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Giving advice to people is like flipping a coin – there can always be two possible reactions. Either the person will listen and thank you for your help, or they will act offended and tell you not to stick your nose where it doesn't belong. The latter is more likely to happen when no one actually asked for the advice.

But, since this is the Internet, the Redditor u/Mathias97035 thought some unsolicited advice wouldn't hurt anyone. That's why they asked other netizens: "What unsolicited advice do you want to give right now?" Check out what tips people shared in the thread below!

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50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today No one wants to hear your music or your show. Put headphones on when in shared public spaces.

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Surenu
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I use headphones when I'm alone at home, too. Audio quality is just better. I only use my (cheap) speakers when I'm cleaning.

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#3

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Spay and neuter your effing animals please.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Domestic cats should also not be allowed to roam outside and kill wildlife indiscriminately. We're not just talking small numbers here but *billions* of creatures and decimating wild populations that are already under pressure.

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How many times have you had to fight the urge to give some unwanted advice, Pandas? Try not to feel that guilty – having opinions is natural, after all. But we do have to be careful when we start offering our opinions and advice to people who didn't exactly ask for it. 

According to VeryWell Mind, people do it with good intentions: out of altruism, friendliness, or just pure excitement. However, it can also satisfy the less-dignified side of us that's needy and helpless. Yes, people sometimes offer unsolicited advice for their sake, not yours – it makes them feel more valued, powerful, and important.

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#4

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today If every facet of your entire personality revolves around a single politician, you need to reevaluate your life choices.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or singer or actor or anyone who doesn’t even know who you are. In fact your personality should not revolve around any other person than yourself.

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#5

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today If someone is treating you badly, stop trying to convince them to treat you better. we’re all adults here, they know what they’re doing. have some self respect and walk away instead.

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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tried all my life to be relevant enough to be treated respectfully by my sister, it just piled on layers upon layers of hurt. I have had to cut her loose at the age of 57 to her 61. Finally realised you can't teach an old dog new tricks. She was never gonna change no matter how many times I bailed her out of a bad situation she would be nice while she needed me and then revert to putting me down when she no longer did. Final straw was when her own daughters told me not to let her do what she was doing and that they actively avoid her because she is a narcissist and says evil things even about them.

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Other times, friends can start offering advice when the person seems helpless. In these cases, according to Elizabeth Scott, Ph. D., the person should clearly communicate that they're not looking for advice.

There are times when people just want to vent about their problems, to pour their hearts out. That doesn't necessarily mean they're looking for guidance. But in some cases, all the complaining might get too much for their friends. Then, they might start offering advice just to send a message: "Do something or stop complaining."

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#8

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today If someone asks you a question about something you think is obvious, you aren't obligated to s**t on them in the process of giving an answer.

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#9

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Telling the truth is not an excuse to be unkind. "Brutal honesty" is a person making excuses for being a jerk. If you can't tell the truth kindly, you need to go back to basics.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those who claim to be 'brutally honest' are more interested in being brutal than in being honest.

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Then there are the unhelpful motives behind giving unsolicited advice. Experts warn to look at these signs seriously, as it might mean that the one offering the advice can be emotionally abusive.

Those with narcissistic tendencies like to "teach" people how to live, as it gives them power and attention. Their advice might not even be helpful because, most times, it's about them and not the other person.

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#10

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Parents are raising adults. If your adult child doesn't know how to do something, it's because the parent failed to teach them. Nothing outside of organ function is automatically known.

Also, stop expecting children to have better emotional regulation than adults.

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DarkViolet
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! You don't learn basic skills via osmosis; you are supposed to be TAUGHT those skills. Stop trying to turn children into miniature adults. For crying out loud, let them be KIDS.

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#11

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today If you don't know, say so.

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mommamarmar
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's also NOT hypocritical to change stance on something when you become better informed. It's a learning experience.

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#12

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today You don’t have to have an opinion on everything.

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Skara Brae
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or more to the point, you don't have to TELL people your opinions.

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Others like to give out advice because they want to assert dominance, to be the knowledgeable one in the relationship. If they're the ones always giving advice and putting themselves into a position of authority, it may be time to reconsider the friendship.

#13

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today When building a taco, put the cheese in first, then the hot filling. The hot filling will melt the cheese, which will form a mechanical bond with a taco shell, and help the shell hold together so it's less likely to break and dump Taco guts all over your shirt.

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#14

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today You don’t have to be good at something, you don’t have to get better at it, you don’t have to engage with it for some particular reason, just enjoy the activity; that’s fine.

