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To put it simply, gatekeeping is an act when someone takes it upon themselves to decide who does or does not have access or rights to a community or identity ("You can't be a real Phoebe Bridgers fan, you just discovered her. Real fans follow her since at least Stranger in the Alps.") If this sounds ridiculous to you, don't worry. You're not alone.

There's a subreddit called r/GatesOpenComeOnIn and it describes itself as the polar opposite of gatekeeping. Created in 2018, this online community collects and shares pictures of wholesome acts of kindness when people had each other's backs. Whether it's encouraging everyone to share their Spotify Wrapped or simply allowing someone to feel tired, it doesn't take much to acknowledge another person's emotions, thoughts, experiences, values, and beliefs. Continue scrolling and check out how it's done.

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Wholesome Patriotism

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As you can see from the pictures, empathy goes a long way. Developing it is crucial for establishing relationships and behaving compassionately. Since empathy involves experiencing another person’s point of view, rather than just one’s own, it enables prosocial or helping behaviors that come from within, rather than being forced.

Sadly, some surveys indicate that empathy is on the decline in the United States and elsewhere. But at least these findings motivate parents, schools, and communities to support programs that help people of all ages enhance and maintain their ability to walk in each other’s shoes.

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    Halloween For Everyone!

    Halloween For Everyone!

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    Come On In And Long As You’re Nice

    Come On In And Long As You’re Nice

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    troufaki13
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If God created all creatures with his infinite wisdom, why would he hate something that HE created?

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    Empathy really is a superpower: it helps us cooperate with others, build friendships, make moral decisions, and intervene when we see others being bullied.

    Humans usually begin to show signs of empathy in infancy and the trait develops steadily through childhood and adolescence.

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    That being said, most people are likely to feel greater empathy for someone like themselves and may feel less empathy for those outside their family, community, ethnicity, or race.

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    Minding Your Own Business Is Free

    Minding Your Own Business Is Free

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    am_c0m0
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Minding our own business would solve a lot of our problems.

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    Like other traits, empathy may have evolved with a selfish motive: using others as a "social antenna" to help detect danger. From an evolutionary point of view, creating a mental model of another person's intent is critical: the arrival of an interloper, for example, could be deadly, so developing sensitivity to the signals of others could be life-saving.

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    Babies display an understanding that people’s actions are guided by intentions and can act on that understanding before they turn 18 months old, including trying to comfort a parent. Advanced reasoning about other people’s thoughts develops around age 5-6.

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    Experts say that people high in narcissism, or who have a narcissistic personality disorder, can exhibit empathy and even compassion. However, that ability only goes so far, as ultimately they prioritize their own needs.

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    Some researchers believe narcissists can become more empathetic by developing greater self-compassion, which can increase their own feelings of security and self-worth and enable them to open up to hearing others.

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    Shout Out To The Solo Eaters

    Shout Out To The Solo Eaters

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This made sense in 2018 when eating in restaurants was normal.

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    Do What Makes You Happy For You

    Do What Makes You Happy For You

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    Steve Haigh
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah, making money out of something you love isn't a bad thing - making it the only reason to pursue a hobby, however, isn't really the point of getting a hobby. The money is an added bonus.

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    Helen Haley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why so many adults have lost their imagination. Imagination and artistic endeavors are such good coping mechanisms, but we eschew them for other forms, like sports. Because then tehre is winning. Or only hobbies we excel at.

    Hans
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I think "do what you enjoy regardless of how good you are at it" should be an universal truth.

    Night Owl
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, as long as you don't bother someone else with it. I love singing but I know I'm not good at it so I don't sing or at least not too loud when there are other people near me (except for family and/or friends)

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    Dirk Daring
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I genuinely needed that. As I'm writing this, it is 6:55am, and now I know it's going to be a good day.

    Rose the Cook
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stepdaughter's children are subjected to piano lessons, oil painting lessons, French lessons, English lessons, American Gridiorn lessons etc. etc. at ages 3 and4. When they don't excell at anything she finds something else to subject the poor tots to.

