu Dhabi that the locals absolutely loved when we (Brits) spoke in Arabic with them. They always encouraged us and were really happy when we made the effort. I agree they were very hospitable and generous people. It's a wonderful place

13points

#34

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Australia here.

They ain't flip flops, they are thongs. And they are an Australian treasure, they are now your "everything" shoes. Fancy dinner, dancing, meetings... wear your thongs.

Kangaroos are not for transport. Wombats are.

Our currency is officially called "dollarydoos". eg "900 dollarydoos?!"

Call everyone a cunt, especially that single fly that wont leave you alone. eg. "Get away from me you dirty cunt" - Swat at fly. If you call someone "sir" or "maam" be prepared to be called a cunt.

You have to be bitten by a spider at least once a week and a snake once a month. Police check up on that with routine traffic stops, punishment is a mandatory booting.

All women are called "Shiela".

All men are called "Bruce".

No one wears cork hats you poofy cunt.

You have to drive a 1992 "Holden Commodore" and always have too many people in the back. Mandatory mismatched wheels on the back is required.

unknown , Vi Vi Report

Final score:

38points

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ben woskje 3 years ago

As an aussie - none of this is true.... however, that's also the aussie sense of humour.... kudos to you c**t! i got a laugh out of it!

58points

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#35

Singaporean here

You are allowed to wear Flip flops and shorts wherever you go. The fancy city area? Flipflop and Shorts are perfect. That 5 star hotel? Flip flops are welcomed. Public transport? You are weird if you do not wear them

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36points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

OMG. I was a Singaporean in my past life.

8points

Hedgehog_amputee , Dennis Sylvester Hurd Report

#36

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About In Malaysia, it is absolutely normal for someone to ask you what race you are. It's not meant to be offensive, just general curiousity.

Final score:

35points

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DE Ray 3 years ago

5k, generally. The longer endurance runs are just brutal, and I'm not fast enough for sprints.

22points

#37

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About I remember a friend in Okinawa was horrified because I wanted to go into a shop that had these really beautiful, dark wood cabinets. Turns out they were for home shrines for dead relatives.

Scienscatologist , mg sn Report

Final score:

33points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Yikes! You almost bought a coffin.

5points

#38

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Here are a few other things visitors to Ireland should know.

If somebody buys you a drink you're expected to return the favor. As a visitor it's easier to avoid buying rounds if at all possible as the whole thing can be very complicated.

Outside of the cities, Irish people tend to say hello to others, regardless of whether they know them or not. Say hello back.

Most bars/pubs serve food in the cities. But it can be difficulty to decipher if there is table service, or if you're expected to order and pay at the bar. Sometimes it's just easier to ask as soon as you go in rather than waiting at a table. Irish people even get confused about this. There is no consistency.

Irish pedestrians do not wait for a green light before attempting to cross the road. If there is a gap in the traffic people will cross the road.

Security staff aka bouncers in pubs and bars generally will have a quick chat with people before they let them in. Just a quick hello, how are you. This is very true of people in larger groups. Stag party's and hen party's will not be allowed in to many bars outside of Temple Bar.

Do not drink anywhere in Temple Bar. It's unbelievably overpriced and there are much better and more traditional bars one or two streets away in all directions. Any pint costing more than €5/€5.50 is expensive. Anything over €6 is a rip off. Excluding craft beers.

We tend to drink our beers in pints. Irish people do not generally drink pints of Guinness in a night club. The quality is bad, stick to bottles in night clubs.

The best pint of Guinness is not served in the Guinness factory. (Try Mulligans, Brogans, Grogans, The Palace, Long Hall)

Bar staff do not expect a tip but if there is table service it is generally expected to let the waiter/waitress keep the change after buying a round of drinks. €1-€2. Tipping is expected for restaurant service.

People tend to tip taxi drivers, just a euro or two, not a lot. This isn't essential, but if your journey is short it is nice to tip the drivers.

Irish people have many many words for toilet. Jacks, bog, john, bathroom etc...

Irish people curse a lot in everyday f**king sentences, ya bollix. Don't be offended.

If Irish people in your company start speaking Irish (Gaeilge) they are talking about you.

Our language is not called Gaelic, it's called Irish, or Gaeilge. Gaelic football is correct however.

Ireland is not part of the UK, it is part of the British Isles, but do not draw attention to that. Do not confuse Ireland as being a member of the UK. It's a touchy subject. We love the English really, but rarely admit it.