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mommamarmar
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You also don't have to monetize your hobbies. I hate being told "oh you're so good at X! You should set up an Etsy/sell them!"

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#15

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Shut up. That's my actual unsolicited advice. People need to listen more.

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Daya Meyer
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am actually counting those sentences I wasn't able to finish because of an interruption of someone else. On a daily basis I talk to three, maybe four people. Sometimes I count to seven.

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Friends and family aren't the only ones we get unsolicited advice from. Strangers sometimes like to do it, too. Often, it's because they're coming from a place of judgment. While this can also happen amongst friends, it often comes across more like an insult than advice. If a friend offers this kind of advice, mental health experts suggest spending less time with them.

#16

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Please, please wear ear protection at concerts/loud events. You may be fine now, but it sneaks up on you years later.

Signed,
A Gen X-er with permanent tinnitus/partial hearing loss.

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#17

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Look at the dessert menu first, then plan your meal accordingly.

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#18

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Go seek a place with very little/no light pollution & stargaze. Not enough people have seen a truly dark sky - and it’s going to keep getting harder to find them as cities get bigger & population increases.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember the night sky from Europe in the 1980's, I could see so much more - luckily, the knowledge about light pollution is spreading and people/cities are taking steps against it. In more recent years, I went to the Karoo desert and the Pacific Ocean, and both had amazing night skies.

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For drama lovers, it's all about the conflict. They love it, and they thrive on instigating it. These people, according to Scott, feel power by telling others how wrong they are.

They even bring up topics for discussion by giving lots of advice – their goal is neither to help nor to demonstrate their sophistication. They mostly take the opposite side to whatever argument the other person presents.

#20

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today If you’re pregnant, don’t get a puppy.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We adopted a puppy and found out my wife was pregnant 2 weeks later. Son and doggo are bff.

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#21

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Wash yer a*s.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Turn your fsking toilet paper the right way round, you monster!

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#22

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today My favorite advice is “the only person you should compare yourself to is your past self” learned it myself a while ago. Everyone has a different perspective and journey. I’m 31 and it looks a lot different than my mom’s 31 or my sister’s or my high school valedictorian’s. And that’s ok. My goal in life is to be happy that’s all.

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#23

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Invite the people that are always inviting you, they shouldnt always be the one initiating things.

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#24

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Don't stay with someone who is bad for you because you don't want to be alone. You're wrecking yourself for future partnerships and you're wasting precious time you'll never get back. If you're in a relationship that isn't healthy: leave.

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Angela Darling
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...Don't fall in love w. someones Potential!! It may NEVER be what you can see!!

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#26

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Move more, before its too late.

Being lazy causes damage. Just move.

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WindySwede
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes laziness is not the reason?! So many reasons why not moving. Using the word lazy just stigmatises it even more?

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#27

Listen to your gut instinct. You may not understand why you don’t trust someone or like someone, but eventually you’ll see the reason. The times I’ve been hurt or burned the most was when I didn’t trust myself & wanted to just give others a shot because I feel like I’m too judgemental, but my gut hasn’t ever been wrong.

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Jules (they/them)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having anxiety disorders makes it so that every instinct feels tens times heightened than needed, hard to trust myself sometimes because of that 😅

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#28

Stop having children if you know you can’t afford them.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get where this is coming from but I have a friend who is a hard worker. He doesn't make much money but he doesn't really have the capacity. He's got a kid. He's on assistance. I like to imagine my tax money goes to him. Poor people shouldn't be banned from having children.

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#29

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Go offline for a while.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Read a book, i got some funny looks because i was reading a book on the luas instead of on my phone and an older man sat across from me and took out his book and smiled at me and said, i was scared people would think im old for reading an actual book these days

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#30

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Hope for the best, but plan for the worst. Never make a decision with the presupposition that you will succeed and you will rarely find yourself caught off guard. That's not to say you should think you can't succeed, just that you should set yourself up so that failure doesn't wipe you out. It's like wearing your seat belt while driving: it's there to save you if things don't work out.

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#31

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Vote. A presidential candidate will never be perfectly in line with your beliefs. The best you can do is try to move the needle in your direction. Look at the policy and positions. Find which candidate will move you closer toward what you want. Because not voting is effectively working against your own personal interests.

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mommamarmar
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also: don't vote for someone JUST because they're in a specific party alignment you identify with. I've voted for democrats, republicans, independents, all of the above. Please educate yourself BEFORE voting.

