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Whether we like it or not, we’re all privileged. In different ways. In different amounts. But we’ve all got some type of advantage over others. And sometimes… sometimes we don’t even realize we’re privileged. No, not in the classic way you’ve probably read about on the internet! Some privileges don’t actually sound like privileges so some folks don’t realize that’s what they are. In other words, they’re ‘invisible.’

Redditor Woo_loo asked their fellow online users to name a privilege that most people don’t realize is a privilege and their thread went viral. From pointing out that feeling safe in your own home is something a lot of us take for granted to having the ability to read or even a bed to sleep in, some of these responses hit home hard with the simple fact that we take so many wonderful things for granted.

Have a read through some of the best responses that redditors have answered with and upvote the ones you agree with 100%. And be sure to read on for Bored Panda’s interview with the original poster of the thread, redditor Woo_loo themselves.

#1

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Not knowing what war actually is like

Man-X98 , Lukáš Trstenský Report

#2

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Living without constant physical pain. The idea that most people just exist without nonspecific pain is baffling to me.

booklovinggal19 , Karolina Grabowska Report

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Mrs_ Possum
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And worse, invisible pain that people label you as somehow 'dramatic' or 'weak' for suffering from if you mention it. Been there, done that, been ridiculed for having a bad day 😬 Be kind, ppl.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Feeling safe in your own home. Not worrying about rats, mice, roaches, bed bugs, bricks being thrown through windows, violence outside, break ins.

soccer_trekkie , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Earned my way to achieve this privilege. This was my youth that I managed to climb out of.

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Woo_loo’s thread got 12k upvotes on the r/AskReddit community, over 7k responses, as well as a whopping 92% upvote rate. What’s more, the redditor got 58 medals for their efforts in bringing such an important and intriguing discussion to the forefront.

Redditor Woo_loo was very open with Bored Panda about what inspired them to create the thread and the fact that they didn’t expect their submission to “blow up like this” on the net.

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#5

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to hold the hand of your partner in public without harassment or the fear of something bad happening to you.

weekendweeb , Anna Shvets Report

#6

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Waking up and just being able to see. What’s that like? No glasses, no contacts. Just wow.

professional_amatuer , Nataliya Vaitkevich Report

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Phoenix
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve had my glasses for such a long time I can’t remember when my vision wasnt so blurry. Got them in second grade, am now almost to college and I’m told they’re so bad that I probably can’t get the laser surgery thing.

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Woo_loo explained to us that what inspired them to turn to r/AskReddit with their question was their line of thinking about all of the things that we have but we’re not constantly aware of.

“I was thinking about how people always say that we should be grateful for things like clean water and education so I wanted to know what else we were taking for granted that isn’t talked about,” they said.

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#7

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to walk alone, especially at night, without any worry at all.

llcucf80 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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Noez 🇸🇪
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never done that. And I almost LOL:d at that thought before I realized how sad it was.

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#8

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having a bed. When I was ages 8-11, my siblings and I had to sleep on the floor because we lived in a tiny one-bedroom apartment.
I remember turning twelve and finally getting to sleep in my own bed after three years of not having one. It was euphoria.

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There was a scene in "The Blind Side" where Michael said he never had one of those before. The mom asked - A room? He answered - No, a bed. I felt a stab to my heart instantly.

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#9

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having an emotionally mature parent.

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Tiredpossum
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

still don't have one. I still have to live with them tho. I'm not that old

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In the redditor’s opinion, all of us, no matter how rich or poor, happy or miserable, all of us have something to be grateful for. However, Woo_loo pointed out to Bored Panda that they don’t expect that anyone’s constantly thinking about their privileges and how much they appreciate them. Imagine how exhausting it would be to always be grateful for hundreds of small wonders, every hour of every day. There wouldn’t be any time for living and making great experiences.

