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Cold truths are hard to swallow for a reason. They strip us of the illusion that everything’s in our control and that we know things best. But in reality, that’s not how things work, and who likes to be told that?!

What’s a truth no one wants to hear?” wondered Redditor u/grubbseuph11 on r/AskReddit and people shared some illuminating and brutally honest responses, like the hard-to-digest fact that “friends will come and go,” and that “no matter how likeable you may be, there are always going to be certain people who don't like you, sometimes for no particular reason.”

So let’s get ready to be hit by a cold shower that should make you rethink this whole perspective on our lives, and be sure to check out our previous post with more hard truths right here.

#1

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them You aren’t a hero or even a good person just because you’re in the military

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Natalia Shoemark
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

American brain washing... "thank you for your service"... I mean, yes, thank you! But war needs to be feared not celebrated!

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#3

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them You are much closer to being poor and homeless than you are to being super rich

fckboris , Shail Sharma Report

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Serial pacifist
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, I am closer to being a long-term BP commentator than a long-term professional writer 🤷‍♀️

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In order to find out why exactly it's so hard to swallow a hard truth, and how we should react to it, Bored Panda spoke with Susan Petang, a certified divorce coach and the creator of “The Quiet Zone Coaching,” who teaches women how to stop feeling overwhelmed and start waking up happy in the morning again.

“When we develop close relationships, we expect those people to be gentle with us, not hurt us,” said Susan explaining why hard truths are not pleasant to hear. “When they offer up a hard truth, it violates the expectation that the person isn't going to cause us pain. We want them to love and encourage us—but we don't always realize that a hard truth is being given to us with love and encouragement, with our best interests in mind.”

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#4

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Bad people don’t always “get what they deserve”.

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#5

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Not all babies are cute.

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#6

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them “I don't know” is a perfectly valid answer to many questions.

TheBrassDancer , Andrew Neel Report

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Tim Pillinger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a professional qualification where you have to have said "sorry, I can't answer that question" to qualify. My boss primed the customer to ask something silly.

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“Often, what someone else calls a ‘hard truth’ we call ‘criticism,’” she said. “If a criticism is true, we can agree and apologize, then work to make it right—or we can ignore and deflect it if it isn't true.”

Moreover, Susan said that when someone we care about delivers a hard truth, we should take that opinion more seriously, because this is a person whose opinion we trust. “I advise my clients to think about the intention behind the message. If the intention is to help us, prevent us from making a mistake, or intervene before we get hurt, it's worthwhile to consider.”

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#7

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not weakness, that is life.

MayaButtreeks1985 , Adrian Swancar Report

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mistakes are unavoidable. Failure is unavoidable. We cannot run from it and need to stop being so afraid, because it's ok to not get everything right all the time, and like this says, sometimes it's out if your control

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#8

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Some people are bad parents.

Being funny or smart doesn’t mean you’re ready to take care if a human being (maybe even multiple) for a good chunk of your life.

Please don’t get kids to fix a relationship either, I’ve seen this too much and it doesn’t work.

UwU_was_ist_das , Alberto Casetta Report

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Rick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t have kids and don’t want them and it’s simply because I don’t want to spend all of my adult life looking after and raising a child, I just want to live my own and not worry about that.

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#9

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Most people genuinely do not care about you or your opinions, which is just fine

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Rick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, social media has made a lot of people forget this rule.

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Susan advises asking yourself if the "hard truth" is really true. “Be brutally honest with yourself—remember why your loved one brought it up to you in the first place!”

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“It's beneficial to hear a hard truth when we're hurting someone else, hurting ourselves, or not being true to our values,” she explained and added: “So situations that look like that would be drug/alcohol abuse, spousal abuse, child abuse, bad financial or career decisions, or dating someone married if you're religious.”

#10

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them No matter how likeable you may be, there are always going to be certain people who don't like you, sometimes for no particular reason.

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#11

Most people shouldn’t have kids.

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Andy Acceber
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you look at the impact of 7 billion humans at a time on the surface of the planet, yeah. This is probably true.

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#12

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Having a University degree doesn't guarantee you a job

PripyatHorse , Abby Thompson Report

#13

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Life will never be exactly like it was before the pandemic started.

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Gelato Cat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After the 1918 influenza epidemic came the roaring 20's which was revolutionary for both the arts and society, a similar thing happened with the renaissance, so who knows, maybe it will never be the same again for the better ( for those who have lost jobs/loved ones to Covid i am not minimising ur suffering)

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#14

You can't run from yourself. Moving towns, cities or even countries won't automatically change who you are

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JuJu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be way higher. It's important to be at peace with yourself otherwise you will never be happy.

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#15

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Friends will come and go. You will have many friends who one day you will never see again.

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K. Lange
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and you will often learn it the hard way: when you would need them the most - they will disappear.

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#16

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them You are the main character in your life but you're just an extra in everone else's

Accomplished-Bee4700 , Robert McGowan Report

#17

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice.