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#32

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Take a moment everyday to step out of your house and appreciate the world. No matter what happens today, tomorrow or in a hundred years: that sun will rise. There might be flowers you can smell. Maybe the birds are chirping.

It's very grounding during chaotic times.

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#34

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Use multiple forms of birth control if you really don’t want kids. The pull out method is not reliable, don’t be stupid.

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#35

Preventative maintenance is the best maintenance.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A stitch in time saves nine, as English-speaking grandmothers everywhere have said for centuries.

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#36

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Take care of your kids.

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DarkViolet
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your kids shouldn't have to get the unconditional love and encouragement they need from teachers, friends' parents, and other family members.

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#37

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today No one deserves to have power over you so much that you don't get to live your life.

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#38

You don't have to have everyone like you.

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#39

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today The more you post about how wonderful and perfect your relationship is the more I think it's actually on the rocks and close to ending.

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#40

Enjoy life as much as possible. Make it your mission to enjoy the heck out of everything you can. .

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Jessica SpeLangm
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take weekend trips when you can. Just getting away for a couple of days is an excellent way to enjoy life. You don't have to spend a lot of money either. Heck, I go 3 hours away from home in any direction to another city (not even another state) and I feel like I've been on vacation. It's glorious.

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#41

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Let it go, it’s not worth it.

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Shayne Randlett
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you're hanging over the edge of a cliff and the thing you're holding onto is a rope

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#42

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Workout and stretch while you’re young it’ll start a good habit and your body will thank you for it.

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cerinamroth
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But it's also never too late to start, or to get back into it if you've let it slide due to having a difficult time!

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#43

Don't date to marry, date to get to know people. You will learn more about yourself and others and can gauge where you need to keep people in your life.

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Flopsy
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Marriage is overrated, I have been with my partner for 12 years, bought a house and had 2 kids, but can’t be bothered to get married.

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#44

Let people misunderstand you.

Trying to control the narrative will drive you insane. If you’re a genuine good person, it wont matter anyways, any lies can and will come forward.

Life is too short to not be yourself because someone assumes some nonsense about you. Just let go, if they dont want to look at you deeper than a surface level, then they probably don’t care enough to matter anyways.

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Ken Beattie
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm... I'm not sure I agree with this one. It's going to really depend on what the misunderstanding is about. Misunderstandings can be hell on relationships, personal, romantic and professional. I think if something is important, then it's absolutely important that you're not misunderstood. And the whole, "if you're a genuine good person, it won't matter anwyay"... NOPE! Imagine your boss thinks you've said something racist, or that you insulted a customer or similar, you won't magically keep your job because you're a "good person", you need to clear up that misunderstanding asap.

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#45

For my younger coworkers…

Just because your career has been easier, doesn’t mean you’re better at your job.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It also can mean it. I'm old, there are some sharp kids out there that work hard

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#46

Go to a hobby subreddit, something you feel you know *really* well.

Look at the comments with terrible advice, things that are objectively wrong, by people who talk with authority.

Extrapolate that across all social media.

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Annik Perrot
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All other media, too. Long ago I read some arrant nonsense in a newspaper about à subject I knew really well, and I realized they must write à lot of bullsh*t about all the other subjects, as well.

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#47

When people tell you to get counselling before having a child. Do it.

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Angela Darling
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Therapy is NEVER a bad idea!! EVERYONE has something to learn about themselves!

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#48

Quit smoking. Just because your doctor says your lungs and heart are strong it doesn’t prevent calcification of veins and arteries which can cause amputations. It’s one of the top 5 causes of pancreatic cancer.

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#49

The key to being charismatic is making the other person feel good about themselves.

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#50

50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Being in a band is like being in a marriage with three other people. There are some great exciting moments but then there is drama and the expectation to perform when you really don't feel like it.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why I play by myself for myself! I don't want to be a rockstar. Its just that making music makes me smile. Being in the pocket in the groove is magical.

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#51

No matter how young you are, start planning your retirement!

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS DOES NOT MEAN merely investing in 401Ks or the like. Goal one is getting out of credit card debt; such debt is infinitely more expensive than mortgages or even car loans. Find out about consolidating debt. This doesn't mean never use a credit card, but pay everything off by the end of the month. Goal two should be getting together enough cash to pay about 6% of the price of a home. That may take several years, but this isn't a great moment for buying houses anyway. And there's no problem with overshooting 6%. Talk to a real estate agent, not just an investment agent. Rent out space if you need to afford it. If doing this means you have to put off a retirement fund, fine. In fact, if your work puts money into a 401K plan, take money out if you need to to get 6%. If you're on good terms with your parents, have a long talk about whether they ever want grandchildren. If reaching 6% seems impossible even for a "starter home," get the f**k out of your city.

