Thanks! You know, I was just saying to a friend of mine that when I grew up I had issues resenting kids who didn't appreciate their parents. When you have bad parents it's tough. But don't let the commenters below disparage the conversation. I'm doing just fine. In fact, I chose not to have children myself so I could have a better life. I'm pretty a-ok with it.

Thanks, it's all good. I learned years ago that I'd be just fine without him.

Dude, come yourself. It's okay.

Lalita, it's because he got her pregnant and shouldn't be able to just escape responsibility while she carries all of the burden.

You are a disgrace

Lol, you have issues. If you're so comfortable with your rights as a man, don't have sex then, there problem solved.

No one should be forced to be a parent, either men or women, and many places not allowing abortions is doing just this. If you are forcing someone to be something they wholeheartedly do not want, trust me you are better off without them because they will HATE IT and hate you and make your life miserable. This guy had chosen not to have kids and this was a complete unforeseen accident, so i wouldn't blame him if he didn't want to take responsibility, but at the end he did. IF however parents choose to get pregnant and have kids, and then last minute decide "you know what? i don't actually want this, i will just abandon everyone and f**k off" THEN you are the real piece of s**t yeah.

i didn't see that part where they said they did one. thats crazy! but i still think some how somewhere a doctor mucked up.

Yes, that magical little baby "hid" from an ultrasound. Stopped his heartbeat during it too? Amazing.

I want to add to Shari H's comments. A friend of mine was told her baby would be born a vegetable due to hydroencephalitis...she went to term anyway & the swelling went down enough by then for the baby to be born comepletely normal. Doctor's make big mistakes in their interpretations sometimes.

Ultrasounds are not fool-proof. Heck, when my mother was 6 months pregnant with me I stopped moving and the doctor could not find my heartbeat. He told my mother I would be stillborn, and thankfully she chose to carry me to term anyway. She said my first cry was the best thing she'd ever heard.

ultrasound doesn't use radiation, its sound waves creating images. like echolocation.