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#10

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Sleeping through the night

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#11

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being in countries where you are able to speak insults to, openly criticise or question authority without going to jail

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Within reason (excluding threat to life/well-being of others) we have freedom to express ourselves in the UK... I think that with free speech comes the responsibility to respect others' point of view too.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Fresh water from the tap. Imagine living in rural Africa. Or Flint, Michigan.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up in rural Africa, and our tapwater was as clean as you could want it. On the other hand, for the first four years we only had electricity twice a day for an hour, but we made it work.

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One of the things that Woo_loo believes (especially after reading through all of the plentiful responses that their question received on Reddit) is that we’ve all got a responsibility to help those in need and those in a worse position than ours. In short, the redditor is a humanitarian with a very honest desire to lend others a helping hand.

#13

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having pets. So many people discard them like they're playthings over the most mundane reasons.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love my two cats- they are my chosen companions and would NEVER treat them like a non-living possession. I HATE when people do that. The only thing I control is their access to outside- too many unvaccinated cats in my neighbourhood. I also make sure they have enough good quality food, clean water and litterbox. (PS the eldest of the two is sitting on the desk next to me at this moment, keeping an eye on me).

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#14

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them A hot shower every day

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#15

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being healthy instead of disabled and chronically ill.

jesusislord67 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

health is everything and you never get it until you are sick

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“We should try to help people acquire the privileges that we take for granted and be a lot more aware of it. Not everyone has the same chances in life but we can make it as fair as possible,” the redditor opened up to Bored Panda, alluding to the idea that we’ve all got to do our best to ensure that society lives by the principle of equality of opportunity.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having a family that loves you. I grew up in a pretty loving family. It was somewhat dysfunctional, to be sure, but my mother loves me as does my sister. So did my grandparents. We were always a close family and we helped each other when possible. We were always supportive too.

I went to school with people whose parents couldn't have [cared] less about them. I mean straight up, just didn't give a [damn] if their kids lived or died. If your parents actively tried to keep you off drugs and off the streets and were emotionally supportive and not abusive, count your blessings.

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom worked numerous hours at dead end jobs, never saw me on weekends cuz she's working, but I knew she loved me.

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#17

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Honestly, Memory.

When Alzheimers hits, your brain is basically dead. That disease is heartbreaking for every party involved

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work with people with dementia. It is indeed heartbreaking, especially for their family who are now seeing a beloved parent that often doesn't recognise them, is aggressive, distressed or has reverted to a child-like state & can no longer feed or even toilet themselves. My 'privelege' is that both my elderly parents are healthy in body & mind... I give thanks for this every day & never take it for granted.

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#18

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being conventionally beautiful

It gets you more than dates. It influences prison sentences; attractive people are less likely to get convicted, and more likely to get lighter sentences when they are convicted.

Job interviews, assessments of intelligence and academic performance are all biased to favour good looking people. They are also more likely to benefit from kindess from strangers

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If you’re not familiar with equality of opportunity as a concept, it’s all about making sure that everyone’s able to compete for social status, as maintaining high social mobility. Or, in other words, it’s all about looking at people’s merits, efforts, and skills, not the social position they were born in. To sound all pop-culture for a moment, I’ll say that equality of opportunity is the rags-to-riches myth that the American Dream is built on.

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#19

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to read.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in education for a good chunk of my life and saw firsthand what low or no literacy can lead to... I had young people at age 16 who could barely string a sentence together and had great difficulty accessing the information they needed to learn successfully. I could provide simplified texts for them but even those were beyond their abilities... I'm sure they've gone on to struggle in life because of it.

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Being able to live with your parents past the age of 18

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In Woo_loo’s opinion, having access to clean water and proper education are the most basic privileges that absolutely everyone should have in their lives. Without them, you’re barely surviving. “Dirty water can result in many problems that most of us don’t have, but I also think that education is the most important because it's the backbone of society and people need it to improve their lives and establish a better place to live in.”

#22

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being a person of average height.