There are few rest-stops on our motorways. It is better now than in previous years, but if you need to use the bog then go before you leave on a long journey. Most of our cities are no more than 3 hours from Dublin, which is the centre of the universe, so the journeys are never too long.

Irish drivers do not use indicators. They are for decoration only. We are generally safe drivers however.

Buses and trains never leave on time. Do not believe the timetables. Download the official apps before arriving. The real-time information is somewhat reliable.

Lastmanback , Diogo Palhais Report

Final score:

31points

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ben woskje 3 years ago

"We love the English really, but rarely admit it." - Bullshit!

11points

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#39

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Netherlands: just because we're loud, doesn't mean we're being rude or angry. We're just a loud people.

Also: If you're going to do drugs, don't buy off the streets, don't mix them and take into consideration that while you are visiting, some of us actually live here.

unknown , Dim Hou Report

Final score:

31points

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Ozacoter 3 years ago

Also keep in mind that Dutch people can sound rude sometimes. They dont mean bad but they often will make remarks that for others will sound strange.

8points

#40

Latinamerica: we don't know what "personal space" is. You've been warned.

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30points

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Carmen Sandiego 3 years ago (edited)

Eh, I'm used to it. Again, I might be biased.

2points

#41

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About USA: Be very aware of where your secondhand smoke is at all times.

FAHQRudy , Ricardo Liberato Report

Final score:

30points

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

This should be everywhere too

16points

#42

China

Don't drink the tap water unless you want to have diarrhea or die.

Deal drugs, punishment is death

Do NOT go anywhere without a roll of toilet paper or tissue on you. EDIT: To answer some of your questions and to clarify: I live in a developed city (not hard to guess which one), and I'd say most bathrooms are good to go here without toilet paper. However, remember most of China is quite undeveloped. Yes, most bathrooms outside of big cities are just holes in the ground. To stress how important this tip I gave is: I am a guy and I only use toilet paper for sh**ting, and I still carry it with me if I am in a smaller town/city. I don't even want to imagine what it'd be like for a girl not being well equipped going to a bathroom :/

Final score:

29points

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Kira Okah 3 years ago

Having been in a smaller town in China and being a girl - absolutely on the toilet paper thing, minimum. Bring it everywhere. Goo advice.

24points

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#43

30 People Are Sharing 'Unwritten' Rules In Their Countries That Foreigners Might Not Know About Amsterdam: ride your rentabike bike carefully. At first glance it seems there aren't any rules, but there are lots of them. One is not to get yourself or others killed.

Extraordinarliy , frank saptel Report

Final score:

26points

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WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago

Best advice: Do not rent a bike. People living in Amsterdam will be grateful. No one wants to have to deal with adults biking like toddlers in blissful unawareness of the danger they are both for themselves as for the people who need to swerve and brake to save them from harm. Look at the video in the link and ask yourself:" Do I feel like I would survive this?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqQSwQLDIK8

9points

#44

Don't talk to anyone in public. Only approach people for conversations if they are receptionists or something similar.

It's not for your security or anything, but it freaks us the hell out. No one talks to strangers in Norway, unless you're hiking and above the treelines.

unknown Report

Final score:

24points

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Goth mouse (they/them) 3 years ago

I so want to move to scandinavia!! 🤩

3points

#45

Iran

Men should not wear shorts in public, it just isn't done. Do not openly criticize the government/homosexuality, people will shun you and you will attract unwanted attention. Locals may charge you for taking pictures of their towns/countryside - under no circumstances should you feel pressured to pay them. I think everyone knows about the pressures on women. If you are boxom, you may attract catcalls on the street and be openly stared at. Try to ignore and know that no alternative clothing will have prevented it. You may be asked for your social network credentials/password on entry to the country if you make trouble. Before leaving your country of origin, make a fake profile. Enjoy your trip.

Final score:

24points

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Aunt Messy 3 years ago

Basically - don't go there.

46points

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#46

Iceland.

Don't be fooled, we are really quite rude, and semi unhappy. Not all of us, but since just recently we have never been known for being the "happiest nation" ever.

The women are not as easy as you think.

There is no such thing as a traditional Icelandic restaurant. Today we eat a lot hamburgers.

I don't want to be asked about my personal life. Most don't, unless they've had a drink or two - look at the finish in this thread, they're doing it right.

We really do love to party, but the party doesn't start until 2:00 am. Don't go out before 12 and expect excitement. Also we drink to get drunk.