    Amanda Groetzinger
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG!! This is legit life changing for me! Never looked at it this way.

    sturmwesen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I decided against working as a cook. I like cooking and I want it to stay tgat way and not be forced to do it.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this. I enjoy singing and I am terrible at it, I won’t sing around strangers and it takes a while for me to get comfortable enough to sing in front of new friends, acquaintances or family etc. I am also a very novice cake decorator but there is absolutely no way I would do it as a business, I just make them for friends and family. Same with most of my artsy, crafty, diy stuff. I do it coz I enjoy it and love giving people things.

    Connie Martin
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 64 and embracing this for the first time in my life. Perfectionism has held me back from so much joy -- now I'd like to pursue all kinds of things I might not be good at, but find pleasure in the learning

    birdie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but if you are good at something that you also enjoy, why not make a bit of extra money if you can?

    Grumble O'Pug
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is not a product. Wow, LOVE THAT!!! I am so sad that the last decade or so we've mainstreamed the idea that somehow what you love has got to be an etsy store, or 5iverr'd or something like that.

    Baby Panda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you love it that much and you pour emotion into it then it's beautiful. if you work hard on it, and you're proud of it, then it's beautiful.

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    Melanie King
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sing offkey".... *checks box*, "Draw poorly".... *checks another box*

    QueerTheory
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw this particular status sometimes back and it truly changed how i look at life. I’m singing off key at my heart’s content and soon will begin writing short stories again :)

    Jackie Wacky
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this: don’t let wanting to be perfect stop you from doing something.

    Wordfloe-Acid-Test
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning for the sake of learning and enjoying a hobby for the sake of enjoyment <3

    Mike Rodrick
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Capitalism is evil. Would Jesus approve? The wealthiest ignoring the plight of the less fortunate is just cruel. 500,000 homeless in the richest country in the world.

    Wandaluzt
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has f all to do with capitalism. As a statement without the political bs, it is absolutely correct.

    M Kate McCulloch
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to, monetize it. If you don't want to, don't monetize it. Either way, the primary goal should be that you love doing it.

    Steve in Denver
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a strong singing voice, but the singers I'm most drawn to have unusual voices and strong poetry.

    Amaranthim Talon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't generally Like hippy-dippy s**t, but this sings in all the right notes!

    Kathy Stern
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for this! I just started painting rocks and "losing" them in public places. I suck at it compared to other people but I still love doing it.

    sebastian nye
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this! because the moment i pick up an instrument i start comparing myself to all the virtuosos on YT

    Eric Rossman
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't even have to do the thing you enjoy if you don't want to. You can enjoy others doing it. Go to concerts (virtual right now, I guess), read lovely stories, look at beautiful artwork.

    Amy Broderick
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how do I upvote this multiple times. It's way too low on the rankings

    lakitha tolbert
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And as a corollary to that, just because you’re really good at something, doesn’t mean you need to monetize it! Let’s normalize being good at stuff just because we enjoy it being good at it, and it’s fun, not because it can make money! I’m adding this because I’ve been asked a bunch of time why I don’t sell my drawing or knitting skills and make moneyfrom them. I don’t do that, because I love what I do (and have a regular job I also love, with benefits, though.)

    Kim Bush
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many times once you start making money doing what you enjoy it's no longer a hobby, it feels more like a chore.

    Sori
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love teaching art cus its about the process not the outcome

    Damon Tripodi
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the hell thought this in the first place? what the hell are you being taught?

    The_tattered_hippie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is one of my biggest gripes in my family right now. I love learning new hobbies, but EVERY time I do, my family is all “you should sell those on Etsy” or “that’s a good way to make some extra money” like geez- can’t I just have a hobby that I don’t have to turn into a business? Agh!

    Ezigma
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issue I have with doing artsy things is they will turn out good but I'll think it could be better and I end up messing it up lol! Anyone else do this?

