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Sometimes we need to brace ourselves before hopping online. Reading the news and scrolling through social media can be unexpectedly distressing experiences. You never know what tragic event has occurred since the last time you checked in with the world, but we can expect one thing: the news is usually filled with more upsetting stories than uplifting ones.

For a refreshing change of pace, many people turn to the Unexpectedly Wholesome subreddit. With a community of over 170k members, r/UnexpectedlyWholesome is a warm, safe place where users share situations they’ve experienced or seen online that end in an uplifting twist. From parents being surprisingly supportive to animals acting as adorable as ever, enjoy this list of reminders that our world still has plenty of positivity left to go around. Then if you’re in need of even more heartwarming content after finishing this piece, we’ve got you covered with another Unexpectedly Wholesome Bored Panda list right here.

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You know that saying “out of sight, out of mind”? I think that idea rings true for a lot of us. And this day in age, where we’re dealing with, or at the very least witnessing, a pandemic, war and the destruction of our planet due to climate change (that we caused!), it can be easy for uplifting stories to fade right out of sight. And it’s not our fault. When all we see in the media is upsetting reports, it's an understandable reaction to feel like nothing good ever happens anymore. But with pages like Unexpectedly Wholesome, we can bring positivity back to the front of our minds, even for just a few minutes each day.

Writer Emily Torres published a piece last year titled “Why Are We Craving ‘Wholesome’ Things In 2021?”, and she hit the nail on the head by saying, “In a year that’s left nothing but holes in our hearts, we’re all trying to find some way back to our whole selves.”

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Major Respect To The Manager Of The Bar

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This makes me feel so good. People watching out for others and bugger the consequences. My faith in humanity went up a notch or two,

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Emily went on to liken the holes in our hearts to nutrient deficiencies that we can help fix with regular supplements like “smell[ing] the clean fur of a sun-drenched puppy”. “Wholesome moments are everywhere,” Emily notes. “If only we’ll pay attention to them.” She recommends readers become more observant in their daily lives and, instead of rushing through things, stop to appreciate the little things. It’s hard to describe the feeling one gets when experiencing or witnessing a purely wholesome moment, but it’s sort of a rush of warmth that almost does give the sensation of a hole being filled.

Emily also notes that being uplifting doesn’t have to be a temporary state. “Being ‘wholesome’ is not a performance; rather, it’s a state of being that is sustainable and life-giving to us and those around us.” It’s natural to feel a longing for wholesomeness, and we owe it to ourselves, and those around us, to feed that desire and allow positivity to blossom.   

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So how do we find positivity in our daily lives? Aside from a few minutes on the Unexpectedly Wholesome subreddit each day, a doctor might also prescribe you a healthy dose of positive-thinking content through books or podcasts. Luckily, the internet has unlimited resources to help you boost your serotonin levels. One book on this topic is The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life by New York Time’s best-selling author Shawn Achor. Achor is the author of 5 successful books, but The Happiness Advantage is his most popular and is described as “the happy secret to greater success and fulfillment in work and life—a must-read for everyone trying to flourish in a world of increasing stress and negativity”.

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I Just Saw This On Fb I Don’t Know If It’s Been Posted Here But I Had All Sorts Of Feels!!! I Definitely Smiled Tho

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As far as podcasts are concerned, the world is your oyster in finding positive content there as well. One popular research-based positive podcast is “The Science of Happiness”, which is hosted by award-winning psychologist Dacher Keltner. The show, which has been running since 2018, now has 115 episodes, with each one featuring tips for leading a more joyful life. Topics the show has covered include “How to Find Your Spark in Life”, “How Gratitude Renews Us”, “24 Hours of Kindness” and “Scheduling Time to Feel Awesome”. Listeners also give the podcast glowing reviews. One fan wrote, “It’s wonderful to learn about yourself through other people’s experiences. It takes the pressure off and allows the listener to be inspired without being deterred by one's own insecurities. These stories are entertaining and thought-provoking.”

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Libstak
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep that there is the rarest of creatures, an actual Christian.

Amy Pattie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Christian my daily battle is figuring out how to leave the fan club but keep Jesus. This guy gives me hope.

lenka
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh how I wish this was what all Christianity looked like.