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Deborah B
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being a man of average or greater than average hight. Short men are discriminated against more than short women. For women the reverse, small is 'petite, delicate, cute' above average height, there's discrimination.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Not having social anxiety. Imagine how breezy life must be. The amount of effort I have to put into doing normal things like checking out at the grocery store is incredible. I keep telling people that I got better over the years, but it's not so much that social interactions get less scary but more like I'm better at getting ready for said social interaction... or better at pretending that I'm uh, "normal." I'm almost 30 and I still feel like a seven year old who's mom left them at the grocery line to grab something real quick.

Kuneria , Andrea Piacquadio Report

#24

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having indoor plumbing

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once met a couple from a small village in Siberia. They didn’t have indoor plumbing or central heat, but they said it was okay because “we have warm sleeping bags”. 😳 I have never felt so wimpy before.

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The redditor candidly shared their opinion that we should all stop acting like all of these privileges, small and big, don’t exist. “Everyone has some kind of advantage in life that others don’t and I'm not talking about the privileges that people talk about on Twitter to cancel someone, but the ones that are so natural to us that people don’t even realize that they exist.”

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#25

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them No student loans. Don't take it for granted guys.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on where you're living. In most countries loans are indeed loans which are pretty easy to pay back. In other countries they will be an eternal burden because you have to pay off 3 times more than you've ever loaned.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Having a roof over your head.

Those that work jobs that don't make a living wage have no means to provide for it. Thus they are forced in to unsafe slums or having house mates.

Every day when I pull in to my drive way I reflect on this daily. There is something to be said about the peace of mind knowing you have a welcoming home waiting for you once your done work.

Like many things we grow accustom to having something with no expectations of change, this is something I'm always grateful and respectful of.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was homeless for a short period but in my country that means I never had to spend a night on the streets. My local authority provided emergency furnished accommodation until I found a place a few months later. So grateful for that..

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to complain about getting bored/not being able to socialize during a pandemic. If you're able to flourish or even live comfortably during these times, that's a privilege.

TonyStark39 , Nandhu Kumar Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whenever I read an article about people having terrible times because of lock downs and quarantaine, I just imagine being in a war where on top of having to stay indoors, you are cold and hungry, you can get picked up in a razzia, get shot for no reason or get bombed. And suddenly a lock down doesn't seem so bad at all.

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Woo_loo continued: “By making life as fair as possible and establishing a system that helps people who are at the bottom of society and helping them get back on their feet instead of punishing them, we can help them acquire the privileges.” Are you up for the challenge, dear Pandas?

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Education. Where I'm from education is paid through (very high) taxes. We even "get paid" so we can focus on school and not being forced to drop out or take a giant student debt.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally believe that young people should be educated for free whichever route is deemed most suitable for them (apprenticeship, college, university...): we also need to stop stigmatising non-university learning. Not everyone is interested in or capable of studying at that level!

Jenna Howe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, allow for people to grow and change as they age, and support the additional education for that. At 19 you might be eager to learn and do everything about construction. After a decade of that, you might be ready to turn to materials engineering or architecture or landscape design. Or something else entirely. Make those shifts accessible.

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Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or even just being literate. Here in pakistan, I had to walk this maid to her employers house because she couldn't read the street signs or house numbers.

Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can imagine life is more difficult (than it needs to be) for people like the woman you helped, Mohammad, not even having such a basic grasp of literacy. Never mind with having to read labels of products she might have to work with at her job... forget about reading for educative purposes or leisure.

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Marilyn Ransberry
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having a highly educated population benefits everyone in the country.

David Retsler
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone except the banks who profit from crushing people with excessive student loan slavery.

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Dillon Hughes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. Those high taxes are basically you paying to insure the next generation won't run your home/country into the ground. *cough* America...

Lucy Skinner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Students should get more than scholarships - they should have resources for their families, because families often depend on kids to make ends meet or take care of younger children.

