Why is there so many bridezilla posts of late. People are deadset crazy. God I'm glad our wedding had zero rules and took about a week to plan. If my better half turned into a sociopath like this I would have dropped her on the spot.

Your parents think you should still go to the wedding and are presumably still going to the wedding after Nina essentially called their grandchildren bastards born of sin who are too unclean to go to her wedding. I think your family has more problems than just Nina.

Predicting this marriage does not last. And I hope the bride is safe.

Lemme guess, guy she's marrying is a religious right wing nut? Fun fun fun. Get out of there.

PLEASE. I'm religious and wouldn't pull this bull. Plus it's NEVER the kids' fault...that's the same as condemning the child of a mean teacher, for example. Bleh, people are dumb.

Nobody sins like the religious. NTA OP.

Your sister is a big AH for sure! Who does that? Let me send uninvited letters to the people who are not married and have kids outside of wedlock so I can rule supreme in my moral supreme-ness? Hah! Your sister is nuts and ridiculous and is quite literally getting her just deserts so to speak. I can’t imagine what went through her mind when she thought she was going to un-invite peoples partners/kids last minute. Did she also un-invite her kids? I just can’t comprehend what she thought would happen. 🤯 your def NTA and you should never feel otherwise.

I wonder how many people actually went to that wedding. Since she also sent some of the guests this letter, I bet a lot more didn't go out of protest.

I wonder if she belongs to a controlling church. It seems like someone may have talked her into this since she didn't have this attitude initially. I wonder if they talked her into the marriage as well? Getting married because "they had to" (pregnancy) rarely works out.

I could hear this exploding in Sister's face from here. Yrs ago my mum planned a lg family reunion & didn't invite my live-in BF of 5 yrs & his children- for the same reason. Mum phoned me a few weeks prior asking if I'd bring some food. I told her I wasn't coming & of course she hit high-C & then cancelled the reunion. Poor OP- @ least I hadn't bought a dress. Who disinvites their wedding guests @ last minute? These sick people have the power you give them. Poor OP💙

These posts need to include updates of the outcome, or not post it if there aren't any updates.

NTA - I can’t believe your parents are taking her side. And she is pregnant at her wedding! Hypocrite much!!! This whole thing is ridiculous. Maybe it’s coming from the groom but if so, she could have put her foot down. If it’s her, those baby hormones have done a number on her. I definitely would not go to that wedding and I would be dying to go someplace to west your gorgeous dress!

I simply can't decide whether the bride is delusional, regarding her attitude to (other) kids born out of wedlock, or demented.

how long before mrs nutjob's 2 children are thrown into homes because they were born out of marriage and all proof of their existence is erased?

I also wonder if the bridegroom is the reason for this. Maybe not directly, but perhaps the bride feels she has to go overboard in being sanctimonious to fit in with his family.

Has 3 pregnancies before wedlock but her sister with 2 deserves to go alone. More like she didn't want other guests to find out about how many unmarried people there were in this family. Jokes aside, this is a classic case of q person hammeroeging money on the wedding to they cut costs at every corner.

This has nothing to do with Christianity, but is a rejection of Jesus and His ways. Who did He hang out with? (a.o. murderers, debt collectors and whores.) And at a wedding party He elevates joy by turning water into wine, instead of turning wine into vinegar.

Well I'd do the same thing. U don't want my family there that in the future when your married to him don't invite her. I doubt her fiancé approved of this new invitation list. Or maybe it's a money thing too. But it's so rude of her. Stand your ground. Let her have her views but your kids would want to be there for their aunts wedding.

What's with all the wedding drama posts? Is it a new category in Bored Panda? I'm not whining, I'm actually asking: why?

You should have told her that Jesus ate and drank with sinners, but he did not sin with them. She is sadly out of touch with Christianity to think that she can't eat, drink, and celebrate with sinners/family/everybody! Redemption deals with the heart's relationship with God - not with suddenly becoming a so-called perfect person.

I would tell my sister she is such a f*****g hypocrite and then I would tell her just how hard she could f**k herself. There is no way I would ever put my sister above my husband and my children. And in this situation, the boyfriend is the same as a husband, they are committed to each other and they have children and they have been together for years. The sister's a hypocrite And the fact that she waited until just 2 weeks before the wedding to let it get out that she was uninviting Denise and nephew and the boyfriend.... That tells me that she knows she's a f****n hypocrite and doesn't care.

How much you wanna bet she overinvited what either could be accommodated or affordable and needed a subjective metric to uninvite guests? That she’s using hypocritical religious nonsense is a little less gross than whittling the guest list down based on body proportions or how photogenic she believes people to be. This way, she can use sanctimony as her defense rather than straight up bigotry.

Some posts are so absurd that seem fake. Or at least one hope so.

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Bride is completely out of line and shouldn't affect them being invited. But she's not wrong about it being weird that you've been together 10 years and have kids but aren't married. It makes it awkward for your kids and everyone else, do the right thing and make it official. Even if it's just a court thing.