The lesbian knitting panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the part about transgender siblings (not using a gendered term, very good) was so good. No tenough people in the church accept trans people ❤️🏳️‍🌈

Connie Martin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

United Church of Christ is Open and Affirming of all. Check out a church near you...https://www.ucc.org/church-finder/

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SomePeopleCallMeMaurice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can only imagine the hate mail he gets from those “Good Christian” Karens!

Tamara Kroonen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And now I'm wondering why those Pro Life advocates are not Pro Healthcare. Something's off in society.

Himself
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love the Quran one; Muslims and Christians are actually closely related, so why hate each other?

R A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not closely related at all. Jesus said, “I am THE way, THE truth and THE life, no one comes to the Father, but by me.” God loves each and every one of us but Christ made it clear that only by his blood are we saved.

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Indi Weaver
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay but can we talk about how Harriet deserves to be on the 20$?

J L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not enough to call yourself a Christian. This man embodies Christ in the most meaningful way!

TKFitzy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really appreciate this guy. This is what a real Christian should be.

Hope Cows&Chickens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah-ha! Clackamas. Its a suburb of Portland, Or. Multnomah, Washington and Clackamas counties are very progressive. I'm still attending church online in May 2022. So glad my church on the other side of town is still streaming services!

VeniVidiPanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have ABSOLUTELY no clue as to where Milwaukee, OR is, but I'm moving there, I guess?

ljbeanfield
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who is this man I want to send him a letter. And make it like the post above this with the man with the bow tie ... Maybe not all Christians are bad

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know it does not seem like this from the outside, but we mormons agree with ALL of this (with the exception of some conservative assholes) and we agree that god loves everyone.

Tiki Stanford
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You might, but your prophet does not. Your church administration does not. Many loving people in your ward do not. Even the people who say it is ok to "feel that way" as long as those feelings are never acted upon. To hide in shame is the direction given by the church. The only direction. That's all you get. If you don't agree with that stance I fear you are not an example of an average Mormon. But if you play your cards right, you might one day be an ex-Mormon. Btw, it's ok. Great even. Come on over, the grass is actually greener.

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Tamra Stiffler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there were more like him, Christianity would have a very different image right now.

Mmm K
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love when I see other true Christians like this. Ones that actually spread love and acceptance for all fellow people. This is what we represent.

B_Sirius
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We Oregonians see the world a little differently. Proud to be an Oregonian, where this is the norm and not the exception.

Luna Crow
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oshit, this church is very close to where I am. I haven't been to church in many years (because of hypocrisy), but now I kinda want to check this one out

DoubleHeartDoctor
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I like people who are actually Christ-like rather than a self-proclaimed Christian. It's like my Dad always said, "Simply going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than sitting in a garage makes you a Cadillac."

Damiana De'Mon Rhoades
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hate organized religion. Always will. But right now, thanks to this guy......I hate it all a little less. Hats off my man. YOU are an upstanding human being

Jackie Nettleton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the type of Christian that makes me believe just that bit more, I have met a few good Christian’s and was lucky enough to live with one for my last year of university and the thing I noticed was that they didn’t care about any “rules” that weren’t the Ten Commandments which are just good rules to live by anyway, they are more concerned with their own faith and actions and how they would be received by God

SillySparklyGirl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would appear that Pastor Erickson truly read his bible and absorbed the message. God bless him and his parishioners.💕🙏

Do_You_Think_I_Give_A_Tortilla
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love Christians like this don’t claim that God is some vengeful unforgiving being that punishes the sinners but instead teach that God is forgiving always fair and rewards genuinely good people

Abigael Warners
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The things that say being gay is bad in the bible are simply mistranslations, when someone re-translates them, the homophobes are going to feel pretty interesting

R A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The original Greek is very clear. Just because you read on the internet that it’s “mistranslated “ doesn’t make it true. People like to say this this to make it fit their rhetoric, but it simply isn’t true.

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Heather Glomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If most (with a platform/reach/authority/power) were like him, we wouldn't be in half as big a mess as we are right now.