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23points

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Susie Elle 3 years ago (edited)

I've read "The women are not as easy as you think" twice now, and I wonder if there even is a country where women are 'easy' and not just actual people expecting the bare minimum of a conversation before considering sex. Otherwise you could better just say 'men are easy everywhere'. (okay I'm done ranting)

35points

#47

If a woman in the state of Georgia in the US touches your arm while she talks to you, she is NOT hitting on you. It's just something they do... some sort of leftover to the old school debutante society. Took me a while and few face slaps to figure it out.

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Final score:

23points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Why would anybody consider a simple touch on the arm as an invitation for sex? Those slaps on the face were well deserved.

32points

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#48

In London, you don't need to press the 'open' buttons on the tube trains. They open automatically.

Please don't look for your train ticket/Oyster card AT the barriers. Get it ready before you get there. Also please don't stop in front of the gates after passing through them.

If you have suitcases or big rucksacks, be careful with them and aware of other people. Don't be surprised if everyone gives you a death stare if you board a train with luggage during rush hour.

Last but not least: walk on the left, stand on the right.

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22points

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Alex Luiz 3 years ago

I'm glad you specified London. I think London needs to be treated as a separate country because these rules don't apply to the rest of the country.

11points

#49

Most Australian's really don't talk in the typical Australian way, some do, and plenty of people use a couple of the words, but you'll stand out and seem like an idiot if you try it.

My God, do we swear though.

unknown Report

Final score:

22points

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Katie Lutesinger 3 years ago (edited)

A lot of stereotypical Australian slang is either really outdated or only common way out in the countryside. You might still hear the odd "bloody oath!" in the cities. I'll concede the swearing thing, though. I was going to say swearing in every sentence is for tradies and Bogans, but then I remembered my habit of screaming "FOR F**K'S SAKE!" whenever I'm frustrated. :p

8points

#50

Italy

Don't lose your receipts. Counterfeiting is a problem, but so is corruption. If you buy a fake piece of s**t and don't have a receipt to prove you got scammed, the police will give you a hard time.

Final score:

22points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Good to know, thanks!

2points

#51

Southern (Southeastern not counting Florida) USA.

If someone offers something or help, etc once you're almost expected to refuse it or say "Oh I couldn't possibly bother you for that" or something along such lines. If it's offered again or pressed then they genuinely want to help or offer and you should accept. If you really don't need it then you have to basically convince them as such.

It's kind of a cultural thing to be kind and welcoming to everyone. Some people are racist and such and that's the stereotype but most aren't.

Like how people say Finland is really anti-small talk in this thread it's exactly the opposite there. Everyone will want to know how you're doing and about your family and such. They'll invite you in and offer you drinks and things.

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20points

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Blake Ingram 3 years ago

Florida, on the other hand, can be really open to conversation. But it can also be closed. If you come in on a day where it’s 80°(F) or less, and complain it’s hot, you will get dirty looks because 1) it’s pretty nice feeling when it gets down to 80° and 2) just you wait until about 1, 2 PM and the sun really bears down on you. The humidity will frizz your hair. Flip flops are quite acceptable, even in a lot of churches. Everything here is spread out if you aren’t in a city, and the cities are still spread out, too. Service can be spotty, especially in the rural areas. Don’t drive through puddles that you don’t know how deep they are, you are going to hit something.

10points

#52

In Canada there will be people who will hold the door for you just politely thank them, but don't expect everyone to do it. Plus if your in Toronto or something don't except to go to Vancouver that same day unless your flying there. The only people who will understand this are americans, people who have been to Canada before, or Russians. And from those wondering if you wanted to see all or most of Canada it will take a couple months so its good for long summer vacations

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20points

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Miss Frankfurter 3 years ago

And please, if your visiting somewhere like say, Toronto, just like the only way you can get to Vancouver from there in a day is to fly, don't say you "have a friend in Calgary named _____^, do you know him?" No. We don't know everyone in the country. Its a big country.

1point

#53

France

-When on the Paris metro, saying a word or even showing a glimpse of emotion= instant French Death Glare

Final score:

19points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Must be like riding with a bunch of mannequins. French mannequins.

