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Not every person is suited for parenthood, and that’s okay. What isn’t acceptable is choosing to raise a child even with the apparent lack of ability and willingness to do better.  

Today, we’re putting a spotlight on toxic mothers. You’ll see screenshots showing their blatant disrespect for boundaries and privacy. Some may have even risked their kids’ health and well-being. Be forewarned, as a few of these are disturbingly wrong. 

We’ve picked out these posts from this subreddit to highlight some of their behavior. Hopefully, none of you went through similar ordeals as children. If you’re a mom, let these bad parenting examples be your reminder of what to avoid at all costs.

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The Emojis Are The Icing On The Cake

The Emojis Are The Icing On The Cake

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#2

A Mother’s Love 💕

A Mother’s Love 💕

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Absolutely Accurate

Absolutely Accurate

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Minimizing a child’s feelings is a common toxic mom behavior. Some are guilty of telling their kids not to feel a certain way because it is wrong. According to Florida-based psychotherapist Dr. Tracy Hutchinson, this sends a message that feelings are better off suppressed. 

In an article for CNBC, Dr. Hutchinson recommends asking children what they think would make them feel better. She says this trains them to manage their emotions independently at a young age. 

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Homeopathic Side Effects

Homeopathic Side Effects

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You Can Do Everything Right And Still Fail

You Can Do Everything Right And Still Fail

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I Don't Have A Problem With Extended Nursing, But Omg Still Using Months?

I Don't Have A Problem With Extended Nursing, But Omg Still Using Months?

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It’s one thing to encourage your child to strive for excellence. Demanding perfection is when things can get problematic. Dr. Hutchinson says it could lead to confidence and self-esteem issues as they grow older. 

“Build mental strength in your kids by making sure expectations are realistic,” she wrote. She adds that setbacks will only teach kids how to bounce back and hopefully lead them to success in the future.

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More Essential Oil S**t

More Essential Oil S**t

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A Water Bottle

A Water Bottle

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#9

Couldn't Have Seen This Coming?

Couldn't Have Seen This Coming?

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Growing up with a toxic mom can have a profound effect on a person. According to licensed psychotherapist Christine Scott-Hudson, the inability to trust oneself is one of the few manifestations. 

In her interview with Bustle, she says this mainly happens to people who dealt with a gaslighting mother. As a result, they could suffer a lifetime struggle with self-doubt.

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#10

Baby Boy Can't Date

Baby Boy Can't Date

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#11

Please For The Love Of God Say Sike

Please For The Love Of God Say Sike

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#12

I Asked About Learning Activities For My Toddler

I Asked About Learning Activities For My Toddler

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The inability to maintain healthy relationships or a constant attraction to toxic individuals is another by-product of having a toxic mom. New Jersey-based therapist Vanessa Watson-Hill says it’s because emotionally unavailable mothers fail to model a healthy relationship for their children.  

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So How's Your Morning Going? ....i Thought Mine Was Bad Until I Read Hers, Damn

So How's Your Morning Going? ....i Thought Mine Was Bad Until I Read Hers, Damn

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Discrimination!

Discrimination!

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Sex Ed Fail

Sex Ed Fail

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Whether it’s about picking a major for college or choosing an ice cream flavor, indecisiveness isn’t always innate. Sometimes, a mother’s negative behavior could be a catalyst for developing such a trait.

That’s because moms greatly influence decision-making. According to research, those who’ve used psychological control as a primary parenting tactic may negatively impact their child’s sense of judgment when they reach their adolescent years. 

#16

I Wonder Why This Isn’t Working

I Wonder Why This Isn’t Working

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#17

"Monat Makes Me A Millionaire"

"Monat Makes Me A Millionaire"

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#18

So Nice To Read Something Funny Where No Harm Is Done To Children

So Nice To Read Something Funny Where No Harm Is Done To Children

baby_shark_attack Report

People who grow up with toxic mothers carry that pain their entire life. This is the case for Randi Latzman, owner of the Surviving Mom blog. She created the site as an outlet for the abuse she endured. In one of her recent posts, she recalled the breaking point in their relationship.