Kate Blake
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up going to a United Church of Christ church- this is on point

Randy Klefbeck
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to drive by this church lots. I now wish I had attended it. I think this must be a new more recent pastor, because I never saw these signs when I lived in Portland OR.

Addison Bonine
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let me explain something real quick. True Christians are taught to love everyone. But we are also taught what sin is, and that it is wrong. That is the simplest way I shall put it. Infer what you like.

Alexandra Andrews
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10000% AMEN!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Nowhere is it ever mentioned that we are to hate, treat poorly, neglect, or otherwise damage others. We are not to be malicious, or cruel ever. I love This church

Zanshin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He made the list of the five true Christians. Not just the ones who call themselves Christians and then hate and fight others, pretending that is justified by their religion.

AAPnonraeba
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If people stop yapping at Christians in general and just on principle of being mainstream... The more of them might have chance to emerge

BRUHHHHHHH
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a true Christian and who all Christians should aspire to this (including me)

Rachel Gonzales
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend said she never knew I was a Christian because I was so kind. What had her experience been with Christians before?

Mel Rupp
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love the subtle callout to pro-lifers and their "beating heart" rhetoric.

Hydro Keychain
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this were Florida, Gov. DeSantis would lead the charge to burn that church down. DeSantis is PURE evil.

John Apple seed
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is what I love about my Christian community, there is barely any toxic people.

MJ
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an open-minded and accepting Christian, i absolutely love this. We aren’t all bad. Some of us try to actually be like Jesus like we should be if we claim the name “Christian”.

Niall Mac Iomera
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get why people try to be edgy by referring to God as "She". It clearly says in the bible that God is a man. If you believe in God, then you have to also believe he's male. Or at least a man.

Kipper Ferguson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm agnostic but this makes me smile.. Hard to find non-biased christians nowadays.

Kim Lorton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to see more Christians that aren’t worried about whether you are saved or not, but how they can help you, right at that moment. It literally isn’t your business if someone is saved or not. Be there with them, in that moment, and show them you care…like Jesus, all are worthy of love and compassion.

WarpedThoughts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the first church that I (avid anti-religion) Want to go to 🖤

Storm Rise
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there were more people as beutiful as this man, then the world would be a joy to live in!

April Pickett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know they're out there and abiding by the directives of the Bible. Thank you for being real, honest Christians loving your lives, your communities, and holding out hope for people looking for guidance and love.

Kim Kermes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would actually go to that church, and I haven't been in a church for decades other than as a musician.

R41PH3A1
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this but why say God is a he or she when we don't know god's gender. Let's just call God, God. Anyways the messages were really good. But who's king Harold? Because I've never heard of him

Pam Ives
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah, Oregon. That explains 5he rational take on Christian dogma.

Rafal F.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God loves us so much, he caused a flood and killed babies and everyone else except Noah and his family.

OnlyJesusCanSaveYou
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you being sarcastic? Because if so, God does love you, he just hates everyone's sinful nature. He flooded the world because the world was full of sin, and refused to even try to be good. Noah was the only one that tried, and that is why God saved him and allowed him to bring his family onto the ark.

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Amelia Jacobs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's in a red neighborhood in a blue region. It's not far from me.

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Pam Kerr
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where is this church and why aren't there more like that?❤️

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OnlyJesusCanSaveYou
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This man is a Christian in name only. If he allows anyone associated with the LGBTQ into his church without preaching to them repentance, (because it says in the bible that God considers homosexuality an abomination) then he is not a born again believer, and Jesus himself said that no one can enter into the kingdom of heaven unless he is truly born again. It makes me sad to think that this man that considers himself a preacher, is leading so many lost sheep into hell. I hope he repents.

Afoma Tadas-Okonkwo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Christian means Jesus Christ like. Jesus clearly teaches that God is "Father." God is not a she. The world does not define who a Christian is because it doesn't know Jesus Christ.

Cuddly Panda
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course Jesus calls Good "Father", because he was living in a highly patriarchal society that viewed women as property. Are you trying to tell me you think God has a divine dongle? A worshipful wāng? A scared sch|ong?