5points

#54

Welcome to India.

traffic rules are more of guidelines, follow them only if you want to.

if you cut a lane, and get yourself scraped (or even rear ended for that matter), it's their fault, not yours. And aggressively cutting lanes is very common.

there are no lanes.

red is stop; green is go; orange GO FASTER!

stay the f**k away from cars with yellow number plates, they're usually rash. They're more like unofficial taxis, transporting people to/from work. These drivers drive around the city all day and are usually frustrated.

blinking headlights usually invites aggression from other drivers.

expensive cars or SUVs, heavily tinted glasses and fancy single digit number plates(called VIP plates). Stay the f*k away. Btw, tinted glasses are banned. You get the idea.

one way lanes are one way, only if you're caught. If you cuss someone in the wrong way, they'll cuss back, and harder. Like Russel Peters rightly said 'in India, if you find a lane, take it and go'

slower cars are supposed to stay left. Since most don't obey rules, slower cars will be on right and people usually overtake from left.

public transport buses are usually very rash in the cities. Bus stops are on the left, try and stay on the right.

on highways(freeways) keep an eye on goods transport vehicles. Their drivers don't get enough sleep. I got rear ended by one on a speed-bump on a highway.

yes, there could be speedbumps on highways.

the blame in an accident goes to driver of the vehicle with the higher mass.

the blame in an accident is inversely proportional to the wealthsocial statusfame of the driver.

Thank you and come again.

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18points

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Foregone Conclusion 3 years ago

You forgot that honking the horn is mandatory to let people know you are passing them

5points

#55

Italy.

Never order a cappuccino with your meal. Cappuccinos are for breakfast.

Also, about breakfast: we usually eat sweet stuff (cappuccino or espresso, bread with Nutella or jam, croissant, fruit, cake) but not a lot of stuff. We usually eat more at lunchdinner than breakfast.

Don't try to talk Italian if you don't know it... Don't blabber "babede boopi" and expect to be understood.

Doxep Report

Final score:

18points

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chi-wei shen 3 years ago

I know this "rule" about Cappucino for many years and I don't obey it. I visit Italy but I do not want to live my life like an Italian.

10points

#56

Greece

Don't get offended when someone lights up a cigar without asking for your permission to smoke

masongr Report

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17points

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Shane S 3 years ago

Greeks smoke like chimneys. You just have to accept it if you visit and go anywhere where locals are

4points

#57

Jordan: If you're a foreign female (bonus if you have blonde hair), you'll get hit on at least once every 10 minutes

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16points

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Wheeskers 3 years ago

As a kid we lived in an Arab country, I was blond, blue eyed and was touched and prodded and stared at and mooned over. It was a lot for a 9 year old.

14points

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Barry Neeson 3 years ago

Glasgow (Scotland) Don't be afraid to ask for directions. When you do one of two things will happen.... 1: We will give you directions using pubs as land marks "You want to go straight ahead past [insert pub name here] turn left and go by [insert pub name here] and it will be on your right." 2: We will start telling you directions and then decide if its easier if we just show you, dont worry its not an inconvenience.

21points

Don't Look 3 years ago

that's actually rather decent.

5points

Glirpy 3 years ago

You can do the same thing in Boston by substituting pubs for Dunkin Donuts.

1point

PeachPossum 3 years ago

Bonus: a casual pub crawl

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Jace 3 years ago

I can’t give directions by roadway names or route numbers either, and I’ve lived mostly in the same place for 45 goddamned years.

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Marina Bailey 3 years ago

South Africa. Yes, it's cool to visit any of our game reserves. You're not really going "on safari" though. Keep your car doors locked at all times when driving around. Keep your bag under the seat or in the boot (trunk), NOT on the seat next to you. If people can see your bag, they will smash your window and steal it. If you go to a mall, make sure your car is locked before moving away from it. People have devices that can jam your key fob and prevent your car from locking. There are ATMs everywhere, but you can use your credit card anywhere - even at flea markets. Despite the crime, people are friendly and will greet you and ask how you are. Smile, greet them, say you're fine, and ask how they are. If someone talks about a "robot", they mean a traffic light.

11points

Q B F T 3 years ago

I'll add to this. Don't be surprised if we come out with something outrageously racist, misogynistic or homophobic. It's just the way we are.

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B-b-bird 3 years ago

UAE: 1. men never should be shirtless or wearing tank tops (no sleeve) on the street, mall etc... ever. 2. You will be asked "where are you from" every time (it is normal in the country with 90% of expat population), and after people will always loudly wonder if they know anyone from your country or at least know anything about it. 3. you will be called madam/sir by staff in stores, restaurants, cafes etc. 4. DO NOT attempt to go somewhere by walk, when you are in the centre (even though it will look as short distance on the map), you will get stuck at some uncrossable road or with no sidewalk. Just grab a taxi.