Shawn Barry
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

3 tries at community college to try to get a degree in database management/networking and having to drop out each time due to having to go back to work to keep my house from being foreclosed on. having to put my ADHD & depression meds on a CC (before GoodRX and my meds going generic) as single white males get NO help from anyone, and then having it all snowball into bankruptcy. Not such a fan of Capitalism American style

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them my partner has to use IV nutrition because her stomach muscles don’t work properly preventing her from digesting food. Until I met her I never considered being able to eat as something i’m lucky to have.

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Sasha Kuleshov
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your intestines wriggle your food down without you even noticing, that's mind blowing O_O

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to go to a store without worrying if your wheelchair can fit through the aisles of if they have front steps.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's start with being able to leave your house without help, because there's only a staircase!

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Do you think that all of these things are privileges that most people don’t realize are privileges? Why do you think we tend to take so many of these for granted? How many of these privileges do you have without noticing them in your daily lives, dear Pandas? Share your thoughts and any extra examples of unseen privileges in the comment section below.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being able to work from home.

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Suddenly, many people can due to the pandemic. Hopefully, some will continue to do so.

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#32

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Reliable electricity and clean running water.

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#33

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Therapy. Any basic mental health coverage.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is terrible, how can a first world country deny its populace healthcare based on their wealth. Poor health is one of the leading reasons for poverty, it's a vicious circle..

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Being mentally healthy. Basically, my childhood was such that as an adult I have an overactive amygdala - the part of the brain that handles strong emotions and instincts like fight/flight.
As I’ve gotten treatment and medication, and as my situation has gotten better, I’ve had quite a few ‘whoa’ moments where it really hits me that this is how a lot of people naturally see the world.

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#35

A steady income, even one that means living paycheck to paycheck. You have money to support yourself and the means to get assistance where you can. A lot of people don’t have that.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most people don’t, and it’s terrifying! Your whole life changes when this isn’t the case.

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#36

Having all your basic senses (sight and hearing especially).

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sylvantic
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think losing your sense of smell wouldn't be too bad, but others would seriously suck. you'd just need a carbon monoxide detector. i'd honestly like to have a worse sense of smell, mine's really strong and sucks because perfume gives headaches.

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#37

Being able to vote in elections.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many people in my country don't bother voting, and then they are like "OMG, how did these jerks get elected?" Gee, I don't know. (rolls eyes)

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#38

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them To complain. The ability to complain is such a privilege, it's not even funny

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#39

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Not having to send part of your paycheck to your family

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom did this for grandma until grandma passed. For our generation, we give money out of respect during celebrations.

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#40

Growing up in a household where you aren't abused

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#41

Marrying someone you absolutely love. Many often marry for stability, convenience (settling/not wanting to be alone), or because they live within cultures that arrange their marriages.

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giovanna
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But, if you marry for convenience, it's a choice. I'm not talking about arranged marriages. But if you decide to settle for stability etc, it's your own choice

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#42

Bathing.

Basic hygiene in general. I lived on the streets for 4yrs and showers were hard to come by.

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#44

Choosing who gets to touch you or not touch you

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Teucer T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try being a male explaining to women you don't like being touched. You get looked at like you're nuts.

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#45

To be able to taste and smell!

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Viktor Feurer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This "perks" are really under-appreciated. Until you loose your taste for example due to medical conditions...

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#46

Knowing that food is available basically at all times in first world countries

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even during this pandemic there has been little effect felt on food supply here in the UK... i have shopped locally and relied on the basics (milk, bread etc.) and had no difficulty in procuring them.

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#47

A friend mentioned this to me when I was about 28 and we were walking down our city's sidewalk: Man, it's great walking with you, people just get out of our way.

I'm 6'6" 230# (1.98m 103kg) and have lived my entire adult life thinking everyone was courteous and we would each make room for one another..... Apparently, people aren't always making room for one another. I had no clue.