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How is this Christianity? He's using his podium as a pastor and preacher of God to spread his political and worldly views. This is nothing other than herasy. He's not spreading the word or God, he's calling people with a like mind set to drive more people and more donations to fund the church and his salary. And people actually fall for it and believe it because the like mindset brings trust. "Oh you're like me, I want to know you more, we get along!". Its nothing more than marketing. Not too mention he's doing it in SPITE. This is why I don't go to church.

OnlyJesusCanSaveYou
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my goodness finally! I've been scrolling through all these comments and I've finally found one that is right! It makes me happy to see that there are some people out there who see the truth.

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Jonathan West
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Hey, if a sucker wants to pay a tithe, who cares who they are, right? Priests gotta hustle too!

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He's not a real Christian, he's a feel good Christian leading people straight to Hell. The Qur'an also says to kill those that don't believe Mohammed. He wouldn't be a racist if he was a real Christian.

Cuddly Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh thank God, everybody. We finally found the person authorized to decide who is and is not a "real" Christian. Such a relief.

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This is so sad. There is a difference between loving everyone and supporting everyone's sins. There you go, @SomePeopleCallMeMaurice , Imma be the 17yo "Good Christian" Karen. You can hate on Christians all you want, but don't call false Christians real Christians.

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Unpopular opinion here but some of his points I don't agree with at all. You CAN NOT love both the World & the Father. If you love the World then you hate the Father. You CAN NOT serve 2 masters. This gender subject & lgbtq subject is of the WORLD.....anybody who embraces this hates the Father. It is not my place to judge because my sins are many but I love the Father more than the World. I will choose to love HIM everytime. This "pastor" is leading the flock astray & will have to answer for it when the time comes.

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He's not really a Cristian, he is a leftist phony who cherry picks his religion to support his ideology

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It Warms My Heart To See People Who Are Often Stereotyped As Violent Be Caring And Companionate

It Warms My Heart To See People Who Are Often Stereotyped As Violent Be Caring And Companionate

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Everyone’s definition of wholesome may be slightly different: some people are thrilled by the sight of babies while others only melt when they see adorable animals. Even virtual encounters and memes can be incredibly wholesome for some people. In 2017, Time magazine published a piece titled “How the Internet Is Getting a Little Nicer, One Meme at a Time” detailing the story of how Twitter user @JonnySun gave the Sad Kermit meme, which was viral at the time, an uplifting twist by challenging his followers to turn “a virtual punch line into a symbol of hope”. Some of the captions submitted were “when you remember how much someone loves you" and “when you’re so proud of how far you have come, and excited for how far you have to go". While memes often have a more cynical twist, they can be used to promote a little positivity online as well.

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I Mean, We Were All Thinking The Same Thing

I Mean, We Were All Thinking The Same Thing

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reaction is the perfect "how to be a good example". Love it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how they were just like "show me the dog" like does this happen often

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One of the reasons the posts on this list are so enjoyable is because the endings are unexpected. But why do our brains always jump to the worst case scenario? Why do we start reading something and begin to brace ourselves for bad news? According to Meg Jay, a clinical psychologist, our brains are actually wired to expect the worst. “When early humans were wandering the Earth, underestimating what was around the corner (or in the bushes or the forest) could be deadly,” Meg explains in a piece for Harvard Business Review. “This is why the most primitive parts of our brains take a ‘better safe than sorry’ approach to uncertainties, both big and small.”

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This Is The Most Wholesome Thing That Ever Wholesomed

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Apparently jumping to the worst case scenario, or catastrophizing, is incredibly common, especially for young people. Meg explains that we’re most likely to have a mindset that assumes the worst between the ages of 18-35, because those are typically the most unsettled years of people’s lives. She goes on to note that the development of the prefrontal cortex that’s happening during our 20’s doesn’t help the situation. “That doesn’t mean young adults can’t cope. Rather, it means that now is a great time to hardwire new habits, such as slowing down and thinking things through.” 

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Your Job Is To Help Others

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Beth S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@Izzy Curer One would hope it would be made up, but with the state of the world I have my doubts. There are people that have this very mindset.