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#52

Dont ignore the red flags, for the love of god.

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#53

For those struggling with mental illness and don’t feel heard by their loved ones, keep in mind not everybody knows how to respond or provide empathetic support in moments of crisis - you are still loved and cared for, not everybody understands but there are people out there who do

Edit: seeing as this is sitting well with people - something I learned in crisis intervention training is E.L.O.R.A (lead with Empathy, listen, offer validation/support, respond accordingly, ask how they feel)

TL;DR- not everybody knows how to react or respond in moments of crisis, you are still loved and supported despite the level of support you receive in the moment.

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#54

When it comes to family/friends, your time is worth more than gift giving.

I don't want a text message. I want to hear your voice.

Stop loving me from afar. Be present.

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Octavia Hansen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some people in my life that are GREAT long distance and short periods of time. And the few times I get together with them is better than them constantly wearing me down. Think of it as clothing . . . wear the appropriate gear for the time needed. No, this is not mean . . . diversity doesn't have to be everything-all-the-time.

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#55

Don't keep 9v batteries open in a junk drawer or without the terminal covers on them. If a piece of metal touches both terminals it will short and can start a fire. That's what burned my old neighbors house a wile back.

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#56

If you are in an abusive relationship, make a plan to get out and to a safe place, and get a restraining order on that person immediately.

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cerinamroth
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only it were that easy. It's a steady process of being worn down - even the strongest rock can be eroded if the conditions are just so. You end up hollowed out and with no agency of your own. If there are kids growing up in that environment, that's all they know and they assume it is normal. They will probably still love the abusive parent and strive for their acknowledgement/approval and love, even though they will probably never get it.

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#57

If you wake up really hungover, you are most likely still legally drunk. +.08 bac.

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Auntriarch
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. People drive with a hangover, you may not feel drunk, but you're not sober.

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#58

Life improves dramatically when you stop drinking. Dramatically. And in ways you would never have thought it would.

Nobody needs alcohol, and there is no safe amount of alcohol one can drink.

Sobriety from alcohol gives you mental clarity like you wouldn't believe, at least it has for me.

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Captain Kyra
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't need alcohol but I do enjoy it. I think that is because I have never been drunk. I set a limit and I keep to it

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#60

Almost any moment can be a peaceful moment if you don't carry anger/anxiety/etc around with you. There is no other time than right now.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The answer is simple but not always easy, and it's practicing acceptance and gratitude. This might look different depending on the situation.

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#61

Don’t wait for something to be handed to you. You gotta reach out and grab it.

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50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Don’t go to college for business unless you’re planning on getting your masters or you are attractive. If you’re not one of those things, you will be stuck in a cubicle.

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#63

Understanding and knowing are 2 completely separate things, knowing something is actually super useless in practical application bc it amounts to nothing more than having words in a certain order inside your own brain. Understanding is actually comprehending the concepts those words apply to so you can work with them.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Understanding is impossible without this 'super useless' knowledge. Try googling something that you don't know the name of.

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50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Save at least $50 from every paycheck. More if you can.

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#65

Taxes are due very soon.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is basically life in a nutshell. Finish this years taxes prepare for next. Yay adulthood

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#66

Don’t push hard with your tongue, just place it and build a rhythm. When you hear don’t stop, it means keep doing what you’re doing, no harder, no faster, if anything pull away a little and enjoy the reaction.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first sentence I thought this was about keeping your ice cream centered on the cone when you enjoy it. I now realize I was wrong.

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50 Bits Of Unsolicited Advice That May Be The Thing You Need To Hear Today Having a relationship means sharing your life with someone else. If you are lonely, miserable, and feel like your day to day life is a s**t sandwich, you will probably remain alone until you can offer the other person something that tastes better then a bite of a s**t sandwich.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-fitness/201001/you-dont-need-love-yourself-first

#68

Reduce the weight and squat below parallel. Your muscles will develop faster/better.

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Searing the meat won't lock in the juices.

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Jason
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like this is bad advice. If it's a steak , dry aged, then the highest temperature possible. Let rest before cutting.

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#70

Do yoga for a month.

You’ll feel like a new person.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the idea of yoga, I just hate DOING yoga. I don't know why. Maybe one day I find yoga I like doing.

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