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LesAnimaux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am 5'3" and a woman and one day I decided to NOT move out of the way when people (mostly white men) were walking towards me. It's amazing to see how many people just assumed I would be the one to move.

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#48

Being highly intelligent. I’ve had many colleagues argue they have gotten where they are simply through hard work and determination. They really are very dismissive of the notion that birth is a lottery and genetics are hit-or-miss.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Sis-in-law insists that she, a tall blonde blue-eyed daughter of a family headed by a person earning top 5% income, "worked harder than anyone else" to get a job, etc., and has said "people just need to go get the education to make the money" like it's that easy. Poof! Magic wand waved! Voila! .... And I wonder, what's life like on *her* planet of S-class Mercedes-driving 7-figure-income privilege gotten by luck, marriage, and looks? B/c it isn't her hard work or intellect, and even her family admit that one... *sigh*

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#49

24-7-365 of the following:

Clean, drinking water

Heated water

Heated/cooled indoors

Electricity

Food

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#50

Being able to “pursue your dreams” because you have enough support systems to thrive regardless of outcome.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good one. My parents and grandparents have often told me how hey never had the freedom to choose their education/careers paths when they were my age.

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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them A reasonable commute. Commuting costs and time are a huge issue for poorer people who can't afford housing near where they work, or an issue when they have to get from one job to another.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a short and lovely bike ride to my place of work and my place of university. Very lucky to be in this situation

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#52

Health.

People born with physical defects are destined to be alone and pushed away and I hate it when normal* people tries to lecture anyone (me) on depression, loneliness and a lack of opportunities and how I go through all that because "I want to".

Sometimes I read quotes by celebrities saying "please don't let me be normal" and it makes my blood boil. Lucky, lucky bastards.

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#53

The right to say “no” in any situation, whether it be sexual, social or work related and not be judged for it. Just because a girl wears nice clothes and does her hair and makeup, does not mean her “body said yes” while her mouth said no. Saying no to doing extra for a social commitment does not make me a bitch and refusing extra shifts doesn’t make me one either.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The phrase used by rapists in court was 'she was asking for it, your honour' ie she was dressed 'provocatively' Unbelievably this mitigation was actually accepted until relatively recently and it was also perfectly legal to rape your wife in England too (not anymore thankfully) Rape is the only crime where the victim has to prove the crime took place. Can you imagine this with anything else? Are you SURE you had your car stolen? Did you just leave the doors open in an invitation for someone to...take it? How ridiculous!!

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#54

Being a native English speaker.

I've traveled a bit (which is a privilege in its own right, no matter how hard I've had to work to be able to so so) and everywhere I've gone, I've met people who either speak English or can direct me to someone who does. It's funny to listen to so many Americans complain about foreigners not knowing English, and yet we generally also don't take the time to learn whatever language of whatever place we are traveling to.

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Vorknkx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A joke one of my professors told me: "How do you call a person who speaks three languages? Trilingual. How do you call a person speaking two languages? Bilingual. How do you call a person speaking only one language? American!" :P

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#55

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Walking on a sidewalk. Or in other words, walking in comfort in a relatively safe space in streets.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly a lof of bicyclers won't allow you that safety. I've had several occasions where a bicycler nearly hit me at full speed in a pedestrian zone. Never got an excuse from one of them. Insults, threats and curses? Yes. Excuses? Never.

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#56

Religious freedom. You learn what it's like to be a Muslim in the west when you experience being a Christian in the middle east.

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Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. Religion should be a choice. If you don't want religion, fine. If you do, fine. But don't force it on others. I know they are talking about people being murdered in other countries due to their religion. I am thankful that I am allowed to be agnostic. I know my Catholic relatives are not going to kill me over it. I wish others around the world could freely worship/not worship.