7points

lunanoire 3 years ago

jk nbt as a former Dallasite, you shoot anyone in TX, you will still be charged (even if it is under the castle law or in self defense) and an investigation will take place. If you're lucky, you won't see jail time but it all depends on the circumstance. I do agree you must be careful when driving in TX as there are way too many idiots with guns that are just looking for an excuse to use it. TX is run by a corrupt governor, AG, and lt governor that could give a crap less about the safety and well- being of the citizens. Look up their brilliant covid response. I will never darken TX borders again. I've lived in a lot of states and Europe but that is the worst place ever. Heat, nasty politics, guns, and vapid people showboating their wealth without ever giving a damn about the environment or well-being of their poorer citizens.

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

getting charged is up to the district prosecutor and grand jury... it depends on the grand jury... shoot someone doing a nighttime home invasion in Houston, and you won't even get arrested. They will just take identifications & file a report. Do the exact same thing in Galveston county 50 miles south, and you will be arrested, jailed, have to post bond, and have to testify in front of the grand jury. The worst thing about this that I didn't mention is that there are at least five greedy lawyers attached to every bullet. Even if the grand jury no-bills you, the survivors can take you to civil court & take everything you have got. All their lawyer has to do is to convince seven befuddled jurors they pulled in off of the street, and they own you. Yikes. Yep, many flaws in the lone star state. still a good place to live & raise your family. The economy is always up. Anyone who has any skills at all can come down & get work.

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Mazer 3 years ago

Texas has the best road side stops of anywhere except Missouri. It’s a tie. Texas also appears to have the most suicidal wildlife in the US. I don’t know if the animals just hate that they are in Texas of what, I have never seen so much road kill in one State and we were driving cross country

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jk nbt 3 years ago

also first to admit that there are many, many flawed people in Texas... that much said, there are ten times as many wonderful people, good people, people you want for your neighbors, co-workers, and next best friends. Focus on the positive, and you will be much happier in life.

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Ross Duncan 3 years ago

Stirling, Scotland. If you are visiting someone local and decide to go shopping with them, expect to take your time. Contrary to what folk may think, Scottish people talk.... a lot! If we run into friends, we talk. If an older person starts chatting, we will talk. We will talk and laugh with servers, retail staff, just about anyone. The Patter... ability to turn a phrase and make someone laugh... is SACRED!

5points

Sathe Wesker 3 years ago

Canada. Politeness is a must, hold the door open for people, please and thank-you are a given. One exception is Quebec to a certain degree (and keep in mind my father was born and raised there and I'm literally 50% French), depending on the area you are in, if you don't speak French you may have big problems. My ex also grew up in Quebec and when visiting his family he refused to let me go to a current fair at night, siting grown men would literally fight me because I don't speak French (father never thought me). I didn't believe him until his father confirmed it. So, be careful. Also, in my opinion and many others who have been/lived there, Alberta is our Alabama... take that for what you will, but also be careful there if you're coloured or gay.

4points

The_Canadian_Zebra 3 years ago

I was waiting for something about Canada. And yes, in Quebec you may have problems if don't speak french

2points

Mark Fuller 3 years ago

UK: we are expert queuers. It's like an inbuilt psychological response to seeing another human standing still. We stand beside them and start to queue. Even if there is nothing to queue for. When appropriate, it means we're frightfully polite and well organised. When not necessary, it means we're lemmings!

4points

AndThenICommented 3 years ago

Hmmm great thread! I definitely learned a few things and the comments seemed mostly uplifting

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Call Me Mars 3 years ago

Azerbaijan (I'm an ex-pat): The lines on the road while driving mean NOTHING. People here can turn a 2 lane road into a 4 lane road. Light just turn green? Someone will honk a millisecond after. In gas stations, people pump your gas. You don't get out. There are a lot of local food shops that serve shwarma and kebabs and dolma, but there are also places like Hard Rock and Papa Johns. In shops/museums, people will follow you around (members that work there.) Don't worry, they do that to everyone. Just go about what your doing and don't make a big deal out of it.

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Sanne H. 3 years ago

Netherlands: when going to a birthday party, don’t expect any dancing or partying. You will sit in a large circle with the other guests, after you’ve just congratulated all the other people in the circle with the birthday of the birthday boy/girl.

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Glirpy 3 years ago (edited)

Doesn’t sound very fun. I think I’ll pass.

2points

Heidi Behm 3 years ago

Poland- if you are from the USA and think using typical hand gestures, pointing, basic language translation will help you, be prepared for an entire country to laugh at you.

2points

Glirpy 3 years ago

What if I am carrying a few bottles of Zywiec with me?

