American brain washing... "thank you for your service"... I mean, yes, thank you! But war needs to be feared not celebrated!

profound truth

Also, I am closer to being a long-term BP commentator than a long-term professional writer 🤷‍♀️

And neither do good people.

All non-human babies are, for some reason.

I have a professional qualification where you have to have said "sorry, I can't answer that question" to qualify. My boss primed the customer to ask something silly.

Mistakes are unavoidable. Failure is unavoidable. We cannot run from it and need to stop being so afraid, because it's ok to not get everything right all the time, and like this says, sometimes it's out if your control

I don’t have kids and don’t want them and it’s simply because I don’t want to spend all of my adult life looking after and raising a child, I just want to live my own and not worry about that.

Unfortunately, social media has made a lot of people forget this rule.

You don't like everyone, so don't expect everyone to like you.

When you look at the impact of 7 billion humans at a time on the surface of the planet, yeah. This is probably true.

Nepotism is the guarantee of a job.

After the 1918 influenza epidemic came the roaring 20's which was revolutionary for both the arts and society, a similar thing happened with the renaissance, so who knows, maybe it will never be the same again for the better ( for those who have lost jobs/loved ones to Covid i am not minimising ur suffering)

This should be way higher. It's important to be at peace with yourself otherwise you will never be happy.

and you will often learn it the hard way: when you would need them the most - they will disappear.

No. You're part of the main cast for some.

Niceness, kindness, small random acts, these are one of the things I love about life. Even if they are few and far between. And doing them always feels good so it's a win win ^-^

I live in Phoenix, where 200 people move to every single day. Also, where it will be uninhabitable within 20 years because of the rise in temperatures. Don't move here.

Very true

I read this as "corporation," doubted it, then realized that was probably true too.

Just like covid.. would never have imagined lockdowns precovid

And please do not go to people in a bad situation and tell them that x “happened for a reason”. It doesn’t matter what you believe. Telling them that their mum just died, they lost they lost their job or they are severely ill “for a reason” is extremely invalidating and rude.

And that's a good thing.

This comment has been deleted.

Never chase a person

I wish we‘d teach that more. So many peope think they’re special and thus believe they’re entitled to something. You and your wishes/opinions/needs definitely matter, but so do those of everyone else.

You are saying that we should bet on us dying tomorrow?

I wish more people understood the concept of "risk". You can totally be 20lb over weight and still be healthy RIGHT NOW. All it means is that you are gambling that you will be healthy tomorrow or next week or next year. It is also not a guarantee. If there is a risk factor that one in ten overweight men will have a heart attack, and you gather nine of your overweight friends you cannot say with complete accuracy which one of you it will be. It is a gamble - some people are happy to gamble, and accept the fact they may lose. But there's a difference between knowing it's a possibility and being scared into thinking it's a certainty.

Even your own family

This is a terrible movie trope. Keep pestering and chasing and eventually the other person will fall madly in love with you. Sorry, but it doesn't work like that. You will go to prison for stalking and may find yourself on the receiving end of somebody else's love. You don't want that. You really don't want that.

that you are getting older doesn't automatically mean that you won't be beautyful anymore. The beauty just changes.

Unless it’s murder.

Ur partner will always find other people attractive ( weather they're bf/gf doesn't matter )

Maybe it’s me but in my case there are two types of “finding attractive”. The “I want to look at you but nothing else” and the “I want you”. The first one is perfectly harmless but I feel that if you experience the second while in a relation you need to take a step back and think if you are good together. I have met a lot of attractive people the last years but none of them that interested me since I met my partner.

My mother would actually point out women to my dad whom she thought he'd find attractive. (They had a very strong marriage and my mom was never threatened by this.)

Doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home.

This makes it sound like when a woman finds a partner they will never look at another person again and that men are pigs constantly looking to trade up.

Same with your girlfirend

This is true, accept it. Also, keep in mind that attraction does not equate cheating.

Not just them.... but your wife/girlfriend will always find other men attractive too. For many men that's a tough pill to swallow too.

Some even point it out to you. Often.

Your wife/girlfriend is always going to find other men attractive too.

Happens with all genders! We are just in relationship we are not dead! We have eyes

And that is totally fine :). I want my partner to be able to recognize beauty in everything. Even if it‘s another woman.

Unless he’s blind

This is normal. If your relationship is good and secure, it shouldn't be a problem. I and my partner admire other attractive people together. We don't hide it from each other

And I find other men attractive. And people find me attractive. So don't trip.

No problem...