RepresentativeWay734 , Brooke Cagle Report

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Niceness, kindness, small random acts, these are one of the things I love about life. Even if they are few and far between. And doing them always feels good so it's a win win ^-^

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People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Climate change is an exponential curve and we are entering the shoulder. Natural disasters are expected to increase 8x in the next couple decades. It gets worse after that.

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kristina law
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in Phoenix, where 200 people move to every single day. Also, where it will be uninhabitable within 20 years because of the rise in temperatures. Don't move here.

Two_rolling_black_eyes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It'll be way before 20 years. Phoenix doesn't have enough water rights and the aquifer underneath it is almost gone. They have lied to themself and think CAP can sustain them but when the tap literally stops, Phoenix will die. There's a difference between reduced water from the Colorado River and having both the Salt and Verde Rivers go dry. Those giant salt flats that give the Salt its name - caused by a centuries long drought in a desert location.

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Serial pacifist
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And vaccines actually protect you from diseases just like reducing CO2 emissions protects us from becoming extinct.

Mazer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet most of us live like we don’t have a dog in the fight

Biba Little
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell that to rich and powerful people who run companies that pollute the most. We all here have hardly any influence on global pollution, no one asks me if they should dump their toxic waste into rivers or oceans, and no one care I am against deforesting or animal slaughter factories or heavy polluters that create plastic, fast fashion or other toxic waste. They just don't care and we are too small to do anything. So, statements like this are just depressing as we are going to suffer not super rich aholes who did that.

Stefania Eisner-Kaloudis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Question : Really ? So is climate change to blame for the volcano erruption in Las palmas or is it the other way round ????

Calvin DiBartolo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Volcanoes have caused rapid climate change in the past, yes. But...... It also historically hasnt ended well for life when it happens at such a rate that evolution can't adapt quickly enough. Small, rapidly breeding lifeforms may survive. But humans are fairly slow at it.

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Rebecca Surette
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were of childbearing years right now, I would NOT have children. No way.

Thomas Sweda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought you were going to say that you can’t drive a car under water.

Full Nameю
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They are spiritual not natural. You're only looking at the outcome not the source.

Margareta Hagman
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

climate change is natural and has nothing to do with us .....nothing !

okpkpkp
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did everything in my power to treat Mother Earth with care and kindness and I'm sure I wasn't the only one but I am at an advanced age now and will not see the worst that Nature has in store. Sorry, but I did at least try.

L Jennings
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a sad indictment on the world's view of climate change, that this isn't at the TOP but a bunch of soldiers are.

Cory Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But we never know for sure what's coming later in years. People just decide to believe it's yes or no, but really no one ever knows. So you're just believing whatever you feel like as a negative personality or a positive one, but still without knowing anything for certaining things.

Riley Quinn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just saw a map of my neighborhood underwater if the oceans rise another 3 degrees C. I'll be dead by then, but all the neighborhood children won't be.

backatya
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

climate isn't going to be the biggest concern for upcoming disasters

MAKtheknife
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great! Let's try and convince everyone who does not believe this truism.

Coffee MeMe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the climates been changing since earths creation there's nothing new under the sun

Mark Hamilton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Read where anyone under 40 can expect climate hell in the future. And yet, we continue to spawn. liz

Guido Pisano
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this should be higher - who could really do something doesn't bother because do not want to lose profit

Bob Stuart
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Replacing carbon was my vocation, and even now, it is almost always illegal to build much more sustainable houses and cars. We need to learn from the Experimental Aircraft Association and let people risk their own research.

Brian Bennett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Believe it folks and for a lot of it we have no one to blame but ourselves - and I think in some instances it is too late baby too late to rectify the situation!

Peter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It will be up to us technolgy people to solve. Politician have shown they have no clue and just want a new tax

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3 years ago

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Climate change is just planetary evolution.There was thousands of radical changes in climate so far and even more to go. People think planet stops evolving just because they poped-up on its surface... We just changed its way.

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It's also inevitable and unstoppable.

Essex Eagle
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Nope. Its only a exponential curve when you start it where you want it "prove" the narrative. Take it back a 100 years and stop cherry picking the results you then realize that actually its just weather and nature... and the humans race stupidity for building/living in places that flood naturally or "eco" policies that have stopped rivers being dredged or grass being burned off to stop fires.

ThymeGarden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! What a relief! I'd love to read the scientific studies or scholarly journal articles where you found this reassuring info! Please leave links or titles so I can read them too. :) TIA

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in the earth's timeline, the ice age was like an hour ago and we are still warming up from that. deserts used to be seas etc so things have been changing forever and warming up for a long time now!

Kevin Hickey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do you believe that the scientists who study climate change forgot that we just had an ice age?

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I;ve heard that we were going to all die in 12 years... 30 years ago. And 20 years ago. and 12 years ago. It's still bullshit.

William Teach
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Blah blah blah. It's always "Doom is coming, trust us!" They've been saying this for 30 years. Now they say it will be here in 2050 or 2100, so they can't be held responsible when it fails to come. Multiple Holocene warm periods were warmer than today, which is just 1.5F higher than at the end of the Little Ice Age. In 1850. This is not doom, people. Stop being brainwashed.