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AniaSD 3 years ago

You can easily communicate in English in most places, especially with younger (30 and less) people. We always appreciate your effort to try and speak our language although we won't understand you everytime you do :)

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Kitti B. 3 years ago

I think most European countries would do the same :D

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Yustagirl3 3 years ago

I'm glad I read the Thailand one about the weight comments😅; had a former neighbour who run in to me say; wow, you got so big!' I was really insulted, but I guess it's a cultural thing 😅

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Steve Smith 3 years ago

England/UK: we are pretty reserved. We rarely chat to strangers in public, and don't hug people we don't know well. Despite this, we are friendly and polite, and appreciate the same in return. Servers don't necessarily say "Have a nice day" or similar. Depending on the region, you may be addressed as "love", "dear", or "duck", regardless of age of familiarity. It's just a general greeting. In London, or other large cities, it's unusual to chat to strangers. In smaller towns, it's down to the individual. Most people are cool with it or at least happy to go along with it, though. Despite what you've heard, British cuisine varies from interestingly cosmopolitan, through amazing local specialties, to unpleasantly stodgy. There are plenty of international chains like MacD, Yo Sushi etc, but local specialties are usually a better choice, especially for fish & chips (in coastal towns), English/Scottish/Irish breakfasts, Sunday roasts, cream teas, Cornish pasties, or pie and mash.

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Mazer 3 years ago

I learned people don’t eat outside, especially in the city. And when getting your hair done, the washer girl is different from the stylist and they both require tips

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Luna Lovebug 3 years ago

Netherlands, don't freaking walk in the bicycle lanes!

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Glirpy 3 years ago

Why would you walk in the road?

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RoseTheMad 3 years ago

UK: Be aware of the British humor. You may get insulted, and be expected to laugh it off. It's not someone being rude, it's just someone joking with you and having banter. Usually it's better for foreigners to just laugh it off and not try to banter back unless you really know the person well. Our humor is also often quite dark and maybe even shocking to some, we also tend to use a lot of self deprecating humor. No we're not rude, depressing sods, that's just the British humor!

2points

jk nbt 3 years ago

dry british humor is the best... that's what makes monte python reruns hard to watch but still fun... american viewers will have at least two "huh? whut?" moments per episode...

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Frank Ropen 3 years ago

Germany: don't touch the car

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Kitti B. 3 years ago (edited)

Hungary: 1. never ask if we are Slavs. NEVER!!! oor if our capital is Bukarest. 2. never question our traditional food, no matter how greasy and unhealthy it is, it is sacred. 3. Tip around 10% is expected. So always tip your waiter or you'll get judged. 4. Do not expect anyone to speak English, because most people are shy, they maybe can understand you just fine, but they are afraid to talk. Try to ask young adults. 5. never joke about and ask if we are hungry because it is not funny. 6. if you are Polish you'll get a pass on everything. They are our bros :D

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AniaSD 3 years ago

Poland here, I'm literally crying, the feeling is mutual! ❤

2points

Mimi M 3 years ago (edited)

Israel: people won't smile at you - and might even be rude, but they will take a bullet for you if the unfortunate need arises.

1point

Lovin' Life 3 years ago

This was very interesting

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Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

All reasons I'll never voluntarily travel outside the USA. Hard enough to know the variances in my own native country, I'm sure as the world not going to try to keep everyone else's rules and regulations in my head!

0points

Kookie Karnival 3 years ago

So what this is telling me... is that I need to move to Scandinavia.

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Nero Elred 3 years ago

France: Parisians are rude, we are (mostly) not. If you met an asshole who snobbed you because you were learning french he was probably a Parisian. Don't worry we hate them too. Regular french people actually love when people try to learn french and are willing to help. Regional cultural identity is strong here, be wary of that. People are "Picard" "Breton" "Corse" more than they are french. We are indeed a bit wary of small talk, don't worry about it too much, you'll eventually find someone willing to chat.

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Kristen Bellefeuille 3 years ago

The bike lane thing applies to Canada too most people don't really paymuch attention to the bike lane and if you are not paying attention you could get hurt. Two I worked in a store in a tourist area...if you have to unzip your pants to get to your cash your going to A) alarm the shop girl especially if she is alone at night. B) she nor anyone else for that matter wants to touch cash you have to unzip to get to. This is based on a true story, I get you don't want to get mugged but being a girl alone when a man unzips his pants is rather alarming.

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Angie Dubaele 3 years ago

FRANCE: Never spread your cheese or fancy paté to every corner of your piece of bread. It is actually very uncouth to do this.