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She Has Quite A Burden To Bear

She Has Quite A Burden To Bear

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#20

Bed Is Actually Going To Be On Fire Now!

Bed Is Actually Going To Be On Fire Now!

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Homeschool Group Comforting A Mom Who Never Taught Her 14 Year Old The Months Of The Year Or His Tables

Homeschool Group Comforting A Mom Who Never Taught Her 14 Year Old The Months Of The Year Or His Tables

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“On that fateful day, she told me she didn’t like me and wanted nothing to do with me. I felt like a knife was plunged into my heart,” Latzman wrote. 

The author ultimately decided to break all contact after that argument. According to her, what hurt the most was her daughter’s broken relationship with her grandmother.

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Found: Sister Of The Wicked Witch Of The West

Found: Sister Of The Wicked Witch Of The West

ParentTales Report

#23

*stares In Cps*

*stares In Cps*

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#24

This Extreme Fear-Mongering Pisses Me Off So Much

This Extreme Fear-Mongering Pisses Me Off So Much

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Dealing with a toxic mom may feel like coming to a dead end. According to psychotherapist Brittany Boufard in the same Bustle interview, the parent in question may resort to the same cycle of denying your feelings and rejecting the idea of change. 

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When the worst happens, most experts recommend seeking professional help. A licensed therapist or doctor could mediate the conversation as a third party. As Watson-Hill points out, a professional could also help adults gain a better understanding, especially about developing healthy boundaries.

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Really Sorry Your Baby Is A Baby

Really Sorry Your Baby Is A Baby

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#27

"Your Not A Real Mum Unless You Gave Vaginal Birth To It"

"Your Not A Real Mum Unless You Gave Vaginal Birth To It"

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Now, we want to hear from you, dear reader. Do you know someone who grew up with a toxic mother? How has it affected their life? And how are they coping? We’d love to know your thoughts in the comments!

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Poor Baby

Poor Baby

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How Can I Be Needlessly Strict And Not Respect My Child's Bodily Autonomy But Make Him Not Hate Me Like I Hate My Mom For Doing The Same Thing?

How Can I Be Needlessly Strict And Not Respect My Child's Bodily Autonomy But Make Him Not Hate Me Like I Hate My Mom For Doing The Same Thing?

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#30

From A Mom Group On Instagram. I Guess People Without Children Are Not Allowed To Be Tired

From A Mom Group On Instagram. I Guess People Without Children Are Not Allowed To Be Tired

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Spank Your Kid Because They Have Accidents, With Bonus Ignoring Medical Professionals

Spank Your Kid Because They Have Accidents, With Bonus Ignoring Medical Professionals

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The Mom Group I'm In Is A Goldmine For Crazy. I Posted About My 2 Year Old Asking For Privacy In The Bathroom And This Was A Comment I Got

The Mom Group I'm In Is A Goldmine For Crazy. I Posted About My 2 Year Old Asking For Privacy In The Bathroom And This Was A Comment I Got

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Yes, Destroy Your Daughter’s Confidence. Jfc

Yes, Destroy Your Daughter’s Confidence. Jfc

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#34

We Don’t Use Chemicals So Going To Starve My 3 Week Old Baby

We Don’t Use Chemicals So Going To Starve My 3 Week Old Baby

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#35

Screenshot Taken From A Dad Group I’m In

Screenshot Taken From A Dad Group I’m In

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#36

F**k You And Your Privacy. I’m Gonna Show 53,000 People Your Picture And Tell Them You Got Your Period Today!

F**k You And Your Privacy. I’m Gonna Show 53,000 People Your Picture And Tell Them You Got Your Period Today!