    Molly
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda seems like people don't actually understand capitalism...

    Donna Beach
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure what you mean. Seems they understand just fine. Is there a more complex comment you want to make to bring clarity to your vague statement?

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cool, I am not creative but still love art. I'll never be good and don't have any talent at all. But enjoyment is a rare thing..

    Noemie Houtekie-N'Da
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only dislike it when people are clearly bad at something and hate on people who work hard t be good at the same thing.

    d bradley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do you have to capitalize your comment instead of just resorting your premise. they probably have a sucky job that they can't stand that is the only way they can feed their family and they would rather earn money doing something they enjoy

    Daphne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love singing off-key in the office, my colleagues laugh their asses off! It's fun

    Mary Haynes
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WISH I WOULD HAVE SANG MORE TO MY SON WHEN HE WAS LITTLE, EVEN THOU I HAVE A TERRIBLE VOICE.

    deanna woods
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister thinks that she is not a good photographer, but I tell her that that is nonsense.

    Lillukka79
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you could excel just for the heck of it. I'm great at my hobbies but I have no intension of selling them. All I do, I do with love so the only people that get them, are people I love.

    Ma Fra
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what my sons art teacher says and I love her for that! For the first time my son is enjoying art.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also you don’t really even need to have artistic interests. You can enjoy non artistic hobbies just as much.

    Ryan Michael
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if you’re good at it, then nice! But the result shouldn’t make you not wanna try

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    Someone I Went To School With Posted This About Giving Their Son A Unicorn-Themed Birthday Bash. Positive Parenting For The Win

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boy loves colour pink and red. As soon as he was able to show it to me, I have made him red birthday cake and bought red or pink clothes. He also liked to play with baby doll, toy washing machine and cooking gadgets and we allowed him to play what ever he wanted. That phase has now mostly passed, but red is still his favourite colour.

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    "Do a thought experiment," Mark Davis, a professor of psychology who has spent decades studying empathy, said. “Imagine if humans didn’t have the capacity for empathy. What would it mean if, in fact, we never gave a damn about what happened to other people? That’s an almost an inconceivable world."

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    "As awful a species as we can be — and we certainly have the capacity for terrible things — we’re also capable of some pretty wonderful things, noble things, self-sacrifice."

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    Family Is A Family Is A Family

    Family Is A Family Is A Family

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    Julie C Rose
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A while ago someone asked me if I “have a family”. I said yes and was genuinely confused when she started asking me about kids.

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    Interestingly, the word "empathy" is relatively new. It didn’t enter the English language until the early 1900s, derived from the German word einfühlung, according to Daniel Batson, a researcher of empathy and professor emeritus at Kansas University.

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    Felt Like This Might Belong Here

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband doesnt find my jokes funny, but he cracks up when i cant finish the joke because im laughing so hard.. I love him!

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    It's The Thought That Counts

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    Never Too Late For New Beginnings

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    While some people are more naturally empathetic than others, there are easy, evidenced-based exercises that anyone can do to increase their empathy. 

    First, talk to new people. Trying to imagine how someone else feels is often not enough. Luckily, the solution is simple: ask them. "For me, the core of empathy is curiosity," Jodi Halpern, a psychiatrist and bioethics professor at the University of California, Berkeley, who studies empathy, told The New York Times. "It's what is another person’s life actually like in its particulars?”

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    We Are All Nerds Together

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can completely relate to this. I love it when I discover that a friend that I've known for years has an in depth knowledge on a subject I never suspected.

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    Good Guy Owner

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    MauKini
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this. In Germany it is forbidden by the law to look for food in supermarket dumpsters. As long as the food doesnt pose a safety hazard, the food should be donated (which some supermarkets do, but its only a few plus they have to pay tax for the food which they are donating, so not many do this).

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    You can start conversations with strangers or invite a colleague or neighbor you don't know well to lunch. But the trick is to go beyond small talk – ask them how they're doing and what their daily life is like.