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Jace 3 years ago

It sounds like most countries have a lot of weird habits and norms that many people in those countries either espouse or reject, including my own country. I feel like an alien here, but I know it would feel even worse if I were actually living in some other country (especially one that wasn’t aggressively colonized by England).

0points

Richard Liu 3 years ago

Taiwan. Do not pick up red envelops falling on the ground. You’re either picking up someone else’s bad luck, or you’re forced to marry a ghost girl (necrogamy).

0points

Colin Matthews 3 years ago

NZ don't use the word F***y...not a cute phrase for a female backside. A crass word for vagina

0points

AmmoniteCat 3 years ago

Well...Now I'm nervous about visiting every country.

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

another comment about Texas... the laws about marijuana are changing and in flux. Some states like Oregon, Washington, and Colorado allow open sales and use. Do not bring the marijuana you bought on your ski trip to Colorado down to Texas. The laws in TX are still very strict. They will put you in prison for possession of small amounts, especially if it looks like you are trying to sell it. Don't assume that the laws are identical in every state, especially in something like this. There have been cases where people come in from the EU or UK for a deluxe, expensive winter ski vacation in Colorado and then go down to TX for a short visit with ex-pat relatives before returning home. They monitor flights and baggage coming in from open-use states to detect bootleg marijuana. So beware.

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Glirpy 3 years ago

They’ll put you in prison for smoking something that makes you chill, but will let anyone own as many high powered rifles as they like.

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SpookyUnicorn 3 years ago

Northern Utah: Towards the mountains and away from the mountains are directions they mean the Wasatch range though not the Western ones LDS missionaries will be very interested in you , if that's uncomfortable learn to avoid Kids scream and run wild a lot and we're known for having Karens if you complain Generally friendly people but they will bring up the LDS Church a ton Polygamist sitings can happen but they're rare as their compounds are down South of the state save for a few families

0points

Glirpy 3 years ago

Everyone, just pick a different state to visit. Nothing worthwhile to see in Utah, trust me. I recommend the state next to it called Colorado.

2points

Wheeskers 3 years ago

Texans are not Californians. We will treat you kindly. So say, "Howdy" dammit!

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

there is a huge exodus from leftist, elitist, socialist, woke California with its confiscatory taxes to go to Texas... y'all come, and welcome, but kindly don't turn the state into a little California with all its taxes and other socialist nonsense, please... latest example of CA legislative nonsense: you can get ticketed for not curbing your dog in Venice, but the homeless have the right to drop their pants and poop right in the middle of the sidewalk in broad daylight, the poor dears... and they are not even required to clean up after themselves... crazy! and p.s... if you move to TX from CA, please bring your business/corporation/professional service with you. Your lawyer can re-incorporate & recharter your business as a Texas corporation... The benefit is NO STATE INCOME TAXES, EVER.

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

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Texas here: several rules to keep in mind for visitors... 1) If you kill us, we kill you. The legislature just approved concealed carry. You can't go to church these days without noticing some usher is packing heat under his loose-fitting shirt. 2) if you are convicted in state court for capital murder and sentenced to death, we will eventually kill you by lethal injection. Do not think you can get your queen, prime minister, or ambassador to apply to the White House for executive pardon and get it. The US president can only pardon federal offenses, not state-level offenses. Several foreigners have been surprised to find this out in recent years. (Actually happened to a Canadian recently). And p.s., no patronizing nonsense in the comment replies about the evils of capital punishment. These people are permanently deterred from killing any more of us. People who are prone to kill people professionally (like drug dealers and other gangsters) move to states without capital punishment laws and do their killings over there, which is just as effective (and good riddance, by the way). 3) Do not engage in any form of road rage or exchange insults with an inconsiderate, incompetent, or asinine driver. All the pickup trucks and half the sedans have a loaded pistol under the driver's seat. There are road rage killings every month somewhere in the state. So beware. Sometimes even an angry look or a long sound on the horn is enough to provoke an incident. Be nice, forgive and forget, and turn the other cheek. You will live longer. 4) Do not angrily approach, startle, or attack someone at night. If it is dark and they can't see whether you are armed or not, they can legally shoot first without warning shots or any verbal warning. 5) Never try to force your way into somebody's house at night, even if you yourself are being attacked and are trying to escape inside. (This actually happened to a panicked brit businessman a few years ago. He was killed trying to force his way into a house while escaping kidnapping and assault. No arrests, grand jury did not prosecute, but his parents did get some money in a settlement). Your survivors might win a cash judgment in civil court later on, but you will still be dead. Ya just gotta luv Texas!