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#57

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Economic and material privilege. People will be quick to define themselves as marginalized without realizing that being a billionaire homosexual is vastly different from being a poor, working-class homosexual, or even just a poor, working-class heterosexual person.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A "billionaire homosexual"? I'm sure that there are many more millionaire homosexuals... but yes, marginalisation has to do with a lot more than sexual orientation. I think gender, race, social class, disability etc. can prove to be more of a barrier to life...

#58

I'm privileged to have healthy children.

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#59

Having healthy teeth.

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#60

Being able to say something negative against your government.

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Aayse
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still find this odd. We, as the citizens give power to the people to govern the country, protect our rights, however, it seems almost impossible after the election.

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#61

Access to painkillers and emergency medical services.

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#62

Being able to sleep through the night without sirens, gunshots, bombs or family members being hauled away through the dark of night.

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#63

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Owning a vehicle.

I can't fathom the amount of times how people dismiss those who don't have their personal transportation and how public transportation isn't always going to match up to their conveniences.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need a car for my job, but if I lived in a city and could get around on foot, bicycle or by public transport, I wouldn't. I estimate my car costs me £500/month to run.

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#64

Decent mental health. Not feeling depressed or anxious at least half the time.

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Vorknkx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a great guy, very smart too, but his OCD is making his life a living Hell. He often feels trapped and hopeless.

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#65

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Hair.

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Neva Nevičica
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I took my hair for granted, it was always healthy and thick, and than out of nowhere i had a bout of alopecia areata. It went away, but it left me in constant fear of it coming back and counting the fallen hairs. And being afraid of getting a fever.

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#66

Being born into a world that is set up for you. As a disabled person the problem was always with me, not with the fact that the world was not set up for people like me.

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#67

Clean air, there's countries that are heavily polluted to the point you can breath fresh air it all smells like smoke and it's not good for the environment

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#68

Owning a dog. You have this incredibly complex creature that loves you no matter how you look or what you are feeling and just wants to be with you and make your life better. Our dogs may just be one aspect of our lives but to our dogs, we are everything.

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Noez 🇸🇪
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. I'm crazy jealous of people who have dogs. I couldn't afford one and even if I was given one for free (as they can cost a lot to buy) I still wouldn't afford the insurance and other costs. I would actually prioritize the dog before myself, but that's not a good way to live in the long run.

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#69

Probably being given a roof over your head and being able to eat 3 times a day.

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#70

A best friend. Not a close friend, but a best friend. One with whom your sense of self is deeply intertwined.

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Gabby M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The one who will help you get rid of the body no questions asked.

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#71

Not wanting to die. Being able to forget. Leaving your house without taking anxiety medicine. The sun "rising" every day.

These are endless.

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Malakai
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember this feeling, and it saddens me to think that so many who feel like this can't get the help they need to get through it. It's sad to think that I was more fortunate to receive treatment for suicidal depression and be able to afford it at the time--this is something EVERYONE should have affordable access to.

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#72

To never know desperation.

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InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you are gasping for a piss and you drop your front door key?

#73

Never experiencing bullying. I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.

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Dre Mosley
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Experienced it from the same bully for a few years. I take a dark pleasure in knowing my bully's life is pretty much a trainwreck.

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#74

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them Growing up with 2 stable parents in the home.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think many of us grew up with two unstable parents in the home when it would have benefitted us all to have only one stable parent... I have great respect for alternative family setups too, e.g. multi generational households, multi family households etc.

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#75

Having your own bedroom

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#77

Normal sleep. Have ptsd and the only serious issue that comes from it for me are night terrors.

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Teucer T
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a combat vet, the fact that I don't have PTSD got me tagged with "borderline personality disorder with sociopathic tendencies"... I asked, and the reason I was given was "It is abnormal for someone with your experience NOT to have PTSD."

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#78

Eating every day, being warm, being safe, not usually worried about surviving the night.

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#79

The fact that we shower using clean, drinkable water while there are countries that dont have a clean water source.