Steve R
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can literally look at the impact of climate change as it's happening. Anyone who still refuses to accept it is doing so through ignorance or cowardice.

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Gore said that 30 years ago. 50 years ago the experts said we were heading for another ice age. Thousands of years ago 1/4 of the USA was covered in ice. The climate has always changed!

Rez Fidel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God damn....yes it has.... but the change is too rapid. Pls educate yourself on understanding climate change.

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#19

It just takes a second to destroy what has taken years or even centuries to make.

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#20

The world is 100% being run by corruption.

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Andy Acceber
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read this as "corporation," doubted it, then realized that was probably true too.

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#21

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them War can come to your doorstep, everything can change. No country is immune. History clearly demonstrates this.

SchteeveFour , UX Gun Report

#22

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Not everything happens "for a reason" or because of something you have (or have not) done.

Sometimes, things in life and the Universe go sideways and it's just your time to be caught in the crossfire.

Emcee_Such_N_Such , Ryoji Iwata Report

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Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And please do not go to people in a bad situation and tell them that x “happened for a reason”. It doesn’t matter what you believe. Telling them that their mum just died, they lost they lost their job or they are severely ill “for a reason” is extremely invalidating and rude.

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#23

All your bones are wet right now

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#24

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them If you don’t take care of your teeth when you’re young, you’ll regret it when you’re old. Brush twice a day, goddamnit.

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3 years ago

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#25

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them If you’re chasing a romance or friendship… the other person doesn’t want to be with you.

Magicman2444 , Toa Heftiba Report

#26

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them You’re not special… but that’s okay because everyone is not special together.

BeechballMusic , Мария Волк Report

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Kari Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish we‘d teach that more. So many peope think they’re special and thus believe they’re entitled to something. You and your wishes/opinions/needs definitely matter, but so do those of everyone else.

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#27

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them The odds that you die tomorrow is wayyy higher than winning on that lottery ticket.

Swiftzword , Erik Mclean Report

#28

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them There's no "health in every size". If you're over/under certain weight limit, you have a higher risk in getting sick. There's no "but-".

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NsG
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish more people understood the concept of "risk". You can totally be 20lb over weight and still be healthy RIGHT NOW. All it means is that you are gambling that you will be healthy tomorrow or next week or next year. It is also not a guarantee. If there is a risk factor that one in ten overweight men will have a heart attack, and you gather nine of your overweight friends you cannot say with complete accuracy which one of you it will be. It is a gamble - some people are happy to gamble, and accept the fact they may lose. But there's a difference between knowing it's a possibility and being scared into thinking it's a certainty.

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#30

You can't make someone love you if they don't

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a terrible movie trope. Keep pestering and chasing and eventually the other person will fall madly in love with you. Sorry, but it doesn't work like that. You will go to prison for stalking and may find yourself on the receiving end of somebody else's love. You don't want that. You really don't want that.

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People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them You won’t be young and beautiful forever.

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K. Lange
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that you are getting older doesn't automatically mean that you won't be beautyful anymore. The beauty just changes.

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#32

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them That you need to stop procrastinating and get that thing you've been needing to do done already.

PikaBirb44 , Annie Spratt Report

#33

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Your boyfriend/husband is always going to find other women attractive.

Milkie444 , Caleb George Report

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Gelato Cat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ur partner will always find other people attractive ( weather they're bf/gf doesn't matter )

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#34

We’ll eventually be alone, so it’s either being comfortable with ourselves or being tormented by loneliness later in life

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Caro Caro
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A hard lesson to have to go through. Loneliness is tough but loneliness in old age is not only tough but detrimental for your health too.

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#35

Staying with someone who cheated on you is never a good idea

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Andy Acceber
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who hurt you, OP, that made you believe this was 100% true for 100% of people 100% of the time? People are complicated. Relationships are complicated. Absolutes about either rarely apply.

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#36

There are some people who just are NOT going to like you. And you will have done nothing to deserve, cause or warrant it. Its not your fault.

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Luther von Wolfen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There will also be people who dislike you because your actions harmed them. You can apologize, but they are not obligated to forgive you.

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#37

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Your belly button was your old mouth.

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Serial pacifist
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and, in your pelvis, the coccyx is a small bone of four fused vertebrae that would make up the tail if humans had one.

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#38

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Life is as much unfair and unjust as it is possible for it to be

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#39

People Share 40 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them Oxytocin, the “love hormone”, also increases animosity towards those you regard as “others”

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XSpooky_Mint
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It must be from all those dog-gone cocoa beans. By the way, did you guys know that chocolate releases a property which triggers the release of endorphins? Gives one the feeling of being in love.

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#40

It’s not gonna be okay unless you make it okay. I often hear people say: it’s gonna be okay. Well, it’s probably gonna be okay, if you actually put the effort to make it okay. And sometimes, you have to let go, even the big things.

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Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. Many things cannot be fixed and pretending that it’s the persons fault is very cruel. A woman whose son just died is not going to be ok, it’s not her fault.

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