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People Helping People

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Meg then goes on to share tips on how we can stop catastrophizing situations and develop healthier habits. Her first tip is to “stop time traveling”. Most of our fears include future events, perhaps months or years from now. But worrying about the future is not conducive to tackling the tasks we need to complete in the present moment. Next, Meg recommends to focus on whatever it is you’re scared of. “Catastrophizing is based on fear rather than on facts,” she explains. Recognizing the actual facts of a situation often helps us realize that we have little to fear at all.

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We Need A Big Strong Woman To Take Care Of Us

We Need A Big Strong Woman To Take Care Of Us

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Next, Meg recommends fearful individuals to play out their worst case scenario in their heads. Although it’s probably not the most likely outcome, imagine what would actually happen. Your life will probably still go on. After realizing the worst case, play out your best case scenario. Meg notes that the best and worst case scenarios are often “simply childlike fantasies” with reality falling “somewhere in between”. She explains that catastrophizing is a way of looking at issues as black and white, but what we need to do is see the grey. There is nuance to every situation, and it’s best to avoid fixating on the ends of the spectrum. 

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My Heart..

My Heart..

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aw sh!t, This made me very emotional. What a lovely thing to receive .

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Gaming Friends Are Real Friends

Gaming Friends Are Real Friends

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I played an online game for a long time with a young lady and her sister in Ukraine, I worry about them everyday, and hope they are doing okay.

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Lastly, Meg notes that, “The real cure for catastrophizing is confidence, and confidence comes from experience.” While it may feel like we hear bad news everywhere we go, there is plenty of news worth celebrating as well. We just need to know where to look. Our instincts are there to protect us, but what would happen if we started challenging them and viewed our lives through a more optimistic lens? What’s the worst thing that could happen? Okay, now imagine what the best outcome would be. Reality is probably somewhere in the middle...

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You Deserve The Money!

You Deserve The Money!

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After reading some of this list, I'm feeling more wholesome already. It has inspired me to bake some brownies and deliver them to my neighbors just for fun. We hope you're enjoying your daily dose of wholesome content as much as we are, and don't forget to upvote and comment on your favorite posts. Then let us know in the comments what wholesome situations you've recently found yourself in to keep the positive vibes flowing!

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It's The Most They Got

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Nenes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its sooo much!! Maybe you guys don't know the worth of cows in East Africa. Let me tell you, one cow can be sold between 350k-500k. Some even go beyond that depending on the size and age. Its also a sign of friendship. When someone gives you a cow you become a brother or sister to them. Now Imagine 14 cows, that's between 7 and 4.9 million.

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Til

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone know which server it’s on/ how to access it? (Being serious here.) :)

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#30

Nice Job Pal

Nice Job Pal

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always think that the only people who look for the names are them or their mums.

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#31

Wholesome Grandpa

Wholesome Grandpa

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I note that some are warning schools against the computer game Fortnite, saying it engenders aggression and violence. I am a 74 year old who likes to play and keep in touch with his 9 year old grandson, who lives 200 miles away. In playing the game, I've come to interact with many of his friends, who are caring and friendly towards the grandpa among them. They never leave me to die, are quick to attend to me when injured and give patient advice. Their politeness, comradship, team spirit, humour and creative thinking would astound their parents, let alone their teachers. It is a priveledge to be counted among them. Believe me, this game has nothing to do with violence and everything to do with fun."

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#32

My Heart!!

My Heart!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like they had some real chemistry together! (Look, someone was going to say it eventually, okay?).

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#33

How Proud This Racoon Is Of Their Art

How Proud This Racoon Is Of Their Art

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#36

Unorthodox Hater Strategy

Unorthodox Hater Strategy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is freakin awesome!! I now consider it a personal challenge to do the same!!!

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#37

Halloween Potato!

Halloween Potato!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boil it. Mash it. Stick it in a stew. The opportunities are endless!

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#42

Bill Skarsgard Scaring Hader By Naturally Making His Eyes Go Sideways

Bill Skarsgard Scaring Hader By Naturally Making His Eyes Go Sideways

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#43

This Little Girl's Rock Displayed In A Local Museum

This Little Girl's Rock Displayed In A Local Museum

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once dated a geologist. She graduated from the school of hard rocks.