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#37

I’m Sure Her Daughter Appreciates Her Business Being Out There For All To See

I’m Sure Her Daughter Appreciates Her Business Being Out There For All To See

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#38

"As I Have With All My Babies"

"As I Have With All My Babies"

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#39

It’s Gross Karen. I’m Also Pretty Certain It’s Illegal To Feed Unsuspecting People Your Bodily Fluids

It’s Gross Karen. I’m Also Pretty Certain It’s Illegal To Feed Unsuspecting People Your Bodily Fluids

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#40

Ex-F***king-Scuse Me?! 🤯

Ex-F***king-Scuse Me?! 🤯

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#41

Full Time Job? How Do You Work Full Time Selling Oils From Your Garage?

Full Time Job? How Do You Work Full Time Selling Oils From Your Garage?

CaeJean Report

#42

She Insisted Its Normal To Have Your Infant Fall Off A Bed A Few Times After People Started Getting On Her

She Insisted Its Normal To Have Your Infant Fall Off A Bed A Few Times After People Started Getting On Her

milfinthemaking Report

#43

A Little Tylenol Should Do The Trick

A Little Tylenol Should Do The Trick

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#44

Common Core Is Definitely Part Of The Leftist Agenda

Common Core Is Definitely Part Of The Leftist Agenda

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#45

In A Why Did Your Toddler Tantrum Thread Mom Admits To Sending Her Son To School With No Shoes Or Clothes And Posts Them Completely Unrestrained In The Car

In A Why Did Your Toddler Tantrum Thread Mom Admits To Sending Her Son To School With No Shoes Or Clothes And Posts Them Completely Unrestrained In The Car

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#46

She Has An Online Dictionary! Doctors Beware!

She Has An Online Dictionary! Doctors Beware!

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#47

Totally Normal To Want To Record Your Underage Child In Their Bedroom And Bathroom

Totally Normal To Want To Record Your Underage Child In Their Bedroom And Bathroom

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#48

Kids Don't Need Doctors! Also Doctors Won't Exist Soon?

Kids Don't Need Doctors! Also Doctors Won't Exist Soon?

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#49

When Will My Child Magically Learn To Read?

When Will My Child Magically Learn To Read?

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Leave A 17 Month Old Alone By Himself Because She Wants A Date Night And Doesn’t Want To Pay For A Sitter. Time To Call Cps…

Leave A 17 Month Old Alone By Himself Because She Wants A Date Night And Doesn’t Want To Pay For A Sitter. Time To Call Cps…

DramaLlamaTea Report

#51

15 And Pregnant.....again

15 And Pregnant.....again

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Popped Up On My Newsfeed

Popped Up On My Newsfeed

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#53

“I’m Just Curious”

“I’m Just Curious”

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#54

Generational Trauma Personified. It’s Now Too Intimate For Your Daughter To Cut Your Husbands Hair

Generational Trauma Personified. It’s Now Too Intimate For Your Daughter To Cut Your Husbands Hair

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My Kid's Dentist Told Me Skipping Antibiotics Will Be Really Painful For Her, So I'd Like To Go Ahead And Do That

My Kid's Dentist Told Me Skipping Antibiotics Will Be Really Painful For Her, So I'd Like To Go Ahead And Do That

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No Fatties Allowed!

No Fatties Allowed!

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#57

What In The Even F**k?? Poor Baby Was Born In Salty Dirty Water

What In The Even F**k?? Poor Baby Was Born In Salty Dirty Water

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#58

You Don’t Need Either

You Don’t Need Either

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#59

Please Don’t Judge Xx

Please Don’t Judge Xx

stupidflyingmonkeys Report

#60

Do Babies Give Hickies?

Do Babies Give Hickies?

princess_nic0tine Report

#61

I Wonder Why My Toddler Isn't Sleeping?

I Wonder Why My Toddler Isn't Sleeping?

KCpaiges Report

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#62

Maybe Don’t Leave The House If Perfectly Normal Human Behavior Bothers You?

Maybe Don’t Leave The House If Perfectly Normal Human Behavior Bothers You?

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#63

Bet She Put Nuggets In The Oven After Posting This

Bet She Put Nuggets In The Oven After Posting This

minigal83 Report

#64

Just Keep Your Baby Underwater Forever. They’ll Never Die

Just Keep Your Baby Underwater Forever. They’ll Never Die

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#65

Say What?