    Put away your phone and other screens when you’re having conversations, even with the people you see every day, so you can fully listen and notice their facial expressions and gestures.

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    Also, follow people on social media with different backgrounds than you have (different race, religion, or political persuasion). 

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    Hans
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And do not geet engaged into ridiculous competition. You do not need to have read the full History of Middle-earth to enjoy watching the hobbit. (You should, though, before criticising supposed plot-holes.)

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    Money Is Power, But Also Not

    Money Is Power, But Also Not

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    Marianne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also when the minimum wage rises, you can hope that other employers will also offer more, to give people a reason to stay in their job instead of taking an 'easier' minimum wage job.

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    Better Late Than Never

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    Nat Hedley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude in my graduating class (back in 1997) was 84 years old at the time of his graduation. Learn like you'll live forever, it's never too late.

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    But don’t just stand in someone else's shoes, as the saying goes—take a walk in them. For example, consider attending someone else's church, mosque, synagogue, or other houses of worship for a few weeks while they attend yours, or visit a village in a developing country and volunteer.

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    If you don't have enough time for these activities, you can simply explore a new neighborhood, or strike up a conversation with a homeless person in your community.

    If someone’s behavior is bothering you, think about why. Consider what it’s like to live their daily life.

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    Gay Pride Can Be Whatever You Want/Need It To Be

    Gay Pride Can Be Whatever You Want/Need It To Be

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    How Lovely

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    Zuila
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for this! Kids will never learn how to behave or communicate with others if they can't be at public places. My kids usually behave very well, but can be quite loud.

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    Showing Respect For One Another’s Professions

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a weird comment. Don't we all love the person that turns up at our doorstep with our eagerly awaited parcel??

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    Remember, you don't need to understand everything about someone to make them feel respected. Just don’t make assumptions about people based on what your life is like. The people on this list certainly haven't.

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    We’re all humans, and we all have a desire to connect with one another. Building our empathy, considering the perspectives of others, and opening ourselves to uncomfortable conversations can make that happen.

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    You Get To Decide How You Define Being "Grownup"

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would a saleswoman at a furniture store not want to sell furniture?

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    Taking Care Of Your Mental Health Is Important

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    We’re All In This Together

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people do make it their business to decide what other people should earn, how and where they should live and why they shouldn't have universal healthcare. They're called Republicans.

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    Ok Zoomer

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    Marianne
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smartphones are the library of Alexandria? Wow, I have to remember this one!

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    They Had Us In The First Half

    They Had Us In The First Half

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    Karl Baxter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it amazing that some Christians arrogantly think that their religion somehow “owns” marriage. People were getting together and pairing up in a variety of rituals 1000s of years before Christianity turned up.

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    I Love Sharing My Book Collection

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    Speak Everything

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    Learning Is Awesome

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    Marianne
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also my favorite ones! And I love to talk about them to whoever cares to listen. ;)

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    #46

    You’re Doing Just Fine

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This stupid meme also failed to recognise that to develop skills and side hustles we really benefit from the support of friends and family. Hanging out and chatting enables our brains to get things in to perspective, sort out what we've learnt so far, and subconsciously start to work on what is to come next.

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    Gonna Remember Who Spoke To Me And Who Didn’t

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    Accept Everyone And Respect Their Decisions Y’all

    Accept Everyone And Respect Their Decisions Y’all

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    Very Positive Message I Saw Scrolling Through IG

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    Sorry. I Just Had To. It's Too Nice

    Sorry. I Just Had To. It's Too Nice

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    Rachel Peterson
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need a lot more churches expressing this kind of love (WWJD, indeed) <3

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    Let People Live!

    Let People Live!

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    maia martin
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    also, cisgender people can put their pronouns in their bio in order to be more welcoming to people who are transgender/nonbinary :)

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    We All Handsome

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    If It Makes You Happy

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the same thing about children's names. Call your child whatever you damn well want and the rest of us will be sure to teach our kids not to be playground bullies

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    Good Reminder

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    #58

    Dad Knows Best

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean I know plenty of straight girls who enjoy those things

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never got the lack of love for smaller guys. Some of the cutest guys I've ever known have been shorter than me.