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#80

Free time

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StIJN
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and ironically "PAID TIME" is for some people also a privilege

#81

Being truly happy. I was in a really bad place for so long, and I was never really happy. I had some fleeting moments of joy, but they never lasted. Now, while I'm still trying to get over it, I have started to get back the happiness I lost at 9 years old.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the "pursuit of happiness" is a folly... it causes people unending misery because they will always fall short (btw advertisers know this to be the truth). 24/7/365 happiness is not possible and shouldn't be humanity's goal. If people would settle to be content and savour the moments of joy when they happen, they would be much more at peace with themselves and the world.

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#82

Finding romantic love and having a partner who really loves and supports you til death actually parts you from eatchother.
I've been alone and single for so long that I am convinced that loves isn't meant for me.

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everyone wants to be or should be in a romantic relationship... I think too often this notion that you must be coupled up as an adult is actually very toxic and leads to people being in relationships that are not good for them. I think people need to have a good, deep think about what it is they actually need/want.

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#83

Living in a developed country. Regardless of your situation. There’s middle class people in developing countries that only dream of having the privileges of low income people in developed countries.

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Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Umm, I'm not too sure about this one. The middle class in developing countries are a lot more privileged than low income people in developed countries. If you're comparing the same economic class in both countries, you are correct.

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#84

Central heat and air.
Most people take it for granted that you can just go to the thermostat and turn it up if they're cold or turn it down if they're too hot. But not everybody can do that and it sucks, really really bad, if you can't.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Grew up without it. Ice inside the house on the floor and windows when I was a kid. That would be unthinkable now..

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#85

Being able to look up absolutely anything on our phones at any time within seconds.

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#86

Having windows that don’t leak cold air into the house

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InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We did when I was a kid, icy on the inside as well, before we got central heating.

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#87

Being able to buy luxuries. Some people can only buy things that are absolutely necessary, because they don’t have much money. I think people need to acknowledge how many things they have before being ungrateful.

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King Joffrey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up poor by modern standards but had a very happy (almost idyllic) childhood, thanks to very loving parents. Yes, I didn't have expensive clothes and I didn't go abroad until I was 17 but we had amazing camping holidays 'by the river' and in the age before social media, I wasn't really bombarded with 'how the other half live' so didn't know better.

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#88

Freedom to speak.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on what you're saying. Freedom of speech is no carte blanche to spew your hate or incite to violence.

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#89

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don't Notice Because They Have Them I'm honestly suprised that I haven't seen anyone post this yet. WiFi. Especially good WiFi. Where I grew up, almost no one had WiFi, and the few people/places that did, barely had any.

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being able to choose who governs you. Most humans who have ever been alive have not had a say in the matter. A larger portion of currently living humans have that privilege than at any point in human history

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#91

Not living everyday in pain.

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#92

Being "Zero Waste". For example, if you have a medical condition that requires a lot of medication, or many medical procedures in general, it's not a choice to use tons of plastic and other disposable materials all the time.

I know this is silly, but some people that choose to be zero waste don't realize that is not just a choice.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Medication (ie pills) used to come in a glass bottle with a screw top. Perhaps the chemist would put it in a paper bag. All of it was recyclable. These days you get a plastic bag containing a cardboard box that has your foils of medication contained in it. Along with that is a MASSIVE sheet of contraindications folded like a map and squeezed in the box. If you have an 'odd number' of pills to get ie just a bit more that the normal box qty, then you'll get a big box half full. The plastic and the foils can't be recycled and this will FILL your bin! What was wrong with the glass bottle??

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#93

Attractiveness

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#94

Growing up in a healthy, functioning family with two parents

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NMN
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, you can have a healthy functioning family with one parent. I'd think such ridiculous stigma would have been gone already.

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#95

Being normal sized. I’m 6’4, 350. I have almost completely stopped shopping for clothes in stores.

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InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

6'3 and about 240, it's bad enough for me, when I find something that fits, I buy 10 of the same thing.

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Having a healthy body weight.

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