Say What?

ohbother325 Report

#66

I Feel Bad For Her Daughters

I Feel Bad For Her Daughters

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#67

She Can’t Afford To Feed The Current Kid So Let’s Get Pregnant Again!

She Can’t Afford To Feed The Current Kid So Let’s Get Pregnant Again!

DramaLlamaTea Report

#68

"Disappointing And Frustrating" Yikes

"Disappointing And Frustrating" Yikes

sazydoll Report

#69

I Didn’t See This Here Yet. I Didn’t Get To See The Original Post Comments Before It Got Deleted

I Didn’t See This Here Yet. I Didn’t Get To See The Original Post Comments Before It Got Deleted

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#70

Essential Oils Do It All!

Essential Oils Do It All!

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#71

I Honestly Can't Even Fully Comprehend What They're Trying To Say. I Just Know It Belongs Here

I Honestly Can't Even Fully Comprehend What They're Trying To Say. I Just Know It Belongs Here

AutumnAkasha Report

#72

Why Bother Sending Them?

Why Bother Sending Them?

ArtemisGirl242020 Report

#73

Imagine Being So Out Of Touch

Imagine Being So Out Of Touch

CaregiverVarious9506 Report

#74

Gotta Keep Those Toddlers Looking Sharp

Gotta Keep Those Toddlers Looking Sharp

seccpants Report

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Gay Satanic Clowns

Gay Satanic Clowns

AnAwkwardPanpire Report

#76

This Felt Like It Fit Here

This Felt Like It Fit Here

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#77

I'm Sure Pure Goats Milk Is The Answer To A Baby With Stomach Problems

I'm Sure Pure Goats Milk Is The Answer To A Baby With Stomach Problems

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#78

Comments On A Post About Using The Owlet/Snuza

Comments On A Post About Using The Owlet/Snuza

AgentAnniex Report

#79

You Get What You Pay For

You Get What You Pay For

Gloomy_Tie_1997 Report

#80

Some Girl Posted A Question Asking Pregnant Moms If They Thought They Have Or Have Had Covid-19

Some Girl Posted A Question Asking Pregnant Moms If They Thought They Have Or Have Had Covid-19

YaaaDontSay Report

#81

Finally Found One In The Wild. Almost 450 Comments Flaming Her

Finally Found One In The Wild. Almost 450 Comments Flaming Her

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#82

Detoxing Baby??

Detoxing Baby??

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#83

As Seen In A Chicken Raising Group Of All Places 🐓

As Seen In A Chicken Raising Group Of All Places 🐓

AmbitiousParty Report

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Baby Is About 3 Months Old… (From A Due Date Group). Suffocate Or Strangle Or Burn? What’s Going To Happen First?

Baby Is About 3 Months Old… (From A Due Date Group). Suffocate Or Strangle Or Burn? What’s Going To Happen First?

DramaLlamaTea Report

#85

Apparently Tylenol Is Full Of Glitter 😂

Apparently Tylenol Is Full Of Glitter 😂

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#86

What’s Worse? Raw Goat Milk Or Homemade Vitamin Drops…

What’s Worse? Raw Goat Milk Or Homemade Vitamin Drops…

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#87

Yes, There’s Live Fish In There. Confirmed In Her Comments. I Presume Her “Work From Home With 25% Travel” Is Her Essential Oils Conferences

Yes, There’s Live Fish In There. Confirmed In Her Comments. I Presume Her “Work From Home With 25% Travel” Is Her Essential Oils Conferences

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#88

Homemade Formula

Homemade Formula

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#89

Ummmmm

Ummmmm

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#90

Good For You?

Good For You?

MummyToBe2019 Report

#91

Where Can I Get My Kid Tattooed?

Where Can I Get My Kid Tattooed?

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#92

Interesting Definition Of “Need”

Interesting Definition Of “Need”

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#93

Y.....yes???

Y.....yes???

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