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#44

I Felt Like This Belonged Here

I Felt Like This Belonged Here

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#46

Had Me In The First Half

Had Me In The First Half

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kristina law
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just wait til he is 15 and wants to break up with you. Rookie. lol

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#47

Supporting Your Daughter No Matter What

Supporting Your Daughter No Matter What

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#48

An Emotional Rollercoaster From Start To Finish

An Emotional Rollercoaster From Start To Finish

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#49

Sharing This Giggle I Had Today

Sharing This Giggle I Had Today

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#50

Tears Running From My Eyes

Tears Running From My Eyes

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#51

That’s So Cute

That’s So Cute

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Beth S
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so adorable and incredibly sweet. What a kind and selfless person. I do hope this one climbs higher on the list.

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#52

Future Self

Future Self

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Wilko Lunenburg
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Other old guy here. Never regret, anything you did looked like the right thing to do at that time.

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#54

Orangutan Thinks That This Man Has Fallen Into The River And Offers His Hand But He's Really Staff Who Removes Snakes From The River

Orangutan Thinks That This Man Has Fallen Into The River And Offers His Hand But He's Really Staff Who Removes Snakes From The River

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#55

A Rare Instance Of A False Karen

A Rare Instance Of A False Karen

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Ashley Bonner
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awww I love when parents know that there child is messing up, takes full responsibility, and handles the situation like an adult instead of thinkin their precious offspring can do no wrong.

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#56

Something About This Just Makes Me Smile

Something About This Just Makes Me Smile

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#57

Apologies If This Has Already Been Posted

Apologies If This Has Already Been Posted

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Hannah Edwards
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s the best pigeon nest I’ve ever seen! Usually they just toss two twigs together and call it a job well done!

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#59

People Will Always Remember How You Treated Them

People Will Always Remember How You Treated Them

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#60

This Was My Straight, Conservative, 60 Yr Old Grampa's Response About A Year Ago When I Came Out As Trans (Ftm)

This Was My Straight, Conservative, 60 Yr Old Grampa's Response About A Year Ago When I Came Out As Trans (Ftm)

And I completely forgot about it until today since it's his birthday. It was nice to see again since I didn't get a lot of support when I came out.

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#61

Blessed Rain

Blessed Rain

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#63

Two Online Best Friends That Played Gta Together Everynight Met Up To Have Lunch And Take A Few Pictures

Two Online Best Friends That Played Gta Together Everynight Met Up To Have Lunch And Take A Few Pictures

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#64

This Guy Found A Message Written In A Bottle While Fishing

This Guy Found A Message Written In A Bottle While Fishing

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Susie Elle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bottom pic where they throw the bottle back with the rocks hidden underneath the waves is giving me anxiety but aside from that this is really wholesome

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#65

Hit Me In The Feels....

Hit Me In The Feels....

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Scarlett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine being a ghost down there in the bottom of the sea and hearing those messages come through. That would feel so nice

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#66

That's Right, Kid. Nobody

That's Right, Kid. Nobody

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#67

My Heart Is Melted

My Heart Is Melted

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#70

Such A Great Thing To Do

Such A Great Thing To Do

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Aedan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, what heartless person would steal his video games! But those cops are awesome for doing this

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#75

Whether I'm 30, 50, Or 100, I Will Never Stop Playing Video Games. They Make Me Happy

Whether I'm 30, 50, Or 100, I Will Never Stop Playing Video Games. They Make Me Happy

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Ember
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My father-in-law is a PlayStation addict at 77 and loves his first person shooters. I think it’s great!

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#76

A Lifetime Of Lessons Learned In A Few Hours Of Gaming

A Lifetime Of Lessons Learned In A Few Hours Of Gaming

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#77

That's Dedication

That's Dedication

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#80

When You Get Messaged Post Game

When You Get Messaged Post Game

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#82

Your Move, Media!

Your Move, Media!

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Katie Lutesinger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I play Elder Scrolls: Oblivion I sneak food and clothes into the beggars' food bags, and even some cups and plates so they can have a proper meal. It doesn't serve any purpose in the game and in fact nothing happens as a result, but I do it anyway just because I can.