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

Cool, thanks. Texas remains on my list of places I don't want to go to (the whole country to be fair).

11points

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago (edited)

jk nbt Please see a psychiatrist

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Small Galaxy 3 years ago

I don't gotta love texas

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Barry Neeson 3 years ago

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Don't Look 3 years ago

that's actually rather decent.

5points

Glirpy 3 years ago

You can do the same thing in Boston by substituting pubs for Dunkin Donuts.

1point

PeachPossum 3 years ago

Bonus: a casual pub crawl

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Jace 3 years ago

I can’t give directions by roadway names or route numbers either, and I’ve lived mostly in the same place for 45 goddamned years.

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Marina Bailey 3 years ago

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Q B F T 3 years ago

I'll add to this. Don't be surprised if we come out with something outrageously racist, misogynistic or homophobic. It's just the way we are.

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B-b-bird 3 years ago

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lunanoire 3 years ago

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

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Mazer 3 years ago

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jk nbt 3 years ago

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Ross Duncan 3 years ago

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Sathe Wesker 3 years ago

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The_Canadian_Zebra 3 years ago

I was waiting for something about Canada. And yes, in Quebec you may have problems if don't speak french

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Mark Fuller 3 years ago

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AndThenICommented 3 years ago

Hmmm great thread! I definitely learned a few things and the comments seemed mostly uplifting

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Call Me Mars 3 years ago

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Sanne H. 3 years ago

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Glirpy 3 years ago (edited)

Doesn’t sound very fun. I think I’ll pass.

2points

Heidi Behm 3 years ago

Poland- if you are from the USA and think using typical hand gestures, pointing, basic language translation will help you, be prepared for an entire country to laugh at you.

2points

Glirpy 3 years ago

What if I am carrying a few bottles of Zywiec with me?

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AniaSD 3 years ago

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Kitti B. 3 years ago

I think most European countries would do the same :D

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Yustagirl3 3 years ago

I'm glad I read the Thailand one about the weight comments😅; had a former neighbour who run in to me say; wow, you got so big!' I was really insulted, but I guess it's a cultural thing 😅

2points

Steve Smith 3 years ago

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Mazer 3 years ago

I learned people don’t eat outside, especially in the city. And when getting your hair done, the washer girl is different from the stylist and they both require tips

1point

Luna Lovebug 3 years ago

Netherlands, don't freaking walk in the bicycle lanes!

2points

Glirpy 3 years ago

Why would you walk in the road?

1point

RoseTheMad 3 years ago

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jk nbt 3 years ago

dry british humor is the best... that's what makes monte python reruns hard to watch but still fun... american viewers will have at least two "huh? whut?" moments per episode...

2points

Frank Ropen 3 years ago

Germany: don't touch the car

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Kitti B. 3 years ago (edited)

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AniaSD 3 years ago

Poland here, I'm literally crying, the feeling is mutual! ❤

2points

Mimi M 3 years ago (edited)

Israel: people won't smile at you - and might even be rude, but they will take a bullet for you if the unfortunate need arises.

1point

Lovin' Life 3 years ago

This was very interesting

1point

Joyce Blodgett 1 year ago

0points

Kookie Karnival 3 years ago

So what this is telling me... is that I need to move to Scandinavia.

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Nero Elred 3 years ago

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Kristen Bellefeuille 3 years ago

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Angie Dubaele 3 years ago

FRANCE: Never spread your cheese or fancy paté to every corner of your piece of bread. It is actually very uncouth to do this.

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Jace 3 years ago

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Richard Liu 3 years ago

Taiwan. Do not pick up red envelops falling on the ground. You’re either picking up someone else’s bad luck, or you’re forced to marry a ghost girl (necrogamy).

0points

Colin Matthews 3 years ago

NZ don't use the word F***y...not a cute phrase for a female backside. A crass word for vagina

0points

AmmoniteCat 3 years ago

Well...Now I'm nervous about visiting every country.

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

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Glirpy 3 years ago

They’ll put you in prison for smoking something that makes you chill, but will let anyone own as many high powered rifles as they like.

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SpookyUnicorn 3 years ago

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Glirpy 3 years ago

Everyone, just pick a different state to visit. Nothing worthwhile to see in Utah, trust me. I recommend the state next to it called Colorado.

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Wheeskers 3 years ago

Texans are not Californians. We will treat you kindly. So say, "Howdy" dammit!

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jk nbt 3 years ago (edited)

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Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago

Cool, thanks. Texas remains on my list of places I don't want to go to (the whole country to be fair).

11points