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    #62

    On Self-Diagnosis

    On Self-Diagnosis

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    #63

    Come On In! Keep Trying

    Come On In! Keep Trying

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    Laugh or not
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wrong, you should care that someone is trying to learn a new skill: help them if you can and they ask, encourage them if they need, and be in awe of personal growth.

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    #64

    The World Is Ready

    The World Is Ready

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    #65

    Do What You Like

    Do What You Like

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    *screamsinbisexual*
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! This is so important!!!!!! I love video games but I’m absolute garbage at them so easy mode is a lifesaver haha

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    #68

    Gotta Clean Up

    Gotta Clean Up

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    Eva the Egg
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bob's friend is the best, he is the sort of people we need in society

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    #69

    Girl In Red's Music Is For Everyone

    Girl In Red's Music Is For Everyone

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    Watching
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I like tits but my bops are for everyone" is my new mantra. And I'm not a lesbian.

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    #71

    Just Let Them

    Just Let Them

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    #72

    Everyone Deserves The Right To Complain

    Everyone Deserves The Right To Complain

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    #73

    Nobody Cares If You Can’t Dance Well. Just Get Up And Dance

    Nobody Cares If You Can’t Dance Well. Just Get Up And Dance

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    #74

    Melon Flavored Jellyfish's Mom Says The Gates Are Open

    Melon Flavored Jellyfish's Mom Says The Gates Are Open

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    #75

    I Decided To Make Some Original Content, Am I Doing It Right?

    I Decided To Make Some Original Content, Am I Doing It Right?

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish it was more universally understood that when a child is crying and reacting over 'some little thing' it is literally their whole world at that moment. Yes, even if they want something and can't have it, they are just shaken up by the dissonance inside themselves. How adults react to them teaches them buckets. Sympathy with the feelings would be a good and honest start. And there's nothing wrong with saying 'well, let's rethink if you can have it' either.

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    #76

    Nice To See This

    Nice To See This

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    MauKini
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    also, if id attempt to work on my car it would probably be worse after.. Also: How on earth did he take this picture?

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    #77

    We Are All Just Humans Trying To Make It To Tomorrow

    We Are All Just Humans Trying To Make It To Tomorrow

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    #78

    For Those That Might Not Have Known, And Those That Know But Needed To Hear It All The Same

    For Those That Might Not Have Known, And Those That Know But Needed To Hear It All The Same

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    #80

    One Of My Favorite Tweeters With His Gates Wide Open!

    One Of My Favorite Tweeters With His Gates Wide Open!

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    #83

    We’ve All Been There

    We’ve All Been There

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    We’re All In This Bumpy Sweaty Party Together

    We’re All In This Bumpy Sweaty Party Together

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    JuJu
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last week? That's for rookies. Last decade or even longer...

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    #85

    Ian Opining The Gates

    Ian Opining The Gates

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    #86

    Gym Doors Open, Come Inside

    Gym Doors Open, Come Inside

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    Ian Koch
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes. I'm so underweight (77 or so when I should weigh 90-ish, I'm almost 14, my birthday is March 27!) that I had to get a blood draw to see if my digestive system worked properly, we're still waiting on the results but I think I'm ok.

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    #87

    I Swear To God

    I Swear To God

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    #89

    What Counts As Traveling?

    What Counts As Traveling?

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    IzzieM
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I leave my city... I'm claiming it as traveling. Whoop, road trip!!! ...to the next town over.

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    #90

    Spotify Wrapped

    Spotify Wrapped

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    #91

    Fixed It

    Fixed It

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    Logic and Reason
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For context, the original had the man replying with ‘I’m a soldier on Call of Duty’.

    #92

    A Little Advice For The Ladies

    A Little Advice For The Ladies

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