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#87

We Gamers Have A Duty To Make Others Feel Welcome, In Times Like This

We Gamers Have A Duty To Make Others Feel Welcome, In Times Like This

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually those are very hard to make and fill a lot of hunger points so that will be super useful. That is a very nice gift.

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Wish That Was My Boss

Wish That Was My Boss

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#91

Sometimes "I Love You Mum" Can Come Out In Unexpected Ways

Sometimes "I Love You Mum" Can Come Out In Unexpected Ways

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#93

Hey There, Fellow Redditors!

Hey There, Fellow Redditors!

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#94

That’s Some Heart Warming Stuff

That’s Some Heart Warming Stuff

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#95

Respect Towards Janie

Respect Towards Janie

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#96

If You Give Sea Urchins Tiny Hats, They Will Wear Them

If You Give Sea Urchins Tiny Hats, They Will Wear Them

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Izzy Curer
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do they normally do this in the wild, like with shells? Edit: okay, wow, yes they do. Nobody knows why

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#101

I Just Thought This Should Be Here

I Just Thought This Should Be Here

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#103

A Silver Lining

A Silver Lining

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#104

At A Gas Station In Minnesota Or Canada

At A Gas Station In Minnesota Or Canada

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#105

What A Feeling. Back In October My Wife And I Were Placed With A Sibling Group Of 3 Kids, Ages 5, 3, And 10months. After Feeling Overwhelmed And Wondering If We Were Doing The Right Thing, The Oldest Kids Teacher Sends Me This

What A Feeling. Back In October My Wife And I Were Placed With A Sibling Group Of 3 Kids, Ages 5, 3, And 10months. After Feeling Overwhelmed And Wondering If We Were Doing The Right Thing, The Oldest Kids Teacher Sends Me This

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#108

Wholesome App

Wholesome App

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Zero
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great, now I'm personifying my apps and opening them from time to time to make sure they're not lonely. Like rotating my stuffed animals.

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#109

Got A Hero Necklace From My Employer For Working During Covid. Woke Up To This!

Got A Hero Necklace From My Employer For Working During Covid. Woke Up To This!

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Beth S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is awesome and I do hope it also came with a bonus or a raise.

#112

I Told My Internet Friend That I Had Trouble Sleeping Recently. So She Stayed Awake Till 4am For Me

I Told My Internet Friend That I Had Trouble Sleeping Recently. So She Stayed Awake Till 4am For Me

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#113

Well This Just Makes For A Perfect Group Hug!

Well This Just Makes For A Perfect Group Hug!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Full story: They were coworkers, and noticed that they were all wearing the same jacket.(same size, same brand, etc) What else would you do, other than zip them all together? That was not a joke; that is actually what happened.

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#114

Wife Sending A Message To Her Husband Through A Reddit Post

Wife Sending A Message To Her Husband Through A Reddit Post

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#115

Public Nudist Turns His Life Around

Public Nudist Turns His Life Around

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#116

Unexpectedly Wholesomeness In A Youtube Comments Section

Unexpectedly Wholesomeness In A Youtube Comments Section

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#117

Who Knew The Life Of An Ant In A Jar Would Captivate Both Boy And Cat?

Who Knew The Life Of An Ant In A Jar Would Captivate Both Boy And Cat?

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#118

That Caught Me Off Guard

That Caught Me Off Guard

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#119

Unexpectedly Wholesome Shower Talk

Unexpectedly Wholesome Shower Talk

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#120

Spiders Get A Bad Rep

Spiders Get A Bad Rep

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K Sarfo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They eat mites, mosqitoes, ticks and a whole lot of other bugs, so treat them good and they will keep your house healthy(ier)

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#121

Sure, S*x Is Cool And All, But Has Your Math Tutor's 2 Yr Old Daughter Ever Randomly Approached You And Handed You A Flower While You Worked??

Sure, S*x Is Cool And All, But Has Your Math Tutor's 2 Yr Old Daughter Ever Randomly Approached You And Handed You A Flower While You Worked??

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#122

This Is The History Our Kids Will Learn About

This Is The History Our Kids Will Learn About

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